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writes:Im 15 and there is this guy (17) who i have known all my life. I trust him more than anyone and he is closer to me than my best friends.Our families are really close, which is great and we often go away together, but we have always only been friends.Anyway last night he was babysitting for his siblings and i went to keep him company, we were watching a film and cuddling up on the sofa, eventually falling asleep on each other. We have always been really close, but people keep saying how they recon there is something there, what do people think is this normal behaviour for good friends?I am starting to think i may like him as more now, but am worried as to how he may react. What do people think ?thanks xx
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (24 October 2007):
 heya hun x erm something is deffinately happening , however it may just be close freindship i wouldnt take falling asleep on each other as feelings of love but if you fall asleep if he lets you put your head by his heart on his chest it is a sign of love. If you did have a relationship what things will happen e.g. with the families ?i would talk to him and see what he thinks hun. this sort of relationship can last for a long time :)but does he feel the same? The only way to find out is to ask.take carechris
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reader, queenerin  +, writes (24 October 2007):
You need to be smart with this situation and take it slow. Don't rush or think about feelings. It seems like you have a lot of time ahead of you because you are young.. very young. I say you should just let things take its course and don't stress about it or try and think about it so much. If something happens, it will happen... but, don't push anything. In my opinion, I wouldn't even say anything blunt about what you are thinking... it is impossible to not want to be in a relationship with a man you are good friends with and even only slightly attracted to. it's natural! but, forcing things is very unattractive. gaurd your feelings.. continue being friends... and talk yourself into something that doesn't exist until it actually happens ;) but, for now just think about other things if you can. men can be everything from a to z in a relationship. you really don't know... but, LET IT PLAY OUT!!! I REPEAT DO NOT PUSH THINGS! It NEVER works that way with my experience. keep on doing your day to day things without a care, but perhaps with a bigger smile on your face, one that has potential to become even bigger one day or turneven into a frown.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (24 October 2007):
 This maybe a very nice and frankly convenient relationship in the making but take things slowly. You may have talked yourself into having romantic feelings for him just because he is there. You have to think of the implications of this if you date him and then it doesn't work out...as you say your families are close and you have a friendship with him going back years. It would be a shame to jeopardise everything for a bit of a fling but that doesnt mean it couldnt work out...just tread with caution!
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