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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We work together and talk all the time, but I just can't get round to asking her out, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this new girl who has started in the office, she's a really nice person both asthetically and personality wise. I talk to her on msn about random things for at least a good hour every day. I've discovered that i fancy her a little on both levels, and when i see her in ... (124 words)

I know he fancies me, but he wont do anything, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok um this is my first time asking a question so plz excuse me if somethings wrong, ok i have never givin oral sex before, with the exception of kissing i have done nothing close, and anyway there is this guy who i really like and is always giving me these looks but wont step ... (163 words)

I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advice on how to lose the weig... (76 words)

She says I need to open up more, my mum says its a modern thing, who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships. I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a soft lad. She been married for... (95 words)

Did I have to dump this guy to make him interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone i really like because he wasnt sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men wake up to the fact that the... (102 words)

I'm going away with my classmate, he fancies me, and me him, but he has a girlfriend, what do I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started at college and i am really loving it. In one of my classes their is a lad, i have always found him attractive but he has a gf so i never went through with anything. He always compliments me on how good looking i am (which is a first) and he once sed ... (200 words)

Is it true that I can get HIV from a belly bar from Spain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya.... i got my belly pierced 8 weeks ago and i changed the bar to 1 that my sister got me from spain..... i cleaned it with boiling salt water but i am scared that i could catch HIV.... Because apprently you can?? is this true??... (46 words)

Are there any good books on crazy folk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says crazy things that I cant understand. Yesterday I said 'I hate him', And he said he likes the way my words sound and my lips move. Then I calmed down I love him so much. Even if he's a bit crazy. Is there any good books on crazy folk? Thanx ... (67 words)

What are my chances? Am I crazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid 1. I fell in love with a guy 11 years younger than me, I'm 33 - he is also in love with me. 2. I'm divorced 3. 2 kids 11 and 3 4. We met online 4 months ago 5. We have not met face to face 6. Same religion - but culturaly different 7. His family is wel... (128 words)

How can I blow her a kiss across the Atlantic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently participating in an exchange program with a school in Nuernberg, Germany (I'm from Atlanta, USA). The exchange partner I was assigned is a girl, who, I might add, is extremely beautiful. Not only that, but she's amazingly fun to talk to and very smart. Now, o... (159 words)

I come fourth in his order of priorities. Shouldn't I be first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - we broke up and now he said when were together for the last 2weeks i wasnt his top piority , he sed his life was in the order of Job , Mates , Football , Me and then he asked for me back i asked why he said that "because everything else was dragging me down, mainly it was the ... (132 words)

His affection has cooled off. What is happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm new here, and I really need your help.. I'm in a relationship, and have been with him for 15 months now.. It is a long-distance relationship, but we've been doing fine really until about 4 months ago, when I was doing my A Levels and didn't see him for over 2 month... (337 words)

I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we have been plannin our future ... (139 words)

What should I do? I love a fellow student, as well as some of my teachers!! What am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 15 years old and i need some pro advice. i am atracted to serveral girls and teachers (female) at my school in scotland. mainly all the girls i like are daft anoying, unable to shut up sluts. but one girl who hangs around with the people i hang around with and is... (420 words)

I'm not confident around Women! How do I build my confidence??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

- I'm a confident person, but whe it comes to women and relationships, I'm awful. I've tried, and I've tried, and I've tried to be confident around women I'm attracted to (even when I fake it) but I always blow it when it comes to the date. A few girls hat I'm friends with say... (106 words)

Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on his computer that he had ... (111 words)

My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno what to do because i cant tell ... (89 words)

My guy doesn't like spending money. We don't ever eat out, or go on holiday. I'm starting to get fed up! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age - I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend at all. I am starting to ... (97 words)

Should me and my fiance try to start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

- M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her decision was final I decided to cut ... (182 words)

Do you think their is a future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age - do you have any tips on how to successfully date a dysfunctional man who also has a dysfuntional family. do you think that there is a future with this relationship.? thanks... (32 words)

How long should I wait for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - bin going out with my girlfriend for 18 months we have had lots of oral but no intercoarse. she has had sex with two boy friends before me . How long should I wait, She is not having sex with anybody else . She wants to be sure I am the one. She say she loves me but isn't ... (119 words)

Do you think its wrogn, I'm 15 and my boyfriends 21

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - everyone makes a big deal about age its only a number ... i know i don't have consent. but our relationship is great. We swore to each other that sexual intercourse wouldn't be brought into it. until i come of age. my mum is fine about it . My dad tried to make me split up with ... (110 words)

Should I move on, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im 19 by the way... (59 words)

Should I follow him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The man I'm in love with moved to another state for his career. Should I follow him?... (17 words)

When should I put pressure on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age - where do you guys think a dating relationship between two mature adults should be at the end of the third year of dating? do you think we should be engaged? do you think we should be planning a wedding? how long would you recommend waiting before giving an ultamatium or ... (58 words)

Do I have something to wory about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and its been going great untill now , he seems to be not as loving towards me and i was looking at photos on his myspace an it has him kissing another girl(only on the cheek) and captionssaying *you both are mint* and*you ... (105 words)

Dating question.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - is it ok for a guy who just turned 16 to date a 13 year old. hes in 10th grade and shes in 8th?... (24 words)

When is the good time, to start living togetehr?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! So I have a BF (5months now). We have a great relationship and we love each other. I know he is the one - I never felt this way for anybody and he saiz the same. The guestion is ... When do you think is a good time to start living together? I just mooved... (273 words)

How many partners have you had?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand" sexual encounters have ... (77 words)

I'm in love with a married friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been close friends and work colleague with a woman for many years but my love for her has now become a problem because I think of little else these days. We spend time at work together and meet socially as friends. To make matters more difficult she is flirtatiou... (264 words)

She cheated and I'm scared of making the wrong decision.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 5 years has had an affair. I'm devestated, but prepared to forgive (I think). Just one thing I can't get over, I don't want every gorey detail, but when I ask her to explain why she did it, she says. 'I don't know, It just happened'. What does this mean girls? ... (177 words)

He went and told his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I gave my boyfriend head in the school bathroom and he went and told his friend and she asked me about it i told her no i didn't how do i tell him to not tell our business to anyone?... (40 words)

How do I handle the manipulation from somebody that I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my x girlfriend in March 2002. We got on well and we decided to be together. In Feb 2003 she started renting her council property and moved in with me. For the first year everything was fine, but then I started to see her in a different light. She began stating that I ... (1401 words)

How should I go about talking to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year now, and we love each other very much. I don't really let things bother me, but there's this one thing she does that just really irritates me. She tells her friends everything about us. It's as if we have no priva... (124 words)

Friends jealousy is tearing apart our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boss introduced me to his friend back in May. In June we became serios. My boss and my boyfriend live across the street from each other and have known each other for ten years. Boss is known as Uncle B and his wife is known as Aunt T to my boyfriends kids because they ... (308 words)

I have OCD, and I'm worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

- help im worrying about something which happened about a year and a half ago. Its come back to me again. Having ocd makes it worse for me. One day me and my two friends was drinking in my house the lad i like was drunk but me and the other boy wasnt. I lay down and the boy who ... (258 words)

We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?... (42 words)

Why do men always find someone else first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do most men always get another woman before they break up? Are women braver than men? ... (20 words)

Shall I settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl who asked me out i kinda like her but i also like this other girl who will never like me. i am afraid if i say yes to the girl i might break her heart.what do i do?... (42 words)

Can he really mean those words after two years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of just over 2 years ended our relationship for good 1 week ago. The first year of our relationship was fantastic we were so in love and talked about living together, marriage etc. Things started to slow down April this year when a guy I met after 10 years ... (898 words)

Shall I tell him what I think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age - My son has started a relationship with a man 20years his senior. This is his first gay relationship. I want to support my son but cannot support the age difference. What can they have in common?- I'm bewildered. How can I give positive feedback when in my heart I don't think ... (81 words)

They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

- My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss style body shape, and did h... (181 words)

Would I destroy our friendship if I 'came out' to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't know how to ask this so i'll just go on with it. first, i'm a bisexual but the world doesn't know that (yet). second, there's this girl. we've been friends for two years now. to make the story short we "went out" last weekend. (whether it was my suggestion or hers is ... (124 words)

He accuses me of cheating but wants to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 mths now. He lives in Trinidad, i am in Tobago. he always acuses me of cheating and lying. i love him so , he does also (he says so ) and i believe him, but that is always the reason for us to argue. it hurts me alot to see that i'm commite... (100 words)

Is he lying about his internet activities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he lying? Yesterday I was looking in the computer's history. It was not where you put in the web addresses, it was under the favorited websites, I guess there is an area that you can look at the history and I didn't know that. Anyways, I was looking at it while my husba... (284 words)

He thinks our relationship is getting too serious and wants to think about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for three years, two of which I lived with the guy and we were engaged to be married next year. I began having doubts quite a while ago but stuck it out to see if things changed, which they didn't. During the last month or so of my relationship with ... (221 words)

A have a serious crush on a guy at work but I'm married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married almost three years, I have a two year old and my relationship with my husband is great. I have a crush on a guy at work. A serious crush. I'm talkin' when I unexpectedly see him, I get flustered and I can't concentrate. When I am having sex with my husband ... (98 words)

I'm terrified I could be anaemic!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother has terrified me... She told me I could be anaemic! Reason being that I often start my period every 3 weeks and according to her, it's not normal and is caused by lack of iron! Could she be right? If so, are there any consequences from it? I also saw a picture on the ... (99 words)

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex sites to talk to girls. ... (161 words)

Am I wrong in thinking that I can't please her? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months and in that time I have had a few problems. A year ago, I forgot about her competing in a sporting event. I was away working the weekend and got consumed with the job. She was obviously upset that I tried to make it up to her. R... (264 words)

How can men move on so easily? Do they actually move on easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men jump from woman to woman, are they in love with anyone or just themselves. How can you be sure if he loves you, if he is constantly with this one, that one, the next one. How can men move on so easily... ... (48 words)

Every area that she has pointed out I have worked on but I feel she hasn't. Any help/suggestions please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Just like to say thank you for taking the time to read this question! I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months. She's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. But recently we have been having problems. We have had a few serious conversations were she h... (200 words)

Why do men still call the ex, when they have a new gf? It's odd and disrespectful to call the ex on your way to a banquet with your new gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men still call the ex GF, even when they have a new girlfriend. I mean staying cordially is ok, but I think it is odd, and disrespectful to call me on your way to a banquet with your new girlfriend. I also think it is disrespectful to call me at all times of the night. ... (125 words)

He will work away from home for a while and I'm terrified he will cheat again, as it happened in the past when we faced distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

- Hi, I'm in a bit of a strange situation at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and we moved in together a month ago. He has been asked to work away from home for 3 months which will start just before christmas. It is a great opportunity for him ... (148 words)

Attracted to female bodies but prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am attracted to female bodies but I prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean for me?... (21 words)

Are words really necessary?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Extended gaze? Have you ever looked into his/her eyes and known instantly that he/she loves you too without need of saying it with words? ... (27 words)

Does he know his own mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend left me then wanted to change his mind and come back. The question is how can you change your mind, surely thats fixed, and only another person can change it. I say he doesn't know is own mind. Who is right. Thanx... (49 words)

Should I ask him if he wants me to go to his mother's funeral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriends mum has died recently i never got to meet her the funeral is tomorrow and i dont know if he wants me to go with him im to scared to ask him as since her death i have not really seen him i just dont know what to do ... (51 words)

How do I rebuild my friendship with my best friend without damaging his relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm living in what most people would think to be an unorthodox way. I share a house with my best friend who is a man and i'm a woman. Me and my best friend have been very close for years. We've been through a lot together. It has worked out really well for us in the pa... (742 words)

Is he having a mid-life crisis? Should I go for divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure where to start. I found out my husband was cheating because he was acting wierd and then my 4 year old daughter said that daddy's friend and her kids met them at pizza. It kinda got my wondering... I confronted him and he said they were just friends! I suggested ... (553 words)

Should I wait until we're a bit older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and ive been meeting with a girl of 12 recently i think we really hit it off and i know she fancies me, and i really like her too. But i dont know what i should do, should i wait till we are a bit older or should i just go through with a relationship now and risk ... (96 words)

I feel totally rejected - couldn't we have discussed it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age - Was dating a guy and we got on famously, walks, meals, fun nights out together and we really clicked. We fancied each other quite a lot and then after a few weeks made arrangements to sleep together. Anyway I've always found that when I sleep with someone the first time it'... (227 words)

How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hii, iam sarah, well i just broke up with my fiancie from about 3 months and i still love him and iam trying to get him back but the problem i feel iam not doing well in this, i really need a way to get him back becoz i cant stop thinking about him , plz reply me as soon as ... (62 words)

Is she giving me the 'come-on'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age - Hi my wife is currently working away so for the past few weeks i have been going next door for tea each week. i have always liked the lady next door and more i see her i think shes giving signs to make a move on her. she was sat with her legs open and shorts on tonight ... (66 words)

He's content and happy, but how can I get him to open up to me and have a proper conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I hope you can help me. Ive been married to my husband for 16 years, we have two children one of each. Life's been great so far but it looks like we have hit a rocky patch. We do all the things a normal couple do and both have our outside interest. Sex is good. ... (345 words)

How do I go about getting an abortion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - If i go for a preganancy test and find that am positive how do do away with that, the pregnancy is less than a month.... (25 words)

What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey What does it mean when a girl plays with her hair whilst she's chatting to you?... (18 words)

How can I remedy my erectile problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (M)

age - I am Visually impaired, partially deaf and a wheelchair user. I struggle to get girlfriends because of erectile dysfunction, even though I often get aroused my erection isn't firm enough. What can I do to remedy my problems?... (38 words)

Should I draw his attention to this matter or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to everyone. I have my conscience troubling me and find I'm unable to cope and even sleep! My friend(female) who I didn't liked much, but have been in a certain relations this past year, and I don't know why, simply find it hardly to dump her, I always miss the occasion and ... (331 words)

Am I just wasting my time with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 October 2007 (?) - I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it all. He also said that he ... (172 words)

Where can I buy Covergirl Foundation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please publish this post, I'm very desperate to know! I've heard of this amazing foundation (It's really good for spots and doesn't dry skin) And it's a brand called 'Covergirl'. I've never seen it in the UK, where I live! I'm in desperate need for this product, having ... (77 words)

My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like this, for the first few months ... (100 words)

Do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped??

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone I really like because he wasn't sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men wake up to the fact that the... (105 words)

My family are living in the past! How can I get them to accept that I'm no longer depressed?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recovered from depression about 4 months ago and I'm having real trouble dealing with 'the aftermath'. Actually it's more that everybody else is having trouble; I'm doing really well at college, have a job and an amazing boyfriend. Overall I'm incredibly happy (most of the ... (540 words)

26, gay, and friends with a 17 year old. He lets me do things to him... but he insists he's straight. What do you think?

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a 26 yr old gay, i met a 17 year old boy and we have a great friendship, he insists that he is straight, but when he visits me, he allows me to cuddle and hug him, kiss him on the neck, and even feel his legsand upper thighs. i feel he might be going through a period o... (100 words)

25, about to get engaged... but still have feelings for me ex. What can I do?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 25. Have been with my partner for 3 years. we met immediately after a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years - who was my first love but completely broke my heart. Im still in love with him but im also happy with my current partner. My ex called me yesterday saying he's still ... (80 words)

He won't admit to cheating, what should I do?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 7 years. This year he moved to another work premises. He was "working late" but we never seemed to have any extra money as a result of this. I noticed one evening when I was out that a number had shown up on the redail list, I called this number ... (322 words)

When is enough, enough?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had some bad luck in the past with boyfriends. Fell pregnant when i was 19, and my daughter is now almost 5. I met a guy 18 months ago, and fell in love. It was the same for him, but he just came out of a failed engagement, so things took a slow start. We have ... (264 words)

Bar verses Christianity

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me I'm a Christian, my brother is not saved, I do respect him since he is like our earthly father. We usually spent time together and whenever he goes out to town to drink he makes sure I accompany him. At the bar he takes the beer as I take the usual soda. Is it wrong for ... (69 words)

4 month anniversary is coming up, and I want to do something special... and cheap!

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all.. okay would very much like your help, my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months this weekend, we always like to do something special to mark it (i know that may sound cheesey). Anyway he's taking me for a meal but wants me to do something for him, now with it ... (90 words)

I feel guilty about having cheated, the relationship won't be the same if I tell her.

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a month now. last night i cheated on her, i dont know what came over me. i feel so ashamed and guilty since my girlfriend is so amazing. i do love my girlfriend and she loves me, ive been thinking i should keep quiet and just bare the ... (97 words)

Calling all those with experience of Military relationships, there are long periods where he s away - stories please.

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im wondering if there are any females out there who's partners are in the army / navy and have to spend long periods of time apart. I have come into a new relationship with a guy in the navy who will be away for long periods and if anybody has some tips they would like to ... (138 words)

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

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30 October 2007 (F)

- I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who was abusive, hes a saint ... (242 words)

Should we meet up or not?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a wedding but, his 43 and im 21, we had cemistry from the firts moment we layed eyes on each other. but the problem is his never been married but his got two children with 2 different women. Now he wants to meet up, should i or shouldnt i??? please help... (56 words)

What can I do to make it obvious?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have been hanging out with this guy for the past month now. we both like each other and know it. we are both a little shy. i want to be more than friends but cant seem to say anything what can i do to make it obvious? ... (53 words)

Does she love me or not?

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey i been dating my girlfriend for 2 year but lately i think everything falling apart i think she pushing me away she doest say she love me but when i ask her do u love me she say yes she said she going threw something but i dont no any advice... (55 words)

I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also have a 12 yr old child from a for... (390 words)

I'm always thinking about her, what should I do?

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So i'm in high school. I'm a senior at a local high school in the bay area of california. There is this girl I have known since about 3rd grade whom i've always adored (i've had a crush ever since I can remember first seeing her.) She never really talked much with me, but ... (293 words)

I want to ask him really bad. What should I do?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okaayy soo my School dance is coming upp soon and its in like 2 dayss. and i've still haen;t askked anyyonee. butt .. i likee to bee askked but i don;t thinkkk anyonee well.. butt theres someone in mind that i want to askk andd i like him alott. i'm kiddaa neww with a... (169 words)

I may be a hopeless romantic.

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya people. I seem to have a lot of trouble in having friends, much less GUY friends. The problem is that i have NO GUY friends wahtsoever...and i ask myself, is this why i dont have a boyfriend either? Because, in movies and such, to be with the guy of your dreams,... (189 words)

Do highschool kids dress up for halloween for school .

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, so i was wondering if popular kids dress up for halloween [at school?]?? what do kids do nowadays anyway? i think it would be fine to dress up to school, but i dont know. high school kids, that is... please help!... (54 words)

What signs are shown when someone still cares.

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex of 3 years broke up a little over 4 months ago. we lived together the whole time, had alot of ups and downs. but since the break up shes been dating different guys. How do i tell she still loves me and cares if we dont talk, because shes asked for that. there is so ... (80 words)

Should I just move on?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - BF for over a year has told me that he is not emotionally and financially ready for marriage. We're both 31 years old. Does he mean that I am not the one for him and I should move on? ... (39 words)

I don't want her to call off the wedding or something over this.

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30 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance asked me about my sex past the other night and we got to talkin about it, i told her more or less the truth, i have slept with about 60 diff. chicks (mostly one night stands, a few threesomes and 2 orgies- i had some wild parties)i didnt tell her about the parties and ... (240 words)

I need some tips on how to get over this.

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my ex about 2 months before we started dating. we hardly ever talked, and he was with one of my friends anyways. we hooked up over the summer, and dated for about a month. it was a fantastic relationship, and i thought we were doing really well. he broke up with me very ... (177 words)

Tips on just how to move on.

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30 October 2007 (F)

Why does he feel this way?

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend has it in his mind that he pressured me into having sex with him, I don't think he did. I wanted to and we have done it many times since. But just tonight he confessed as though he feels that he did, I have tried to convince him otherwise and even after w... (168 words)

I still love him, but feel real confused.

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30 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice! Please! I have been seeing a married man for over 9 months now. The affair became very intense very quickly. He usually stays with me a couple of times a week. (although, this has reduced recently) He has told me many times he loves me, and he feels it was a ... (209 words)

Why won't my ex leave me alone?

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30 October 2007 (F) - Why won't my ex leave me alone? I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he still texts me to say he misses me. I don't respond. He called yesterday but the caller id said unknown because he knew I wouldn't answer if I knew it was him, so stupidly I answered it. He said that all his ... (387 words)