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anonymous
writes:Over the summer my boyfriend's bestfriend met this girl and he fell... FAST. He set up a meeting for her to meet all of our friends. ...And i didn't like her. Recently he found out and kept asking me why. My boyfriend said it's because he values my opinion. (Me and his bestfriend are also rather close.)I didn't want to tell him or my boyfriend why. I'm naturally a quiet person so it's been hard being open to my boyfriend about things i'd normally just keep to myself, but i've told him everything. He got so upset with me just because i wouldn't tell him this one thing.What i don't understand is why my boyfriend used the situation to confront me about something i deemed really unimportant (and rare in his case). He did admit that he could care less if i liked her he just wants me 'to tell him things and not go back in my shell.'Why is he making me feel guilty for wanting to remain quiet about some things? Or putting words in my mouth that i don't value 'us' enough to be truthful with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 hey,don't you trust him? because if u do, u have to tell him the truth ,because he is your boyfreind the only person who can help u when u need help ,and the person who you can trust,but if u guys aren't very serious don't make him force u to tell him ........ good luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Don't worry about him. Just blow him off, he may have his reasons, but you have yours as well, and that needs to be respected.
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