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Joking or planning our future?

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11 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - am 16 while my bf is 25.there was a day when he was smoking and i told him to stop but he didnt so i said to him it was his ploblem.he said back to me that it was my ploblem too coz if we get married and he get cancer of the lungs it was going to affect me too.do u guys think ... (82 words

Concerned or controlling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - how do guy feel if u tell them to stop drinking and smoking.do they feel u are concern or trying to control them... (24 words

She suddenly broke up with me, telling me something was missing. Has anybody else had this and got back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - I was in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years. Very suddently my girlfriend broke up with me. When she did so she was balling and could only tell me that somthing was missing. I treated her so well, and am what I consider a great guy and very desirable. Everyone keeps ... (92 words

How can I become more comfortable around her friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - 'ello, again. 'tis I, Escalaya. Anyways; Recently things have gotten alot better with my girlfriend, instead of just getting angry, and refusing to go, she comes along now, and her jealousy is cooling down. but.. Now, she wants me to hang out with her friends, and meet them, ... (157 words

14, Is my height the reason why I can't get a Boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am a freshman, 14 years old, tall (5'8''), brown hair, brown eyes, smart, funny and sorta pretty, people call me pretty sometimes. I have a good personality and i have never had a boyfriend. I don't have that much self-confidence and i am really shy (i would never think to ... (95 words

My partner doesn't allow me the same level of freedom he gives himself. He also accuses me of cheating! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with my partner for 6 years, we have 2 kids wee girl 7 months and wee boy 2 1/2 years. At the beginning we had a great life, then I started going out with my mates male and female, he would only let me out until 8pm snd if I was 1 min late I got beaten but when he ... (175 words

Together 2 years... but we don't appear to have a Sex life. How can I fix this problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over two years and everythings great except our sex life. I am 21 sooo i am old enough to have sex and have in the past with my ex-boyfriend, but with my current boyfriend, i just can't get to that point with him to have sex. No matter what we ... (97 words

Our group of friends seems to be tearing apart. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I will make this as short as possible. I have two friends. I have known one for around 2 and a half years whom i shall call Debs and the other just over a year, who shall be called Sophy. Before i met the two of them they were the best of friends. But now they are not so close ... (292 words

A week after our break up, she has now contacted me. Should I try to win her back/

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11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok i need some advice badly last week my girlfriend dumped me and we havent spoken since then but today she was online on messenger and she sent me a message and i dont think that she is intrested in going out with me again but the thing is now that she has contacted me i feel ... (159 words

My husband's impatience has taken it's tole on his social life. Any advice?

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11 October 2007 (F age - 25 yrs of marriage need urgent advice.My husband has always been impatient but not in a really bad way. Rare occasions evry 5 yrs he has fallen out with someone he disagreed with or been rude to a friend. He won't socialise very well with people he barely know he needs time. ... (184 words

I miss her in everyway, and feel like I'll never have anything with anyone like her again. Has anybody else felt this way, and been completely wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Forgive me for how some of this question might sound, but I'm a little concerned. I really miss my girlfriend, who left me not so long ago because our relationship became long distance. Now I feel like I'll never love anybody like her again. I miss her personality. I miss her ... (111 words

Is it harsh or unfair of me to ignore him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 October 2007 (F - Hope someone can help me out in my hurt and confusion. I almost got involved with a married man I know but stopped myself before things got out of hand. There are still some hard feelings...perhaps more on my part. He did lead me on about his martial status but things cooled q... (184 words

The pleasure is in the giving - right?

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11 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I are going on three years of marriage. We have a healthy sex life, and are happily married. I really want her to give me a blowjob more often, but I don't know how to bring it up to her. I enjoy going down on her and do it fairly often, but when I hint at her ... (156 words

1 percent of the time he's rude. What shall I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age - 25 yrs of marriage need urgent advice. My husband has always been impatient but not in a really bad way. Rare occasions evry 5 yrs he has fallen out with someone he disagreed with or been rude to a friend. He won't socialise very well with people he barely knows - he needs ti... (187 words

I don't know whether to have sex with him - should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i met a guy who gets me crazy. we spent all days together. but he is living with another woman, he has a son with her. he told me that when we met. everyday we want to see each other. i don´t know what to do. i´ve thought to have sex with him but i don´t know. what should i do?... (61 words

What do I talk about when I meet her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age - My girlfriend lives in New Mexico and we converse everyday and have done for the last 18months and we have met each other twice and she is about to move over here to the U.K. soon and we are going to get married. I am struggling to have a conversation with her now what do ... (94 words

Am I being silly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi My names rebecca and my boyfriend works long hours. I need some help and advice as I feel very down. I am a very jealous person and always have been. I am worried as my boyfriend is going on a team building evening bowling and dinner with all his work mates and there is... (85 words

Is there something there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - So theres this guy i like, we were great friends for a long time, he was always shouting me sitting with me, i honestly thought he liked me. Then one day his friend told him that i liked him, and ever since he's been ignoring me, and he totally overreacted about the whole ... (92 words

Should I take any notice of my father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about 6 months now. We are both divorced. I am 23 and he is 39. I like the way our relationship is going and we are very happy. My mother adores him, but my dad only sees the age difference and refuses to even meet him. I know the age difference ... (104 words

Is he playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - i got one of my male friends to call my bf without him knowing he was my friend to ask for my number from him telling him he admires and aslo like me to be his.i was thinking he was going to tell him i was his and that he should stay clear but to my suprise he agreed to give ... (103 words

I have feelings for her - how do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - Annoying my question seems to have disappeared so I'm re-posting (as opposed to a counter-strike in fencing). In short I am desperately in love with a not-so-close friend and am concerned about telling her how I feel. My primary worry is that she already suspects somethi... (145 words

How can I keep him happy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - how can i save my relationship he seems to get distant then all swwet and cuddly and stuff you know what i mean how do i " freeze " him in the happy side or just simply keep him happy ... (40 words

Is he just a bad tempered immature deadbeat dad or are these signs of a sociopath?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have recently broke up with my son's father. He is 31 and I amd 23. I am really starting to see signs of what I think are signs of a sociopath. At first he was very charming and seemed like he had himself together, then after I became pregnant he started acting like I was ... (477 words

After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age - My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??... (52 words

Why did it hurt during my first time? We couldn't do it properly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - How come it hurt when it went in and it didn't fit ? im a virgin and had sex with my bf, well TRIED to. Lol But it just wasn't happening. Any ideas or clues as to why it hurt ? =/... (46 words

I always wanted to get married but since thsi engagement I've had an unusual urge to cheat. Why?

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11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I recently got engaged and since then I've had the unusual urge to cheat. I've always wanted to get married and nothing could be more exciting to me. But a growing desire for trying some let's just say wild things before I have a ring affixed to my finger has been growing... (71 words

He said he liked my nest mate and we broke up. While we were together he joked about me giving him a bj. Now I feel he's using me as a back up plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My bf broke up with me about a week back. He said it was bcos of instincts but i wasnt that sure. Later on the SAME night he slips out that he fancies my bestmate. I dont trust her enough to think she didnt do anything for him to dump me for her. And me and her have fallen ... (249 words

My ex husband of 5 yrs ago has just had a child and I feel sick at this idea - which my current husband knows. Should I go to counselling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

11 October 2007 (F - Hi, I need advice. I am married with two kids and have been divorced from my ex husband for about 5 years, thing is i have just found out that my ex has just had a child with someone else and i have a very un-describable feeling about it all. I want to be happy for him but... (228 words

Hairstyles to look older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - does anyone no how i can a hairstyle to make myself look older i have mid/long hair with layers but they are grwing out does anyone no what hairstyles i can do to make me look older and can i have make-up ideas please to like what sort to wear and what to avoid please.... (55 words

Why do I back out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 30-35 - ok i really want to make out with my girlfriend I've done it before so I'm kinda nervous :S She hasn't done it before ever and she told me she wants to do it. She's not that confident probably less confident than me :S Every time i go to do it, i get the first kiss but t... (140 words

Is my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure? is it a childish term co... (78 words

Is it herpes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have sore, itchy and inflamed blisters around my genitals and think it maybe herpes, i have had coldsores before but never herpes and i havn't had intercourse with any1 that has it but am aware that it is the same virus. is this a possibility? ... (48 words

I can't believe I cheated

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I cheated on my girlfriend... I love her so much... She is beautiful and really intelligent and has a great sense of humor... She takes care of me, makes me dinners, lunches, gives me back rubs, buys me random presents, pays for fuel for my car... she even gives me all of ... (722 words

Confess my feelings for a straight girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok there is a girl a like, Im bisexual by the way. She has known this for a while now about 4 to 3 months she doesnt treat me any different and shes comfortable around me. She is single and when me and my mates did truth and dare she said she would choose me as girlfriend if ... (79 words

First kiss a stage kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay Well The Prob Is, At Skl We're Doing This School Production Of West Side Story, And I Got The Main Part Maria :) But Yea Its Now Our 2nd Performance Of It And Its Going Really Well, But The Prob Is Iv Now Been Asked To Do A Stage Kiss. Im Really Good Friends With The... (142 words

Don't trust her and not so sure about him either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age - i wrote into this site last week concerning a sister-in-law that has been after my bf since 1969 when her husband and my bf's brother died. she said that day so i have been told that she wanted my bf since her husband died. after my bf's wife died nothhing happened as far as ... (646 words

Am I Bisexual or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey.... Im soo confused.. Im really attracted to men..espically with long hair...and have been with men, and have dated men, and have fancied them...but, when i look at a man, i dont get the sudden lustful feelings i get when i look at an attractive woman.. Don't get me wrong... (211 words

I'm a scheming little minx - should I break up with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i met this guy 8 months ago.i liked him,so i said i give it a try.we were a couple for 6 months.he loved me,but i didn't share his feelings.i just liked him.so,our relationship was all about me!we broke up and then get it on again so many times,just because of details.i was the ... (194 words

Who should make the first move - and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone I got such nice responses last time, I need some more advice and feel I can turn to you guys so here goes. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 weeks and he told me for the first time on saturday that he is a virgin and while I have all the respect in the wo... (252 words

He never instigates sex. Why not? Is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi.. I've been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 7 months now. We moved in together one month ago. He is perfect on every level - considerate, fun, witty, very sociable etc etc... However, I feel he doesn't fancy me because he never instigates sex. Just to describe... (384 words

He proposed to me - but did he really mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi all...new here so not sure how this all works but really liked your posted discussions so thought that I would throw my current situation/question out there.. The man that I have been involved with(great relationship) for sometime asked me a couple of months ago to marry hi... (86 words

I'm between a rock and a hard place. Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ive been back with my boyfriend for a month now. we was together 6 weeks but we split up and have recently bk together. i took him back as he said wed try make it work this time and because i love him to pieces. but i feel like shit when im with him, i never see him and he d... (108 words

His family are pressurising him. How long do I give him to make the big decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old with a 5 year old son who has been dating a 19 year old guy for 3 months. He is by far the best boyfriend I have ever had and makes me really happy. I am in love with him and I know he is in love with me. I have insecurity and trust issues from past relation... (384 words

Why did it hurt when it should feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My bf tried to enter me last night, but it didn't go in. It was so painful, i was quite wet so i dont know what the problem was [sorry if that was 2 graphic]. Why did it hurt, and why was it soo 'tight' ??? He even tried going slow, but it just hurt :( ... (57 words

I'm afraid his work buddies will buy him a prostitute!

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11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - help! i am engaged and to be married in the upcoming month...but now i just runied it...i never cheated on my fiancee, never slept with anyone, never hit on anyone, never did anything like that I just found out that his hotel was changed since he is on business travel and it h... (142 words

He wants to hang out. How can I make him take some responsibility?

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11 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - What if you have been with someone for three years and you are always fighting about him wanting to hang out. You told him you wanted to go separate ways but he wants to stay together and he tells you he should be able to come and go as he please and still take care of his ... (71 words

I lead a solitary life - how can I change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - I tend to be quite stubborn about my life goals and consider anyone who may be causing hurdle in the path to be my enemy. As if achieving goals was the only thing that mattered for me in life. I sometimes spend too much effort in sorting out my accounts with whoever that person ... (87 words

I have a smelly discharge. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi i have a problem of bad odour discharge which comes some times and it is bringing trouble when with my partner during sex. what can i do? i feel very uncomfortable about this.... (34 words

Why are men inclined to cheat on their wives?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi, can you please send me a scientific analyses why men are incline to cheat on their wives? I'm am a man of 41yrs of age and have been married for 10yrs.I neither drink nor smoke but i like the company of nice woman.even if i'm joking the girls are just falling for me.I bel... (89 words

My stockings and susps didn't turn him on. Any ideas as to how to get him interested in sex with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age - I am very confused, been married 29 years, been faithful to each other, well I know for sure that I have. Sex life has always been difficult with him not opening up and not letting me initiate it,caught him twice this year with porn behind my back, got no real explanation other ... (572 words

I'm having doubts - is that a bad sign?

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11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and a virgin. Recently though I've told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. At the time that i told him i was becuase i trusted him, but now due to certain circumstances i don't feel like the trust is fully there and I'm not sure if i want to lose my virginity to ... (177 words

He's married with kids - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi..ive got a man who is married with kids.. but i love him so much. im much jealous everytime he is with his family.. i feel he doesnt love me anymore.. dearcupid i really love this guy. what should i do... this situation is really hurting me.... (47 words

Should I confess to my husband that I once had an affair during our marriage?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. Is it good to confess to my husband that I once had an affair with another man during our married life? Or should I just forget it? I stopped it, anyway.... (33 words

My dad and bf are alcoholics - I want to leave, but I love them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - My father has been an alcoholic for a long time. He has beaten me and my mother since I was a baby. My boyfriend turned out to be aggressive, as well. He drinks a lot and I think he is an alcoholic, too. I would like to leave them, but I love them. I'm desperate. What can I ... (59 words

He didn't climax during the bj! Am I crap?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - When I gave my boyfriend a blow job, he didn't ejaculate. Am i crap?... (14 words

What does this dream mean: getting it on w/ a friend's partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - If you dream about getting it on with your best mate's boyfriend, does that mean you fancie him?... (18 words

I called my gf to vent about someone - and she took his side and hung up on me! Did I overreact? Did she overreact? Opinions, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a dilemma I hope I can get answers to and would appreciate any help I can get. My gf of 4 months and I had an argument last night over the phone. It generally began when I had a tiff with my housemates about one of them pulling out of a holiday trip ab... (370 words

What makes a person worth loving?

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11 October 2007 (M age 26-29 - what makes a person worth loving?... (6 words

Have been in a relationship for 6 1/2 yrs, we have a good sex life and are very close. However I just discovered he's been emailing girls a lot, requesting contact, dirty talk and discrete relationships. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm 25 and have been in a relationship for 6 1/2 years. At the moment we are happy and have been for a while. We have a good sex life and are very close, or so I though. I have discovered that he has been joining matchmaker forums and stating he wants a discrete rela... (120 words

Want to be friends with my ex and have my ex husband as a friend with benefits. Am I asking too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Would be interested in others opinions on this.. I recently met up with my ex husband, we split 16 yrs ago. We have been having some fun for a few weeks now, and slept together twice. Our kids get on well together. He only split from their mum a couple of months ago, but ... (435 words

Is there somethint he's not telling me, or is it me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 41-50 - Someone give me some good advice, PLEASE! I`m 31 and a mother of three and also three months pregnant and live with my partner, he is a great dad and great partner but the thing is three years ago i thought and accused my partner of having an affair, we wasnt living together... (387 words

I'm 18 and like a guy who's 41. Love has no restrictions........right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - What should I do? Im 18 and there is this guy I like who is 42. Im a big believer in age aint nothin but a number. Ive always been attracted to older guys (and country guys but thats another story). I would definitely say I am mature for my age. My thing is that im a homebody, ... (113 words

I'm shy! I like this guy, I think he likes me, Do I overcome being shy, or wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - When I was 17 I met this guy named Todd who was 23. I had a crush on him but now........Its driving me insane. Im typically a shy girl so going up and asking him out was out of the question, plus I think only guys should ask girls out. Im now 18 but he moved away and I cant ... (96 words

I want to love myself, but have confidence issues.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - i myself, i want to love myself but i have serious confidence issues. people say im pretty, but i feel ugly all the time. how do i make myself feel better? are there things i can do to cheer myself up?... (46 words

My heart and soul can't imagine living without her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 41-50 - WAS VERY GOOD I THINK. I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU IF I MAY.I AM GOING THROUGH A BRAKE UP AFTER 8.5 YEARS. SHE TOLD ME SHE NEEDS SOME TIME. WE HAVE ONLY LIVED TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS. MY PROBLUM IS I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN NOT SEE MYSELF LIVING WITH OUT HER. I FIND MYSELF ... (239 words

Body confidence issues

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11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - im 16 and yesterday i went to buy a nice bra and i was so self conscious, i thought people were giving me looks as i have no . how do i get my to grow?... (47 words

Does he love me too?

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11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Here is the guy i really love but I really don't know if he Really loves me in return. I don't unbderstand his character towards me and the way he treated me. Hey! we don't have nay realationship but I just really do'nt know if we had, but only ion silence.... (73 words

How to tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his best friend.

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11 October 2007 (F age 30-35 - SO THERE ARE THESE TWO GUYS. WHOM ARE BEST FRIENDS. AND IM DATING ONE OF THEM BUT I REALLY WANT THE OTHER. THEY ARE BOTH SOOO SWEET BUT I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH THE ONE IM NOT DATING. I HAVE NO CLUE WAT TO DO OR HOW TO TELL MY BF IM IN LOVE WITH HIS BEST FRIEND!PLEASE TELL ME ... (64 words

Did I have a stupid reason to break up or looking for a way out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

11 October 2007 (F - Did I overreact or did my fiance? My fiance have been breaking up a lot lately and arguing. Now it's over for good because a few days ago I asked if he could not use my shampoo, etc. for the shower. He yelled at me saying that I should be paying the bills and get out of his ... (264 words

Is it normal to bleed two times a month?

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11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - well i am on the pill and am bleeding 2 times a month is this normal ... (17 words

My friends wife and I were out of control, blowing my principle right out the window.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have a fair amount of experience with women but not so much in terms of committed relationships. I have governed my dating life by a few basic principles, one being you don't cross the line when it comes to your friend's girlfriend/fiancee/wife. Anyway, I blew that ... (183 words

My ex is hanging with guys with not good reputations, I can't stop thinking about her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 October 2007 (M age 36-40 - so i been doing good over my ex but she has been messing around with a lot of guys ans she got mad at me not to long ago about me going to 3 party's and not doing a thing we cant stand each other but we went out for 9 months and i will always care for her some of the guys she ... (120 words

Does my cellulite repulse him?

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11 October 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have some cellulite on my thighs and my butt... my boyfriend says he doesn't even see it, and constantly talks of how much he loves my butt. However I am worried that he may be lying and that he may find me less attractive because of it. Is there a good chance that he lies ... (185 words

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