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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I kissed a friend on the cheek and my boyfriend wont let it go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We really do love each other and care about each other. However, we've been having issues. We have a mutual close friend (call him Charles), that I am very close to. I hadn't seen him in awhile and during one outing with me, ... (248 words)

We are supposedly 'on a break', but the relationship really hasn't changed. I want to officially be his girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me because he is depressed. He has a lot of stuff going on with his family and the 2 jobs he works. He said it is not fair for me to be in a relationship like this since he can't see me as often as we both would like. He said its not fair to me that ... (203 words)

My long distance girlfriend says she loves me, but isnt IN love with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I broke up two months ago so she could figure out what as wrong and why she wasn't feeling the same way she had when we started dating. We were together for four years and also long distance relationship, but we visit each other twice a year, every year and talk ... (166 words)

How can I nicely ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I ask my girlfriend nicely to shave or trim her pubic hair? How do I bring it up? How do I say it so that she doesn't get mad?... (37 words)

She brings her friends along on dates... !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 8 months she is still in school and im in college. We dont get to meet each other much anymore. We probably meet up once a week and when I do arrange to meet up she always fetches her freinds. For example: this we... (238 words)

What does "giving head" mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does "giving head" mean?... (5 words)

I'm 15 and fancy a boy who is 11 ~ Is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old girl and fancy a boy in who is 11. Would it be wrong if we went out? ... (23 words)

My girlfriend's sex drive has gone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years...on and off, but she doesnt have a sex drive anymore. nothing at all, and she gets mad at me when i hint off or tell her that im still taking interest in you, and i want you etc etc also, on top of that about one year a... (186 words)

I am 13 and think I am bi. I like both girls and guys! I am so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

3 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a guy but I'm not sure about things anymore. I fancy this girl in my class (I have for about a year) but she barely knows I exist. I do like her but that's not the only problem... I think I'm bi. I know there's nothing wrong with that its just I fancy men too and can'... (77 words)

I cheated on my fiance with a guy we both use to work with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I cheated on my fiance with a guy we both use to work with. My fiance and I are no longer together. I am no longer working with the guy I cheated with. My ex fiance is also no longer working there. I really like this other guy a lot. So my question is do you think that it ... (144 words)

Is he with me just cause it is convenient, or does he really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age - Here is a good one. I am 46, been with the same guy for 13 months. We get along so well, but the problem is he isnt in love with me.He has been up and down lately with feelings, and when I bring up what his future plans are he says he doesnt know. He basically doesnt know if I ... (266 words)

I took antibiotics while on the pill and now I am late.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently taking birth control, and have been regularly for about the last five months, and my period has always been regular, arriving on the exact day it should. At the beginning of this month, I was also taking antibiotics, for one week, and my doctor told me that eve... (121 words)

How do I keep my online friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i need some advice as i am going CRAZY about this at the moment.. so i have been seing this girl online for about 3 months now and things have been going well but this week she told me that i have been trying to contact her too much and that it is putting her off me! i am ... (198 words)

I've started to get feelings for him, but he says he just wants to be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this lad i met about 5 month ago, we've been texting alot and he told all his friends how much he likes me, trouble is now that i've started to get feelings for him, he says he thinks we should be friends.. and i'm gutted! Did he just lead me on or do you think he could ... (64 words)

How can I show him I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a guy but he don't feel that I love him. What can I do to make him feel that? And I have a very big problem... I feel too shy when I talk with him, so I can't even do anything to make him feel that. What can I do?... (53 words)

How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive liked this boy 4 like 9 years now and i really need 2 4get about him n move on but i cant. he keeps flirtin with me n stuff. i like it but its making it worse.plz help me.... (41 words)

I'm curious about the "party" my BF went to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hallo everyone! My BF went for this B-party in a Hotel Room in New York city with 15 other guys this saturday. Didn't directly tell me what happened over there, except, that he didn't do anything wrong that would hurt me ... and that he didn't cheat (and I trust him in thi... (129 words)

I'm confused about my new feelings. Should I persue this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really well.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate i liked this girl. well its o... (475 words)

She wants me to "get over her", but I can't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Please don't judge this situation 'cos I don't understand it myself. I went out with a girl six months ago. We had a good time but after a month her ex and the dad of her kid wanted her back. She said that she felt it derserved one more try. Over the summer we stayed close and ... (251 words)

I'm feeling guilty about what I did when he was gone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - It stopped for 2 weeks. The guy that I was seeing left for 2 weeks without a phone call... Without anything.. and and I really like him. He's very special to me. He has this was of being that makes me melt for him. He promised he would never hùrt me. He promised he wou... (261 words)

We're engaged but then she starts acting weird... turns out she had a "crush" on another guy and is wondering "what if"... Will this work for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together about 1.5 years. We just recently got engaged and everything was fine. We had talked alot prior to the engagment and she had told me thats def. what she wanted. But soon after our engagment she started acting weird. I would beg her to tell ... (482 words)

Am I gay if I watch gay porn and have fantacies of men (but don't want to be gay)?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i watch gay porn and fantasize about having sex with men but dont want to in real life, i dont want to be near a man but does it mean im gay... (33 words)

Is he still interested after break-up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

- im 22. my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago cause we argued a lot and he said it wasnt going anywhere with me and he didnt have any real interest in me anymore. he told me to leave him alone because he's moving on and that he wants me to move on and be happy too. i wa... (257 words)

How do I tell my family he's older than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. I'm so worried they won... (70 words)

Should I break with my sexual friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help fast! I'm seeing this guy, were friends with benefits! The sex is great, And he's a great guy great personality I have no complaints, but I want out!!, for some reason I don't want to see him anymore, I'm getting these mixed feelings, somtimes I feel I'm getting ... (153 words)

Ended a 5 year relationship and returned to college... but feel so down with my new life and wonder if I'll ever meet a guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive recenty came out of a 5 and a half year relationship which should have really ended 2 years aga. Ive returned to college as amature student and have moved away from my family and friends. Im feeling so down and i think im never going to meet a gecent nice guy. Ihave made ... (67 words)

I'm married with a family yet I still love my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married and have a family but i'm still in love with my ex. He is with someone and has a child with her. I have known my ex from high scholl and ever since the day i saw him i feel in love with him and never stop loving him. I met my husband at the same school and been ... (384 words)

Should I be concerned about my BF's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I started dating under unusual circumstances. We met through his ex and at the time my best friend. I wasn't going to make a move on him unless it was o.k. with her but I never got the chance to talk to her before I hung out with him...now they are talking ... (74 words)

Not sure if he is mad with me for not letting him live with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I told him he could not live with me, I haven't heard from him ever since. Is he mad or just moved on for good?... (25 words)

My crush is dating another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this one girl who I'm madly in love with, but I have always known that I have no chance with her, even though we are good friends. This evening, she was just asked out by her crush, and now obviously, they're going out. I just don't know what to do anymore... even though ... (106 words)

I have feelings for a same sex teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i'm at high school in year 10 and suddenly have got these feelings for a female teacher. I'm not a lesbian because i've had loads of crushes and 2 boyfriends. It's really weird though, i dont want to feel this for someone of the same sex! Is there a way of getting over ... (57 words)

I love him, but he his taken.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm experiencing a unrequited love, the truth is i'm MAD about him, i duno if he knows this as i've never actually told him but I try and make it obvious through body language...and the thing is, he's living with someone [don't think they're married] but she's pregnant with his ... (89 words)

Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng catching the bus, especially in ... (70 words)

Am I right to say to my Dad, I get no attention just because my sister's pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, When my mum died about 5 years ago me my older sister who is now 15 and my dad lived on our own because my two sisters left home for older men. I was only young i didnt understand much but i do now. I know why they both left home and it makes me want to throw up thinking of ... (172 words)

I'm so paranoid, my boyfriend and my best friend like each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently ive noticed that my best friend has started to take alot of interest in my boyfriend. I've tryed to ignore it, thinking i'm being paranoid and stupid. Thing is, this has happened before, with a different friend stealing an ex. I care about him so much. At weekends... (153 words)

I think my best friend likes my boyfriend, and I'm worried he likes her too.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them in the air on the stool they ... (233 words)

Do I continue to flirt with my brother's best friend or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm crazy about my brothers friend who he lives with. My worry is, do I continue to flirt with him and generally try my best to get together with him, or leave it because he's my brothers best friend? My brother is very protective of me and I worry I'm doing the wrong thing. I... (62 words)

Do you think I may be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,just a quick question if anyone can help me please? Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 2 weeks ago,and he 'came' in me im on the combined loestrin 20 pill,and i missed two pills on my packet before this one one of which was the very last one.Also due to being aw... (84 words)

My bf's daughter and her husband seem to want to control my bf's life..far too much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age - i have been dating a man for the past 2years and 10 months. we broke up twice but are now somewhat back together. i know that we each need to have our own friends and activities, but what do you guys see as a schedule for seeing each other. he wants only two nights a week ... (314 words)

Was I really to blame for all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What I want to know here is if I am in the wrong. What happened was that I went to a night out with my friend who is my ex. There was a guy who liked her, his friend (who has a girlfriend) and our old friend. These three guys were all friends. Now we all were at a gig in ... (519 words)

I've known him for 16 yrs but never seen him. People say he's not interested in a serious relationship with anyone and it's the only kind I want. Should I move with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age - I am interested in getting to know a man better. I have known im for some 16years, but I don't know him personally. I have heard he is dating several women. I asked him if he has a woman, and he saids no. He has friends but not a woman. People say he's sneaky. He saids he's not ... (212 words)

I'm crazy about my teacher! He's off limits, I know, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help :( Okay so im crazy about this man :'( but he is out of bounds, he is my teacher :S he is always so nice to me and flirts with me and knows what im scared of and he calls me nicknames and always says im his star pupil... he has said sum pretty outrageous stuff... (570 words)

How do I tell him I had a foursome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Shall I get back with him? I started going out my ex in Jan this year, we fell in love with each other and were really happy and even lived with each other at one point, we went away on holiday and he proposed and I said yes!! Soon after we returned from holiday the relatio... (486 words)

I'm a wife in despair-how do I save my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age - my husband is bored in our marriage...says we have done all we can...he prefers to swing cause lack of ideas. im so stressed. im a good person but he wants me to make myself a like a bad girl and talk dirty to him to help him out. how do i do this, im not that way, but i have ... (114 words)

My fiance doesn't want this baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so excited and just happy for ... (216 words)

Big trust issues over my girlfriend's past relationships...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, I haven't been with my "girlfriend" for long, but it is most definitely serious and have already made plans.. The topic for discussion here is not that I'm jumping into it to quick or anything. She is 9 Years older than me, and maybe that is a problem, but anyways. ... (393 words)

To all the men: what keeps you interested and committed to us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

- To All The Men: How does a woman keep your interest over the long haul of a loving relationship? What do you look for in a mate, what will keep you from straying to a younger woman who gives you some attention? What will make you want to be steadfast and committed to one ... (61 words)

Am I just unlucky or is it something I am doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Since starting college, I haven't been able to meet anyone around my age interested in a relationship. I attend a community college, so many of the women that attend are around 25 years of age. I apparently appear to many to be far older than I really am, so I get along quite ... (466 words)

It's been a couple of days since she said she'd call and no sign of her! Is she playing the "not wanting to seem too eager" game ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this awesome girl who works at at restaurant about 3 months ago. At that time I had a girlfriend who she met when we cam in to eat. I have now been single for a couple of months and decided to roust up the courage to ask for her number. She gave it to me and said ... (204 words)

Confused! My bf isn't talking to me now, over my dad's reactions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Why would my boyfriend need acceptance from my father with regard to his daughter from a previous marriage. He is not talking to me since yesterday because of how my father responded when he was told about my boyfriends's daughter. The response was not negative in any way.... (49 words)

Why did he flaunt me like that. Was he trying to make her jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex just broke up with a girl he always runs to from his past (he calls her his rebound) the other day we were out on a date, and he saw her cousins and some of his friends, he asked me to stay around them and flaunted me in front of his rebound's cousin which was also a ... (164 words)

Having a gay relationship with my cousin but don't want to break our families' hearts, I'm not even sure I'm a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Last week I finished with my boyfriend because i dont love him anymore. I have been going out clubbing with my girl cousin and she is a lesbian. I've recently started fancying her and i told her how i felt on a friday then she told me she has like me for years. Then on t... (186 words)

I feel great when my bf is with me, bad when he's not. When he says he's having a good time with his mates, I feel as if I don't matter. Why can't I be happy (for him)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for nearly 10 months. I love him very much and i know he loves me. But its like it hurts me to love him. I feel so crap when hes not there, and i feel great when were together. I worry that he doesnt like me when hes not with me even ... (163 words)

He treats us like buses, when one breaks down, catches the next. I can't seem to be able to forgive him and take him back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok me and my ex boyfriend have been of again on again for 2 years now.. Prior to that a 5 year relationship., so altogether 7 years. When he is gone I miss him, when he is around I am easily annoyed...I know I am annoyed, well more so (hurt) because of him having a relationship ... (270 words)

Can I lose my virginity with a sex toy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - can i lose my virginity with a sex toy? i mean can i break my hymen with a sex toy and then it ll be easy for my husband pls help ?... (33 words)

Why can't I take the easy way out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have lived apart for four years, but I am on the point of moving house long distance to be with him again. The problem is that I have gotten to know a man I work with and, quite embarrassingly, I think about him all the time. I have kids and he is a single ... (222 words)

If I join the Army she won't marry me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was to recruited to join Armed Forces but my Gf told me not to join if i want to marry her,"Joining Army,u'll lose me,continuing with my current job we'll get married"Advice what can i do.... (36 words)

He left me for another; now we're back together but feel I'm constantly building hate inside me for him. The other girl says they've still been seing each other, which he denies. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i started seeing this guy two years ago and moved in with each a week after we met, the first 8 months were great, then we split as he met somebody else, we then got back together about a year ago, but my mind was in overtime constantly thinking he is still lieing somewhere ... (181 words)

I asked him not to talk to the ex or make it clear he's not interested, but he says it's not in his nature to be mean. While she contacts him (as they shared a dog) I feel we can't be a happy couple.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now and I love him very much. We connect in a way I have never felt before. He and his ex broke up about 4 months before I met him. The problem is that she still calls him and tells him she cares about him. He tells me whe... (295 words)

I've handed in my notice because my lover was also my co-worker... but I love my job and I'm terrified I'll cry on my last day!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i handed in my notice at work last week because i split up with my partner and we work in the same place. i'm working until i'm replaced, which'll probably be 3 or 4 weeks now. thing is, i'm dreading leaving. i love my job. i'm especially dreading my last day because i'm ... (148 words)

If she keeps gaining weight, after childbirth she could be twice as worst? Should I look beyond the weight and be with her because she makes me happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have being going out with my girlfriend for three and half years and she has really made me very happy we get on so well. Only thing is when I met her she was 12stone. Since we got together she has given up on staying fit and she eats way too much mostly take aways she is now ... (175 words)

Should I stop contact with the ex with whom I remained best friends and hope that he misses me or wait it out? How can I get his feelings to rekindle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello angels! i broke up with a guy a few months back and we have remained close friends since then! I dont have feelings for him but i want to! I am very open about my feelings returning and he has said that he could see himself going out with me again! I think he is the ... (117 words)

The guy I'm dating doesn't trust me do to my past. I discovered a message on his phone and I've trust issues too, should I forget about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been dating a guy now for bout 3 months,he says he loves me,but doesnt trust me as i have not had a good past.i do love him and would never go behind his back,i read a text on his phone from a girl he become friends with, before he met me,not sure what to think as he ... (129 words)

I feel this older woman is trying to compete with me regarding clothes, hairstyles... and it's irritating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I stated working in my dad's company beginning of this year and all was good until this woman who is 6 years older than me started trying to compete with me. I thought i was the only one who noticed but the other ladies at work told me as well. I'd go shopping and than the ... (275 words)

Are these symptoms of post natal depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, just had my second child, and feeling a bit low,i have also become paranoid and have accused my husband of having an affair. im so confused. are these symptoms of post natal depression. ... (40 words)

Is it wise to stay with someone just out of love who I know thinks and acts complete opposite to me? Can it work despite of our differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i after a year and a half are considering whether or not we should stay together. We love each other but are very different in all aspects. Im caring, considerate, don't drink much and don't really like adventurous things - he is complete opposite - outgoing, ... (204 words)

I shouldn't have to tell my partner to act like a partner! His behavior is confusing and really hurts me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi me again sorry to be so annoying,i wrote about my partner of a year and a half and how his family hates me and abuses me. Now he doesn't want to sort out any situation with me. My last question had the heading "can someone help". Well, I know I seem like I am going on, but ... (378 words)

We started dating, then I had to leave the country. I stopped calling in hopes that she would move on! What else can I do?

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I got to know this girl through dating another girl - and she helped me through this huge breakup and became a huge friend of mine - and she fell for me i dont know since when but she gave me her hand to hold and even told me she was in love with me but since i wasnt sure ... (164 words)

How do I tell him I have my period?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started my period again and my bf wants to have sex with me. How do I tell him I have my period?... (25 words)

My gf always tries to make me jealous and her behavior gets me so angry! What can I do?

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out for the last 10 months and I am quite fine with my girl. We are really commited and all, but the only thing that bother me is that she always tries to make me jealous all the time. I get really pissed. The more I ask her not to do it, the more she does it. ... (63 words)

How do I break up a friends with benefits deal? Is that even a good idea?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!! Im currently dating this guy, and so far we've been having fun to the fullest! Yes we argue but we make up that same instant (nothing serious) , we aren't in a relationship, but were sexually intimate. So u can call it a friends with benefits type deal. Well I have no ... (198 words)

Should I stay married?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 4 years is very caring and a good father.He is very neat,tidy and organised. Problem is I'm not tidy and I can't stand him insisting to be organised all the time. I wish not to be married to him because I feel suffocated. Everyday is a torture because I have t... (111 words)

How do you know if your ex still likes you?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if your ex still likes you? he told me months after we were cebarating that he would keep the relationship but he know he would cheat on me and he didnt want to hurt me. So we broke up...but now we talk agian. even go to the same school, how do I know if he ... (61 words)

I'm a verbal bully and need help!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a vile and viscious temper (trait passed on from my father) I can generally hold back when dealing with normal situations, but due to the fact my boyfriend is so laid back and quiet and submissive, I (4 years ago) began to easily get mad and take out my frustrations on ... (283 words)

What's that smell? My fella has no respect for cleanliness!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my partner (whom i have a 3month old baby with) for nearly 4 years now. Since the beginning I noticed I would have to mention to him to bath/ brush teeth/ etc, as I noticed he would simply not do these things. I, am a very clean person, reall ... (252 words)

I broke his trust, and now that I'm telling the truth he won't believe me! I'm also jealous. Help!

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3 October 2007 (?) age 36-40 - Ok, so here's the deal; my bf and I have been having trust issues since I lied to him about my past. I didn't want to tell him my past, but he pushed so much that I lied, a couple of times, because I really didn't want to tell him (it involved a mutual acquaintance, so my bf ... (483 words)

How much contact is "obsessive"?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What is too obsessive? my boyfriend tells me that i am too obsessive. I live an hour away from him and call him during my breaks and he calls me during his. Then i ask what he is doing. All of the sudden he ask if I am obssed with him. How do you know when too much is too much? ... (77 words)

I've been sending anonymous love/sex mails to my wife's sister

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 40 and married. I am seriously in love with my sister in law who is 22 unmarried. I have been sending anonymous love emails to her and finally got a positive reply. Should I reveal my real identity and come out in front of her as myself.....I fear this may end up fairly ... (67 words)

My military bf is going on tour soon and I'm a nervous wreck!

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3 October 2007 (F)

- my boyfriend and i really love each other. We have been together 1 1/2 yrs. He is in the army - work is very important to him. He is going on tour soon and I'm turning into a nervous wreck, but he doesn't seem to understand. I am getting nervous if I don't hear from him and he ... (88 words)

How can the world's tallest hobbit (me!) get the girl?

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a very down to earth sweet young man with big dreams and aspirations. I am also built like Buddha. I can't seem to find a decent girl out there who will accept me. I'm not 100% sure of it but really really feel like girls judge me based on my looks, ie: my curly ... (104 words)

I'm friends with my ex and want her to find a great bf, but get upset when she's talking to a new guy! Why?

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just got out of a relationship a few months ago with an amazing girl and we have actually managed to keep a very close friendship. We still love each other very much but not in the romantic way. Anyways, a guy from her work has started talking to her through MySpace and ... (184 words)

My fiance wants to wait two years until we're married! Isn't that too long?

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance to get has told me to wait for 2 years from now so that we can get married,Isn't that too long.Advice please.... (24 words)

He goes soft when he tries to penetrate me.... what does it mean??

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your boyfriend is erect up till the point you go to have sex. Like he goes soft when are are about to have sex?... (29 words)

My ex wants to get back together! Should I give him another chance?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't think my ex is ready for a relationship right now. He ran from our relationship because he felt that he was getting too close. In his previous relationship, the girl hurt him and he hasn't been able to trust another female so he pushed me away with his actions and ... (82 words)

Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't know what I want. I beat ... (236 words)

I am falling way behind people my age with girls, and it's getting to me bad!

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Well i am 19, and i feel like i am slipping behind others teenagers my age to be honest. I don't hide away in a corner. I talk to people, guys and girls my age. I have plenty of friends, and i am outgoing. Told i am a good looking guy. But i have only been in one 'rel... (519 words)

How can I tell if a guy is interested in me if he is shy - and how do I approach him? I'm 21 & have never had a bf!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a guy but I can't tell if he likes me. I am very self conscious but none of my friends seem to take me seriously when I tell them I don't think guys like me. Everyone tells me I'm pretty and have a great personality but if that is true why have I never had a ... (102 words)

He said he was 'bored with our relationship" and it hurt! What should I do?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it means when your bf text message you with: "I am bored of us".." every day is the same..."hi..good morning.. good night.." . I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend..and we talk on the phone; but lately he's been very busy and so I am..sometime we ... (154 words)

Does this new guy really share my values or is he faking it. How do I tell?

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3 October 2007 (F)

- I just met this guy at university a week ago and we get along really well. We have the EXACT same tastes in music its unbelievable...so much that I wonder if hes lieing when he says he likes all of the same music as me. We have talked about all sorts of things that usua... (481 words)

Why am I so picky with dating relationships and how do I fix it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is something seriously wrong w/ me? What could be going on here??? OK, I don't know if the grass just seems greener on the other side of the proverbial fence, whether I just plain don't want a relationship deep down, am too picky or fickle or what... BUT... When w/ the on... (270 words)

I can't have this baby..my bf is an alcoholic and an angry person! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7 weeks pregnant and can't have this baby because of being in a really bad and progressively worse relationship. My boyfriend is an alcoholic and overall an angry person and so is his family. He wants to have this baby but I don't want to expose a child to that type of ... (103 words)

Hand holding..why won't he?

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend won't hold my hand and I don't know if he wants to or not? how do you tell?... (20 words)

An old friend of mine is very sick..what should I do?

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3 October 2007 (?) - I know this is a very difficult question to answer but I would appreciate people views. We’re both 18 almost 19 now. All the way through primary school form age 5 to age 13/14 I was very close friends with this girl Ann we never had a falling out just simply drifted apart in... (542 words)

I've not got (full) nipples (yet)...

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im just wondering about nipples. Out of my friends who ive seen they have nipples i dnt really still, i understand that one is usually differnt from another well it is, one has a nipple tother doest really, it makes me embarassed to show my breast, expecially to my bf. ... (100 words)

Blemish problem, help please

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OKay so im loking to see what remiedies people use for blemishes....how could i get rid of them? i have a few methods but hiney witha baindaid works for lightish blemishes but doesnt stay well on the chin, any other ones that can help a darker blemish.... (48 words)

She wants our first time to be great and so do i...any tips??

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3 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my girlfriend are wanting to make love and she wants it to be great i just want tips on what im going to go trough my first time what should i do since were both virgins, what to do and what not to do and some tips on pleasuring her just want advice from women but ... (64 words)

Please help me learn to flirt, I need suggestions!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Any tips on flirting? I have had a pretty much tramatic 7-8th grade socially. I was just becoming outgoing and being myself and then -8th grade hit. I left my school and am now homeschooled my old friends are really my social but i cant help and feel so low when aroud them bec... (104 words)

His new gf is so rude to me...what does she want from me??

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so confused! Me and my boyfriend broke up for i dunno maybe a week or so and now hes got a new girl. We both chose to remain friends in hopes that theres still a chance that something will happen in the future (hes 15 im 14) well there is only one problem. His new girlfr... (184 words)

I have told her I like her and now I feel uncomfortable around her!!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently posted a question of liking my straight friend. It was really bothering me and i made up my mind to tell her yesterday but i didnt have a chance to i couldnt sleep right just thinking about it made my heart go crazy. So today i finally decided to tell her well i sort ... (449 words)

Finally he let go of his ex and now his friends keep bringing her up...and it drives me crazy!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 4 years now to my husband. For the past 3 years, my husband talked to an ex girlfriend he dated for 4 years. While we were married he called her and lied about it. This went on and off for about 2 years. She was telling him she loved him. It hurt and ... (102 words)

I feel like I should give him another chance but am so confused!

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my BF of 6 months that lives with me cheated. I found messages on his phone that said 'I wouldn't have kissed you, if I didn't think you were attractive' and a few other random things.. I confronted him about this and he alleges all it was, was just a d... (242 words)

I found a rude text message from my boyfriend to another girl... !

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3 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I have been dating this guy for a month now. We have been friends for quite some time, but he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. We got along really well and decided it would be a good idea to move in together, along with my best girl friend. Things have gone ... (200 words)

Why do I always seem to attract the same types??

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3 October 2007 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a younger guy for over two years now but compared to other men I have had relationships with he just doesnt make me feel as sexy as I would like to feel or we dont make love often enough, considering he is 15 years younger than me. I know... (325 words)