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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been together with a guy for a month now,its long distance about 3hours away on a plane,we met when i was on a vacation and we shared intense chemistry. HOwever he said he doesnt see that this relationship might work and he is not ready for a relationship right now,mostly... (141 words)

What are the rules of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay hey guys, I got a qustion. What are the rules of dating? Im new to the whole dating scene and Im wondering if there is rules that apply. Like time in between dates, phone calls etc. I know its diffrent from time to time.... (49 words)

Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

- Thank you to all who replied here. Your insight is much appreciated.... (12 words)

How can I describe to him what it's like to have sex with someone who's so drunk they hardly can recall it? He hid this "habit" until after we got married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age - I'm 51 y/o, married 7 months to a total alcoholic, functional in all ways, but a drunk nevertheless. He hid it from me until after we were married. I knew he drank a few beers a day, but not also at least a 1/2 pint of vodka, too, straight from the bottle. How can I describe ... (99 words)

Extremely happy with my bf, but I still enjoy other male attention. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, i dont know whats going on with me. i am extremely happy with my boyfriend of 7 months, but i still enjoy other male attention. i really feel my bf is the one, but i enjoy others giving me comments e.g. on my myspace site, or previous interests chatting on msn. i think ... (86 words)

Can men have an orgasm and not ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is something ive always wondered. I know when men cum they ejaculate but can they cum as in have an orgasm and not ejaculate and can they have orgasm after they have ejaculated? Theres no particular reason i'm asking it just soemthing i've always wondered about.... (47 words)

I still have feelings for him but is it time now to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6159 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - When I was in my mid teens my cousin came to stay with us. I hadn't really known him before but while he stayed with us he got to know me and one night kissed me. When we met up again months later we ended up carrying on from where we left off (nothing intimate as such just ... (442 words)

What should I do if I love someone and he keeps going out with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi what if i love someone,but he keeps going out with other girls?and what should i do when he traveled abroad?because he will.. im really confused about what i should do. i need your help.... (38 words)

My husband's parents cause us to fight all the time because of their bickering, how to tell them without risking them to destroy my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband's parents won't butt out of our business they try to tell us how to live our lives and raise our two children. They don't respect us as parents and they cause us to fight all the time because of their bickering, how do I let them know they are causing so many ... (66 words)

How does a person reclaim her dignity in a situation like this? He says I'm not mature enough to be friends with him after the break up...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

- Hope someone can help. My boyfriend and I split about three months ago. The reason was that he was seeing someone else on and off. I could not handle it. I had wanted to meet to clear the air but he did not want to. That mean't that much of the ending was done on email. We had ... (241 words)

Since she cheated, I feel I've been too clingy in fear of something bad happening again. How can I curb this issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there I'm a male, 25. I have been with my girlfriend (she is 24) for about 10 months or so. Several months earlier, she had cheated on me (with her ex) and it really hit me like a truck. I think I was feeling a wave of depression for about a week. Anyway, things have ... (304 words)

He gets defensive about the ex girlfriends that keep calling and that makes me more nervous! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. But his ex girlfriends still call him, alot. I have asked him to stop talking to them, or at least tell me when he does. ( he had been hiding it and I found out through a friend) He gets defensive and that makes me more ... (65 words)

How the hell can I convince him that this actually can work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - (sorry bout the lenght of this question, but you need some backround info...) Okay, so I'm 15 and he's 18. (we dont live in the states, so its leagal to have a relationship with a person over 18 if u're under 18, so its not a problem leagally) Anyways. I know that he is attra... (585 words)

We get married in a couple of weeks and he says he doesn't want kids, whereas I do. We both have a child from previous relations...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here goes me and my b/f love each other very much we are planning to get married in a couple weeks but he don't wont anymore kids but i do he has one who is 16 and i have one who is 5 he says he is to old which i don't think he is he is 35 but he says he is and i don't know ... (85 words)

What do I do when all I want is to run back to the one who made me miserable? We're still in love...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - I broke up with my fiance about two weeks ago because he was emotionally abusive. The problem is, we are still in love with each other, and I can't get him out of my head! I know it takes time, but a part of me just wants to pick up my phone and call him (though I changed my ... (119 words)

Cheated on and lied to. I feel I might never have forgiven him and don't feel womanly enough for him. Confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a little over 3 years. We have been together since highschool, we were each others first in everything. I love him and think the world of him. about 5 years ago he cheated on...when he was really drunk and hanging out with guys I hate, when he told ... (191 words)

What does " time off/break" mean in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well first of all me and my partner have been dating for a year and 8 months. He tells me that my problem is "lying" and it gets him angry. Even the smallest lie it gets him so mad. I haven't been lying to him for the past 4 months. Just a few days ago i called him private ... (562 words)

He doesn't ejaculate during a blowjob!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love giving my boyfriend oral but I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards as he has never cum during a blowjob. He definitely reacts to it and it makes him quiver and there is a climax of pleasure but nothing ever comes out. I usually only use my mouth during a ... (68 words)

What should I do at the cinema?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M) age 30-35 - right ive managed to ask this girl out to the cinema but im not shure what film to see or what to do? should put my arm round her or not? plz plz help! is there any films sutable that some one could recomend? and does any one have any hints for impressing girls at the cinema. ... (64 words)

When we meet up should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm in a long dist reltaionship. We're meeting up soonish. we havn't cn eachother in 2 months butkept in contact. I want to tell him I love him coz i do and i miss him loadz but I'm nt sure he feels the same I kno he likes me a lot but i dnt know whether he loves me. I wa... (108 words)

He told me that the only thing that's stopping us getting back together is his family problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well ihave been dating this guy for over a year and he broke up with me. We are coinsidered on a timeout. HIs reasons were that he gets mad when i get jealous and i told him i would try to improve and it has been a long trial. Well alsothere are some things at home that ... (166 words)

I'm 62 and have lost interest in sex. What could be the matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age - I lost interest in sex altogether with my husband or any other male. I am not a lesbian either. I am 62 years old and just lost interest. What's the matter with me. My doctor said this is normal for someone my age.... (47 words)

I have a phobia about letting him see my vagina. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been hitting on 8 months, but i'm too self-concious to let him see my vagina, we have sex often enough but i dont let him see it. how can i get over it, its like a phobia, i shake and go insane if he tries to go near it! And he also wants me to star... (89 words)

I get nervous around him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stop thinking about my friend. Its draining because i like him so much that every little thing he does effects me. Things never used to be like this between us but lately when its just us two i get really nervous and things get really awkward. I dont know if he feels ... (94 words)

How can I reduce teenage spots?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Just a quick question... Is there a way of reducing teenage spots? i don't have acne but still i'm very paranoid by my skin! Thanks xx... (28 words)

He can't have a meaningful discussion without disagreeing with me and then breaking off. What do you think of this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance has broken off with me off and on more than 10times this year, and im emotionally stressed out. on top of this, he continues to threaten especially if i comment on something he doent like. once, i asked him if he is having some internet affair cause he would work 11... (354 words)

I'm in agony because I had my belly-buuton pierced. What could have gone wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, I'm a little worried about my belly button piercing which i had done about 6 weeks ago...Just recently i've become in agony with it [in the last two days] I can't even bend over with it and i struggle to sit down. I don't wanna see a doctor as i know that this isn't an ... (155 words)

I love her, she likes me, but we don't want to hurt anyone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my mates girl and she likes me to but we dont want to screw things up, wat should i do?... (24 words)

Does my unwillingness to mess araound with boys make me more of a catch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - loads of people in my year are doing loads of stuff with a boy one of my close freinds has wanked off two boys is she a slut? i think she is but other people say shes not and we are only 14 is there somthing wrong with me or am i the only sane one that has the actual decency ... (87 words)

I'm 7 months pregnant and I feel unloved, used and worthless!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im now 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend has become more distant as the pregnancy has progressed. I have tried absoloutely everything to 'fix things' from being as attentive as possible to accepting all the crap he puts me through (arranging to meet other women, not spending time ... (215 words)

Where have his feelings gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a pure relationship with a guy since last 4.5 yrs. We both luv each other but he has changed, he is so bussy that he hardly finds time for me.Sometimes he is quite rude but at times too good, he never tells lie from me. I asked several times calmly that if u feel you ... (219 words)

I've never had a boyfriend and I end up lying about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 nearly 15 and ive never had a boyfriend corse ive fancied them and stuff but ive never had an actual relationship i dont know what to do all my friends have and i end up lieing to them!... (41 words)

Is it harmful when dedication takes the form of devotion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How much dedication is important by two people in a relationship for it to survive, last. What if one person is not sensitive towards the needs of the other? Is it harmful when dedication takes the form of devotion? Can a person be dedicated to 2-3 people simultaneously without ... (55 words)

He's got a car - should I go and meet him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Moderator's note: This is the same young lady who asked a few posts ago about having sex with her 16 year-old boyfriend!! (or at least - it's from the same computer) well. theres this guy and i like him right hes ok n hes fit n stuff but ive onli actualli met him in person on... (213 words)

I hate my family life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my family life im 13 and there are so many family problams I hate everyone in my family there so unfair and horrible. I want to leave home. I have a week off school for half term and i would rather go to school just to escape! What can I Do?... (53 words)

My neurotic sister is causing problems. What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age - My 88year old dad died almost a year ago. My younger sister (45years old) took it very hard (she's neurotic anyway). We have a great deal of property that belongs to us all (Dad had 4 children) my sister will not cooperate in the selling o the property and hasnt spoken to any ... (103 words)

We're ready to go 'all the way'. Will it spoil our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

20 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - right. i know i am too young for sex but i feel like me and my boyfriend are both ready. he feels the same and we love each other loads. we know all the risks, i am on the pill, he has condoms, we are both clean and both virgins. we have been speaking about it for over a year ... (323 words)

Am I misreading the signals??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! There's a boy who I really like at school and sometimes I think he likes me back but I'm worried in case I'm misreading the signals. When we're in class I can feel him looking over at me but when I turn around his heads buried in his textbook. Does this mean somethi... (149 words)

Are sex noises a turn-on??

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! This is sort of a question for males, but female input is also appreciated. im 17, not that that is really important right now, but i was wondering: do guys enjoy it when women make noises during sex? is it a turn on, or just really annoying? any answers? thanx... (56 words)

Is a female who performs oral sex still a virgin???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a curious question, if a female did oral sex once but she never had any sexual intercourse before, Would she still be considered a virgin?... (27 words)

Are there any signes that a girl is comfortable with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How can i know if the girl is comfortable with me or not while i talk with her from the first time? I know smiling is a good sign, is there other signs...... (33 words)

Women, on a date for coffee, what questions would annoy you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Girls, if you met a guy and went for a coffee, would you be annoyed if he asks about you, such as what do you usually do in your spare time? what colours do you like? what kind of music do you listen? whats your hobbies?,etc.....What questions will make you annoyed and not ... (60 words)

Why is a man being a virgin in the west a shame?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Why people in the west think that an adult man to be virgin is a shame? I think being a virgin, because you don't want to put yourself with someone who doesn't deserve to make love with and to be with a lady who shares the same beleif, is something to proud of...make sense, ... (108 words)

Different cultures, do girls expect a kiss, or sex on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont understand your culture. As i came from different culture background...I need to know something about dating.. Do you usually guys kiss in the first date or have sex? I dont like to have sex nor kiss from the first night, but this may turn away the girl!..do girls ... (173 words)

I should forget her, but I can't stop thinking about her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'd really like some advice or opinions from people who have been in a similar situation to me. Firstly, I have been with my girlfriend for 5.5 years ( I am also a girl) and we have just decided to break up. We both agreed it was for the best. One of the reasons for this ... (244 words)

Any advise on what I should do to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Here's my story, me and my ex girlfriend broke up like 3 or 4 weeks ago and we went out for 4 months. We broke up because I wasn't being affectionate, sweet, caring. Now I probably should have leave it alone for a few weeks, but I didnt and I tried to get back with her... (260 words)

Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex because i thought forsur... (134 words)

How do I get through these three weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

- My boyfriends in the army and going away on an practice training session He will be away for three weeks I saw him last night and had a great time with him We have been togetheer 18 months and are real happy We are so into each other But I already miss him loads and three weeks ... (85 words)

Is this interest or just friendliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm female and I take martial arts. I ahve a sensei who has been acting weird around me. He does weird stuff like: - If I get injured, he's overly concerned and one time I pulled a calf muscle which wasn't serious but he massaged it. - He does little touchie feelie thing... (558 words)

What can I do to look closer to my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I look very young for my age. Depending on the age of the person I've heard I look anywhere from 12 to 21. However, VERY few people have said 21. I am 29 and I think this is a huge problem with dating. I want to date men in their 30s but the only ones that ask me out are ... (116 words)

I don't want to fall for him to quick this time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello agony aunts and uncles!. okay heres the deal, I recently got back with my ex, he asked for me back. Well some people who answer all my questions on this boy probably know the whole story. We were split up for a few weeks and now were back together, I told him how I ... (197 words)

My kids are out of control, and my wife and I fight over it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My 3 kids of ages 11, 9 and 6 are always fighting among themselves. I being the father have a little control. I mean when I am home they take notice of me, but for the mother they dont seem to listen her. I always ask them to behave but in worst cases I find myself shouting ... (300 words)

I falsely accused my husband of cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I accused my husband of 6 years of cheating on me, because I saw a phone number I did not recognize. I did not ask him first, I just jumped the gun. What can I do to earn his trust back and get over my own trust issue?... (49 words)

We've been trying to have a baby for over a year, any advice.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are trying to have a baby. We have been trying for over a year now. I am looking for tips on how to conceive easier. Positions, times etc...without using any fertility clinics? Can anyone help? ... (39 words)

I don't want to loose my bf or my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I KNOW MY BOYFRIEND SINCE THE SEVENTH GRADE..WE STARTED DATING 8 MONTHS AGO BUT MY PARENTS DOESN'T APPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE IS AFRICAN AMERICAN.. WE ARE BOTH IN LOVE BUT HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH ME AT THE MOMENT BECAUS EOF MY PARENTS SO I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO ... (69 words)

What should I do about my love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i love him soo much, we used to be soo close. we started saying we were together a while ago now but there is a huge age gap of 11years and it is hard for him to love me because he is used to living with his girlfriends, and as im 15 and he is 26 we cant live ... (191 words)

I just can't seem to just give up on her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm going to try and keep this short and simple. Me and ex-girlfriend were together off and on for 2 years. We had alot of good times and alot of ruffs ones also. I loved this girl and i still do. She lied about certain things sometimes(some not to hurt me) and some she ... (441 words)

Is this considered abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Was my ex-fiance abusive? He never hit me, but he told me that his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and he slapped her on the face. Does that count as abuse? I'm not with him anymore, but I was just wondering if someone could give me some insight. He even told the counselor (that ... (101 words)

She "wants to take a break"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend (of 4 months) recently told me that she "wants to take a break" but assures me she doesn't want to break up with me. She thinks we've been taking things too fast and wants to take a "step back". She finds it really hard to explain why she feels this way. ... (78 words)

I lied to her and lost her trust, what can I do? I still love her and want to marry her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I messed up really bad recently in my 3-year relationship. During those 3 years, we took a break for 4 months and I had a little bit more fun then I led her to believe. She asked me over and over again if I had done anything at all and I denied it all. Well now, she was ... (212 words)

How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?... (22 words)

Is my penis a normal size for a 13 year old?

This question has 140 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - err hi i was wondering if this is normal im 13 and my penis is 5.4 inches long i mean i think thats good but is it ok to be so big so young?... (38 words)

Any suggestions to find out what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age - hi i have been split from my husband for 6 months he wants me back and we have been seeing each other again for 3 months but i cant make my mind up whether i want to go back .i dont want to lose him completely but i just cant make my mind up .any suggestions what i could try to ... (68 words)

I'm unsure if I should stay with my boyfriend or move on to an older, mature guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - should i finish my boyfriend of 14 months to go out with a hot guy thats older, more attractive and more mature?? im 15 and have been with my 16 year old boyfrind for 14 months but a guy i met a few months ago asked me to go out with him. we meet all the time n kiss ad stuff ... (77 words)

I feel used and can't give away my virginity again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for going on 7 years. We just had our first baby 4 months ago. from the beginning of our relationship he has always told me that I was the only person he has ever slept with. When I first started talking to him 7 years ago...I was a virgin...I was ... (188 words)

I'm debating on whether to remain friends with him or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about a year ago. Just a usual hi and by thing. He would come over to my place of employment every so often because he's a friend of one of my employees. Then I met this young lady who just recently graduated from college and is currently working in the s... (329 words)

Does he have feelings and care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day i went to see a guy i love on his birthday. We spent the afternoon together and when we were sitting in his room he was staring at me so intensely for ages. He finds it very difficult to show emotion and when we were saying bye he hugged me and i told him he gave ... (165 words)

I feel so isolated taking care of my disabled girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

20 October 2007 (M)

age - e was my girl friend 20 years ago, she went into hospital to have her womb removed because of being in a bad state, after op she got a virus that attacked her system, and disabled her, over the last 19 years i have looked after her every day and night, she needs medication ... (204 words)

Is is ok that my guy watches porn? It makes me unconfortable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

20 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for a long time now and we're thinking about getting married one day(I only mention this because I don't want it to seem like just some little relationship). Well, I know for a fact that he still watches porn. Something i think maybe single guys should ... (168 words)

Can a long distance relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

20 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to do that because he will come n v... (239 words)