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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:The man that i had a serious disagreement before two weeks called me again. I had decided not call him again and i was very disappointed about the way that he spoke to me before two weeks because it seemed that he wasn't really interested in me. Now that he called me again i was polite to him and positive when he asked me to meet him again for talking. I didn't say to him anything about our conversation before two weeks. When i met him he was very polite in the start. We talk about a lot of things. I said to him that i was disappointed with our conversation before two weeks. He seemed that he didn't remember and i understood that at that time he was angry and he hurt me. However, i understand that he likes his freedom and although he likes intimate relationship he wants to be free. I told him that i want a serious relationship but i showed him that i was physically attracted by him. When i left he told me that he would call me again and was really good to me. I am confused. How should i react? I should wait him to call me? I don't know if it was good that i was polite to him on the phone or i should have spoken to him hard. And if i meet him again should i tell him about a serious relationship or be more relaxed and enjoy only the time that we would be together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): Its seems like he's trying to pull the same man move that 99.9% of sexy attractive guys try to pull on us females everyday. Basically he wants you around, he likes your conversation and he wants the sex, BUT not the label. He doesnt want to be trapped in a relationship right now. Dont feel bad because a man usually doesn tknow what he has until he loses it or years down the line. Basically if your looking for a serious relationship your looking in the wrong place and if you can settle for "friends with benefits" then he's the right man for you. Atleast he was honest enough to tell you the truth because most guys will play it off like there all about the relationship thing just to get in your pants, but he told you up front thats not what he wants. From here on out its up to you. I'd say either leave his life being the one girl who never let him have it or play the sick game of being single and use him (like he's using you) until you find the "ONE" .. Life is fun.. Enjoy It..
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Slow down baby girl!
Take one step at a time.
What you did was fine, just receive the call and keep being yourself. After words, when you both know each other better, ask him about a more serious relationship. Until then, just enjoy the time you have with him. Everybody makes mistakes, give him one more chance. Who knows? He just might redeem himself, and bring it up himself.
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