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writes: I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a woman I have known for years. She is currently gettin divorced,but I started as her friend through the whole thing and then we started gettin serious. I fell in love w her as did she..we both know it was wrong cuz legally she is still married. We broke it off last month,still on good talkin terms we are still good friends. My question is,Why do we still have strong feeelings for each other if we are not suppose to be together??
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 well true love can wait for ever !so wait after she getts her divorce and get back to her.... gd luck
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reader, agonyunclechris  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 hey
once you fall in love with somebody the chances are you will love them for a long long time
especially if you cannot have them
so if you are or aren't ment to be together ,cupid has fired his arrow on your accord and its lodged there now
the chances you will fall out of love with her in the circumstances now are almost impossible
perhaps if both of you are willing to commit you should get back together
after the devorce is settled and she has a clear mind to think
but at the moment the best thing to do is to be there for her during the devorce as it will be a very stressfull time
take care
chris
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 If you both love each other, then that's why you have strong feelings for each other. If she's getting divorced as you say, then just wait until the divorce goes through, and then give it another shot. If you love someone who loves you back, then you should be with that person. And if you're worried about all the legal stuff, just wait until that's out of the way before taking things any further with her.
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx +, writes (24 October 2007):
 What?
She is getting divorced. When she is divorced, start your relationship again. If I were you, I would do something about her husband. If he is not treating her right, stand up for her. I do not know the full story so I can not help you out much.
However, I do know that if you both feel for each other, and just because of legal issues dose not mean it was not meant to be. Just take things in your hands, and speak to her about it before you do anything.
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