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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to stop missing him so much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I went up to visit my Mom and a guy I liked this summer, we ended up getting extremly close and going out. He asked me to marry him, I said yes. We are quite young but we have also known each other our entire lives and I couldn't be happier with him. I had to come back hom... (220 words)

Why does she never take responsibility.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - why is it that my girlfriend will never admit to doing or being wrong even when she knows it,is it just ignorance or pride as its driving me mad and a wedge between us ... (34 words)

Why do women stay with cheaters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

- Why do some women stay with husbands who cheat on them.... (11 words)

I'm confused and very angry.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I don't know if you can help but this is driving me mad. I was married and wife had affair so i divorced her. I'm 38 and met a woman online over two years ago. We chatted for around 4 month. Being totally upfront and honest about our past, our sexual encounters, one... (254 words)

Is she too old for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Simple question that has been eating at me for a few days. I met a great woman and have tons in common with her. we get along great, make good friends, talk for hours and just adore each other. We clicked instantly and i really like her. Only thing is...I'm 25...she's 39...... (86 words)

The last girl walked all over her. What to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i posted a question early about how i like my lesbian friend and she says she wants just friendship......Well here recently it has gotten ten times worse everytime we are around each other drinking hanging out or just chilling like me and her....its long eye contact and ... (475 words)

I've talked to her and it doesn't seem to help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm 21 years old in my senior year of college. i've been dating a girl for about 4 months or so now and she is very beautiful, smart, funny, etc. all the good stuff you look for in a g/f. my problem is this: we have arguments over the dumbest things, because she takes ... (122 words)

Any tips for my first date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need some tips please. this guy asked me out and my first ever date is coming up yippeee lol were going to the cinema. any tips.....like is there anything i shud do or say or shudnt say or do....anything wud be great and u will hear back from me if u answer thanks ellie... (58 words)

Does this age difference matter?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Iam 28 years old and my boyfriend is 51 years old. Will this age difference create problems down the road if we want to get married?... (30 words)

How do I ask for his phone number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, theres this guy that I REALLY fancy, and I'm pretty sure he likes me too, and we dance together all the time (our friends have parties often) and such.. but I don't know how to go about asking for his phone #. After that I think out relationship would escalate after that, ... (70 words)

Me and him have something going and my friend wants him back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno what to do because i cant tell ... (88 words)

Do I need to stop this affair, how can I when I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop this affair. Im so confused I've been having on off fling with a lad who is also my best friend, I'm in love with him. This would be great and would work perfectualy except he has a gorlfriend who I persuaded him to ask out around 2 years ago, at the time I was ... (152 words)

How do I focus on my marriage, when I still think about the man I couldn't date as he was my brother's best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have beening carrying a flame for my brother best friend for a long time, I was his 1st but we never dated because of my brother, we had a fling for a while without him know and hooked up again, I am now married for one year, but I think of him a lot since we never spoke ... (107 words)

Why does my boyfriend keeps allowing his mother to interfere to the point she does things to destroy us saying it's in his best interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and he has allowed his mother to interfer to the point we haven't been able to get married and we don't live together any more. She does things to destroy us and tells him it's all in his best interest. why does my boyfriend keeps ... (77 words)

The best approach to ask a girl for her phone number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i want to ask a girl for her phone number. we have spoken to each other for a while now and we are lab partners at uni. can anyone tell me what the best approach would be??... (38 words)

Had my period for 14 days now, what could be causing the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had my period for 14 days now! I made an emergency apt with my Gyn. but thats 5 days from now. What the hell is wrong with my Uterus? I usually have long heavy periods like 9 days (which is still ridiculous) but this takes the cake. Does anyone have any clue what could ... (82 words)

Is nsa sex ok with my friend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just split up with my boyfriend and i have been in touch with a lad from school who i always had a soft spot for but we were good friends. We have just been talking and he was someone who didnt no my ex so it was nice to talk. im not ready for a relationship and wont for... (92 words)

Should I abandon my morals to boost my self-esteem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age - Hi there, I'm a Christian and seem to be have trouble in relationships. I seem to end up getting tricked and cheated on all the time. I'm honest and truthful, but seem to get tricked and played. I feel like I put a lot of effort and get little in return. I know a lot of pe... (107 words)

Should I quit my job to get away from the married co-worker I'm having an affair with? Tried to end it many times, but cannot.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a Married co-worker (Man) for the past 3 years. I have tried several times to end, but can not. Should I just quit my job all together to get away from the urges??... (40 words)

Am I sinning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ..What are religous views on masturbating? I don't know if im in the wrong?... (14 words)

Big is not bad, but I still don't like being fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age - Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I know I am obese!! I weigh around 14 stone and, Im 5Foot"3Inches Tall. I try to stop myself from eating and do exercise but It only works for as long as two days then I give up because I don't see a difference. I know I won't change ... (331 words)

Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I once went out with a guy for one year and six months. Then we broke up because of a big argument we had. We had many arguments before - but we had got past them. After a month of trying to get him back I gave up and I have had five other boyfriends since. But every time I'm ... (166 words)

I have strong feelings for both, should I let one go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had fallen for a guy in the city where I used to live. But because I was moving, we never have made anything more of our relationship but have kept in close contact. I began dating someone 2 months ago where I now live. I'm so torn between who I am really in love with. I ... (75 words)

How long before these buises disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...this is kind of embarrassing but ill say it anyways. My BF and i were in the back seat the other day and he started fingering me. He can usually get three fingers in but he wanted to try four so he did. The problem is it really hurt and felt like he wasnt in....now i have ... (124 words)

Loving him has changed me but haw can I change him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i like a boy and he likes me ,i know that from a freind but his freind likes me too .and the boy i like doesn't want his freind to get mad at him for dating me (i don't like his freind) i really wanna date him and love him but i can't what should i do??? plz advice and thanks.... (61 words)

He likes me, but won't let go of his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, good day to anyone who is reading me. i wish there is anyone out there to give me suggestions to solve my problem. my problem is i met this guy in a chat room, and after that we grew really cloze. At first it was only friendship but i think now it involves a lot of ... (375 words)

Can I cope with being a single parent in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am about to leave a relationship that I have been in for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son. After years of trying I have realised that I am 100% not happy and really just want to move on. Of course I want to also ensure my son is happy too and will do my best to ensure that ... (159 words)

How can I find out her size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help me with women's clothing sizes. My girlfriend wears a Medium in blouses and tops, but I want to buy her a nice dress without her knowing. I went shopping at the mall and they were listed by numbers like 4-5 and 5-6. What do these numbers mean? How strange!? ... (98 words)

Am I lying to myself, or am I still in love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He is my first love and boyfriend, my first kiss, i lost my virginity to him, bascially he's my first everything. He's dated and had experience in the past which is fine. Anyway, from the moment i met him i immediately liked him, and as ... (569 words)

How do I participate in 'Christian' sex and satisfy a woamn after marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i really would like to know as to how i can have sex after marriage. there are different styles of having sex this days however what are the right ways or styles of sex that are accepted for a christian couple to practise. please i need any respond and advises thankyou i wa... (106 words)

How can I go about keeping him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been dating this guy for about 9 months and everything was going great....he and i both agreed that we didnt want anything too serious at the moment but we wanted to be with each other....but recently he is trying to break up with me cuz he said that he doesnt see our ... (298 words)

Is he trying to get us back in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I probabaly know the answers here but need some validation from others as well. I was seeing a member of management at my job at the beginning of this year. Well, the people at our work started huge allegations about him and I so we stopped immediately as we didnt want to lose ... (280 words)

Can I make my face look older? How?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 14 years old and about 5"3 when i go out shopping e.t.c i always seem pretty tall and there are a lot of people smaller than me but i have a bit of a baby face it lets me down and makes be look younger any ideas to make my face look older and to suit my more mature ... (64 words)

Is this texting cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently found my boyfriends phone bill hidden and after looking through it i noticed that just weeks after our baby was born he was constantly texting a number whilst he was at work. The were 41 texts to this number and lasted for 6 days then nothing again. I rang the numb... (335 words)

How do I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age - Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do... (51 words)

We don't see each other as often as we did in the beginning, do you think that is the reason why we have these silly arguments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 33 y.o. female dating a 28 y.o. male, our relationship for the most part is great, but there are times when we get into an arguement for seemingly no good reason and problems that he has with me would just come up, whereas when we are fine, he has no problems with me. ... (173 words)

My daughter's father came back, I don't agree with him signing back for parental rights - which he voluntarily gave up and now blames me for - so he doesn't want to talk anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to say but I still love my daughter's dad despite the horrible things he's done and said to me. I left him because of his lies, cheating...but I still love him. I moved on with my life and then he decides he wants to come back in our lives (my daught... (171 words)

We've had excellent sex but recently while in the act his errection disappears. Is it me? (he insists not)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of one year and i have amazing mind blowing sex, but just recently while we are having sex his errection disappears. This has happened on more than one occasion and when it does he gets quite frustrated with the whole ordeal. He says hes not stressed at home or at work, ... (167 words)

Regrets from your youth? I missed out on the parties, the girls, been rather lonely and unpopular...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Do any of you guys ever have regrets from your youth? You know I am about to turn 30 and I look back on my life and it hasn't been that great. I mean I was a loner in high school. I never had any friends, never went to any parties, or went out with a girl or anything. And to ... (353 words)

How can I get her for life friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I love a girl so much that i want her to be my wife as the love is so much that i don't feel love for any other girl the way i feel for this girl. She's just 20yrs old and said she won't go into a relationship until she gets to higher institution of learning. Please,... (131 words)

I can't cum - am I weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, my friends tell me all the time that they masturbate and that its really nice adn we also discuss there relationship with boys like which boys made them cum the fastest and who was the best and fingering and other things but i have never had an orgasm and that includes... (165 words)

I am lost - please help me get over my sef-consciousness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 16 and i have only been going out with my bf for about 3 months but i have known him and we have liked each other for about a year we are really close and talk quite alot and we have both discovered that we want to have sex with each other, it's just that even though w... (126 words)

Is he giving me space or ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago now. It's his 21st birthday in 2 days and I feel like I have to acknowledge him in some way, but don't want to look desparate. We'd been going out for 2 years, and were friends before that. He'd always give me really cool ... (190 words)

How do I make the most of the first kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is visiting me in 2 months. How do i make our date extra special... and how do i make the most of our first kiss. I'm madly in love with him... (34 words)

How do you forgive someone who keeps breaking promises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 years.Recently since he started working as a lineman he has been a total jerk. he lies to me about everything! he promises he wont lie again and the next day he does the exact same thing. What do i do to make him tell m the ... (82 words)

His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of the responses on here was tha... (330 words)

Do I let him know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

- i need serious help. Ive liked someone for 3 years its been on and off but now he says he doesn't fancy me anymore. For months ive said i dont like him incase it ruins our friendship or he thinks he is better than me. But yesterday i got drunk with him and a few friends and i ... (162 words)

How should I feel after 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with the most lovely guy for five months. The problem is I don't love him and he doesn't love me. I am not sure if I should by now? He is lovely, we get on really well and have fun together but I don't want to find myself in a relationship where ... (176 words)

How can I get to meet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this guy on AIM for over 3 months now. we seem to click realy well and usualy end up chatting for about half an hour too an hour most days. its usualy him that starts the conversation. the thing is he hasnt never asked to see a photo of me and hasnt ... (98 words)

I want to live abroad. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello sir, thanks very much for the oportunity geven to me to express my feelings. my question, please am from west africa nigeria, am a very honest young man. but because of the bad reputation of my country people, i find it very difficult to find a relationshep abroad. ... (113 words)

Is he the one for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - few months ago, I met this amazing guy. we chat everyday and met couple times, shortly I fell in love with him. but unfortunately, I found out that he's still in a relationship with other girl and just broke up 4 days before I know about their relationship. Until now, he said ... (153 words)

How do I catch him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and his friend went out clubbing one night last week. My boyfriends friend told his girlfriend that my boyfriend brought a girl back to the flat and they slept in living room all night. He doesn't know if something went on. The girlfriend told me but i'm in ... (68 words)

Do I stay safe or take a passionate gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, how to makes this short... I love two men. Man one I have been with for almost a year and a half and was engaged to for a week. But a big problem, he's cheated on me and he lies...ALOT! But he's stopped lying to me... I think. Man two I'd had a crush on for ... (207 words)

When can I expect the pain to subside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is an alcoholic and on steroids. His behaviour and attitude have changed dramatically in the past two months, and as such (through self preservation) I've had to leave him. Has anyone else had problems with the love of their life being an alcoholic or on steroids, and... (84 words)

Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend, who called our home line and held the phone(twice tonight). It's a payphone, so I call the phone # and hold the phone (juvenile, yes I stopped), however, she proceeds to curse me then tell me how I'm not wanted anywhere? I don't ... (112 words)

I admitted to something I didn't do. How can I win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age - I met a nice guy from Burbank, CA, and in the two months that we've been chatting we fell in love. Using his words, we found a connection. He's not been into a relationship for 5 long years and i've never been into a relationship for so long a time. Fact is this is the first ... (428 words)

I'm tired of her mood swings. How do I deal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a beautiful and smart woman for a year and a half now. After a rough start, it's been for the most part really good. But she is a bit bi-polar. When she's not working, she's the most wonderful woman in the world, but when she has a job, she becomes so mean. ... (181 words)

It is hard to be away from her, but she is growing away

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What do I do when being away from her is way too much to take? It almost feels like it is not worth the pain. Most of which relates to me being convinced that she is cheating, or wants someone else. Even as I left her today, she acted different. When her mom dropped me off, ... (104 words)

Is he trying to attract me by making me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We are on the verge of getting back together. Why is he trying to make me jealous. He is kind of controlling and he knows I'm jealous of his other female friends. Recently I've not been acting jealous towards them and he doesn't know if I really want him back. Is he trying to ... (58 words)

Best friends,..or more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My best friend is a girl. I have feelings for her for quite some time. Anyway, we came to a point where i can openly tell her that i love her. She also tells me the same thing. Thing is, we are more than just friends. We are very physically and emotionally close, and we do ... (152 words)

BF cannot open up emotionally. He has been humiliated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, my boyfriend (34) and I (32) have been seeing each other for 4 months, but we are finding it really hard to communicate with each other. We love each other dearly but find we are already losing our way and don't know what to do to stop it. He is very much the strong ... (309 words)

How can I keepi t alive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 year, but we have been together on and off for about 5 years, 2 weeks ago he moved all the way around the side of the world. New Zealand. Right now i dont feel like hes putting enough effort into keeping us alive. How do i keep us alive?... (63 words)

I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated. She was so mad at me, and I am in tears about this. I don't understand why she thinks that it's so wrong!... (41 words)

I can turn myself on, but not with him (?)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've been going out with my bf for 2 weeks and we've become really close really quickly, and our relationship is pretty sexually intense you could say, although we haven't actually had sex yet. He says to me that he sees it as a failure if the girl doesn't come, an... (188 words)

Advice for kissing and dating, please... But, we're in a long distance relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm planning a date for my boyfriend and i. i've only kissed him once and that was my first kiss. can i get tips on kissing and on the date since we are in a long distance relationship?... (44 words)

I need a romantic christmas present for my Boyfriend. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

27 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heya i have been with my boyfriend for over a year but i wanted to get him something personal and special...but i have no idea what! i will obviously get him a big present which i already have in mind, but other than that i have no idea. i need something romantic and ... (63 words)