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female
age
41-50,
*olieneeds
writes:i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, family, people on the bus, ex relationships. Everybody. At first I thought it was insecurity now it's getting on my nerves. She checks the phone records. She takes the phone cords. Anyway she always apologizes and then does it again. Then talks bad about me to her family and mine and our friends. I don't understand her. Should I end this relationship? I want out but just don't know how to go about it.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Dear Colieneeds.
Judging by the facts you have stated,I believe your partner is suffering from a depressive disorder, you should really have her treated for this condition, before she really gets out of hand and does something really destructive,i think at this time you should stay with her through the treatment, and after that it is up to you, to make that decision.
Please let me now how you get on, i wish you luck.
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (24 October 2007):
 I think you need to take a break away from her for a few months, give her space and time to think about herself and YOU! She's going to make you feel ill if you are not careful, with depression or whatever. I think the most important aspect of any move is that you don't stay somewhere that makes your partner feel that you've found another woman! Yet moving somewhere on your own could be rather depressing in itself! As a last resort I think I'd rather be alone for a while than be driven to illness by this woman. You could always try to build a new friendship with another girl! I know it's not easy! I only wish I lived nearer to you so that I could give you some company and encouragement if you decided to move out! Best wishes to you!
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reader, jowin75 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 hi end this now, it will only get worse
you need to put yourself first as this relationship will destroy you,
go and stay with family for a while until you get yourself sorted,
sorry to sound brutal but action is needed sooner the better,
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