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Will it hurt?

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Question - (24 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Heey,

My boyfriend wants to finger me and I'd let him but I'm just worried about how many fingers he can get up :S..

I've fingered myself before and I can only get 1 up and I think he thinks he'll be able to get more up..

Nd if he tries to get more up will it hurt??

xx

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2007):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntto be blunt bout it...if you can get one..and he tries more than it will probarbly hurt you...remember you are still young and if he loves you then he will be patient...it does take time to get used to it.

good luck on whatever you decide

sparkii x

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A female reader, jowin75 United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2007):

jowin75 agony aunthi, it sounds to me when you say you would let him that you dont really want him to but maybe feel that if you dont he might leave you,

but if you are not ready then please dont or you will end up regretting it, if he truly likes you he will wait, if not he isnt the person you want to be with,

if you let him he will probably want more shortly after,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

It could hurt a little bit but try not to worry about it, i promise it won't be agonising and if it does hurt just tell him and he'll stop or be more gentle, i suggest you tell him just to try one finger first and work your way from there. Just try not to get too stressed about it after all it should be an enjoyable experience hope this has helped a little.

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