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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can we re-light our fire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started further education. I know it is had ... (100 words)

I need to know if she like me. How do I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i test the waters with a girl i like? Sometimes i feel she likes me and sometimes she doesn't. I want to find out, could i somehow hint her and see her reaction maybe by complimenting her? ... (43 words)

How do I tell her that I fancy her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - need desperate help. I want to tell my friend i have feelings for her. Both 17 and go college. I don't talk to her everyday but i need to tell her. I dunno how to do it. I will definately ask her out face to face. But i don't know if i should tell her in school? Take her out ... (107 words)

Could I be paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I got a yeast infection and my boyfriend bought a tablet in the pharmacy for me. When I asked how he knew what tablet to buy he said he got advice from the guys in work. I might be paranoid but what guy knows what tablet to buy for a yeast infection? Am I being paranoid? ... (56 words)

He's torn between his mother and me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys/gals. any advice would be appreciated. my fellas family are just driving me mad! ive been with my boyf for nearly 4 yrs now, both come to a point where we would like to get engaged and married. HOWEVER, his mom is just being a pain in the arse, shes baiscally saying, ... (162 words)

He has nude pictures of himself on his computer. How do I tackle him about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is moving in with me, therefore some of his stuff is already here.... like his computer. Last weekend i borrowed him my camera to take pictures at his job site. Today, I went on his computer to watch a movie and looked in his picture folder and found that along ... (80 words)

Is he suffering from commitment phobia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - After reading up on commitmentphobia I wonder if my ex suffers from this and that is the reason behind our break-up...I'm not sure how much I totally believe in it (versus just not being the right one), but I do think he has some intimacy/commitment issues that contributed to ... (1573 words)

His ex is trying to split us up. How do I keep my cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what do i do when all his ex is tryin to do is seperate us ? how do i keep my cool and keep it together ?? ... (27 words)

My husband wears my bikinis to dinner parties and shows porn fils at kids birthday parties. Should I divorce him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya, I'm 30 and have been married for 5 years. I'm sorry if this is really long but I want to get it off my chest, so to speak. In the past few months my husband's done some behaviour that's been embarrassing and in some cases, worrying. About 3 months ago we were at one... (466 words)

Should I work things out with my husband or go with this other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 11 years now with 3 children, but recently my husband has not been taking any notice of me we barely talk, hardly ever have sex or even do things as a family. 4 weeks ago i met a new man but he lives a plane ride away, he is a kind, warm and very loving ... (127 words)

Someone who abused me transfered to my college and is starting again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 years old with a boyfriend of 18 and we are very much in love. i have clinical depression (external) and my boyfriend is a great support for me , i was bullied all the way through highschool and they made my life even more of a misery than it already was for me, when i ... (242 words)

Should I keep loving him or forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - man ok see theres this guy and i am totally in love with him. We did go out before we were together for about 4 months and then he listened to a bunch of rumors and thought that i was cheating on him so he broke up with me i pleaded for him to take me back and he did but then ... (180 words)

Is it normal for sex to hurt at the beginning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started having sex for the first time with my boyfriend. He has been very gentle and careful and does a great job of foreplay. We have done it a few times since then, but the beginning still hurts. As it keeps going, it doesn't hurt nearly as much. But is it normal ... (65 words)

I like him, how do I go about meeting up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - where do i go from here. I've known this guy through a lot of my friends, and we've talked a little at parties. Although recently we've gotten closer, we often send flirty txt messages, and we have both hinted that we like eachother, and want to meet up. But so far that's as... (89 words)

I'm a geek. What do girls like in teens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - i was wondering, im a bit of a geek in my school. you know, small, fat, unconfident? im getting better confidence, more people are liking me but i want a girlfriend. i was wondering, what is it you girls like at early teens? how should i get a girlfriend? ps:i dont mean... (60 words)

I am gay, should I come out of the closet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - im gay, should i come out the closet? my parents are VERY homophobic. just yesterday they saying how being gay is such a waste.... (24 words)

What does it mean when my husband told me another women respected and knows that he was married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to know what does it mean when my husband told me that another woman respected and knows that he was married? Plese help me i've been thinking about it but unsure. ummm... during that time my husband was always over at the neighbor house and i the other... (211 words)

How do I get rid of this irritation during my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- it appears that when im due on my period i get thrush.. i dont understand why.. i think its thrush anyway because its itchy and red and really sore.. how do i get rid of this and why am i getting this? is it because of the pill im taking? (micro grynon) please help its annoying ... (66 words)

Masturbation - is it common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?... (33 words)

Who do I choose? My friend or my first crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - For those of you who don't know what's going on, please go to the following link to read about it. thanks. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-tell-her-how-i-feel.html Well, I haven't quite told the whole story. It's a bit complicated, but I'll try to make it easy to ... (323 words)

Are there any urbal products my boyfriend can use to keep an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 36 and having some erectile dysfunction problems. He can get an erection but after 10 or so minutes he can't maintain it. He doesn't want to use viagra. Can anyone suggest any herbal products they have tried which are effective? Thanks for any help you can give ... (53 words)

Dating advice, can anyone give me advice on what to do on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

- Can anyone give me advice on dating? I now have confidence to ask girls out but I have no idea what to do on the date. And please do not say "just be yourself" because I already know this.... (41 words)

He keeps giving me mixed signals - what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im really confused. i really like this guy called **** from my part time job but hes giving me really mixed messages as to how he feels back. when everyone from work goes out for a few drinks hes really flirty with me, and if we go round someones house to watch films, we always ... (307 words)

Will I gain weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey .. Okay I have been thinkin about going to the gym. I am naturally very slim but not fit at all whatsoever ! I would like to tone my muscles .. not build them and I would like to use running machines and things like that to enhance my fitness. Will I gain weight doing this ... (63 words)

Do we have too much sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and my bf nearly 18 and we've been going out for 6mnths now. I love him more than anyone. But whenever we have the oppurtunity we'll have sex- multiple times usually and are very adverturous! Its starting to feel dirty and meaningless, but i love the feeling of being ab... (80 words)

I plan to marry again. What is the Catholic stance on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am Catholic, I was married previously in a civil ceremony, but 4yrs into the marriage it was blessed by my Parish Priest. My spouse is deceased (3 yrs ago) I am planning to be remarried, this individual is not Catholic, but is divorced. What do I have to do, to be married ... (58 words)

How do I stay away from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i'v known this guy for a year now we are more friend then any thing. I have really strong feelings for him, from when we met we have always kissed and cuddled and things you do when your into someone but he has alwAys told he didnt wont a girlfriend. At first i was happy wi... (210 words)

I want us to be more than friends - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I am falling for a good friend. They don't know I feel this way but I know they don't feel the same way. I don't want to tell them because it could ruin our relationship as friends and she will proberbly shoot me down. I don't know what to do and it's annoying me so ... (105 words)

Is there any hope for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age - I recently made a big mistake with my boyfriend. Something hurtful, really hurtful. I called to say sorry but he said that this time he'd had enough, that I keep doing the same things that destroy our relationship. I told him 'please help me on a human level'. He said ... (157 words)

Can a man be "raped" by a woman?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know if it is possible for a man to have sex with a woman against his will?... (21 words)

I saw them together and I ended up in tears. I don't want to lose her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have been together for a year on the 15th and i love her like no other, she is the sunshine of my world but a few months ago she began flirting with one of my friends, ive been cheated on in the past with all the serious relationships ive been in (3) and ... (328 words)

How can my boyfriend avoid being bored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - anytime my boyfriend comes over hes bored. i hate going to his house too because he still lives with his family and i dont get the impression they like me being their(its quite a small house and i feel im taking up a lot of space)... but when he comes over all we do it watch ... (105 words)

What does sex involve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound abit stupid but i want to know what you actually do in sex ? Im still a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we want our 1st time to be magical. We rented a hotel, got scented candles, red rose petals and a cd of slow romantic songs. Everything is set up and read... (78 words)

My friends are racist - how can I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My 17 year old boyfriend of a year is an Indian Sikh [im 15] which is not at all a problem, but when i first told my friends about him they were being, well,racist; just because he wears a Turban and is Indian. When I did tell them, their immature reaction made me quite upset ... (84 words)

How do I get over this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- I was seeing this guy for 3 months - we slpit 2 weeks ago. At first it was a casual thing but then we started seein each other more and more. I began to fall for him and wanted more commitment and I think this scared him as he finished things. The thing is, Im so upset becaushe ... (237 words)

Within 3 weeks he told me he was falling for me and I slept with him. Since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are together 7 months now. he told me within 3 weeks that he was falling for me and i slept with him. since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. he is very practical and im very idealistic so im not sure if we are a good match. im quite a ... (122 words)

Hi ex is still part of his family, how do I cope? Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf says he loves me but his ex is still a part of his family how can i cope with this also there will be a family picnic this weekend if she is there what should i do ... (39 words)

How do I hide my stuff from my parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to hide my contraceptive pills from my parents, but they look through all my stuff! Any ideas where to hide it??... (24 words)

How can I open up and talk to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my lover have been steady and happy for almost a year, but there is a problem. I love what he does to me, but I can't tell him when I want to, or what i want him to do to me. I kinda just hint my way through it, but more often then not, by no fault of his own, he doesn't ... (115 words)

Not pregnant! yet I havent had a period in months, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hia i've got a problem ! well the past few months i haven't had a period but i'm not pregnant as i have taken a pregnancy test and had hormornal blood tests ! i am only 16 but i dnt no what to do ! help x ... (47 words)

Is there a problem here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend says he loves me and says he sees a future with me but doesnt call me much and shows little affection and care.what should i do?and what could be the problem?... (33 words)

What was she thinking 20 years ago?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Had a follow up question and wanted to provide an update. BTW I appeciate all the help and I apologize to anyone Ive offended here. I'm fairly emotional right now and know people sometimes see things very differently. My wife and I are working our way through this(she admitted... (284 words)

What should I do about this note in which I'm asked for a date and not to tell anyone? A boy gave it to me from behalf of his friend, supposedly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dearcupid, just hoping you could help me out with this situation... The brief story is that i recieved a letter in one of my classes...It basically was asking me out, for a trip to cinema! However, i am quite confused as to whether its serious or if they're just hav... (224 words)

Does anybody know of a relationship that has come through after a partner has cheated repeatedly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anybody know of a relationship that has come through after a partner has cheated repeatedly? Im interested as the advice i have been given by family and friends is 'walk its not the first time, a leopard never changes its spots' Thing is apart from the messing around ... (215 words)

Is my husband telling the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married with my husband for 10 years, Last week while they were taking him some X-rays, I readed his text messages (It was the first time I did it)and I discover that his Research assitant was inviting him to celebrate something and that she sent her messages like ... (137 words)

At first, I am really into sex and I want that pleasure. But after it's over, I feel horrible, guilty. Maybe it has to do with the past abuse, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years of age, and after sex, I feel bad..unlike most who feel satisfied. I feel as if I have done something wrong and should be punished. I don't have a very exciting sex life yet, it's pretty much "normal." I was molested as a child and I am not sure if that has ... (85 words)

My bf says he doesn't like my lifestyle, my mother has health problems, I feel have hit the lowest point. How do you keep believing in goodness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- Have hit the lowest point of my life, my boyfriend who used to be fascinated with me, copying me in every detail of my life, now says he doesn't like my lifestyle and it gets worse, he says we're broken up whereas a few weeks ago were were laughing and together and I was full... (149 words)

How do I fight my attraction to this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married, for 10 years and I have been a stay at home mom for the last 6 years. I recently started going back to school and working. What I am going through right now is I am attracted to another guy at my work and I'm trying real hard to fight it. He doesn't know and... (84 words)

It's our first time and need loads of tips on how to do it, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to sound soooooo stupid but how do you actually have sex? Me and my gf have decided we are ready and shes decided to get the injection and we have some condoms as well but neither of us have never done anything like this. We are both old enough i have just ... (131 words)

I don't find him physically attractive, and if it were he and I isolated I wouldn't care but I want my man to be attractive to my friends, as well! Should I consider leaving him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for about a month now. When I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, when I got to know him...all of him, I became attracted in other ways. I feel like I'm falling in love with someone that I am not physically attracted to. He is not my ideal ... (171 words)

Should I have sanctioned my girl to sleep with another guy?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I'm very upset just now. My girlfriend has left me, because she thought that our relationship was getting too serious, when we're such a young age. She did this, just over 4 months ago. Just before that time, she had planned to go on holiday with some of her frie... (260 words)

My gf is insecure about how she looks. How can I help her get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my gf have recently started having sex. W ehave been together over a yr and have been friends since infant school. It just she loves the sex,as do i. but she doesn't like the fact of doing it because shes taking her clothes off. She doesn't like me to see her naked ... (375 words)

How do I convince her that I love her more tham He does?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i was with my girlfriend for a year and a half and we drifted apart and broke up. however now that she is gone i relized that i love her more than anyone else and i now we are supposed to be together. i have told her this and i know she still loves me but feels its unfare to ... (87 words)

Can he be arrested for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my friend just told me shes pregnant and shes only 13 and her bf is 17, she asked me if her bf can get arrested cuz shes under 16 but i didn't know so can anyone tell me if he can. thanx anyone who answers... (52 words)

Are girls supposed to cum frequently during drunken sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. i was just wondering if its a bad thing wen i girl cums during sex, as wen i slept with my x boyfriend i was very drunk and i cant remember much, but he said i cum 2 fast and alot.. also i always cum alot when i am drunk.. i was wondering does every girl cum becos i think ... (82 words)

I want to lose weight but don't want to be muscular . . .

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- i want to loose weight. im eating good and exercising. but i dont want muscles to show but i want to loose weight off my legs but i think the only way of doing that is to exercise but then i wont have lady like looking legs. help... (48 words)

Can I fall in love with my husband again? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years and I feel I deeply love my husband but after so long the "in love" stage seems to be gone. I am starting to think this is the reason why I have fallen in love with another man. I haven't told anybody and I don't plan to act on it.I am keeping ... (111 words)

My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age - I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I had been doing all the house wo... (1201 words)

Why would she want to cause me any aggro?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, well my life is so confusing right now lol. me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago. i really did like him and bla bla bla so on and so on. well he new girlfriend. i have gym with her so i kno who she is and vice versa. well me and my ex stayed friends but we didnt ta... (227 words)

Is it my duty to satisfy him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I still have feeling for my son father, they are not as strong as when we first broke up, but I do still have feelings and him keeping in constant contact does not help my "getting over him process". He is in a new relationship, I am in one also. He claims sex with his new ... (191 words)

My parents are always arguing. How can I make them stop? They're doing my head in!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - why do my parents constantly argue!!!! i dont think i can cope with this any more. they argue all the time over petty little things, like my dad didnt hover the car befre we went away so my mum started an arguement n then it led to a massiv rowand then my dad stayed at my grand... (420 words)

I think my boyfriend might be gay. Should I suggest a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am just staying over my boyfriends. we are both 21, been together for a year now. i diacovered he is checking out gay porn and gay sites to meet gay men and have sex. i didn't mean to pry but it was there! i thought we had a pretty spicy sex life, we enjoy plain boring ... (150 words)

Is my boyfriend gay, and should I suggest a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

Why doesn't she make any effort for me, and why do I feel so guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 39 year old woman and have been in a gay relationship for 4 years with another woman of 43. When we first started out everything was perfect. As time went by she kept accusing me of having an affair or sleeping with every single friend or person i spoke to, whi... (486 words)

Is he trying to trick me into ending my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman ( 6 years) who has been having an affair with a younger man for four years. My lover and i only see each other once every two months or so, we usually spend one night together during that time, although we speak and or text each other almost daily, send ... (275 words)

How can I restore a friendship with my teacher that very nearly became 'off-limits'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - alright. i have searched my general topic and am aware there are HUNDREDS of people asking related questions and getting answers..but before you pass this off as being another student teacher relationship question...hear me out! it's a bit of a read and the real question is ... (900 words)

He's chatted up other girls and I'm afraid he's going to leave me again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 19 i have been with my 19yr old boyfriend since we were 16 and we have a son together. although having a child young we have always been a strong couple and have always loved eachother. problems started earlier this year my boy friend began thinking about his first lo... (430 words)

My wife would rather fall asleep in front of the TV than have sex. She's lost interest in it. What can I do to revive our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age - After 35 years of marraige my wife and I no longer have sex . She falls asleep in front of the tv and I amuse myself at the computer We had a normal ex life till about 8 years ago I noticed I was the only one initiating sex. Then she became more and more difficult to arouse w... (178 words)

I'm always playing Gooseberry - how can I trust a man again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help! i feel so lonely and down! All my friends have BFs and im constantly playing goosebery! I try to make excuses not to go out with my friends everyweek because they all bring along ther fellas which i think is great coz we all get along so well but im jus... (334 words)

How do I help my girl get over her Father's death, and convince her that she's not going to lose me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok i really need some advice. My wife and i have been married for 7 years and together since we were 16,friends before that! So i've been there through pretty much all of her life,through the ups and downs etc. Her dad died about a week ago, the funeral was the saturday just ... (354 words)

Am I crazy for wanting her to move back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - This may be long winded but your help would be appreciated!! I was seeing a girl for 4 years, we had a long distance realtionship but still saw each other evry weekend and spoke every night. We had broken up a few times due to the distance but we were very good together. ... (626 words)

My husband does not find me attractive. How can I maintain my self-esteem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age - How can I mantain my self-esteem when my husband does not find me attractive? I have been married for over 20 years and my husband is currently going through a midlife crisis. Throughout our marriage, I have been the one to initiate sex. My husband is usually not interested. ... (237 words)

Is he going to surprise me on our anniversary?

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Saturday my bf and i were shopping and he told me too walk away before he got mad. I knew he wasnt, but i did it to humor him. He was looking at the jewlery and it even looked like the wedding rings section. I did not mean to peek but on Sunday he told me we were not getting ... (94 words)

Do rebound relationships work at all?

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Do rebound relationships work at all? If not then why not?... (14 words)

Why do guys flirt and not follow it up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here is my situation. There is a great guy at work that I have always liked, and he's always been really nice and friendly to me too. We occasionally work on projects together. We get along and have fun bantering back and forth. However, over the past 6-8 months, it's ... (334 words)

Without him I feel empty. I miss him so much!

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my ex of eight months dumped me 5 days ago. I am well aware that I'm only 17 years of age but without him I feel empty. He's currently going through a bad time in his life, getting kicked out of his home and his parents telling him that they want nothing to do with ... (171 words)

Friends for 12 years, and now we're developing stronger feelings. Anybody else experienced this?

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We are friends since 12 years ago. We started developing strong feelings for each other last year. I am involved with a friend we both know and love. We live in separate countries so when he comes visit he stays with us. He came visit us last Christmas with some friends. We ... (207 words)

I have been married for 9 years... But I've fallen for someone else...

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years and have been together for 12. I love my husband but I have fallen in love with someone else, a good friend of us that we both know since 12 years ago. I never thought that once you get married you could love that person so much and yet fall in ... (197 words)

Can you get pregnant while having sex in a pool, shower or bath?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I want to know if it is possible to get pregnant while having sex in the pool, shower, or bath? As I have heard that this is not possible because sperm dies when it gets in water or in air. Is this true or is this a myth? Please help!... (58 words)

Please give me some prespective. Has my boyfriend cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my bf cheating on me? We have been together for about a year and a half, and iv never ever suspected him of doing anything wrong. But about a month ago i caught him going onto a chat site behind my back. When i confronted him he said it was an accident, and that he wouldnt ... (106 words)

My Online interest told me he loved me after 3 weeks. He already talk of marriage. I really want to meet him, but I live in Wales and he lives in the US...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im part of a teen support online forum. i love it and have great friends on there. i got talking to a guy from texas and we really clicked. after about 3 weeks talking he said he loved me. after a while i said it back as i really liked him. trouble is im in wales and 16. ... (187 words)

She just wants to be friends... Is there anything I can do??

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8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me (17) and my ex girlfriend (15) broke up after 9 mouths and 1 fall out 2 weeks before she split up with me. i foght about spending time with each other. i said to spend one day with her for a specail day but she told me that she whats to go ou with friends instead. i said o... (678 words)

My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes to be center of attention ... (206 words)

How can I get my performance under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i never used to cum fast and now i cum way too fast its really affecting my relationship with my girl. i know its not her because her body is amazing and sex with her is great. but now she rarly wants to have sex and i know its because of my performance.what can i do over ... (63 words)

How to make her understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has a very high sex drive, and wants sex every day. Sometimes I am too tired or not in the mood and she takes that to mean that I am not attracted to her , that I don't think she is sexy, or that I am mad at her. If I try to leave her place without having s... (250 words)

Not sure what it is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have Like A Little Bump Right Next To My Vagina But Im Not Sure What It Is! It Really Hurts When I Touch It And Sometimes Goes Red! And By The Way In Only 13! Please Help me... (46 words)

How do I get over my first kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

- Im 14 and last night me and my friends went to a hotel party, where there were all these older guys who play state footy for melbourne, anyway I started talking to this really hot guy who is 21 and the next thing i know we were kissing and having dry sex. Now he has gone back ... (100 words)

Should I call him, or leave him forever?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Could you give me an advice? The man i used to date this year he always hasn't enough time to see me. He usually apologised that he was so much occupied with his work which is true in some point. However, the last time i saw him this weekend he said me during a discussion that ... (146 words)

What should I do if he wants to be part of our lives again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I called my daughter's dad, left a message to call back. He called. Judging from the tone of his voice, he wasn't having a good day. Everything that he is going thru has been broughten upon him by his doings onto my daughter and I and others. To make a long story short... (231 words)

My boyfriend is signing up for online dating services.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when your partner signs up to an online dating serice and is looking for females around our age in the state we live in? We live together and he otherwise is very loving and caring towards me. Known him for 7 years and together for 2 years, we have discusse... (85 words)

I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to drop off things. Jocelyn smiles ... (166 words)

Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate at age 13?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 and I look at porn and masturbate. I have this urge to have sex, but know I shouldn't in case I regret it later. Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate?... (42 words)

I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do. ... (28 words)

If he knows I like him, will our friendship change?

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8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - i like this one guy alot. i always have the urge to talk to him and be with him. but when i picture him as my boyfriend it seems kinda weird. idk if he seems like the kind of person that would be a boyfriend because hes kinda a dork which is exactly why i love him. he doesnt ... (116 words)

I was wondering is there any risk of catching something if someone gives me a blowjob?

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8 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a young gay guy. I was wondering is there any risk of catching something if someone gives me a blowjob? And what if that person had given someone else a blowjob before me - would there be risk in that?... (42 words)

Should I try to call him, or wait for him to call me?

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8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - theres this one guy who i got his number a while ago. we talked to each other alot. he seemed like a nice guy and i liked him. but he stopped calling me all of a sudden. is this a sign that he wants to break up if we were ever together? should i call him or wait for him to call ... (63 words)

This guy that likes me makes me nervous.

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8 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - ok theres this one guy that im really scared of. he supposedly likes and he always calls me sexy and hot. it makes me feel nervous and i tell him to stop. he bugs me alot and tries to make me feel guilty that i dont want to go out with him. you cant blame me. i always try to ... (76 words)

I think my female friends don't like me for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a really really long penis and I get made fun of because it looks like im hard, but im soft. The girls who im friends with only like me because i have such a long penis and i really want to be friends with them also because we're friends. what should I do? ... (55 words)

Can it be possible that he really loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i don't know what to do my ex boyfriend and i dated for 4 years on and off. he always tells me he loves me and that were meant to be and that he cant live with out me. he's cheated on me so many times and even had sex with with many of my really close friend we argue ... (163 words)

I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex?

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8 October 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex? I personally have always considered it to be a homosexual activity and wonder why straight guys would wish to engage in this when they have other options?... (41 words)

There's a dance at school and my girl wants me to take her, but I'm nervous and no good at dancing.

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8 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am here again. I just learned that there is a sixth grade dance. I am nervous and I am not that good at dancing. My girlfriend wants me to take her. (Mod note: it's good to use proper grammar and spelling at 6th grade don't you think?) Original question: "alrig... (90 words)

My boyfriend and I broke up, I'm 14 and really feel as I'm meant to be alone.

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 and constantly have recently, (a few months ago) ended a 3 year relationship. Eh we still have feelings for eachother and whatever but I know I should not get involved with him again, and I don't plan to. But I feel like since he has been the only guy in my life that ... (235 words)

Could she still get a drivers license?

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - a friend of mine has a daughter. she has her permit only, and she has got in a car accident with her parents in the car. no one was hurt just the cars. her six months are almost up, could she still be able to get a license at age 16 in Ca? please help i'm very worried and ... (60 words)

After our breakup he wants to meet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for about 10 days. We talked once online, he IM me first and it was short. I told him about my weekend and how much fun it was. I had lunch with his mom cause she was concerned about what was going on and we are just so close. So anyway ... (200 words)

Update to my last question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

8 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is an update to my last question... I just talked to him and after a very long, kinda weird conversation, i found out we both feel the same way. We both have wondered if the other person is "the one" and we both feel very frightened of that idea for some reason. he says ... (192 words)

Legal question???

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8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - is it illegal for beauticians( or whatever their exact title is) and anyone else in that line of work to see a minor(under 18 in the u.s.) nude if they are removing hair or other things? what about a masseuse? What do woman think of a groomed, not completely bald rear end?... (52 words)

She won't leave me alone after rejecting me.

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8 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When she rejected me, she said she still wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to be awkward, but now i feel that was a lie. I tried for a friendship with her for a few months, and she didn't put any effort into it. I gave up a little more then a month ago, and she only talks ... (193 words)

He doesn't want to continue seeing me because of my ex.

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8 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So about a month and a half ago I broke up with my boyfriend at the time. It was obvious that it wasn't going to work and was sort of mutual. We were only together for 6 months and while we were together I always had a little crush on his best friend. The attraction was obvious ... (146 words)