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writes:well im 15 and there is this guy who i have known all my life (hes 17). I love millions as a friend, and almst like a brother.The other day i was a bit upset and so he was cuddling up to me and comforting me and then kissed the top of my head, also on the coach home we feel asleep together holding hands. my friends are now saying that this is not how good friends act, and that there is something more there. what do people think, is this wronng for "just friends" ?any advice please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): I would not read too much into what happened, I think it was all pretty innocent and came about because you were a bit upset. It doesn't seem like you two took your relationship anywhere that was not right for the time.
It may be that he has thought a bit about it and felt more than he thought he would and is perhaps questioning how you feel. He may be trying to work out if you want more.
I suggest you ask him what he feels about what happened, and really nothing at all happened! Talk to him. It sounds like you guys have a lovely friendship and there is nothing wrong with that at all. Also nice that he cared enough to be with you when your upset, thats what friends are for. A kiss on the forehead and falling asleep holding hands, was just gentle comfort between two people who care about each other, and thats nice and not sexual.
Have either of you got partners? If not, you may find your relationship changes when you both get respectfully attacted to others.
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reader, jowin75 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 it is only wrong if you think it is,
if you are happy and your friend is happy then it doesnt matter what others think,
it is nice that you have someone to go to in times of need, so dont worry,
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 maybe he doesn't see you as just a freind try to figure out what he thinks of u and after that u will follow ur heart and know what to do......gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): Hey hun,
this isn't wrong at all, but it does sound like a progression of your relationship. Maybe you are starting to have feelings for eachother, as girlfriend and boyfriend... its a possibility. I would suggest not worrying about what your friends say, and letting things just be how they are. Theres nothing wrong with getting closer to each other, and even going out, if its what you both want, but dont feel pressured into it just because your friends are being judgemental!
I hope this helps, you can message me if you want to chat about it!
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