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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey im almost 16 i was with a guy who was 17 for almost 7 months. Due to reasons that were partly my fault he broke up with me about 3/4 weeks ago. It was a bit of a messy break up and we both said some nasty things. I've apologised and even tried to be civil, even friends but he doesnt wanna know. He said he loves me still but he hates me. We spoke about living together and marriage and everything. Im finding it really hard getting over him and i keep bumping into him. It doesnt help that his mate winds me up about him seeing some girl who lives down the road from me. I still love him but i dont want to anymore. He's knows i still have feelings for him and im still quite close with his family and even go shopping with his mum from time to time.What can i do? please dont say give it time, its been 4 weeks and if anything its getting harder.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Dear Anon.
Relationships are very complicated as you are aware, because you have been together for seven months it is harder for you to brake away emotionally, it is true that time will only heal your heart, there really is no other answer to your problem, 4 weeks is no time at all, some people take a lot longer to heal than others, just because you want all the feelings to go away just like that, then sorry to tell you they do not,you need to find a hobby or something to take your mind off him,or talk to your mom or dad, more than likely one or both of them have been through this situation before, you know parents are not just there for pocket money, they are also there for your welfare.
please let me now how you get on.
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reader, jowin75 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 hi, he sounds like he might still hurting by what was said when you broke up,
as he says he still loves you, it means you might be in with a chance,
if he didnt listen to your apologies, then maybe write a letter then give him some space to think, if he doesnt budge then its time to call it a day,
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Why don't you treat yourself to an evening out with friends, have an evening meal, then go to a dance. At the very least you'll have a change of scene and at best a new guy may step into your life and give it a whole new outlook! All the best!
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