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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know she's not trying to reject me, but is.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had her gall bladder removed just over 3 years ago. This has affected all parts of our relationship from holding the kids to a cuddle and full blown sex. Jennifer has also just been diagnosed with sciatica as well. My wife and I had a great relationship till this ... (147 words)

Sufficating my boyfriend.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a slight problem... I've recently been getting to know this guy, who I'm really falling for big time! He's always complimenting me, and is just the sweetest thing =] but I've always had the problem in relationships that I become really clingy =/ People have told me ... (174 words)

He seems to get alog better with his female friend than with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf has gone to uni and is living in accommodation. we have been going out for 2 years and a half so it's a bit of a struggle. the thing is there's a girl in his halls that really fancies him! he said he gets along with her really well (this was before i found out she fanc... (294 words)

He's changed but not in a good way. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf just sent me a text asking if i was still talking to him as he blew me off on the phone about an hour before to play drinking games with his flat mates and last week i told him how i felt about this( it hurts me n makes me feel unwanted, all i want is 10 mins of his time ... (191 words)

Confused. What does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I knew this guy some 4 years back. He used to be my ex-'s friend. We weren't that close until 2 years ago. Both of us were single. We started dating, yet we were not committed. At some point i started to get tired and wanted to settle down, so when he proposed a trip together ... (718 words)

Lost in life, any suggestions please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I would appreciate some help please; I'm lost in my life. I see myself as mature. Two girls have manipulated me recently (not literally but have pretended to be close and maybe a little bit more, 1 stole my heart and ran which hurt) and my parents are in chaos. I ... (148 words)

Sometimes he likes me other times he's distant. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am 16. I known this guy since year 10 and we have gotten really close this past year. We both have really bad homelifes, we both planned to move away and he moved to Cardiff (which with me being in manchester is really far away) I went down there and spent the weeken... (238 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to be attracted to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had several chats just recently with my boyfriend about how I feel like he isn't that bothered about me, and just likes being in a relationship with anyone rather specifically me. He says he loves me, and got very emotional when I was brought this up and he would be ... (164 words)

I really like a boy but I think he likes my best friend what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i really like a boy but i think he likes my best friend what should i do? ... (24 words)

This person is flirting with me but says they don't like me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my name is charley and i was wondering, how can you tell if someone likes you even if you ask them alone and they say no but they are consistently flirting with you?... (34 words)

Are there any good women in the world?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

- Are there any good women in the world? Everywhere I look they always seem to be horrible. Doesn't help when the last 2 girls I dated were snidy even though they dumped me after 3 and 1 dates respectively. I was nice to them. ... (44 words)

Too early to commit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my bf for one and a half years its really serious and things are going great but most recently i have been thinking about engagements. Is this way too soon to be thinking this serious and this committed??? ... (44 words)

Is Uncle messing around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone I think my uncle is having a affair with another woman,i was playing with his phone then i went his messages without his permission and i looked in his inbox i found lots of text that lead to think he is having a affair he is married to my mums sister and she cann... (113 words)

What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

- Me and my girlfriend are in a a slight situation. She won't give me oral (or fellatio) yet she insists i give her oral saying it will satisfy us both. I told her unless she gives me oral I won't give her oral. Ws I right, or am I just thinking of myself?... (54 words)

Want to feel worth of proper relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - right my dilema is... basically i got to know this guy right and he seemed to proper like me until today i found out that he dont like me 'in that way' and he was just horny. to be honest i think i'm coping well even though i was upset a bit earlier but i knew i had to get myse... (107 words)

My husband needs to read or watch lesbian porn to get aroused. Is this a behaviour problem, or just a sexual preference?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age - I feel like I'm alone. I haven't found another woman who shares my heartache. Here's the problem in a nutshell... my husband can only get aroused reading, watching or talking about lesbian sex. Before we make love, he prefers to read lesbian porn or watch lesbian porn ... (247 words)

Is it him or me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be worried that I found porn in my boyfriendds things? I've been living with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I feel like we have a pretty great realationship it has it's ups and downs just like everyone else. I was cleaning our spare bedroom today when a DVD... (186 words)

Is she cheating? My friends saw her at the bar in another boy's company...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been together for 3 and a half years.....we have lived together before and we even have a dog together. Right now we are both trying to finish up school...and are really busy with it. But something happened with me and her and I need advice....first off we are ... (279 words)

I know it is right that I left, but my heart is saying something else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - I broke up with my fiance a week ago and have tried very hard to not answer his calls. But just a few minutes ago he called and my caller id said "unknown" so stupidly I answered and it was him. He said that that was the only way he thought i would answer. I told him it was ... (342 words)

How can I make a climax last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! Everytime I have sex with my boyfriend I climax within the first five minutes. I'm usually only climaxing on the 'outside' because I can never last long enough to attempt to climax on the inside. I feel like this is really bizzare? After I go it drys out rather quickly ... (80 words)

Is he still interested or just trying to tell me he's not? He hasn't gotten back to me to set the details yet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked out a guy in my office under the offer of dinner for his bday. He responded to he email instantly that he'd love to but that he wouldn't let me do the taking, that his upbringing and sense of chivlary required that he do the taking. This was last Wednesday and today ... (90 words)

I need some tips to help my wife when her dad dies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone i hope you can help me with my problem. Bottom line is my wife is gong to loose her dad but i really need help with it all. At the moment hes very ill in general and is in hospital but he is on some sort of drugs that they have given him so that he is alot more ... (288 words)

Why does my ex like her more than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf dumped me about 2 weeks ago. At first it was hard but we got over it and are now very close. So we were out this weekend and my mate was with us. Shes stunning and a gorgeous figure. I noticed the connection straight away. I was fine with it at first but not so much now. ... (97 words)

What's that lump doing in my chest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I wrote one of these a few weeks back and things have definately improved. I even managed to go out on the town this past weekend, which hasnt been easy since I have a young child and when im not at work I have my daughter. Anyways, when I don't talk to my ex I have bee... (131 words)

When I was left alone with my daugyhter's best friend, we touched each other intimately; my daughter knows I'm a lesbian. Help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a woman and im alesbian my daughter knows about this and doesnt mind but recently whenever her best friend comes over my vagina starts throbbing in a good way and i think i luv her, when i was left in a room with her i touched her breasts and she touched my vagina so i ... (90 words)

I have to make a decision between these two countries, both achievable financially. It will affect my future, so how do I decide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - not sure if anyone can help with a decision of the heart or head as I need to make a decision on whether to move to Seattle, WA (USA) or Melbourne, Australia. There are plus and minus aspects to both but I just cannot decide and have spent days and weeks churning it all ... (123 words)

I'm not sure what is going on, my bloke went and left his phone behind!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing drugs but he was very ... (552 words)

How do I convince my wife to have sex with another man??

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age - Please offer suggestions as to how to convince my late-50s wife to have sex with another man for our mutual pleasure. Although she has not always been faithful to me (she had an affair many years ago early in our marriage), she simply refuses to do this. At my request, she ... (162 words)

What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number... in these conditions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to hear from me...yada ... (387 words)

She said we should be friends but neither of us is making the effort.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago. We were together for 3 years, bought a home together, talked about marrage and children. Then one day says she fell out of love. I did the no contact and it worked she was calling all the time. Now she stopped now calls twice a week. ... (217 words)

Is this flirting or just plain silliness??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - today me and my freind were taliking bye the gate at high school (there is a football ground bye our school)somtimes the players drive past today they did and they rodomley waved and smield at me and my freind were they flirting or am i just being silly?... (49 words)

In love with a pathological liar and the lack of trust is eating me up inside.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age - This is a long story! I have been with the same girl for over a year now and I am very much in love with her. I am sad alot of the time because I don't trust her. In the first month we were together I asked her if she still was in contact with other guys and she said no of co... (301 words)

My emotional abusive fiance stopped getting touch, now I feel bad, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - I need help. I broke up with my emotionally abusive fiance a week ago. He kept trying to contact me but I just ignored him. Now, he has stopped and I feel depressed. When he was contacting me I guess in a weird way it felt good that he was so miserable without me. But now I ... (82 words)

I still want my son to know his father despite all this awful hassle!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a son that is 5 when he was 2 me and his father split up he took me to court on seeing him he was granted every other weekend for 4 hrs it started off great than it dropped to him bringing him back in an hr time when my son would get back he would call me sum words that ... (183 words)

We are in an open relationship and she is having a blast...but I have realised she is the only one I want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hey I'm 19 years old, been with my girl for a few years. Recently I got really curious about sex with someone else so I asked her about experimenting with threesomes/swinging/open relationships. She agreed reluctantly so we are now in an open relationship though we have not had ... (284 words)

I left my husband because he's an alcoholic.To get him to an AA meeting should I resort to getting him there sneakily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short, my husband is an alcoholic. I've actually had to leave him because it had gotten so bad. We've been separated for nearly 2 months now and he is begging and begging for me to come back. I keep telling him that he needs to get help before I can come back ... (179 words)

Do you consider it sexual abuse If I said no but he did it anyways. How do you overcome this? Do the flashbacks stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how can I tell if I have over came the abuse of my past relatinship? Do you consider it sexual abuse If I said no but he did it anyways, even though he was supposed to be my partner. Why do I relate anything a guy says to me to whatever he said . Will the thoughts and flash ... (84 words)

My fiance has gone away for a break and I don't know if he is coming back to give it another go or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and me have been together 3 years but things have got a bit rocky lately. He has had alot wrong in his head. Anyway Friday he rung me up and was normal then he rung and said that he wasn't finishing with me and that he still loved me but he needed to get away for a ... (257 words)

Is she being honest with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short, I an engaged to be married in March '08 after 2+ years. I am divorced, she's never been married. My fiancee started a new job 5 months ago, and made a male friend at work. They went out September 7, they both got really drunk, and she didn't get h... (505 words)

My wife is lovely, but she's more like a sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age - Hi, I'm a 'young' 60 y/o and married. My wife and I visit friends on a weekly basis sometimes twice weekly. For the past six months I cannot get this other lady out of my mind - it's something I've never experienced before. I'm not going through a mid-life crisis. I've exa... (146 words)

My b/f is talking with his exes, and being secretive about it. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a tricky situation going on here. My boyfriend and I have a jealous relationship, and he often breaks into my email or my myspace. I've made this perfectly clear that it is not acceptable, but recently he's been distant and I found myself breaking my own rule... (190 words)

A birthday card on the first date? What would be appropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a first date with a guy and its his birthday. Is a funny bday card appropriate? I don't want to scare him off. Thanks.... (31 words)

What is going on here? I want sex but he doesn't seem that interested.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love him. He says he loves me too. I want him. He says he wants me too. But we have sex only once or twice a week. He rarely initiates it and rarely has an orgasm. He says if we have sex more often it will degrade it. He says that my talking about it turns him off. In the... (414 words)

How can I see if my friend sees me as more than a friend without making things awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well me and this guy (going on 16) im 15, have been best friends for so long, he is the closest person to me and i love him to bits. the problem is i feel he keeps hugging me, kissing me (on the cheek), putting his arm round me etc. more than usual. and im starting to t... (167 words)

I fear that my husband will leave me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and my husband likes to search for gays and transvestites in the location we live. We are moving soon and he was searching yesterday for people like that. I have talked to him a month ago and i was ready to leave when i heard about it, but he was begging me to gi... (201 words)

I want to break off from our relationship, but he has suicidal tendencies. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I Have been living with my fiance for a little over a year now. Over the past few months I have been considering moving back home and breaking it off with him (I moved to TX for him from VA.) He had become very possesive and demeaning of my hopes and dreams. I am only 21 and ... (222 words)

How can I find out if I cheated or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi. i am nearly 16, been with my boyfriend just over a year and love him dearly. i recently went to a party of a friends for her 16th birthday and we got very drunk and i cant remember anything that happened. the next thing i knew was i was sat in english at school on friday ... (154 words)

I began pretending to be him and reply in his stead. I think he intended for more but had second thoughts. Leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found a number in my boyfriends phone which turned out to be a womans number. Instead of confronting him i began pretending to be him and she was replying to the messages with kisses and agreeing to meet up, she even said she knew about me. I confronted him and he d... (474 words)

I found out about her cheating and she says it will never happen again, but can I believe her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend over a year ago and found out that cheated on me 11 months in I only found out because I saw her chat log on her computer there was only one and it basically said she preformed a sex act on him. I looked further back and found that she did not think w... (586 words)

Turns out I was the other woman, so I broke it off with him, but now I regret it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i found out the man i was seeing had another woman and i finished wish him because he wouldn't leave her again (he already left her for someone who then dumped him, twice, then got back with the first woman who he is now with still). I miss him so much and sometimes think i ... (413 words)

His life is wonderful and exciting, mine is the pits. How can we work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in major need of some help please. I need to know if my relationship is destroyed. I am very insecure. I have been with my bf for 5 months and love him so so much. I have talked to him about my insecurities and he says said that he will stick by me and help fight them. H... (228 words)

My love is getting divorced, getting back with her husband, taking a break... It keeps changing and I am heartbroken and lost

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - OK here goes i am 26 and she is 26 ,i am about to spill my heart out for advice ,everything i am about to mention is the truth , some things have not been mentioned to protect the people involved however this is only about half of the things i would like to say for the sake of ... (1369 words)

My insecurity is ruining my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months. we are in love though we have had our ups and downs mainly caused by my insecurity. I have recently moved about an hour away from him, so only see him a couple of times a week, i always drive to see him, but i dont mind because ... (218 words)

I read his emails and now feel more insecure than ever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me ppl!!i know its really wrong of me but my boyfriend left his emails open wen he went to uni today. I have recently failed my first year here, and am now looking for a full time job. We have been through a bit of a rough patch latley but i love him so so much, and ... (290 words)

I havent seen or heard from him in a month. Is he cheating on me? Did he break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years on and off. He was really my rebound back in the fall of 2004. The is an 2 1/2 age diff between us. Okay he was sent away for 2 years for cutting school and causing trouble, so we had a long distance relationship. We would ... (321 words)

He cant keep it up long enough to have sex. I think its nerves as I am his first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, and are at the "serious" stage of our relationship. We're both 18 and we've tried to have sex twice now. The thing is, he can't seem to keep an erection long enough for us to actually have sex... He's been to see a doctor ... (147 words)

I am cheating on my guy and not sure what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 19 year old young mum with a daughter whos nearly 2, ive been with her dad for around 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs which consist of both of us being unfaithful and him being violent etc. It has got to the point where i have fallen out of love with him, I ... (158 words)

I told him from the start I wanted marriage, but now he says he isnt sure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, the thing is I have started dating this guy four months ago, he was a real sweetheart and I made it clear to him from the beginning that I am not looking for fun, I was looking for marriage instead. Also I placed a very unfair deadline saying that in one year I would be ... (294 words)

I still think about my ex every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello! I broke up with my ex (we went out for about a year and a half) about a year and a half ago now. She was pretty much my first love, and we broke up in the end because things were getting too obsessive from both angles and she ended it. However, we still kept meeting ... (248 words)

My husband is a chronic cheater

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am trying to figure out what is going on with men.My husband of 9 years, has been cheating on me. I caught him, he didnt confess. For about a year he was doing web cam dates (spent about $4500)then the past 6 months paid escorts(about 40 different women) for oral sex. Hand ... (173 words)

Not sure what is happening with my wife and her co-workers, Advice please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Been married a little over a year. We've been trying to have a baby for almost a full year with no success, which has been hard on both of us. Recently, my wife has taken to spending a lot of times with her co-workers, and has told me that it helps because it's a nice ... (512 words)

He kissed another girl - do I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've been seeing this guy for about two months and was hoping things would start getting more serious. I really like him, but I found out that last weekend he kissed another girl at a party. what do i do? I havent yet confronted him.... (46 words)

Should I wait until he's divorced before I go after him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age - I fancy a man going through a divorce. Should I wait til the divorce has gone through before I start the chase? ... (23 words)

Is he too tall for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age - Can I date this man? He's tall, and I'm a foot shorter than him? Does size matter?... (19 words)

I just want what is mine - how do I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i don't believe this.i split up with my ex about 7 weeks ago.she has things that are mine, one in particular is of sentimental value.my grandad got me this, he passed away 3 yrs ago.it means alot to me. anyway. i have asked for it, text for it, e mailed for it, left fone ... (161 words)

I've fallen out of love with him. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i really wont help i was spose to be moving out to live with my boyfreind but knowi have fell out with him and i dont know what to do ... (31 words)

Once you fall in love with a good friend, can you ever look at them in a different way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Once you fall in love with a good friend, can you ever look at him in a different way? We are good friends but he is unavailable. If we remain friends, will I ever be able to see him just as a friend eventually or will I always have strong feelings for him? What is your exp... (60 words)

Did she cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hello I have met a girl which I liked so much from a "serious online website for men and women looking for merraige". the first meeting between us was fantastic ! she appreciated me coming to her town so much and liked me so much ! However because i had to leave the c... (641 words)

I've met a great guy, but after many bad experiences, I worry about getting hurt again. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - there's this guy i met not so long ago and i feel so strongly about him, he's made it quite clear he likes me alot too but i spent thursday till sunday night with him n loved being with him sooo much. the thing is where i have been let down so many imes by people i care ab... (116 words)

I have a crush on my personal trainer. Do I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently joined a fitness club and also took personal training sessions. My personal trainer is good looking and cute while I'm juz a normal looking overweight girl trying hard to loose weight. I have started fallen for him and I think I have a big crush on him! Bu... (222 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend... with his cousin! He was furious, disappointed and sad. What can I do now?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - tell me what to do please. im 20 and my bf 21 last weekend i cheated on him with his own cousin, coz i was drunk:(this weekend i told him about it and he was furious disappointed and very sad. when i told him it he said he don't know if he can forgive me...he went away for a ... (433 words)

I lover her, how do I get her to trust me again. I'm a pathological lier.

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15 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i (a pathological liar) have been with a girl for nearly 4 and a half months which is a while for me, i have realized that i have fallen quite in love with her, well she recently found out i lied about a few things (my age, hobbies, and lack of a job) i really do love her and ... (104 words)

Would it be unfair to move with my son out of the country?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am considering leaving our marriage but we have a 16 month old so I need to feel I have exhausted all options. We have been together 8 years now. In that time my husband has always done 'odd' stuff. I put it down to stress related to work, or after a 'heavy' night out. For ... (413 words)

I can't tell if this relation will be good for me.

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted here a few months back about my last relationship. Just to clarify for those who read that post,this question is about a new guy. So I started dating this guy after a painful relationship with my ex about a month and a half ago (I'm over the ex, but he did leave some ... (419 words)

Cheated on my girlfriend, she forgave me, I just found out she's pregnant, Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

15 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Months ago, I had a one night stand with a girl who I met previously before that night at a night club. What makes this situation very difficult for me is that I did this while having a girlfriend. I told her about it and she was devastated, but she eventually forgave me and ... (294 words)

Are my feelings OK with him impression of me.

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all- Ok, I must admit first off to being a bit of a snoop. My boyfriend checked his myspace account on my computer earlier, and when I went to sign in later his home page was still up. I listened to the little devil on my shoulder and looked into his in box instead ... (315 words)

I had an abortion after the rape, my religion says it's wrong. I will never be forgiven...

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had an abortion because i got pregnant by someone i didnt want to have sex with in the first place (date rape) and i didnt want to raise the baby or have my family know that i was raped (they are very religious and would disown me if they knew i went on a date to begin with ... (347 words)

I ended the intimate contacts, finding out he's interested in somebody else, now I miss him. Did I do the right thing?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been seeing this guy for about a month and recently found out his interested in someone else. Im extremly upset over it but not wanting to just be his 'sex buddy' in between his relationships i told him unless he feels the same way i cant do stuff with him anymore and he ... (140 words)

What can I do to make this work again?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i broke up. He doesnt really know how he is feeling except he misses me a lot. Also he is soo stressed with school and just where he is in his life. So thing is, is that I want to get him back sometime in the future-more so near future. How can I do that? I ... (126 words)

My husband never knew how to show affection so we became just friends. I'm having an affair with the love of my life, do I let him go and do "the right thing" ?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 12 years. My husband never knew how to communicate or show affection. We became just friends and not lovers or husband/wife. I have been having an affair for over a year now with "the love of my life" from years ago. I have always loved this man and ... (204 words)

He refuses to get rid of the girls' phone numbers because he said if we break up he wants to be able to talk to them - and he puts his friends before our daughter and I.

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am eighteen years old and I have a one month old baby with my boyfriend. We had broken up but now are back together and he had got a bunch of girls phone number, he talks to them late and night and is constantly texting them. I told him i am upset with this and he just ... (392 words)

BF is not interested in intimacy.

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15 October 2007 (M)

- I have been with my bf for three years and we've lived together half of that time. Although I love him and he is a wonderful man our time living together has been torment for me as he's avoided sex like it is something bad. I've done more than my fair share to improve things ... (208 words)

Shy or not interested?

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15 October 2007 (?) - So i'm sixteen and am severly confused about this guy. He's also sixteen, just for the record. So we've been talking for awhile now (mostly through text becasue we go to different schools and don't see each other often) and he's been telling me that he likes me. but when we ... (176 words)

Is he jerking me around?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i have been off and on for 3 years.. and ive known him since i was 7.. i just recently went to his place and he admitted he was messing round with this girl but shes nothing to him- just a hit and quit type of thing.. and hes told my friend that he still has feelings ... (78 words)

Am I ready to date again?

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15 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex split up with me just over 3 months ago. I really am missing her dearly. She has made it very clear that we won't get back together, and while I think it is she that is making a big mistake, I feel lousy. These past few months have been very lonesome. I'm now starting... (211 words)

What's his problem?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age - I am married and seeing/talking to a married man for a month. No sex. We talk everyday and have met 4 times. All of a sudden he tells me that he can't see me as a fb because he doesn't want to ruin the great friendship that we have and that he is starting to feel very guilty ... (130 words)

Do all men lie?

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15 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been Internet dating for approximately a year now and have dated four men five to 20 times during that time period. All four lied a great deal, often about silly, everyday things. My ex also lied a great deal. Why do men feel the need to lie so much? Not once have I ever ... (97 words)

Any advice on relationships with a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

15 October 2007 (?) age - Dear Aunts! Does anyone out there have any experiance with being involved with a narssisist? Particularly if you think a person could be, but they don't know. How, if at all, can you have a sucessful relationship with such a person?... (48 words)