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writes:Alright so I'm wondering what the deal with this girl is...Just about every weekend now for 5 weeks she's asked me to go out with her on the weekend, and every weekend she blows me off.We hooked up 5 weeks ago, and I hear she likes me, I like her back, but I've basically given up.She's also nearly impossible ot get a hold of because she's always working.It's been pretty annoying, I've basically reserved myself to her for 5 weeks now and everytime she bails without warning... Yet she still asks me to hang out and her friend still assures me she likes me.Any idea why she would act like this?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (25 October 2007):
jm81690 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice, I think I'm just going to kick her to the curb.
As far as her friend being in on it and them playing me, I don't think that's the case, her friend and I are buds so she wouldn't f me over.
But as for the girl, I don't know what her deal is.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 dear JM 81690.
It sounds as as if she is playing you, you do not need this type of person in your life, you would be better off not talking to her because of the pain she is putting you through, you really do not want her putting your hopes up, and then crashing them down again.
you would be better off leaving her to play this silly game by herself, it is selfish of her and friend to be doing this to you, the more you let them get away with it, the more they will do it to you, for your own sake stay away from them both.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (25 October 2007):
 One phrase "Treat em mean, keep em keen" Heard it before? The only way to deal with it is to play her at her own game although that is exhausting and annoying. It's either that or lay your heart on the line and tell her it hurts you but beware that if you come across as too needy she might back away even more.
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