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writes:hi, im 18 years old and im in highschool, for the past 3 years ive been really close to my previous teacher, and i look up to him as a father figure. but ive always had this thought in my mind thats hes had differnt intentions.For example hes always saying flirtatious things, this summer he was away in france getting married to a 25 year old and hes 50, and he asked me if i wanted to have a carde blanche with him, when i was chatting with him on the computor. One morning he asked me to smell his neck, because he said he thought he forgot to put some cologne on, and he's always giving me hugs! but do yall think he might just be doing that because hes just being nice or do you think he has different intentions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2007): short answer: that is DEFINITELY inappropriate behavior for a student-teacher relationship of any sort. whether he does have feeling for you like that or not he shouldnt be doing the things hes doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI love all of your answers and i do agree but its hard because i really do love him( but not in that way ) and today he emailed me because i hadnt talk to him in the past 3 days and at the end of his message he said!"THE WORLD IS FULL OF COLORS, WHATS YOURS" and he had a picture of a rose and some palm trees and a question mark! I dont really get it, can you help?
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 October 2007):
 I think his intentions are a bit over what yours are with him. He's not just being nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): hey,
i had a similar situation... knew a teacher through junior and senior high school. i thought he was like my friend. we talked about life and his kids and his troubles iwth his wife, etc. and after i graduated and went to university (him and i kept in touch with occassional msn messages) he told me that he was in love with him and wished i would consider being with him etc. so yeah, you have to be strong and say that you dont mind being their friend but htat _____ isn't comfortable for you and doesnt seem appropriate. if he's really a friend worth keeping then he'll respect that (respect you).
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): in my opinion your ex-teacher wouldnt be asking you if you'll have a drink with him unless he has intentions other than being in a friend like relationship. and the fact that he asked YOU to smell his neck is a big red flag in my eyes. i think he likes you(like that).usually your gut instinct is right so if thats how you feel then go with it.
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