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writes:Hello there! I've got a little problem.The main thing is that I'm not sure whether this guy I like still likes me or not, but to give you more help, I've decided to tell you the full story (short version). Well, here it is...October 4th, my team (half of grade 8) went to Salem, Mass, from Maine. Long bus ride and lucky me, I sat right in front of my crush. Now I had a bf at that time, and still do, so I had to hold back on flirting, if any at all. But we still had fun, and during the trip back, he asked me who I liked. Automatically, I knew he had some feelings just by this question (I've found that guys usually like you if they ask this question, if you think otherwise, go ahead and tell me why, I'd love to know). Anyways, I didn't tell him, I kept putting that off until he forgot about it (well, stopped asking me to tell him). Moving onto the next week...I liked him a lot, and in fact, couldn't stop thinking about him, even though I was still dating my bf. He seemed to like me quite a bit as well, because everytime I saw him, he immediately came over (even if he was in the middle of something) began to talk to me, even if it was something incredibly random. Sometimes more than that, I caught him looking at me, then look away when he saw I spotted him. Either it's the attention I love, or I'm falling for him (although I think it's I'm falling for him, because I get a lot of attention from other guys, and I don't like them as much as him, if any at all).Moving on yet again. Recently, like this week, I've noticed his focus on me beginning to wear off, even though I give him almost my complete focus when I'm with him (my bf is upstairs, I'm downstairs, so I barely get to see him). Also, he's caught me looking (you can't call it staring really) at him, but he still doesn't seem interested anymore.I've actually been thinking of breaking up with my bf, for other reasons, not because I like this new guy. But each time I try to, he makes me feel like I don't want to. Every time I'm not near my bf though, I feel horrible and as if I will just hurt him worse if I don't break up with him soon.Anyways, my questions are;;1. Does this new guy (my crush) still like me?2. How do I break up with my bf, even though I feel like I don't want to when I'm near him?3. Any other advice you can give on this situation?Please and thank you, and also, I'm incredibly sorry if this is a confusing story/question. If you have any questions, I'll answer them ASAP if you post them here.
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx +, writes (24 October 2007):
 1. He might of had a crush on you, but he must have realized that you had a boyfriend by now. Maybe he gave up, maybe not.
2. If you are breaking up with him in hopes to get with this new guy, then do not do it. That is very mean and I am surprised you continue to do it. Best way to do it though is to walk up to him without looking at him, and say "It is through" then leave.
3. Yes, you are practically cheating on your boyfriend. If you do break up with him, and get a hold of mr. sexy new guy, I would not put it past you to do it to the new guy as well. You need to learn to stay committed. Also, it might help if you try to rekindle your current relationship. If you would leave him for new guy, then you should not lead your boy to believe you want to still be with him. So if you still want to be with him, rekindle it. Otherwise it is not best to waste his time.
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