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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi, heres my problem.im with this guy who is also with someone else and i thought i would be ok with it but now his other girlfriend has announced she is pregnant.the bad thing is that i want to end it with him but ive fallen in love with him and he makes me happy.i want to end it but i can't. tell me what i should do. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (24 October 2007):
Putting it bluntly there is no future here.
He is having a child with someone else, and therefore that side is going to take priority.
You really should count your blessings that it isn't you who's been caught, and can take this opportunity to get out, and find someone who will respect you to be with you uncoditionally, not as their bit on the side
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 October 2007):
Don't you think you are worth more than what he is offering you?
He is quite happy to be with the two of you, so clearly has no respect for either of you and that in itself should be enough to make you want to end it, that is if you have any self respect.
Walk away you are young and you will find someone that treats you with respect, dont let him walk all over you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, jowin75 +, writes (24 October 2007):
you should end it now before even more people get hurt, there is going to be a baby involved,
this guy isnt worth it as even with a baby on the way it hasnt given him the push he needs to sort this out sorry to be so blunt
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