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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am love my ex-boyfriend he knows it....Okay we were in this great realationship and then 2 weeks ago my best friend got jealous because i was spending time with him and then she told me that she saw him with another girl and well i was scared because at the time i thought it was true and his mom died 3 years ago and then i said then swear on your mom's grave and then we broke up...but after 2 days we became friends he said we never will get back together and he hates me for what i said...but we make love still and he said he is scared to go back out with me and that maybe we will and then he said we won't so i have no idea what to do so do you think we will get back together will i be happy again?
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reader, Dextro69  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 First up yes you will be happy again, maybe not with this guy but if not him then someone else.
What you said to him before you broke up must have hurt him deeply, is is still trying to work out if you are the one he wants to be with. this isnt helped by the fact you still have sex with each other.
You should stop having sex with him whilst he decides what he wants to do,whilst you are no no strings sex parntner he will keep you waiting and hopeing all will be well.
whilst he is deciding what he wants to do you must also do the same as you dont say wether you found out if he was really with this other girl or not. if you think he could have been do you want to have a relationship with someone who may cheat on you again.
sometimes the hardest thing we can do is let go. that is to say sometimes is is easier to stay in a relationship we know cant be fixed than say goodbye to it and be alone for however long it may be.
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