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*arksecretangel
writes:ok well heres the deal why are most of the guys i meet incredibaly pervy. Im 16 and most of the time i cant meet deccent guys. like one time i was walking thru my local uni campus and i got beeped at and then some guy came up to me and asked me out and he seemed nice so i txted him, and he wos ok for a bit but then he took me to his bedroom and he thought i wos gunna have sex with him even tho i told him we were only frends. anyway what im asking is why do guys get the wrong impression about me. i recently dyed my hair blonde and my frends say its cos of that but idont think so. I like older guys and sometimes i apprntly flirt with my guy frends but its not intentional because i am naturally flirty i think lol, anyway please enlighten me lol thanks x. Who is lol? Mod.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): i'm 19 and i don't mean to sing my own phrases here but i am a nice genuine guy (people tell me at least) and i dont move to fast or put any pressure on any girl i meet. i just try to be friendly, and for some reason i cant get far. it is sickening that these type of people get anywhere in relationships, but i guess you have to push to get anywhere. they just take it too far it seems.
just look beyond the cover with guys and you will find someone decent around, you just have to do a bit of the work yourself becuase you cant sit back and let it come to you with us quiet type. good luck xxx
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 If you're going for older guys, like uni guys, they're going to expect sex. period.
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reader, lisaant +, writes (24 October 2007):
most ppl your age especially lads are only expenimenting like yourself, i did at your age and i did find that most lads did only want one thing only an thats when i found myself in my bedroom cryin an try to workout what was wrong with me but as i got older i started to understand a lot more about lads an found out that i could actually have a laugh with them without flirtin or puttin a front on just cos he is a lad, lads older than you do understand more about what you want out of them but if you flirt too much then you will get too much back. in your life you will meet fellas an some will just want you in bed. if you no what sort of lad you dont like or seems tobe like an ex DONT go there lol the one i look out for or the ones that carm you an you never see, if you keep the flirting undercontrole you will find you will have a lad as a bestmate.
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reader, bob711  +, writes (24 October 2007):
Im 18 years old and im always runing in to dumbasses like that everywhere, guys are always gonna test your limits and see what they can get out of you, but its not because of what you look like or if you kinda put yourself out there, there just seeing if they could maybe score u too. someone will come along who will treat you right and wont want that out of u, usally guys that just want some ass let that kwown within the 1st week of talking, just go with the flow and dont sweat it, there just hormone raging perves!
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Generally men around your age will be only interested in one thing, generally.
And if a girl flirts with them one thought passes; "I am in there"
It doesn't mean that all are, you clearly recognise the symptoms of one who is shopping for a quick thrust in and out, so you can avoid that and pick out the ones that will be worthy of a relationship.
That puts ahead of the game this early in your life.
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