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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Stay with him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I need some help...i'm seeing this guy a few months now...I didn't think it was too serious, well it isn't really but he said that he considers me his gf and what we have together is absolutely great, my last relationship left my self esteem in a right mess and there was no ... (147 words)

How can I try and understand my gay friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to be able to support my gay friend. How can I try and understand? I really want to be able to support my friend as he is gay but I think he worries about finding partners and having homosexual relationships. He likes this guy but we don't know if he is gay or not. Th... (173 words)

I am falling too fast

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my first love died 4 months ago. then a couple of weeks ago this guy and i started talking and now i here he was messing with this other chick.how do i ask him if he is when we are together just we havent talked about us being together. but i think im falling for him ... (66 words)

Lot's to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing drugs but he was very ... (934 words)

I'm boy crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. I've seen this site gives good advice so i am gunna try it for myself =] Basically i am 15. Into guys like crazy. Totally normal at this age i think. Yet i get depressed as i don't know many. I know this is probably a very frequantly asked question but saying "joi... (153 words)

I've recently gone through a brea-up. We are still friends, but now I like somebody else. Should I tell him, or just wait it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have just recently gone through a breakup but now I have feelings for another guy. We are good friends and this poses a problem. He may like me but I think he may be afraid of what he is feeling also because he's my friend. Do you have any advice for me? Shou... (70 words)

This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her and it is resulting in night ... (135 words)

14, my boyfriend is 16. Why are boy his age so obsessed with Sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response was "its so funny I want ... (221 words)

Do I leave him? If not, how do I get over the fact that he was a member of a sex chat site??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of the responses on here was that i was over reacting by... (219 words)

How do you let go of someone you truely love? How can I get him out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - this is my story....i have just split up with by boyfriend of just over 2 years (we also where engaged only to cement the relationship). he got violent and was arrested for assalt because he was drunk and insecure accusing me of sleeping around and organising going for a drink ... (242 words)

I added a question before regarding my attraction to a friend who is gay. I now wonder if he could be Bisexual...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I added a quesion a while back about my attraction to my friend who is gay. The advice I received was really great and made me see the problem in an entirely different light. The thing is we've been spending a lot of time together recently and I've begun to wonder if he ... (235 words)

How can I know if he really does actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been sleeping with this bloke for about 4 months now, and a couple of weeks ago he told me he likes me and that he is not just sleeping with me for the sake it. I have started to really, really like him now. The problem is I don't know if he actually does like me as ... (101 words)

I feel nothing during sex. is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had two sexual partners and I feel nothing during sex, no pain, no pleasure just the penis. I have only been havin sex a couple years but me and my current boyfriend have done most positions we can think of, foreplay, oral etc and I still feel nothing. I get aroused up ... (134 words)

He says he loves me but I can't reciprocate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that texted me after ... (331 words)

He don't want me know more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfirend for 6 years and three weeks ago he told me that he don't want me know more but he want us to still live together for the kids i love him so much i really don't know what to do can you help me ... (52 words)

I'm pregnant, and I seemed to be bleeding quite heavily recently! Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have not gotten my period in two months so last week i took two pregnancy tests and both came back positive. i started spotting a few days ago and it gradually got heavier and heavier as if i was on my period. i read that it was not uncommon to bleed while pregnant but it ... (160 words)

He's been looking at busty women. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I shouldn't have done it, but because of past relationships I looked into my boyfriend's history on his computer and found that he looked at a couple of youtube clips featuring very busty ladies. He told me he was just curious when the clips came up in the "currently ... (222 words)

Am I reading too much into this? What do you make of my potential boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved to a new city, been here for about 4 months now, and found a new job. With this, I found some new friends. Two guys and a girl. One of the guys, and the girl have partners, so of course that left those two saying something was gonna happen between me and the ... (168 words)

URRRGH! Everywhere I look, people are falling in love. How do I deal with my jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - URRRRRGH!! Please help me people. Everywhere I look, every TV show I watch, every film I watch, I see couples. Usually kissing. I'm not long out of a relationship that lasted 2 and a bit years. I thought she would be the one I'd be with, and hopefully (a few years in th... (120 words)

He says he doesn't love me, after being with me for a year and a half... Will he ever love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for a year and a half and and still says he doesn't love me. However, he is the most loyal and devoted man I've ever been with. This is his first serious relationship and besides that, I have no complaints...but I'm wondering if he ever love me. Even more ... (71 words)

I masturbate every day, and now my semen is a lot less thick than it was. Will it return to normal if I stop?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I m 16yr old, And Im masturbating since I was 13. When I turned 15 it was like a daily activity for me, And now I m addicted to it. I want to get rid of this habbit. And Now when I masturbate my cum is not that thick and sticky like it was b4. I used to cum with alot of ... (149 words)

If I leave him alone, will he miss me and come back, or will it cause more damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I would love opinions from everyone but especially want a male point of view. My partner of 2 years left me a few weeks ago to sort through some issues he has. If i leave him alone will he miss me and come back? Will contacting him really cause more damage?... (51 words)

I insisted I was sorry and he accused me of harassment. Was it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - please help, i've been unhappily married for the last several years, just recently ive met someone ive fell for, nothing has happened yet but fot the past five months we had been sending each other very pesonal text messages, just recently i accidently said something wrong in ... (91 words)

My ex denies he has feelings for me, yet he told my cousin that he does and then denied he ever spoke to them. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - so my ex boyfriend recently told my cousin that he still has feelings for me and he wanted to know if i was seeing anyone and my cousin said that from the way he was talking, it seemed that he was interested in what was going on in my life. he recently got married but i still ... (100 words)

He left because I wanted to keep our baby! Now I've had a missacriage, I'm scared and should I get back together with him? How?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, here goes nothing, I was pregnant and when I told my boyfriend, he told me to get rid of it and I said no, that I wanted to keep it, then we had a massive argument and in the end, it resulted with us breaking up and him leaving (we used to live together) and now, four ... (219 words)

How do I ask her how she feels about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I cant stand the way this girl makes me feel, when we are with mates, it feels so akward to talk to her and i think she is the same, because she ignores me when we are in a room with others at first, like she doesnt want to make it blatent to everyone. But on our own we are ... (170 words)

No sex was involved until I got separated from my husband. When I can't see him when I want I get depressed and frustrated, so what next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age - This party in my life (married man) has been in my life for over 30 years. He got married first, dued to child born into a relationship he had before meeting me. Married her so the child would not be without a dad, as he did. I moved on, with other relationships, and this party ... (155 words)

Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girlfriends, etc? Is it the release of oxytocin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girl friends, etc.? I've read and heard in the news a lot lately about how the neurotransmitters (oxytocin) released by the brain in women to bond with others, but that men seem to... (157 words)

He said he was gay, then said he intended to make me initiate a break up, and now he is pushing me into marriage and having kids! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

- Okay guys/girls..I will try my best to keep this short... I've been with a guy, lets call him R. for almost 3 years now. things were always rocky, he was abused by his parents and it seems he takes his anger at them out on me... But thats not the whole issue...when we ... (347 words)

His massager is a girl and it disgusts me that a girl touched his body all over? Does he go for pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship with him for more than 6 years. He loves me a lot and we are getting married in 4 months. He has this backache problem and sometimes he gets massages. I recently heard my friends say guys get erotic pleasures from it and I'm thinking if he ... (121 words)

She wasn't sure our relation was going to work so we met unofficially! Since her mum introduced her to someone else, she's put me aside. What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I met someone and after 8-9months we were going to get married - but shortly after she decided to cancel saying that she had issues with me and would like to sort through them - then 2weeks after she said she just wanted out and it wasnt going to work. That was a year ago... (194 words)

Do you really have to wait to take a pregnancy test? If so, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

- I'll be the first to admit that this may be a dumb question. Sorry! Anyway, can a pregnancy test still tell you whether or not you're pregnant before you've missed your period? I know that some tests say they can detect pregnancy up to 5 days before a missed period. ... (165 words)

I want out because I'm not loyal and I'm bored. But she loves me - and sometimes I think I love her - so I could just come back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well I have been going out with this girl for about six months. I look at myself and I think "why would someone want to go out with me?" I think this because I like my freedom - I'm unloyal - and to be honest I get bored. Well, now I'm thinking about ending it. We are ... (109 words)

He has a girlfriend, so why was he so desperate to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have once asked for help with this situation about 8 months ago, but it went quiet for awhile but now im back in the same situation again! i have very strong feelin for a very good friend of mine we've been friends for alot of years. ive felt like this for a long time and ... (214 words)

When I show him signs of affection he gets scared. Later, we become close again! I can't stand this pattern! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am inlove with someone who just got over a bad relationship 1 year ago, but i think he is still hurt about it an he says that he is still inlove with her. Everything was going ok with us, he was honest to tell me he liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship.but we did ... (271 words)

I want to get pregnant, but his sex drive is a problem! Also, I love him, but is he right for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - lately, I am being coming home late from school (around 10) my boyfriend wakes up early in the morning, so we just eat together and he falls sleep instantly... It is really hard to have sex. I want to get pregnant... what could I do to incentive his sex drive? Besides… ... (94 words)

We are fantastic together, but he always leaves to solve his marriage issues and ends up returning! Will he come back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a wonderful relationship with a man for nearly 3 years. We are best friends as well as having so much passion and chemistry. We miss each other terribly if we ever have to be apart. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to spend my life with him. We are ... (399 words)

Anyone have an free English dating website recommendations?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What are the best dating websites that are free that are england ... (12 words)

What are the signs that she likes me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am at university and there is a girl i find attractive. We work together in practicals etc. Can anyone tell me signs that she may like me too?... (33 words)

Is rough sex bad for you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is rough sex bad for you? Once i had a guy go a bit rough on me and i asked him to stop and he did. after like a 10 sec break i continued but was still in a lot of pain. i had no pain after sex just a little soreness but the pain was really bad during; is that safe?... (64 words)

My wife is cheating and acting like a nymphomaniac with a neighbour. Should I tell his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - About a month ago I found out my wife of 11 yrs (we dated 10 yrs before that so thats 21 yrs together) has been cheating on me for the last 3 yrs. I also found out she was text messaging a neighbor and his friend alot and wanting to have sex with them also and I found out a few ... (465 words)

I've fallen for a guy in the sixth form, but I don't want to compromise our friendship. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have fallen with one of my guy mates who is in the sixth form in my school- he is 17. I am completely and utterly in love with him and its so bad it actually aches inside. I know this sounds dramatic and your proberly thinking this is just a puppy love but I am so ... (254 words)

How do I go on being married to someone I don't love, and daydreaming about the man I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a situation that I never thought I would be in. I am 29, have been married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children. About a month ago my best friend reconnected me with someone from my past, my very first love and the man whom I gave my virginity. We dated on and off ... (334 words)

How can I get out of this vicious circle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Mine is an odd one but I'll try to keep it all as short as possible. I had been living with my (now ex-)fiance for 18 months between September 2005 and March 2007. I'm now 28 and he's 24, and has always been a bit immature but I could handle it up until this year.... (1498 words)

Should I contact her and tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help, I am still in love with a woman after 14 years. I met her 14 years ago,we worked together, I feel deeply in love with her, like I have never experienced love. I was married at the time with two young children and she was only 22 and had a boyfriend, shes 14 years ... (309 words)

He touched my bum - does that mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he also touched my bum when he ... (166 words)

He thinks flirting is a joke, but I don't. Is there a future for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

- Ive just started a relationship with a friend who I have known for a year. I think our morals/values r pretty similar. However the other day I was telling him how one of my friends flirts with another one of my frineds bfs all the time. My bf didnt seem to understand why it was ... (231 words)

Do I have to tell him that I want more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a real problem and am confussed as well.2 years ago i meet a man but we were leaving so far; him in usa me in africa but in the first year he came for holidayz .Returning in usa he remain to call me we really keep in touch.now he is here in africa he has return to leave ... (129 words)

All the nice girls love a Submariner - how do I cope with separation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, how many of you have been in a successfull long distance relationship with somebody in the armed forces? I have met an amazing guy who is in the Navy, at the moment he hasnt been given a date of when he will be going to sea for a long period so he is able to come ... (168 words)

Am I too young to be in love?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 years in age, i know this is gonna sound stupid but i really need an answer to my question i think im in love with my girlfriend, but i feel im to young to be in love. i treasure the little things she dose, im really comfortable with her and we have so much fun together. ... (84 words)

Is there hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all. Could really use a bit of advice from anyone who may be able to help. My ex and I recently split after 2 1/2 years together. Everything has been amicable and we are both still good friends. The only problem is that I want to be more than friends. I suspect that ... (223 words)

When he isn't with someone else we get on well - how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing someone he told me things were not going to work out because the feelings was just not there,however we were still sleeping with each other i got pregnant he didnt want the baby i did he got a new girl friend, we didnt talk for months. towards the end of the preg... (123 words)

Will he ever come looking for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi when i was 15 i started going out with this boy we were madly in love for about two years in the last 6 months it became very stormy as he had a wandering eye. Any way we broke up and both moved on he has been with his girlfriend about 3 years and i met my fiance who i have ... (165 words)

Is my mind having a meltdown?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay this is one of those things that just confuses me! If you are in a 'fun bud' relationship with a guy, who knows you care about him more than casual, are these things normal behaviour or is he showing that he cares when he can't actually say it because hes the 'i don't... (246 words)

She was raped by her ex father in law. How can I cope with the distress I feel for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age - Hey, My fiance has a sexual past that she is not proud of and I'm not either. It's a real problem because I get these recurring disturbing images. She is coming from a really sick marriage in which her husband tried to sell her for sex and his father actually did rape her. M... (84 words)

How can I avoid making waves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my girlfriend and I recently split after 15 months with the strain of our long distance relationship (different universities). She had mentioned about a month prior that she thought we wouldn’t have much free time with increased workloads in our final years, but I persuade... (361 words)

I treat her like a princess but she keeps breaking my heart. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupids, Really need your help right now. To cut a long and complicated story short. Met a girl at uni, had a relationship, she broke up with me over the summer. She returned a few months later wanting a casual thing. I could'nt do that, but we continued to be friends ... (615 words)

Why am I so obsessed with my appearance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why i am i so obsessed with how i look when i am out in town or school if i see a mirror or a window i will look at myself snd it is getting me down when i dont look my best i am always getting told i am pretty but somtimes the bitchy people will be crule to me and say i am so ... (96 words)

Is it ok for a married female to write to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) age 41-50 - hi is it ok that a married female writes my hubby that he needs to drive tonight and that she misses him ? they not friends but she heard that me an my hubby have some issues so what should i think? I do trust my hubby but asking me what was she thinking to do that? ... (62 words)

I am the other woman, I have had his child, If he stays with his wife for the children, are they more important than mine?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a married man and he is in love with me. We just had a child together. He tells me he love his wife because they have been together for over 10 years, but I find him with me everyday, allday. He tells me that he is very unhappy in his marriage and is staying ... (81 words)

We are supposed to be serious, so why do I have to wait until the weekends till I hear from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i need some male advice. I met this guy on the internet a month ago. We had a great first date, and i ended up staying 4 days at his. it was really nice, we cooked each other meals, he took me in to work in the morning. It was like a relationship. Since t... (246 words)

If its just connection problems, then why was he so aggressive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Im having problems with my significant other. He's is away for two weeks and ive tried to ask him nicely to get on the internet from his hotel. So on tuesday he tried but then claimed that he wasnt able to get on but his peers were. And yesterday he managed to get on a... (325 words)

I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big deal but I was really hurt by ... (76 words)

How can I be myself and not loose my lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i had find my great love in net ,so everyone of us want to know every detail abt the other partner. i was feeling at ease with him coz we had getting along with each other but ,yeasterday, he had ask me to show him my bra , he mentionned that he want to know my personal... (153 words)

A silly comment has blown all out of proportion - Am I a bad friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends has recently starting going with a boy at school, and although he irritates me sometimes, he's a mate of mine too. I jokingly called him a tw@t the other day in front of him and my friend, because we were chatting and joking around. My other be... (451 words)

My life is in turmoil, I have found that my fiance is a liar and potential cheat - Chat rooms, rude pictures, womens numbers. How can I ever trust him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance have been together now for 5 years, we met online and lived 135 miles apart for the first year, i trusted him completely but when we moved in together i started noticing things weren't right, he had loads of rude pictures on his pc of women which he had ... (382 words)

I want to put things right - what can I do to make her feel special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - how can i suprise my girlfriend? we have been a bit rocky at the moment and i want to put it behind us and move forward... (26 words)

I wanted a meaningful relationship but we had drunken sex. Is it over before its begun?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i made the mistake of having sex with a guy whom i have gone out with just on 3 dates. i really hate myself and i cant sleep coz i am so depressed. i think that we could have a real nice proper r'ship that work out until i messed it up by going to bed with him. i was quite high ... (108 words)

It was on and off at the time, but I just cant get over him. Advice please

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22 October 2007 (F)

age - The relationship was intense, more flight than fight, lasted 1 year... with many breakups. It is now a year The best times and some very bad times.It is now a year ago and I have met a few guys since then just to see if it was possible to enter another relationship, they are ... (94 words)

Another man kissed me while I was drunk. My soon to be fiance doesn't know and I'm not sure what to do.

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22 October 2007 (F) age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend was away south working for a while. I went out with a few friends and got very drunk, ending back up at someone's house I didn't know very well. We were also smoking weed, so I was really gone after a while, all of this should be taken into ... (413 words)

I found my dad has been cheating on my mom.

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my dad has been cheating on my mother for the past 4/5 years (maybe longer) with women on the internet as well as women he meets at business trips. I found out because he accidentally left open an internet browser when I went on the computer after him and he ... (389 words)

I fell in love with another guy and I'm married.

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, please help me get off to this situation.. im married, i have fallen to onother guy, yes i made mistake but i really wanted to get off to this other guy, although i loved him already.. i know its wrong to be with him coz im married.. i do love my husband but its realy a big ... (206 words)

How to build muscle mass.

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 40 (M), married. I am 5'6" and 60 Kgs. I smoke 30 cigrettes a day. I feel I am underweight and not well built. I mean no good mass over my bones and muscle stuff. so I feel I am underweight. I want to put on the required weight so that I can turn it into handsome muscles. ... (238 words)

What is it that he wants?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear sexually active men, I need your help! My husband, first slowly, then suddenly, lost interest in sex. Then he went through the period of "great quiet". He would not say a thing or comment, or explain himself. I was almost convinced that he was gay. Until one day I "caugh... (461 words)

Is he playin head games with me, or does he really have feelings for me?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy that i work with...i really think i'm in love with him and i know he's got feeling for me too. whenever i talk to him on the phone, or see him at work my stomach feels like it's knotting up. my hands sweat whenever i get close to him, and when he hugs me or ... (314 words)

The thought of her leaving again makes me physically sick.

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am madly in love with my gf...after five years, am more in love with her than ever. We will marry, but not until we are out of school and have jobs, etc. She spent half of last school year in a program in Europe. She asked for my input and I didn't want to be without her, ... (179 words)

I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever since. This was 6 years ago. ... (292 words)

Will wearing it compramise my beliefs, or make it hard to follow them?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months ended up going into a halloween store after we'd found out our friends were throwing a halloween party. After looking around a bit we came to the women's section. We stood there for a while and he asked me if i liked this one revealing dress. We ... (194 words)

What does she mean by this?

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - "sorry just have alot on my mind.. haven't really wanted to talk to anyone lately i guess. tryin to clear my head and concentrate on my test also" "no i don't want you out of my life, i guess i just need a lil space right now" and the night b4 she told me she missed me.. w... (64 words)

Longer lasting sex or a danger?

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have heard that to improve the time you last under the sheets you can use your pelvic muscles to try and stop your self pissing, which i guess is a mini work out those muscles. I can now stop my self pissing three or four times during a single leak. My question is firs... (105 words)

What does she mean?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this girl i have been liking for well over 5 mnts now and was totally into me replied to a text i asked my ex to send to her. it went like this. my ex (A.B.) the chic(R.W. A.B~ so do u like chelsea? (chelsea is me) R.W.~like a friend A.B.~ but u used to like h... (134 words)

First date, can you help me?

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a thirteen year-old christian eigth grader starting to date a 7th grader at my church, I want to date her, and just asked her out, she said yes, but I think I might blow it... Can you help me?... (42 words)

Should I pursue him or leave him alone?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I call him? We've known each other for years. Hadnt seen him in years. He's been through a lot in life. Drug addictions, crazy women, absent father. He has had over 3 kids only two are alive, the rest died almost immediately after birth. Sad I know. Many diff... (324 words)

Re-married but want to be back together without hurting our spouses.

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i am married 1 kid. my ex-wife is married 1 kid. we have 2 together. we have been divorced 8yrs. we recently realize we still love each other madly and truly we split because of alcohol but dont want to hurt are kids by our new spouses but cant stand living apart what should ... (57 words)

Should I move on, or wait on him?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy and we have been flirting for a while and he asked me did I like him and I was too shy to tell him yes.He goes on and gets another girlfriend but we flirt frequently. He said if he didnt have a girlfriend than we could have gone out. I still like him and I think ... (75 words)

My ex sent me a friend request on myspace.

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend sent me a friend request on myspace. He was on there before when we were dating but he'd decided to delete his profile (not because we broke up). I don't really want him in my list, or as a friend because he was too intense of a boyfriend and will probably be ... (82 words)

Should II stay, or go?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend 'Matt' for 15 months and I love him dearly, we've always talked about goals and marriage and houses etc but lately our relationship has been on the rock pretty bad. He no longer makes me feel special and he doesn't make an effort to work on ... (244 words)

Should I tell my best friend's girlfriend that I've been intimate and fell in love with the father of her children?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known this guy for 4 years now. We met when his gf was pregnant with their first child. It really was quite instantaneous that we both realized that we really liked each other and had so much in common. But we kept things totally platonic, because he was involved with ... (1582 words)

I'm in love with my cousin in law, Help?

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 14 and shes 23. We are not related in any way. She is married to my cousin, and they have two kids. We have been talking a lot and spending a lot of time together and I think i fell in love with her. I know I should accept that this love isnt going anywhere and i should ... (91 words)

Should I be worried, and how to overcome it.

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my Girlfriend for 10 months now. We have recently started college and had big changes in our relationship due to less time with eachother. Throughout the holidays, I had her to myself. She's not very sociable so she didn't really speak to many people exce... (242 words)

Can you give me an opinion to this situation?

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22 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So ive been with my g/f for 8 months and everything was incredible til about 2 wks ago, she got very depressed. Were both 25. We never actually planned on being in a relationship, it started as just a friend w/ benefit type of situation. When we met, she had just gotten out of ... (418 words)

I want to have sex, will it hurt?

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?... (28 words)

Help, My hubby won't sleep with me.

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22 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband doesnt like having sex with me. It really depresses me so much - I see people on TV etc in love scenes and it upsets me. I have been with him since I was 17 and the only man I have been with. I know people have good sex lives but that is something I daydream about ... (510 words)