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writes:i have been in a relationship since 3 years im a virgin me n my partner really want to have sex we have tried it a couple of times but couldnt't really do it cause everytime he tried 2 insert his penis it caused me pain ,could u suggest somethig that i could do 2 avoid the pain some ointment or gel that i could apply before intercourse so that it doesnt pain me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): we are in the same position and xylocaine jelly was recommended. Have not tried it as yet. Would love to hear how it worked for you. Pls e-mail us at [email address blocked].
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): Hey there,
There are a lot of possibilities of why you might have such pain with intercourse. there are a lot of medical conditions that can be treated and others that just take time. Some gynecologists will give you a tube of xylocaine jelly. Wikkid stuff, and depending on ur guy, he might like it too ;)
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 KY jelly is perfect, but it may also be worth masturbating, either via an implement or just with your fingers.
It will climatise your body to it and make it a bit easier going.
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reader, dazzleberry +, writes (24 October 2007):
 There are a few different things to try firsty take things slowly and practice foreplay which can be as much fun as intercourse, your body will then produce a natural lubricant which will make intercourse a lot less painful there are also synthetic lubricants such as ky gel that can help you can buy these from adult stores or over the internet. If these don't work try inserting the penis a little every time you try and it will eventual get easier, if your boyfriend loves you he will be patient.
good luck dazzle x
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reader, jowin75 +, writes (24 October 2007):
 try some ky jelly, that is spose to be helpful, it will get better after a few times i swear ,
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