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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What happened to me? I think my drink may have been laced?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey there! Im really really confused and getting really down about what has happened as i dont understand how/or what happened. The other week I went out with a group of friends. I had a few drinks and was feeling abit drunk (but Im usually really good with drink and can ... (882 words)

Any tips on how to break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I had a little problem...which is why I'm writing to you guys (tried to figure it out by myself..turned out that got me even more confused). I've got a pretty good bf of over a year and a half, but I just don't think he's entirely the best bf I could have right now (... (208 words)

I'm paranoid guys only want me for one thing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to be seen for myself and not eye candy! hi everyone sorry to just bombarde you with questions but i have a problem again. its like this mmkay, well i think i have a great personality but no matter what i always get told about my butt and all this other stuff! i know ... (115 words)

Should I answer the phone and tell her why I don't want to have anything to do with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently ended my relationship with my now ex of 2 years due to the ridiculous amount of problems that we faced. She was extremely demanding and always threatened to end our relationship if she didn't get her way. She would endlessly complain about not getting enough s... (300 words)

How can I make her fall in love with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfreind who lives with me says she luvs me , but not in luv with me we still together , how can i make her full inluv with me again ?... (32 words)

I feel so bad, I can't say goodbye, and can't stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Every year, I have to go to America to visit aunties and uncles that live over there. I have a great time when I am with them as we are all very close, but when I have to come home, it breaks my heart knowing that I will be so far away from them within some hours ! I cry for ... (210 words)

Her parents found out we were having sex, and didn't take it well.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - About one month ago, my gf's parents found out we were having sex. They went ballistic! I think they overreacted and made things overly complicated instead of just dealing with it. I am not a college kid trying to get laid! I have been with my girl for one year and 4 months, ... (207 words)

She said she had a sex dream about me, but turned down my offer to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age - A woman at my job told me she had a sex dream about me. She even said I was good. I asked her if she wanted to have sex with me and she said no. Why would she say that and then not want to take up on the offer. I let it go, no means no right? Or am I missing something here. ... (125 words)

Do I tell him I know I wasn't his first, or just let it go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and he is the only person I have slept with. However, before we started dating, he was in a relationship with a girl I knew from school, who I have now became good friends with. My boyfriend is absolutely fine about this. ... (130 words)

I'm 16 dating a guy who's 22. Do you think that's wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and i just started dating a 22 year ol that i met at a concert.. Our relationship is purely innocent. The idea of sex hasnt even came up. He is really respectful and we connect and a different level than age. I really and truly in my heart dont think it is wrong. ... (66 words)

My boyfriend I met on msn, never met in person. I hate myself for what I did. He calls me a liar.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys i dont know what to do man i am all stressed out yo. I am 16 and currently talk to a male over the internet for about 3 months lets say, he is 23. he told me he loves me but he lives very far from me and so the chances of us meeting are very slim and he said he trusts m... (566 words)

Will I ever find love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - will i ever find love again? will someone ever make me feel really special and want to stay with me forever? At the moment i feel like these things will never happen to me again and that i am destined to be alone, never to be married or to have kids! I feel like i will be ... (114 words)

I might have an eating disorder. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I used to be 10 and a half stone though then i lost weight and got down to a healthy size eight and was eight stone. I had given up all chocolate, sweets, ice cream, cake, takeaways, basiccally everything apart from my three meals a day and fruit in between! I thought i was ... (136 words)

Do I talk to my man about my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a marriage that my ex was having affairs.I think im still trying to deal with that. my ex wants to go get help and work on things. i have been dating a guy for about 9months now and my ex is upset that im seeing this man.He wants our family back.there are things i... (191 words)

Should I remain nice about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with someone for almost 2 years now. Her ex has always been a problem in our relationship. I want her to remain friends, but most of the experience I have had with their relationship is behind my back and inappropriate. I have tried to overcome this but I am beg... (113 words)

Things are complicated. I'm falling for this new guy and I have a boyfriend of 2 years..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Things feel so complicated. iv met this guy. and i wonder if he likes me. he always hangs around with me if we have spare time for however long he carrys on with me n play fight im christian n i invited him to my church for a charity concert with gospl singers and h... (617 words)

What's the furthest you should go with a boy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

9 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Whats the furthest you shuld go with a boy? I mean, i like to make out with them but they always want me to go further, and im not even 15 yet. I dnt wanna giv them BJ or or toss them up, but this makje sme seem like a total virgin! Wat shuld I do? Am I being too much of a ... (65 words)

Why would he go back to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate life. well me and my ex supposedly got back together, he claimed he missed me blah blah blah. well we werent 100% together but we were thinking about it. he went back to his other girlfriend. this shocks me cause last night he called he ugly and he was so sorry for ... (136 words)

What does it mean when someone calls me 'sweetheart'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, when somebody calls you sweetheart what does it mean,i was called it today by some boy at school for the first time, i dont even no what the word means, help ... (33 words)

Why should I give him a BJ? I don't get anything out of it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok it seems my man wants a bj all the time but he wants me to finish it without my getting any pleasure what should i do about this ... (30 words)

I talked to a pretty girl and my knees went weak. What can I say to her next time I see her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 11 and i have a big kind of embarrassing question. Theres this friendly pretty smart girl that i realllly like and we're already friends and my uncles doing a haunted house i said(quote)hey are you doing anything for halloween she said yea trick or treating i said my ... (209 words)

Should I tell my best friend about me and him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently have started to really like my best friends ex. When they went out i really got on well with him and i was happy for them both. When they broke up I was there for both of them. But over the last few weeks I started developing feelings I shouldnt. Ive known my best ... (114 words)

SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

- Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. Maybe sometime in 2008 I'... (123 words)

Does he love me as much as I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for over a year. He is the only man I have ever slept with and I am the only woman he has ever slept with. We love eachother more than anything but when I talk about engagement he always says someday. I am ready to be engaged to him as I know ... (157 words)

Are hormones the same for girls and boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Ive always wondered, are hrmones more active in men or women?... (11 words)

My Husband has rented pornos - should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I just found out my husband has rented several porns that imply that the actresses are teens even though they are not. They are depicted as teens and the title includes the word teen in them. Should I be worried?... (42 words)

What do boys think of me, and why does my friend call me a tease?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - today at school it was sex and contrception education and we missed a few classes we had to fill in a survey about where sex clinics are in the city and all the boys kept on asking me where it was (saying that i have been pregnante and i am a slag)i do like atention off the ... (155 words)

I feel down, stuck in a life rut, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

- i feel totally stuck in a rut Im 24 and dont have that many friends but the ones i do have seem to be too busy to do stuff at the moment My bf works a lot so see him once or twice a week I have hobbies but feel stuck in life at the min Maybe i just need a night out but no one i ... (94 words)

My husband gets angry when I'm not in the mood.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband gets very angry when i do not give him sex is this normal or is it something i should say something about.he wants it up to 2 times a day and if he does not get it then he is in a very bad mood all day. what do i do?... (53 words)

We were happy until I found out about my fiance's secret affair with my mother.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my fiancee who I have been with for 8 years and have a 3 month old son with had an affair with my mother. She told me a couple of days ago, she said that it happened about 2 years ago. A month before he proposed to me actually. She said that they had sex ... (241 words)

How can I accept it's over, when I don't understand the reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex broke up with me 5 months ago, everything was fine, we had been together for 3 years and i asked for commitment. He told me he was sorry but he couldn't offer it to me and as he new i wanted a future with him he had been backing off for the last 3 months. i never saw ... (124 words)

Why does she introduce her new boyfriend to all her ex-boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I dated a woman for 7 months, she was in her early 40s and I'm mid 30s. When we first started daring she thought it was okay to introduce me to her ex-boyfriends (THREE of them). At first I thought it was fine, I don't have a problem meeting the guy(s) but why introduce me to ... (259 words)

Is a long distance relationship with no communication possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,i have a long distance relationship for 19 months.i m 29 living in spain and she s 23 in canada. we met by internet when she was in usa for studies.during this time there,our relation was excellent.we use to speak for hours everyday on msn,phone.we travelled to see each oth... (399 words)

I don't know how to tell him I don't want to go out with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help. This is going to sound like a soap opera but this is it. ok a guy from work who are hung out with sometimes has broke up with his girlfriend. So now the guy whats to date me and ex girlfriend wants to date my ex (which to be honest im greatful for as he still fa... (241 words)

How do I toughen up in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Im a whimp in my relationship, My wife, now ex wife, left me and my children for another man that she met while at a family funeral in the UK, she never returned. I am now very much in love with Nicole, I smother her through fear of losing her, but i know that by doing th... (267 words)

My bf put his penis in and pulled it back out, I'm 14 - how do I get a pregnancy test without my mum knowing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im onli 14 years and i would like to ask a question me and my boyfriend didnt want to hav sex and he put his penis in and pulled it back out, it was 5 days ago when i done it what shall i do and how do i get a pregnancy test at my age without my mum knowing ?... (63 words)

I'm a boy who fancies my male teachers. Am I in denial? Am I paranoid? Am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old boy and constantly find myself attracted to my male teachers??? what exactly makes someone gay? I think it could be because I want to be like them not just because I like them but I have got a freidnly relationship with them all. I'm not alwasy attracte... (84 words)

Do I give my ex another chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, the relationship was perfect at start between us, our family liked each other and we did everything together. the problems started a few months ago we started to argue and fight alot, until we eventually said it was over... (214 words)

What am I doing wrong? All I do is homework and there's no school mate who likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - im miserable. its as simple as that. these days i cant see any meaning in life. all i can think about is how horrible i am. im fat, small(ish), ugly, all i do is homework and there's not one girl in the school who can actually say they like me. they dont. i want to go for e... (139 words)

About aids - how do you catch it, what are the consequences, can you be born with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (?) age 30-35 - im quite young and so not the most experienced person in the world but... how do you catch aids? what are the consequences? can you be born with it? if so how can i tell?... (38 words)

I accidentally touched her boob and she said nothing. Waht does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like a girl but she might not be intressted. i told a freind and she told her and she just laughd. we are mates and do i do somtimes flirt with her, but i cant tell if she flirts back she ofte hits me but not in a angy way, does that count. one day i accidently touched ... (72 words)

My ex still loves me - shall I get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy from school but he doesn't seem to like me.i think i got bored of trying to make him notice me,so im thinking of getting back with my ex,who still loves me.what should i do???... (38 words)

His other woman might be pregnant. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in a relationship with a man who has someone else and she might be pregnant what should i do ?... (21 words)

Am I normal? I don't feel it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why the heck am I still stuck on my ex BF. He has moved on with a new girl, I am also in a reationship. I broke it off with him. When he wants to come back, I tell him no, yet when he is with someone else, I want him. Is this normal, I don't feel normal?? AM I unconsci... (121 words)

How can I satisfy him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there... ive been with my boyfriend for three months now and everything is fantastic. He actually told me for the first time that he loved me the other day. We got chatting about bedroom antics and he said that even though he doesnt always reach climax he still enjoys h... (109 words)

I like him a lot but he's gay - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've just arrived at University and have met loads of great new people. One person in particular has really made an impression. He's so great, really fun but sensitive and intense. I think I like him a lot but the problem is that he is gay. You can't tell and I would ... (123 words)

His daughter is lonely and clings to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age - what should my bf do about his pregnant daughter? she has a child and a husband but apparently her husband does not meet her emotional needs so she tries to get these met by her father. she is very lonely and has something definitly missing from her life. My bf admits that she... (159 words)

Should I move on to this new girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. I'm natalie and i'm lesbain right, i split up from my girlfriend a couple of months ago because she cheated on me. Ever since we've been working on getting back together. We're great together we've been intimate and everything but, she still won't get back with me. She ... (249 words)

Should I ask her out? My head is in a mess!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Got a bit of a dilema Had the same girlfriend for 7 years. But in the summer see went around the world for a year. At first I was fine with it and was happy that she was doing something she wanted to do. But last week I meet a lass, and I haven't been able to get her ... (115 words)

How can I stop smothering her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I love my girlfriend Nicole with an intensity that ive never experienced. The problem is, I want to do nice things for her all of the time and want to spend every waking moment with her. She tells me that I dont need to do nice things to show her how much I love her. I se... (156 words)

I'm a mixed-up kid. Can anyone help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - help me!!!!!!!!!!! i am 17 and been going out with my boyfriend for three years he is now 19. recently i really cant stick him. when he comes round i just cant even look at him or even speak to him, it has also affected the bedroom life all i want to do is sleep. but i cant see... (72 words)

Can I tell if he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this dude and we had spend time together but we aint been around each other in month and whenever he sees me he stares at me and he watches me while I dance in the club. Whenever we did spend time he didnt really talk that much. His brother had introduce us but I dont ... (88 words)

My boyfriend says I'm controlling and paranoid as I don't like him going out clubbing with his work colleagues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend says that i am controlling and paranoid as i don't like him attending nights out clubbing with his work colleagues(many female), however i feel that the reason i have a problem with this is because he has failed to return home from many of these nights out ... (131 words)

All we seem to do when we're together is argue! Should I stick with or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfrind has very demanding job which means he has to travel alot. when we r together all we seem to do is argue. I want to know if its work that is our problem or if its something deeper. we had an arguemnt the other day that culminated in the 'lets breakup and u move out ... (82 words)

How can I get my mom to trust me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my mom wont let me date till 18 and then i sneak off and get a boyfriend and she finds out after i tell her when she asked and she is fine with it until she finds out about his dad.. does drugs and stuff yeah well i dont think the dad has anything to do withthis. i real... (110 words)

Does he want a 'babysitter' or a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I met a guy through dating website. 3 weeks ago... I'm 40, divorced 5yrs with 2 children, only had 1 other partner for a couple of years which ended earlier this year. 1st 2 dates were fab and very intense. He has 2 ex's with 3 children between them and it is all ... (274 words)

Will I always be this miserable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - When will my heart heal? I promised myself long before my girlfriend of 2 years split with me that I would never allow myself to become depressed... But I think that is what's happening, and it just doesn't seem right. It's been almost 3 1/2 months since she broke up wi... (375 words)

Sex is painful. What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year has just dumped me because i find sex too painful, sometimes it burns and I never ever enjoy it. What is wrong with me? Can anyone help? I'm never gonna have a boyfriend with this problem. Im too embarrassed to see a dr.... (49 words)

Why doesn't he want to be intimate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - help! i have been with my patner since feb and in july after spending a week together we decided to move in together, the sex has been fantasic untill the last 2 weeks. he just doesnt seem to want to be intimate with me he kisses and cuddles me and tells me he loves me. i have ... (84 words)

Can I believe my horoscope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Are Star Signs always true? I'm a Pisces, and he's a Virgo. Our Star Signs are incompatible, yet we're crazy for each other. I love everything about him, because he's so different from me. I've found that I've got bored with the people that have things in common with ... (127 words)

Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel rejected by my parents for conflicts i had with them in past. Now i fear that other people would do the same, as may be i was the person who had something wrong with himself, and that parents are always right. I am scared of developing any intimacy with people or ... (73 words)

Is he really as busy as he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately my boyfriend doesnt call me as frequent as he used to sometimes back and when i call him he tells me how busy he is lately. Im starting to have ideas of maybe he's not interested in me an more thuogh he still claims to love me and never break my heart. Im confused... (75 words)

Should I be alarmed that he hasn't written yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im currently living in the carribean right now and i meet him on the internet weve been speaking for like 8 months now but in aug. he left to the army, his russian/jappanese and we told one another how we felt, I said i liked him and that i really felt comfortable with him. ... (210 words)

Have I scared him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - the guy i really like, now has decided we should stay friends, after months of saying we would go out etc, i am totally gutted, but i think i've been too full on and scared him off, he now thinks i'm mad so i've ruined any chance with him! i'm totally gutted, is their any way i ... (77 words)

How do I spice things up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i wanna spice it up in the bedroom and so i wanna ask whats something mind blowing i can try ?? ... (22 words)

He never called - does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling so hurt and confused. I have grown to love someone that does not love me. He says he does but I don’t think that is the case. We were supposed to meet yesterday but he never called. I ended up calling him twice and sending him a message and it is 2 the ... (255 words)

I want a threesome, she's reluctant. What do I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here's the story, I hooked up with this chick I met a little while ago and we get along famously. We speak often, have a good time when we go out, great sex albeit a little infrequently due to distance constraints. It hasn't been going long enough where I would call her m... (300 words)

Is it possible that this long-distance relationship can work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello there. i really would be so grateful of some help. Me and my boyfriend met in march this year in our first year of university. We got together in May, and stayed together all summer, although he lived 300 mile away, we managed, he came to see me and i went to see him.... (339 words)

How do I take my mind off waiting for him to call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically, My best guy friend and i have done everything with eachother (when we were drunk only)except for have sex.(we're both still virgins).but now he never calls me,and i dont know if im just being paranoid,or what. Maybe he's just really busy with school.I dont kno... (126 words)

Should I go on a date with this new guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

- A boy who Ive known for a while has asked me out on a date. The thing is, I know he is not over his ex who split with him last year. I feel like a rebound but then I also feel like I should give him a chance because he has to move on. I also still like a boy who I was seeing f... (100 words)

Losing my virginity (next Saturday) what should I expect?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for us like silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow songs, the works ! Im really e... (78 words)

Darn it if I don't have a crush on my new boss!

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this topic has been discussed before, but I need my own responses. I am 35 and living happily. I started a new job about 3 months ago and have already developed a crush on my new boss. I have an overwhelming urge to tell him, but also feel that this isn't right ... (99 words)

Why is he nasty to me?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He just let me know he wants to move home for the summer when he graduates which is 300 miles away and with his family who hates me. The past two times I visited we had fights about how his family treated me and only really ... (363 words)

I need more commitment from him. Does he want me or not?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I please have your advice? I have been seeing my boyfriend for over 1 year. We see each other a lot less than I would like (once a week) as he works shifts and seems to be busy working a lot. Every time I ask for more of a commitment he tells me to please stop pressuring ... (332 words)

How can I get over my holiday romance?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy on holiday and i like him soo much !! but he lives in another country and he said he cant come bak for a few years..im really sad and i cant get over him it really upsets me ='[ what should i do ??... (48 words)

Are stretch marks a turn off?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Are stretch marks a turn off? I will be giving birth to my first child soon, and plan to start working out and getting back into shape, but I have horrible stretch marks on my thighs and my backside. I used all sorts of creams and lotions thorought my pregnancy, but t... (123 words)

He began watching porn, then doesn't want sex at all, what's going on?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everybody i am confused about something but i will try my best to be brief in this note i have been with this man for seven years and it has not all been smooth sailing but it has been lovely for the most part, we have been very dedicated to one another and to resolvin... (1008 words)

I have a new partner, we want to live together, but because of her pension we can't.

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have met a new partner we have been seeing each other for 6 weeks we get along extremely well we are both aquarians the idea of living together in the future came up and she has straight out said that due to her pension if we were to move in she would lose that and be ... (224 words)

I met a guy, who gave me his number, I called and think his phone dies, now I can't reach him.

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9 October 2007 (F) - Can someone tell me what happened? I met a guy who works in the fitness center at my college. I was getting my id renewed and he took my picture and we chatted a little and he seemed like a nice person and very friendly, funny, and cool. He gave me his business card and said if ... (399 words)

We broke up over something stupid. How can I get him back?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get my ex-boyfriend back. I know I love him and I feel as though we broke up for something stupid. He's been giving me mixed signals and such, but I don't know how to approach it. Any advice? By the way, I am supposed to go over to his dorm and watch a movie with him ... (67 words)

How can I find out if my friend likes me?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i find out if my friend likes me? I see her talkin to a other boys but don't know if she likes me more than them. Any way to find out? If somebody says take her out and see, how do i take her out? I need an excuse she always asks why?! Thanks... (56 words)

How do you tell if you're in love?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Short and to the point...how can you tell if you are in love?... (13 words)

Any suggestions on how to seduce a guy I work with?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone have any suggestions on how to seduce a guy? Specifically a guy I talk to and work with, but we never really hang out in private, just one on one. Any suggestions for surefire ways?... (39 words)

Is this the real deal?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a twenty year old female attending school two hours away from my hometown. I have an apartment at school where I stayed during school breaks for the last year. I met a guy at my job, and we have been dating for 10 months now. I love him so much, and he is truly an amazing ... (146 words)

He's verbally abusive but I love him

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, You really got it wrong this time. I just broke up with my boyfriend of one year and am going through some hard times. I really love him, but after struggling for this whole time we were together I finally see the part of him I could never accept - he is really a... (163 words)

What is this discharge?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and this might be too long but plz answer my questions i will be veery thankful it will make my life alot better. I have this liquid stuff coming out of my vagina it has been there for as long as i can remember probably before when i started having periods. It is a yel... (445 words)

What are risks with oral sex?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - so recently i performed oral sex on my girlfriend and im just curious as to what risks there are? we are both virgins and we have only been with each other. is there anything i can do too make things safer without losing pleasure... (44 words)

Do I tell my teacher how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a legal adult now. I really like him and want to buy him presents or do something else nice for him *blush*. Unfortunately there's still a large age gap between my teacher and myself (He's actually around my dad's age *ugh*). I was just wondering how far is too ... (368 words)

He's a cheating liar, do I talk to her?

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9 October 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I need advice my boyfriend has cheated many times. The last time he said he was ready to be all about me. So part of the deal was for him not to talk to any females and I see that he has texed a girl who he just meet before he got caught. They known each other a few weeks and ... (144 words)

He says he loves me, so why do I feel this way?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hurts me so much lately. I dont even know where to begin. He has told me that he is gonna marry me within one year. He says I dont have an engagement ring b/c of financial reasons. right now he is talking about buying a house in a particular area, close to his ... (221 words)

Is she still cheating? She's confusing!

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girl friend cheated on me on my sons first birth day. i realy dont know what to do.one minute she makes plans for the futchure and the next she dosnt want me around.is she still cheating?should i just give up?please help im realy hurt and cofused.... (47 words)

Stay with immature girlfriend for our daughter?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - When my girlfriend is mad she likes to push my buttons, it seems as if on purpose. It could be something as silly as me wanting the bedroom door shut in order to catch some shut eye, and her refusing to leave it closed. It's like we have reverted to childhood, i close it she ... (146 words)

Stay in unrewarding relationship for her daughter's sake?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 24 my girlfriend is 21. We have been living together for over a year and a half. We really don't have anything in common. We have totally different personalities, but I don't know if I should leave because I love her daughter who is two with all my heart, and really don't ... (97 words)

Get girl or keep friend?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - One of my friends moved out to another state for a job. He proposed to his girlfriend of two years, but after living with him for 2-3 months she decided she wasnt happy and she moved back out here. When she came back she told me she liked me and had for a long time. I have ... (175 words)

Why are women so horrible to me?

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9 October 2007 (M)

- I'm not sure if I like women anymore. I'm always nice to them and ask their advice, but all they do is be horrible to me and treat me like I'm something they had thrown out. I don't know why though. It's not just the women I date it's people who I see every day who are ... (71 words)

Leave loveless marriage for crush?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a basically loveless marriage for about 10 years...i really don't know whu i even got married to this guy in the first place...he's a nice guy and all and a lot of women would probably love to have him, good looking and all. but i am not in love and probably ... (128 words)

My mans stuck on comfort! I want some romance.

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what can you do when your man gets into the comfort zone of your relationship and you feel taken for granted ? ive been in a relationship for 2 years almost and have talked to him about the way i feel it turns into a fight or him saying he will try his best to change and ... (437 words)

How do you ask a guy that has a girlfriend if he likes someone else?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Need help wit a friend. Okay my friend likes one of our other friends. The thing is that he's going out with our other friend. She really likes him and all but him and his girlfriend really like eachother. I don't know who to ask him if he does like her wit making things weird. ... (131 words)

She had a one night stand and I'm struggling to accept that. Should I stay or should I go?

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9 October 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am flattened by emotions right now and need a little advice. Today I learned that my girlfriend of 6 1/2 years had a one-night stand about 3 months ago. She tells she was wasted and doesn't even remember how it happened. I am very confused and trying to find some cla... (245 words)

I'm worried, he missed the time he said he will call, and I haven't heard from him in three days. What should I do?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 weeks ago my boyfriend said we were on a break because he was depressed. He works 2 jobs and has a lot going on with his family. He said it isn’t fair to me that I can’t have a boyfriend who can come over for dinner and take me out. I told him I would wait for him and I ... (595 words)

So many mixed signals! Can you help me make sense of this?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so last year i met "rachel" in college, and we became best friends. she lives about an hour and a half drive from my house. she introduced me to many of her friends including her then boyfriend "tom". me and tom became friends as did i and his best friend "frank". so t... (409 words)

How could he love me and move on so fast, when I'm still trying to pick up the pieces??

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 yr old college student attending same school as my ex BF We dated for 3 years but I broke things off this summer because I was not happy with the lack of effort he put into our relationship. He was very upset; even wrote a long letter to my family professing his love ... (111 words)

We are having problems. I don't think we want to be together, but are too comfortable to just leave. What should I do?

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9 October 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 months and we have been together for just over 3 years. I am not happy with him and from what he says when we argue he is not happy with me but I know he won't leave me. I believe he may love me more then I love him. Things have become so ... (234 words)