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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm thinking about having anal intercourse only my problem is that it has happened to me before a while back and it wasn't such a good experience...

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm thinking about having anal intercourse only my problem is that it has happened to me before a while back and it wasn't such a good experience at least not one that I was expecting or consenting to.... I watch porn and it turns me on to see the women having anal sex.... how ... (125 words)

I can't go outside and excercise because my skin is allergic to the sun and my sweat makes me break out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't go outside and excercise because my skin is allergic to the sun and my sweat makes me break out. Since I don't have a excercise machine at home, could I just tone and will I still lose wieght? Also by eating less?... (44 words)

Am I being oversensitive or am I doing the right thing ending the friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My good friend of 4 years moved up to my city about a month ago. Up until then I saw her every few months for weekends as she lived in other towns with her now soon to be ex husband. A gorgeous guy I had been on a few dates with suddenly stopped returning my calls or texting... (493 words)

I just don't believe him because why would he give this chick his telephone number and speak to her 3 times on the phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years in the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me 2 times and just last week I found out he met some girl in San Francisco when he was away on business. He swears up and down that they just spoke 3 times and it was ... (230 words)

When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl, even though he tells her how much he loves her everyday? ... (37 words)

My husband's personal hygiene is bad!!!

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's personal hygiene is bad. He doesn't change his underwear everyday. I've tried to help him with it, but he just seems to go blank if its mentioned. He just wears the same undies day in day out and they smell horribly. I've kept washing them but he just keeps gets ... (230 words)

My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him.....

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need major help!!! My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him..... days before my friend told him not to listen to her and he did! Now he won't answer my phone calls or emails, I am speechless and I never thought he would do this!!! I even acted ... (122 words)

I've tried finishing things but I see him everyday and can't stop myself from loving him. I dont know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boss for the last two years. I'm 22 and he is 32. The whole time he has been telling me he loves me but would never let me meet any of friends. In january I found out he had been seeing someone for the last 9 months. I was crushed. He told me it was a ... (158 words)

She tells everyone how she misses me, and how this is the worst breakup she has ever had, and that she wants me back... but then she doesnt act it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a woman for a little over a year. I ended up breaking up with her because of a few lies about her past. I couldn't care less about what she did in her past, but the lies made me realize that I can't trust her. I have moved on since then, and have been dating. ... (179 words)

Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

- Well this guy I like has a new girlfriend, (I posted the other day about feeling jealous and absolutely gutted) since then he text me saying he will be my future boyfriend and that he would like to give it a go if they split up. What the heck am I meant to do? I don't want to ... (97 words)

Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help... Why does my boyfriend always stay quiet towards me and is opened up to his mates and not me... I don't get it this really hurts me... all we say is hi bye I luv you, I miss you ntng n da buh I always put effort in and always tell him everything and I am always ... (97 words)

I came off my period last wednesday, had sex without a condom - could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I came off my period last wednesday, had sex without a condom with my boyfriend on Friday twice during the evening. He didn't come in me, he pulled out but he does have a bit of clear what I call pre-cum. Could I be pregnant?... (46 words)

I really want to take it to the next level but don't want to scare him away.

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18 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi there, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now. We've known each other for about 5 years. We are excellent friends and always have a laugh when we are together. The problem is I feel he just wants to be friends and nothing more. We are both in our ... (132 words)

How can I win him back and keep him intrested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy my age and fell deeply in love with him, but have driven him away at the same time which has left me heartbroken, I hate to think of life without him and need him back, how can I win him back and keep him intrested?... (49 words)

We broke up but what if you think your over him but you happen to see him in the streets, he looks so nice and so okay and your heart just breaks away again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - We broke up but what if you think your over him but you happen to see him in the streets, he looks so nice and so okay and your heart just breaks away again, you want to say hi but feel afraid and it hurts so much just to know your not with the man you love, you feel depressed ... (80 words)

My husband recently confessed to me that on occasions while out of town working he has looked at internet porn in order to masturbate.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband recently confessed to me that on occasions while out of town working he has looked at internet porn in order to masturbate. He travels for work about a week at a time once every 1 to 3 months. He says he looks at it only for ten minutes or so just until he sexually ... (399 words)

Should I contact him through "Friend's Reunited"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote to you a while back, I'll give you a quick run down... I'm an animal assistant at a vets, I had a guy in whose pet I was discharging for an operation when he said to me that he couldn't get a girlfriend coz the of his dogs, I said I have to share my bed with my cats end ... (222 words)

My mum and dad hate him so I've not told them I've been seeing him again because they'd flip!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in an on and off relationship for 4 years. I have a son to this man. We have had ups and downs, our parents are involved. Well mine are more involved. My parents hate this man and they think it's over completely but it's not. I hate lying to them but if I tell the ... (97 words)

Is it wrong to want to pursue an online relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age - Is it wrong to want to pursue an online relationship? I am a single father of 2, and honestly I can't find the time to talk any women except for when the kids are in bed. Along with that, are any ladies interested?... (44 words)

20 years later and I'm pregnant again!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, well I have a serious question. I am in my late 30's, been married 20 years, have 2 step sons from my husband's side. Never been on birth control, never used condoms, so for twenty years I have never been pregnant. I had a brief fling 6 years ago. Pretty heavy sexual wis... (323 words)

I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship. The problem is: I have no place to go as my family lives in Georgia. The cost of living here is outrageous. Me being a woman I have to have 2 good paying jobs just to get a st... (98 words)

I know that he deals with anger by displacing it on others and I don't want to be the one he takes it out on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am in relationship with a man who has problems communicating. When he is angry, instead of discussing what's wrong he will displace his frustrations by making mean or negative comments and avoid the real issue. Recently a close family member of his died suddenl... (123 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago because I found out that she was cheating on me. She said that we can never be together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago because I found out that she was cheating on me. She said that we can never be together. I still love her, I mean we were together for two years. At first I didn’t know what to do, but then I was just biking around and I see ... (137 words)

I've been seeing this girl for four months now and the relationship is beginning to do my head in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for four months now and the relationship is beginning to do my head in. She refuses to give me any space at all! The lack of space has especially become a problem in the last month or so -- she's been pretty much wanting me to spend all afternoon, e... (423 words)

Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have an open question, I've known this girl for a month, Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club? She said it was rape, but I didn't think so in my opinion because she doesn't have any anger against the rapist and she said ... (145 words)

If she hasn't slept with anyone what does "having demons" mean???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

- Here's the situation. My ex broke up with me after 6 years. I was gutted. She then started a long-distance relationship with a guy 2500 miles away. Anyway, it ended between them, badly I suppose. Make a long story short, we have been hanging out lately, with the intentions ... (276 words)

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much... now he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much and for me to give him the time he needs. Well I have tried to but I have sent him so many emails until we talked last and I haven't ... (152 words)

What is his hold up in giving me the ring and starting arrangements?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for just over 2 years now, he has just returned from a 7 month tour of Iraq and whilst he was away he asked me to marry him, I did of course accept as we are very much in love and have a fantastic relationship. He came home in those 7 months for a ... (199 words)

Any ideas on how to make my hair more thick and glossy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm fed up with my hair!!!!!! how can i make it thick and long and glossy? it grows quickly and is naturally fairly thick, by now partly down my back, but gets straggly/looks think and lanky very easily! help! i wanna look sexy! arrrrrrrgh!... (44 words)

My girlfriend has told that she is in her menstrual period, and does not have enough blood.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend has told that she is in her menstrual period, and does not have enough blood. Being her boyfriend/partner, I would like to know if this has happened to other women and is it usual? ... (36 words)

I love my boyfriend but I am not sure if the love is what it was when we first got together.. and I think, given the option, I would leave for this other guy in an instant, if he wanted me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with an older man, I am 24 he is 52.. We have been together for 3 years and and have been lving together for 2 and a half years.. I moved 320 miles away from my family to be with him.. Things are good for us, we have a good social life.. About 15 month... (592 words)

He wants to "try out fantasies" and have me dress up as a nurse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

- I lost my virginity back in February to my boyfriend. I love him more than anything in the world. The thing is that he wants to "try out fantasies" and have me dress up as a nurse. I do like to try new things. I don't mind doing this at all it's just I get embarrassed easily ... (151 words)

I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for four years. However I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him. Please help I don't know what to do.... (46 words)

I like my sister's best friend but he's 20!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey erm i really like this guy but it is my sisters best mate and he is 20 years old and i dont no wot 2 docoz we get on so well i can tlk to im bout anything help me plz from stuck... (44 words)

I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, but I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty. He once told me to grow up, yet ... (184 words)

I'm 14 and considering having sex for the first time... I'm scared! My Mum says I should wait it out, what should I do?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14 and considering having sex for the 1st time the thing is im really scared ive talked to my mum she told me that il enjoy it more if i wait and if i really like the guy i do it with. i think shes only saying this to prevent me from having sex so young as my aunt fell ... (101 words)

I am sad when thinking about not being friends with her, but I can't watch her ruin her life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine for the last 10 years is a really bad alcoholic, she's got a 2 1/2 year old daughter, she's a single mom, the dad is nowhere to be found. The state gave up the dad's rights because they couldn't find him. She's neglecting her kid and her pit bull, starving ... (587 words)

Lately I have been thinking a lot about someone that I should not be thinking of at all as I'm married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Lately I have been thinking a lot about someone that I should not be thinking of at all. There are two probelms. First off, I am married and he has a significant other and a child. And second, I am not even sure how he feels about me. He was out of state for a few years.... (715 words)

Was he really nervous or is it the condom that turned him off??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started seeing a new guy. We really hit it off. When we ended up in bed together everything was going really well untill we came close to having sex when I asked him to put a condom on he had no problem except he couldnt get it up. I didnt make a big deal about it and p... (121 words)

My boyfriend wants to make love but my ex wants mad sex! Who do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need advice how do i decide between my boyfriend and my ex??? i'm a virgin n i really love my boyfriend n my ex. i think i'm ready to go all the way but the problem is i want them both to b my first...i kno its not possible but i cant decide what should i do??? i mean ... (144 words)

My boyfriend says I have caused him too much pain by not trusting him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in 3yr relationship w/my boyfriend.I have been very untrusting of him.He told me several times to stop but I didn't and now because of my trust issues I have driven him away, he won't be affectionate at all to me, says I've hurt him and he doesn't trust me not to ... (105 words)

He broke up with me to have sex with another girl and now wants me back

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old female. I have been dating the same guy for about 2 years now. We get along great and we really love each other. But he is afraid of commitment, so when he gets scared or needs space he just breaks up with me. But then after a few days he star... (246 words)

We are trying to be friends, but I think he still likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

- Need help again! My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago now because he's afraid of commitment but up until yesterday I finally ended all communication with him for the 4th time. But also at the same time, he keeps telling me that I could always call him whenever if I ever ... (183 words)

How can I make my vagina dry so that my husband wont want to have sex with me?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 16 1/2 years. We've had great sex,but lately I'm not interested in having it with him.He's very controlling in the bedroom he wants it every night.And the problem I have is my vagina is very wet at night and he loves it.How can I get it dry. ... (58 words)

Guys always ask me out when I just want to be friends and then it ruins the friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I need some advice. The thing is that every time I want to be mates with a guy they always end up asking me out and I hate this. When they ask me out I say no or whatever and then our friendship seems to always end there and I can't be the same with them again. This ... (113 words)

How can I sleep with my boyfriend who has HIV, but not get it myself?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) age 36-40 - How do you catch HIV/AIDS? I kissed my boyfriend (who's just been dignosed with HIV) a couple of days back. Have i got the STD? Please reply, i'm really worried. Also i'm thinking of having sex with him. What would be the best contraception to use to make sure that i don't ... (54 words)

My boyfriend doesnt want to use spermacide because he says it is painful for the girl. Is that true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi There People,I Have Just A Quick Question. My Biggest Fear Is Getting Pregnant, But Im SO In Love With MY Boyfriend (and he loves me too :) ) That We Started Having Sex The Problem Is, I'm Getting On The Pill But I Want To Be Safer Than That So I Suggested To My Man That H... (125 words)

My ex now is seeing the same councelor I did and I dont like it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a simple question-(Maybe) I was dating this guy for close to 3 years-and he was an alcoholic-I found this out after 1 year with him-I tried counseling with him (He agreed to go on his own not forced) to my counselor of 8 years! Well long story short-when he be... (196 words)

I asked him to the school dance, and now he is avoiding me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, there was this guy in my class who I had a crush on, and he seemed to like me too. He'd joke around with me all the time and punch me playfully every now and then. He'd constantly poke me in the side. All my friends told me that he must like me, because they'd seen the ... (253 words)

I am worried that someone might tell my new guy about something I did in my past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a bit of a muddle..I have recently got together with a friend of my ex. Myself and my ex split up years and years ago but a couple of years ago when I was at a low ebb and after listening to him tell me all the things I wanted to hear I slept with him. I knew he was ... (119 words)

Is he having an emotional affair with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been going out for nearly two years now. As we live nearly an hour apart, i only get to see him at weekends. During the week when we are not seeing each other we talk almost all day via instant messenger. I have recently found out that as well as speaking ... (157 words)

My husband likes to go out to listen to live music, but I dont. How can we comprimise?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband loves to go out late at night to listen to live music, while I don't like the scene at all because it's loud and crowded. I need to go out more with him because he very much wants me there. How can I make it more bearable?... (49 words)

My wife is cheating on me and wants a divorce

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age - Hi, I found out 6 days ago that my wife is having an affair. I have known in my heart things have not been right for quite a while and understand that this has been going on behind my back for 2 or 3 months. I am having a very tough time dealing with this. We have been mar... (373 words)

How do I adjust from being a boyfriend to being a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, yes, by Christ it's me again. As a lot of you know, this is my situation: 2 years relationship Coped with distance of 200+ miles Ended just over 3 weeks ago, suddenly. There's been some development over the past couple of days. We've spoken using an ... (209 words)

Is it normal to only want to have sex with the lights on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend can only have sex with the lights on. He doesn't know how anyone can do it if they "can't see anything." Is this normal? Do most men actually prefer doing it with the lights on?... (40 words)

How do you make a man feel guilty when he gets in an aggresive/attackig mood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Is it true that some women are good at making the man feel guilty when they get in to aggressive / attacking mood, even when it is for the right reasons? What should be done to deal with them? ... (41 words)

After a relationship ends does the partner ever eventually regret leaving the person that gave them everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - They say that being nice never gets you anywhere. In my past relationships I have always been the 'nice' person and never got the same in return, instead I got walked over. After a relationship ends, does the partner eventually regret leaving the person who gave them ... (48 words)

My boyfriend ignores me and when I ask him to do something with me he sighs and says, "If I have to."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just wanting to know what other people think about this.. I stay with my boyfriend... After he has been at work all day he comes in gives me a kiss and goes straight on the laptop. Doesnt ask how i am or how my day has been. When I ask him how his day has been work, i... (198 words)

I think he wants me to end it so he wont look like the bad guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I really need some advice. my boyfriend of 8 years told me he doesn't know if he loves me any more and refuses to discuss it any further so I am in limbo and dont know what to do. We also have absoloutly no sex life even though I try to initiate sex all the time, and ther... (308 words)

My heart beats faster for my nephew, but not my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I have a bf that i love so much. Cant imagen a life without him. But my nephew. I like him. When my bf and i are chatting and my nephew comes onto mxit my heart starts beating faster. Doesnt happen with my bf anymore. My bf hates my nephew ,coz he wanted to have sex with ... (146 words)

Since I moved in with him, he is jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have just recently moved in with my boyfriend of 6 months, we got along great and i needed direction. But now that we are living together everything is different, he is different, he is very jealous, i am not allowed to go anywhere alone, not even to the mall, he says i ... (117 words)

We used to get together all the time, now she says she is too tired or busy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have started a new relationship with a woman of 28 and I am 36. We got together just under 3 months ago, she works for a customer of mine and asked me out after and we got on very well. Everything started out fine. I visited her after work, we went out for drinks nearly ... (303 words)

I want to end it, but he wont accept it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long term relationship, which feels as though it is going nowhere. My boyfriend and I are together because I feel too guilty to leave him. We both live miles away from home, but I have made some great friends, and am enjoying meeting new peop... (156 words)

Is this just lust or could the guy from work really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm seeing a guy from work who has a busy work schedule and I only see him when he is in the area on business. There is a strong attraction but I cant help but think has this got a future. Sometimes I feel like im settling for the crumbs off the table rather than a ... (119 words)

He is texting an emailing other girls and lying about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there....I dont know how to put this across. I think my bf of 2n half yrs might be cheating or has been cheating on me. A few months back, he got a txt late at night so i asked him who it was from, he told me " its Kyle from work" so i believed him but something kept telling ... (313 words)

Should I stay or walk away for good? Because of him, I have become a misserable, lonely, and pathetic nobody.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

18 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I Stay or Walk Away for Good? I have been in tthe best loving happy relationship you could imagine for 8yrs then the next 2 have been difficult due to financial problems. This last year hs been the worst year of my life and ive been treated so badly im ready to walk ... (490 words)

How can I stop being nervous all the time? I can't enjoy life to its fullest!

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bad nerve problem. How can I stop being nervous all the time because it is stopping me from things I really want to do?... (27 words)

Can sperm die in chlorine water?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Can sperm die in chlorine water?... (6 words)

My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!!

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets mad because I never have anything to talk about!!! When were on the phone and we have a good conversation he asks me what do I want to talk about and I always say I don't know because I really don't have anything to talk about. I need help!!!!... (52 words)

He's coming over to my house this weekend to hangout and spend the night, what should I do?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, I just broke up with my girlfriend and I found I'm more interested in my best friend than girls, but I still like both so im probably bi... anyway I think my friend may also like me, but I'm not sure... he sometimes will sort of hit on me a little then play it out like ... (131 words)

How can I make this relationship a success?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a shemale... I'm 21 and I have a boyfriend who is 18 years of age... I love him very much and he too he said but I'm trying to understand him everyday... I don't wanna give up with him... and hope with him also... How we can be able to continue our relationship and to ... (63 words)

Can you be kissed without returning the favor?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been out of town for some time now, and all was well with me and my girl until the last couple of days, right before im due to be back. Before now we talked on the phone every night and it was all good...we were happy. But the last couple of days she hasn't returned my ... (218 words)

He treats his friends like they are more important than me. What do I do?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend usually spend a lot of time together, he'd call everynight and text me all day. Now, he tells me he can't come over because he doesn't have a ride, but 30 minutes later he tells me he's at a party or a friend's house. He doesn't call or text me all ... (108 words)

I'm just afraid that he is cheating on her or going to hurt her in the future... any advice??

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18 July 2007 (F)

- One of my very good friends has been dating this guy for a little over 6 months now. I personally think that they moved too fast, and I'm not 100% sure what I think of this guy. Recently a mutual friend of mine found my friends boyfriend's personal ad on a dating website. ... (102 words)

What is the best way for me to handle this "friend"?

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18 July 2007 (M)

- During my adolescent years I had a good friend whom I lost contact with when I temporarily moved overseas. He had difficulty mixing in the same circles of friends and so our time together was often just the two of us. His mother was always very competitive and continuously ... (417 words)

Our relationship has reached the point of being so comfortable around each other that we're more friends with benefits then anything else.

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now, and I love him so much, but our relationship has reached the point of being so comfortable around each other that we're more friends with benefits then anything else. He says he loves me, but I don't know if I ... (61 words)

How can I get this relationship to progress further?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age - There is a wonderful lady with whom I worked for many years. We have been very good friends for a long time. And I've always been kind of interested in her, but never did anything because we worked together. Anyway, I recently was laid off due to downsizing, so I don't see her ... (146 words)

How can I relax more when I have sex?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 19 and I'm still a virgin and am worried that I may have trouble losing it as I'm quite shy and also when I have tried before I have either not been able to penetrate or sustain an erection.. please help..... (43 words)

I wrote a song for this girl I really like even though she's dating someone else. Should I sing it to her in public or in private?

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I wrote a song for this girl I really like even though she's dating someone else. Should I sing it to her in public or in private at any of the parties this year?... (35 words)

She's really confusing me, she wants me then she doesn't.

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My case's sorta complicated... We started hangin' out a couple months ago, things were going fine 'till she complained to me that she thought I was 'kiddin around' with her. ok things were solved. Things were going well again.. but a little time after (a month, perhaps) ... (143 words)

Should I be upset that my boyfriend watches porn on the internet?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be upset that my boyfriend watches porn on the internet? Ok, so my boyfriend of 10 months every night before he goes to bed goes to at least 3 porn websites and masturbates. I am kinda uncomfortable that he watches naked women while I am asleep. Even after we have sex ... (133 words)

How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I deal with a man that walked out on a six and a half year relationship but continues to hang around making it hard for me to get over him? He says that he wants to be with me but he has not come back home. What do I do because I am still very much in love with him. ... (66 words)

Now, they both wanna be with me, but I dunno who to choose. Should I go with my past, or should I try something new?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with A for 5 years and we have a 2 year old girl together. We've been broken up for about 2 months, but we still mess around. We argue a lot and he's very protective. He wants to be with me, but I don't know what I want. I'm dating this guy, D, and he's... (174 words)

Is there anything to prevent me from getting sun damage to my skin???

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any lotions/creams out there that I could put on that prevents me from getting sun damage and tan before I step outside? [Moderator note: Sunscreen.. sunblock... suntan lotion... ???]... (33 words)

Could I have caught HIV from biting my tongue in a restraunt???

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I went and ate at a buffet restraunt with my family and friends. While I was eatting I bit my tougue by mistake and blood was coming out. It looks a bit puffy now. Since I bit my tougue, could I be expose to any diseases since this took place at a restraunt, and I was ... (106 words)

My ex is constantly phoning me and trying it on. He wants to get back together or is he after sex?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend has reappeared in my life, wanting to get back together. When we were together we got on great but he didn't treat me well ie. when I miscarried or take me out. Not spoken to him in four months now he constantly phoning me and we met up and he just tried it ... (101 words)

How do you talk to cute guys and how do you know if they like you!?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have 2 questions how do you talk to really cute guys(the kind where your too shy to even look at ) when you don't know them? how can you tell if someone likes you, when you havent met beore, but you've seen before (like a crush)? thanks... (57 words)

Will I get flabby arms if I don't tone them!?

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18 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - will i still get flabby arms if i do not weight lift such as toning my arms? i do cardio every day for 45 minutes. i weight lifted before, and now i want to stop. if i do not weight lift and just do cardio instead with my arms, will i still get flabby arms? just doing cardi... (92 words)

I don't think I love my girlfriend any more... Meanwhile another girl has come on the scene!

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18 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I (mid thirties) have been living with my girlfriend for the past 4 years, I don't think I love her anymore and I don't find her attractive. I was recently introduced to a girl at a party and can think of nothing but her at the moment. I have been told she is interested in me ... (108 words)