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Was he really nervous or is it the condom that turned him off??

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Question - (18 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I just started seeing a new guy. We really hit it off.

When we ended up in bed together everything was going really well untill we came close to having sex when I asked him to put a condom on he had no problem except he couldnt get it up. I didnt make a big deal about it and proceeded to pleasure him and there was no problem he became erect again but he came really fast.. When it all eneded he apologized and said that he was thinking to much and it got to him. I told him not to worry about it. My question is was he really nervous or is it the condom that turned him off??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007):

i'd guess nerves. i'm sure he's used to condoms by now, and hey if not- he'll get used to them!

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntIt was probably just nerves to be honest with you, alot of men have this problem when just starting into a new relationship, just try starting off with the foreplay next time and tell him to let you know if he feels he is ready to cum, and then you can ease off for a bit and see if that helps.

Take care.xx.

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