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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I say in my email to my ex gf..to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i want to send my ex GF an e-mail right, and tell her how i feel as my feelings for her wont go away and want to make her change her mind is there anyway which i can put the words to sound how i feel and also make it sound very conviniceing towards her as i feel as i cant ... (74 words)

MY mum won't let me stay at my bf's place! How can I persuade her to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, my mum knows me and my boyfriend have sex, she wont let me stay round his house, ive tried everything! She let me stay round once on new years, its his birthday in 2 weeks and i have to stay round! Ive written letters, begged, threatened! There is no reasoning with her! ... (55 words)

His best friend really likes me? Has my flirting gone too far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - *sighs* I'm a terrible flirt. I thought I'd get that established. Even on minimum-flirt level, I seem to be flirting outrageously to everyone else so I can only guess what I'm like when I turn it up onto 'Full Power'! I have been going out with this guy for about six months. ... (343 words)

What are the signs that this girl I fancy, likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i fancy this girl so much! I said we should meet over the summer and she agreed. I'm not sure if she was talkin about us two going alone or in our friend group. Also are there any signs to find out if she likes me? I really want to find out without tellin her as it may ruin my ... (62 words)

We're both girls, and when my best friend tries to kiss me, I feel uncomfortable. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i fancy my best friend, and shes a girl. she fancies me to but i have a boyfriend. also wen im around her she tries to kiss me etc and i sometimes feel uncomfortable, i dont want to wreck our friendship or my relationship with my boyfriend.... (49 words)

How do I know she feels the same affection, I feel for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girl question. I am a 20 year old guy pursuing a 19 year old girl. We have been going on dates for about 4 months now but because of the distance apart she feels she doesn't want to make it official boyfriend girl friend until college starts up again in the fall ... (155 words)

What I want to know is how long does the Erythromycin take to get out your system and if anyone has any opinions on whether it would or wouldn't be ok to take this along with the other tablet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, just found this site so am hoping someone can offer some advice, my girlfriend came home the other night with some viagra tablets! They're called kamagra and wanted me to try them, we have a healthy sex life but anyway I was recently on erythromycin tablets (prescribed) for ... (128 words)

I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of declaring complete love to ... (213 words)

She has called and today she messaged me talking about a cute guy she met but that I shouldn't be jealous...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is on a trip all summer. She used to call me every day. It's been more than a week since she has called and today she messaged me talking about a cute guy she met but that I shouldn't be jealous. I said I was jelous and she said "you shouldn't be" so I said I ... (71 words)

He asked me out but I turned him down because I'm nervous and have never kissed a guy before. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm 14 years old and I really like this guy, he likes me too and has asked me out on a number of occasions. However I am a bit nervous and have turned him down, I have liked him for ages but I'm worried it will be awkward especially when we meet up (he wants me to me... (92 words)

He's phoned his ex asking for phone sex; this is the third time he's cheated, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - heya remember i said my bf was complimenting other girls well now i've just found out that he's been texting his ex girlfriend asking her for phone sex !!!!! i really love him but this is the 3rd time he's cheated on me with her what should i do ??? ... (51 words)

Should I just not speak to him from now on, am I getting myself into a hopeless realtionship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice, I hope you will respond to it, ok here goes. I'm speaking to a guy on phone who I haven't really met in person. I started speaking to him on facebook, he added me as a friend because he knew my sister and her friends. He's currently studying at ... (440 words)

My mother in law even had the nerve to open our mail...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tried to get close to my mother in law, but it feels like she only puts up me because I'm married to her son. She always has something nasty to say, but it is usually when it's just her and I! For example it was just her and I in the car and she says to me out of the ... (237 words)

I really fancy my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with my boyfriend's brother for years. We hooked up right after me and boyfriend started dating but all we did was kiss. And for years I have had a crush on my boyfriend's brother. A couple of weeks ago I went out to dinner with my romate and my boyfrien... (342 words)

We have been together for 10 months but we happen to fight like every couple does but the thing is he always blames it on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 months but we happen to fight like every couple does. But the thing is he always blames it on me, I tell him not to be mean to me and he tells me to "not give him a reason to". ... (308 words)

I have moved area to live and find I have got very strong feelings for someone and feel strange and excited!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - Hi, I am seperated for 4 years and now divorced for 2 years. I have moved area to live and find I have got very strong feelings for someone (which I never thought I would have after my husband) . I feel strange and excited .... not sure what to do... can you help... (68 words)

How can I help my friend here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21, and my friend's 19. She got married 6 months ago to a 40-year-old man who she's been with since she was 17 - and said that they married for love not money (he was a nice guy who was a builder, and said he wasn't wealthy, just lives a good lifestyle!) Yesterday sh... (402 words)

I bleed every time we have sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex and everytime we do, I end up bleeding! I thought it was normal the first time but now I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me because I always start bleeding whenever we try to have sex or if he tries to finger ... (54 words)

I warned my ex's GF that he is going to use her, but I am afraid she will tell him I told!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

- my ex boyfriend is now my close friend and he has told me he is going to use his girlfriend and i said to her have you ever thort he is going to use you? and she said no he isn't like that. and i said he is a user a player and a liar he is everything like tha. i should know ive ... (237 words)

How can I motivate myself to get my GED?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I get my self motivated to go to school and get my ged. I started to and then I all of sudden got lazy. I know I have to do it but what can I do to make sure I go since I am so lazy. Plus its from 5-8 at night.... (54 words)

Is this a relationship worth pursuing or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - I Have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now, 4 or 5 times a week and we mostly enjoy ourselves, we phone every night,we have a good sex life and share all or interests. There are problems that prevent us from taking our relationship a step further and they seem to ... (289 words)

Do people just come out with spontaneous compliments sometimes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, this is just something that bothered me while my girlfriend and I were together, and kind of still does. (Very quickly: We were together for 2 years, separated by 200+ miles, broke up 3 weeks ago) Anyway, we'd be on the phone sometimes, and she'd say something nasty ... (261 words)

He is texting other girls and complimenting them. I dont THINK I have anything to worry about, but why is he doing this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive got 2 questions Ive been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 years who works in a hospital,where there are lots of female workers.He says he wants to make new friends, I know he chats to these women at work,which is harmless,because I know he loves me.However he always keeps it a sec... (255 words)

I am in a bit of a quandry whether I am just waisting my time in this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

19 July 2007 (?) - Dear agony aunts... I'm in a bit of a quandary here at the moment... I'm with my boyf of 18 months and love him to bits and would do anything for him and I know he is mad about me too cos he has told me... but he also said that he will never marry me or any one else. THat h... (180 words)

I like both him and his brother and they are ok with that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy and I like him, yet I like his half brother who lives with him. They both are pretty close and like me. Him and his brother have talked about it and their fine with it. The guy im dating is accualy telling his brother to make a move with me. His brother and ... (89 words)

How do I choose which guy to go after?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 23 year old gay male living in UK. I have been openly gay for 3 years. Recently I have fell for 2 guys. Both have told me that they are very interested in me. One is 19 and the other 17. At the moment i haven't even kissed either of them because i really don't wa... (132 words)

Should I have sex with both men to double my chances of conceiving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a single female, 39 years old, and I am dating a new guy. I am anxious to have a child right away, and have shared this with my partner,. he is ok "if it happens", but it not interested in working as a team to test my ovulation and have sex at the appropriate time... (164 words)

My boyfriend is moving away. Should we break up now or later?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 8 years will be moving away to Africa for good before the end of the year. He thinks we should end our relationship now cause it will be easier for him but i want us be together until he leaves. Any advice?... (45 words)

We both cheated and cant trust each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 years. i cheated on him about 4years ago but i never told him. we lived together for 1 year last year.while we were in Europe and it was there that i got pregnant. so we decided that we should return home, but three days after ... (228 words)

I offered her the use of my car temporarily. That was 2 years ago! How do I put a stop to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 3 years and I are having problems. She came into the relationship with a beat up old station wagon in really rough shape. Brakes didn't work, tires were shot, heater didn't work, etc. The thing was a death trap and it always made me nervous to see her driv... (157 words)

We broke up but are still close. Am I just prolonging the heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey... i broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months 3 weeks ago, because felt he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore ( we are both 17!) We got along great, and we are best friends. And i thought that after we broke up, we would lose this due to awkwardness etc.... (163 words)

He wants to see her on his birthday, but not me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years.For some reason every so often he gives his number to other girls at his work and texts them behind my back,but I found out about the one just recently because I felt suspicious.Anyway,Its his birthday soon and I asked him ... (177 words)

He said he needed to clear his head, and now I havent heard from him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - i was seeing a guy. he acted like he realy liked me. everything was going real good. one day i was with him, and the next day he called and said he needed to clear his head . i havnt heard from him and i was wondering if he will call again or if i should just get over it. No... (69 words)

I still play around with my ex, but he says he used me and now is going out with my mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

- Im 14, I need help. Theres a boy in my school who I love and have been out with(as in girlfriend+boyfriend)in the past and after that we have done things together since we split up and thats has been on and off for the past 2 years. (we havn't had sex, just oral+foreplay) Now ... (454 words)

Hypnotism and sex combined has become a real fantasy for me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I've just turned 18, and I have recently discovered hypnotism. Well, actually, I was aware of it before, but I've just started looking at it in a new light. It has just come to mind that hypnotism and Sex combined is quite a turn on for me. Is that sound strange to... (115 words)

The lad I want to date has a mate who gets upset every time he dates anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i like this lad who likes me and we both want to go out with each over but, he is worryed bout what his mate would say because when he has been with his ex(s) his mate has been in a mood all the time and he has ended up dumping them because of him.He says he dont want that ... (77 words)

She doesnt want sex and I am getting bored

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend doesnt want to go further :S what can i do? me and my girlfriend have been going out about a year now and all we have done is kiss and hug and the really petty stuff but i want to go further as im quite a 'exploring' guy if that kinda makes sense. we discus... (180 words)

I had my period last month but since I am late this month I am worried I could be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The last time I had sex was about the 13th/14th of May. I had a normal, heavy period last month and I'm now overdue for the next. Last week, I had intense cramping akin to what I'd get in a period. I put it down to things being on the move (as they are usually at that time). ... (98 words)

I have just found out that my husband has been using chat rooms and talking really dirty...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - I have been married for 21 years, but I have just found out that my husband has been using chat rooms and talking really dirty, I think this is called cybersex, I feel like he is being unfaithful and I dont know what to do about it, he doesn't know that I have found out.... (55 words)

I am 13 and I want to lose my virginity

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 13 year old girl and want 2 loose my virginity but the thing is i do not no how to have sex and plus im scared if i bleed whilst having sex!!is there any chances that i will bleed?and my mates say that you cant walk after wards is that true?and they say that you become ... (78 words)

Am I in love or is this just a crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - when i am at work i can't stop thinking about one of the team leaders. he dosen't even know i am alive, and i hardley know any thing about him. when i see him i get a funny feeling and i feel so happy. the other thing is that he is married and about 30 years older than me. can ... (75 words)

My husbands friend seems to really like me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am moving country in a few months with my husband. Well my husband and I have broke up a few months ago, said he was confused,but since then we have got back together, all is going ok so far. However we are moving country and the problem is his best friend, he flirts ... (160 words)

I thought we were about to get engaged but he wants to live together and have babies, not get married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 and have known my boyfriend (29) for 5 and a half years, we had a break in the middle of that and remained the best of friends but have been happily back together for a year. He let it slip a few months back that he was going to propose to me on our holiday at the end ... (223 words)

He found out I was cheating with my ex and now wont take me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my b.f and i were engaged to be married next year but suddenly my ex b.f got in touch with me and i also communicated with him. i even met him couple of times i felt somehow that the feelings i had for him before comes back, but he took advantage of me. He convince me to give ... (175 words)

I am trying to move on with my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - ok,some of you may have read my "His daughter is ruining our relationship" He has now left our family home,i've heard enough tosh to last me a lifetime,he has now gone against everything he has said and is moving to "their" town "because it's cheaper and he loves it there,no... (283 words)

Married for only a year and he accuses me of being after his money!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hallo,Im a Filipina married to a German National for only 1 year and my problem is my husband always accuse me only after his money(I received 500 euro from his salary monthly) and and he never admit he made mistakes too.He thinks Im very demanding cause I always wanted to ... (79 words)

It was perfect, but he cheated, we keep breaking up and there's trust issues! We're meant for each other!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year before breaking up a month ago. he is 34 and i am 20. despite our age gap, we have managed to create a special bond between us. during the first 5-6 months of the relationship everything went perfect. after that, he cheated... (350 words)

After the breakup shes still around despite my behaviour, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Had a girlfriend, sayed together for 1 yrs, we separated after a serious conflict(the girls behaviour changed and I was not impressed so decided to ridicule her). After the fall out she went for another man whom they are now cohabitating, but since then she has been coming to ... (345 words)

He said he wants to meet me, but then he said he might be too busy! Is this a brush off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a week ago and kissed him, we have txt each other and he says he wants to meet me but when i asked him if he was ok for a drink tonight he says he might be busy. He's sent me messages saying i am beautiful and very sexy but should i take the message saying he may be ... (68 words)

I love my boyfriend and so does my family but I think I have some lingering feelings for my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 19 years old, and a month ago i got engaged to my boyfriend of two years. I do love him heaps, but i think i still like my ex boyfrind of 3 years. My family hate my ex, but love my current boyfriend. I dont think i want anything to happen with my ex, but i hate feeling ... (88 words)

He cheated on me and I'm having a hard time building the trust back up, as he's always away on business

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have just moved in together. We have a very loving relationship, however in may of this year I discovered that he had an affair with someone. This crushed me beyond belief, I know that he regrets doing it...but I am still having a hard time trusting him. I ... (208 words)

If a guy masturbates in the bath and then a girl goes in after him, can she get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - can a 10 girl old girl get pregnant if the guy masturbated in the shower then got out and she went in the shower to take a bath?... (28 words)

I met a nice guy while on a break from my controlling boyfriend who I'm back (and unhappy) with; I feels like nothing is going right

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am living with a man I have known for many years - there has been no spark for a long time, I care for him but don't know why as it is obvious he puts himself first and I often feel bullied. We have terrible rows and he is quite cruel and controlling - I know this as I often ... (359 words)

My boyfriend is 9 years younger than me and I'm embarassed about my aging body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age - I've recently started seeing a guy 9 years younger than me, we get along well except that he is perhaps trying to move the relationship on at a quicker pace than I want. I'm 45 and he is 36. He thinks it's great, is always complimentary towards me, makes me feel good, but I am... (148 words)

I'm very uneasy in this relationship, how can I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with relationship for 4 years and i am madly in love with the guy. I feel he is my soulmate. We cant get into marriage for some reasons. I should provide for the family and though i am in love with him i am afraid on his personality side. I am afraid i might be the same of ... (96 words)

He hasn't totally gotten over past relationships; does this mean he might not be fully committed to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. We have a great, honest, loving relationship. He's been in a few more serious relationships than I have. I know he's still not completely moved on from 2 of them. He doesn't talk to them, or see them often. He saw one of ... (148 words)

We went on a break to see how we feel; he doesn't seem to have changed. Should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - okay so i am supposed to go out with my ex this weekend, for drinks and dinner, we did it two weeks ago and had an awesome time cause i did not bring up our status. He asked for 3 months time to decide and we are almsot apporaching 2 months, i do not see any change in him ( he ... (353 words)

We're cuddly after our fights but we're fighting far too much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay Help My boyfriend and I are fighting too much. But after the fights we are all hunky dory and cuddley. But the thing is were fighting TOO much every day. It's making me wory,I dont like it at all its unbarable. I love him too much to loose him. But hes so annoying whe... (73 words)

We've had sex once after our baby was born 8 months ago; I found out he's been watching porn and masturbating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 8months old baby. after i gave birth my husband and i had sex just one time till now and i found he wathches the porno DVD every other day and also masterbate I don't know what to do? i tried everythin . nothing worked please help me Galeen... (57 words)

I love her so much and can't forget her even though she was selfish and mean to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hey ladies any advice will help Well here it goes i've been with this girl for about 2 years on and off we r both 28 years old and have known each other since we were childern. For the last 2 years she has been treating me pretty badly we have had some good times of course b... (278 words)

We've been on-again-off-again since I cheated; how can I fix things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years and i regret it so much. we've been on and off again since it happened. what do I do to fix our relationship so we can stay together and be happy?... (39 words)

They were always flirty and now I've seen them kiss on the lips; is my worry and overreaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just saw husband and bf kissing on the lips. Granted we were in the process of leaving and they were in the house alone while the rest of us were out side. I went to walk from one side of the deck to the other and turned around and saw them kiss on the lips and hug. I never ... (114 words)

Been with my boyfriend for 2 years who has gone into the army for 6 years; I've now fallen for a friend who lives close by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love 2 guys one is B who I have been with for over 2 years the other is CJ who I have known for almost a year. B has left for Bootcamp on July 4th and he is going to be in the army for 6 years, I am not old enough to marry him and not sure if I would. CJ has been here with ... (134 words)

He doesn't want to take me to his family gathering; is he embarassed by me or not really committed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with this guy and we've been together over three years. His family has a reunion every few years and the last one happened right after we started dating so I wasn't invited, but he said i would go to the next one. There is another one coming up and his mother invited ... (108 words)

I said 'I love you' and he only said 'I heart you'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a boyfriend and i told him 'i love u' his reaction was huggin me and kissing me and holding me tight for a pretty long time, his respons was 'i heart you', which i honestly dont understand what that means does anyone understand what his reaction meant i need advice i ... (70 words)

How can I ensure my rectum is empty before attempting anal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i make sure that before i have anal intercourse there wont be any "surprises" in the rectal cavity before my partner enters and how can i prevent that from happening before we start........ (35 words)

His family moved away and he's depressed, he's put on weight and seems distant; I'm losing patience with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend proposed to me a month ago and since then, our relationship has gone down-hill. It started end of last yr when he found out his mother wanted to migrate to live with someone she fell in love with overseas and wanted to take his 10yr old sister with her... (409 words)

Friend whom I lost contact with is back in my life; should I date him after he sort of dated my best friend?

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - two years ago i was talking to a friend, we both liked each other very much but as time passed by we stopped speaking neither one of us remember why but he claims to now miss me and i miss him but the problem is that he "dated' my best friend it was a really weird relationship ... (78 words)

My mood seems related to my sexual activity, is this normal?

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19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - When I have some form of sexual experience with my partner I feel really really happy for a day or so, but after that I start to want sex again and my mood starts to drop, and I don't feel really happy again until we have sex again. Is this normal? I find it a bit odd. ... (59 words)

My boyfriend seems very attached to his ex wife and she to him

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19 July 2007 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 3 years goes and has coffee with his ex wife a couple of times a month to what he says 'catch up'. I dont really like it. He also insists they spend every Christmas dinner together with or without me. He would rather spend it with her than with my family. When ... (157 words)

Should I tell my best friend's younger sister how I feel about her?

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19 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have had a crush on my best friends younger sister for a very long time. I have been best friends with him since First Grade, and I have been friends with his sister since about Fourth or Fifth Grade. She told me a few years ago that she liked me, but I assumed it was j... (248 words)

I love him; he doesn't love me back but wants to kiss me

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 16 year old girl, and i really love this guy, but he told me he doesnt love me back. I dont know how to get over him because he is always in my face and I have kissed him once last week. He is proposing that we kiss again, but I just want him to love me!!!... (61 words)

Is it possible for my tongue to reach my boyfriend's prostate?

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Can my tongue reach my boyfriend's prostate? I know it's not as long as my finger, I'm just not sure if it's worth trying or if I'll just strain my tongue...! So far we've mostly just done external tongue stimulation with a little bit of penetration. (Please spare me the ans... (75 words)

I think I love him but he can't seem to put me first; is he a player?

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 years old and I went out with this 16-year-old guy last year for about 3 months. We then broke up because he was always busy working and with school and we barely saw each other. We didn't see or speak to each other for almost 7 months and a few weeks ago he show... (252 words)

I love him but he only likes me, so all we do is 'hook up'

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am deeply in love with a guy I know but he doesn't like me back and instead we 'hook' up a lot. What should I do? Continue with the hook ups or try to make him love me back? ... (40 words)

I really like this guy but mum says I can't date him because he slept with one of her friends

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i work for my mam and dad in the pub we run, and i get along well with the customers there is this one customer in perticular that i like and he likes me but he is 28 i no that is a problem but i dont mind, the thing is he slept with my mams best mate and my mam told me that ... (104 words)

I'm 14 and I'm scared to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend; he wants me to get pregnant!

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 14 year old girl and i am going out with a seventeen year old boy and i am stuck in a situation because he wants to have sex with me but im scared because i do not no what to do when having sex!!and he said that he wants to get me pregnant but i dont no what to do and if ... (78 words)

Your opinions please, what is going on with this woman?

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19 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a beautiful woman, last August. She was the proud mother of two beautiful girls. I had been a player all my life, and have 5 kids of my own. I really didn't think she was very serious about a longterm relationship with me. She would ask questions such as, what would ... (305 words)

Him and his brothers have become obsessed with Xbox 360 live. They will sit in front of the TV for several hours to play.

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19 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. I love him so much. Lately he has been acting wierd. I can't figure out what it is. I know he has been getting frustrated because we have been fighting all the time in the last 2 months. I am not exactly sure why we keep fighting. ... (356 words)