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*ichael J
writes:There is a wonderful lady with whom I worked for many years. We have been very good friends for a long time. And I've always been kind of interested in her, but never did anything because we worked together. Anyway, I recently was laid off due to downsizing, so I don't see her every day any longer. But we still communicate - phone calls, e-mails, texts etc., although I haven't seen her in person in over a month. (She is incredibly busy, and sometimes a week between calls! But she texts or e-mails every day.) Anyway, I miss her and I wonder if a relationship is now possible. But I've never had good luck with women, and I don't want to push too hard. How do I bring up the subject without appearing TOO forward? (And before that, how do I even get some face-to-face contact?)
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reader, Michael J +, writes (19 July 2007):
Michael J is verified as being by the original poster of the question (Me again.) Thanks. I'll get up the nerve the next time I talk to her... if I can get her on the phone. I don't want to do it by text or e-mail -- although it definitely would be easier, it doesn't seem right to do it that way.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 I agree with eyeswideopen i think you have to just bite the bullett and ask her out, she has stayed in contact with you for a reason and if it was just to be friends i don't think she would email and text everyday.
Take care.xx.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Well Michael, why don't you ask her out for coffee or dinner? If she has stayed in contact with you she obviously likes you. Go for it Buddy!
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