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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do i get him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (?) - Me and my partner of just over 2 yrs have been on and off for so long that i cant recall how many times we have split. I did have a problem with alchol but after the last time he left (6 weeks ago), i decided to knock the drink on the head which was a realy brave move, when... (586 words)

Does my tutor fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

21 July 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A week or two ago was the prom which he was at and I ... (570 words)

I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I really like this guy. We definitely had "a thing" . But then I couldn't hang out with him for a long time(during summer), and then when I finally could hang out with him..I come back and he has a girlfriend. It sucks because I didn't really stop liking him ever, if a... (191 words)

Had an affair with a married man, now he's calling me a stalker.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

- About a year ago I was briefly involved with a married man. When I first started dating him I thought he was separated, i ended it when I found out the truth...that he was still with his wife. We have friends in common, he has told people that I chased and stalked him. Thi... (96 words)

I can't get a boyfriend, and i want one now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can u help me?? Why can't i get boyfriend? I'm 15, i'm not bad looking with a confident personality, but i just can't seem to get a boyfriend. Everytime i meet a boy he's the one who makes the move. He gives me his number and asks me to ring him, so i try but then they never ... (95 words)

Does he really like me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 14 and the guy i like is 16, he flirts with me quite a lot. He is always brushing up against me as if to kiss me and putting is arms round me, he has also fallen asleep on my sholder lots on coach journeys. Do you reacon he really likes me?, or is he just playing aro... (75 words)

His kids are rude to me and he say's nothing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age - My boyfriend of six months has two children, both boys aged 12 and 10. The younger one is rude and obnoxious, often saying rude things to me. My boyfriend doesn't like it when I say something to the child about his rude behavior, and yet he doesn't insist that the child be... (160 words)

Suffer with nerves when it comes to girls.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old boy and have never had much confidence when it comes to girls. I seem to suffer with nerves. How can i get confidence and get rid of the nerves? Also how will i know if a girl likes me?... (50 words)

What's the difference between a best mate and a lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16yrs old and am going out with this guy i've liked 4 ages now. The relationship is perfect except one thing: I'm scared to sleep with him. I want to there's no pressure there it's just i'm not sure how to go about doing things and if i get it all wrong i'm scared. On a... (117 words)

How do i stop being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my straight best friend. I am fortunate to be able to talk with him about this. He wants me to get over it and remain my friend,and so do I. He's assured me that he will always be my friend,and be patient with me so I can heal from this. It has been more th... (116 words)

They don't ask me to join them anymore, what have i done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

- Hoping someone can help. I have a set of friends that I had been meeting up with on a regular basis. I know that there was another (nice) girl that they stopped asking to meet up with us, and I think I have now suffered the same fate. They do not ask me anymore, i could approa... (111 words)

How can I convince him it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I need some help in convincing my partner, (should be ex-partner by now) that our relationship is over. We were together just over 4 years and we split up last November. We decided to get back together early January but split again in the middle of February. The usual ... (175 words)

Do you think, he might think i've gone off him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a guy who met another guy(we are both gay and out) about 6 months ago, by chance i have been 'bumping' into him more of late and each time there are butterflies and fireworks between us to a point we can not really speak properly beyond basic small talk. Once we have h... (240 words)

I decided that the best thing to do would be to avoid him for a bit to give us both space...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a guy who met another guy (we are both gay and out) about 6 months ago, by chance have been 'bumping' into him more of late and each time there are butterflies and fireworks between us to a point we can not really speak properly beyond basic small talk. Once we have h... (239 words)

What could I do to make it better and to repair our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - At this moment my relationship with my parents is not good. First, my dad asked me to do something and I did it for a little bit, then I left to go somewhere. When I came out of it his attitude changed and he was angry plus moody because I did not help out more. Should I say ... (110 words)

I have had a few women at my work place been interested in me, but I have no interest in dating them because I am still comparing them with my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do I still at times feel down and depressed? My partner left after 16 years to date someone else. It's been a good 9 months now and she has not made any contact at all. I have been trying to do all the right things. Kept busy, reading, going out occasionaly. I even been ... (116 words)

How do i know if he wants to kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I like this boy and i want to kiss him, but i don't know if he wants to kiss me. Any hints?... (23 words)

How long should i wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've contacted a guy on a website that you have to pay a subscription fee for (which is what ive done so i can contact this guy outside of work). Is it unreasonable for me to be expecting he does the same to contact me? I wrote asking how he was, etc, looking back it does loo... (152 words)

I'm married, but i'm attracted to one of my college instructors.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 34 year old college student, I am married with 2 children. I have become seriously attracted to one of my instructors (who is a female). I have never had any feelings for another woman before in my life, but I find myself daydreaming about her sometimes. I wan... (101 words)

Why does she just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, to start I met this girl and she is 19 and I am 33. We started dating kind of, after around two weeks or so she told me she is having trouble with the age gap. We still like each other but she wants to be friends for now, but I'll miss holding her and kissing her. Hel... (65 words)

SITE NEWS: Moderators needed!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

- Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING -- many moderators drop out after just a couple of weeks so if you're not committed please don't apply! Moderators approve new questio... (271 words)

Say's she like's me, but she's confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I love this girl, shes my best friend. She says she likes me too, but is confused. What can she be confused about? How do i ask her out? Please help me out!... (34 words)

He's just signed up to an online dating site.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have had an online relationship with someone for about three years now, in that time we have met up a couple of times but recently we have just cooled down to friends and sending emails, although sometimes I think we could be more again. I have recently found out he h... (71 words)

How can i surprise my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm almost back from Portugal and I want to suprise my gf. We have been away from each other for a year when i get back, and I want to thank her for holding on. Anyone have any good ideas on how to suprise her when I get back? Or any good date idea's, I am from Toronto Can... (71 words)

My wife stay's out sometimes not coming home at all.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married and I need advice. Recently my wife has been coming home late or not coming at all what so ever, so I confronted her and she said she's going to do whatever she wants. I thought we'd resolved this matter but she did it to me again. WHAT SHOULD I DO? ... (57 words)

How is it neither of them have an STI?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

- Hi, I've just found out i've got a sti, i don't sleep around it was my ex that gave it to me. I found out he had been sleeping with is ex and thats how i got it, i was unaware i had this untill me and my new partner split up. I found out i'd given him this, however both men are ... (90 words)

I am bi and would love to have a 3 way serious relationship again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Firstly, I don't want anyone to judge me or give me Christian advice. I would like advice from people who are open minded. I have a good relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for long time. When I first met him he knew I was bi and I struggled a great deal wit... (372 words)

What do i do about her gut friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 4 months. We're both of the age of 18, things picked up fairly quickly, and we are soon to get engaged. We have both opened each other's eyes to new meanings in life. We're in such love that it's hard to explain, but.. t... (688 words)

Why am i being made to think it's all my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently in a relationship,this person was in a bad way when i met them and without going into detail i helped them to turn their life around and beat many demons. I was the only family and friend they had and stood by them when no one else did,but this person lied to me,d... (258 words)

He's still living with his ex boyfriend, do we stand a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid For a long time I have really liked a man I went to school with, we got on well, he always flirted and I thought at the time it meant he liked me so asked him out. He declined me without much reason but carried on flirting. In the last few weeks he started rea... (260 words)

He as nice to me on the bus, but then sent nasty instant messages on the computer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy who I sort of like is always flirting with me on the bus and on Thursday afternoon on the bus back from school he tried to get one of my best friends to move so that he could sit next to me. He is really nice to me on the bus and he also flirts with me at school but on ... (184 words)

Is it ok to spend the night at my girlfriends house?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My special lady owns a house, so i sometime on weekends spend in her house, i live with my cousin, now my cousin is all over me saying am doing it wrong, me i dont find it wrong, my girl too does not find it wrong too. Am asking for advise about this matter is it wrong?? ... (72 words)

How do you know when it is right to kiss a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i am in love with his guy, and i want to know when the time is right to kiss him, but also how can you tell if he is hinting not just to kiss but hold hands etc. ? pls help x... (45 words)

He left his pregnant GF for me, but now that she has had the baby I am jealous that he is seeing her so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - il start from the beginning. started a new job, was given my tour and i spotted this lad there, he was gorgeous, i knew from wen i first seen him that he thought the same. he used 2 stay after work for a drink, so i stayed a couple nights a week so i could get 2 know him. we ... (309 words)

My partner has lost interest in sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age - I am a 49 year old divorced woman. My partner of 9 months, who is 43 seems to have lost interest in sex with me. To be honest, his libido has never been very high, but sex was really good at the start and nothing has changed between us (I keep myself in good shape and am ... (115 words)

My husband and I do love each other but we feel resentment towards each other over unresolved baggage from the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for more than 10 years. It has been wonderful and exciting and I love my partner with all of my heart. The problem is that over time we have built up a lot of relationship baggage, that has made us both resentful towards each other. We hurt each other ... (119 words)

He hasn't updated his internet profile status from 'single' to 'in a relationship'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) age 36-40 - hiya what do you think it means if a guy you are seeing calls himself "single" on a internet profile thing eg facebook/myspace. He has been on it recently but has not updated his relationship status though lots of people know he is seeing someone/in a relationship.... (48 words)

Why do I only want what I can't get/don't have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) age 30-35 - why do i always want what i cant have?? When i had the perfect boyfriend i didnt want him and stopped liking him. Now im single,i want my ex back but i cant have him. Can anybody shed some light on this?... (42 words)

I'm almost 18 and she is almost 14; is it Ok to date her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - is it alright if i am 17 going on 18 in november and im going out with a 13 going to be 14 in dec. because i think she is worth it but i dont know what to do please i need help. and my parents are telling lies to break up with her and they say that her dad hates me please help ... (65 words)

Does giving me a hickie mean he likes me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - if this boy i like gave me a hicky does that mean he likes me.... (15 words)

How do you know when it's time for a relationship to end?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know when your relationship should be ended?... (10 words)

I found condoms in his travel bag and although he assures me he wouldn't cheat, I can't stop thinking about it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of 4 months has gone on a business trip for 5 days and i bought him a going away present and card to read on the plane, but when i opened the front zip on his suitcase to put them in i found a handful of condoms scattered in the bottom of that section. my stomach ... (487 words)

My online romance doesn't love her husband but I feel like I don't compare

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 21, living with my parents, working full-time, and a college student. I only have a few friends to start off because I enjoy being alone most of the time. I love spending time online. Because of that, I met this girl from another state, she's 29---got two kids and is ... (294 words)

My boyfriend hangs out with his ex who still loves him; he says I shouldn't worry but I can't help it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I worry? My "BF" and his ex spend alot of time together and she is still in love with him. He says i shouldnt worry b/c he loves me and not her but i still do b/c she has tried stuff in the past and that worries me that i will lose him to her but he says i shouldnt what ... (67 words)

My boyfriend says that where oral sex is concerned, I need practice; any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my boyfriend if I gave good blow jobs and he said I needed practice!So I was wondeing if any one could give me advice on how to get better at it.Thanks... (33 words)

My dad says I'm lazy and he refuses to buy me anything

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help my dad won't speak to me. He is very mad at me for not helping him with his office work. Now he won't buy me anything. He says that I am very lazy. Not even new clothes to wear to school. What should I do?... (46 words)

I'm a Christian and believe in waiting to have sex; I've already had it, however but now I want to wait to have it again until we're married. My boyfriend isn't happy

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) - I am a Christian and believe in waiting until marriage before having sex. The problem is I have already had sex with my fiance, and previous boyfriends. I still want to wait, but my fiance argues that if I stopped doing it now after doing it for eight months, that I must not ... (104 words)

My married lover of 18 years doesn't want me anymore but I can't let go

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age - Hi I have been seeing a married man for 18 years. I love him and he said he loves me. Then one day he said he does not want the affair anymore. I am in shock and broken hearted. I can't seem to let go. Please help me. ... (49 words)

I'm keeping a secret that could blow up in my face

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been sexually abused, and I can handle most of it just fine, except for one thing. I have a HUGE problem with people touching me, mostly family. My dad thinks that it means I dont love him, and he had told me before that its okay if he touched me. I don't want him ... (124 words)

I'm going to meet a boyfriend's parents for the first time in my life; I'm very shy and so nervous about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I have to visit my boyfriend's parents for the first time tomorrow. This is the first time I've ever met a b.f.'s family. I know, surprising for a 35 year old. I'm very introverted and self-conscious and socially anxious (and don't exactly have a lot of confidence ... (116 words)

My friend keeps marrying men I think are losers, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age - By best friend keeps on marrying loosers what can I do to help??????... (13 words)

I'm getting my ego stroked by two others, so I want to dump my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - how do separate from my girl friend without troubles,secondly,am at the centre of two beautiful ladies claiming to be in love with me.how do i detect the one that really love me.please help me thanks... (71 words)

Should I send flowers to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I send flowers to my ex? We have been broken up for one month, after she broke up with me. I have maintained NC, save the two times that she initiated contact with me. I am still interested in getting back together with her. She is currently out of the country,... (176 words)

He wants to dump me but I don't want him to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an issue.i think my boyfriend is going to break up with me or is losing feelings for me.i looked in his new phone because he let me and i saw a picture of him ex girlfriend and he let me look at her for a few seconds.i talk about how bad my ex boyfriend treated me and we ... (162 words)

I love my best friend but don't want to lose our friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that i have feelings for and i dont know what to do. i am 22 years old and i fell in love with my best friend he is everything to me. i now that he has feelngs for me but i dont now what to do because i dont what to lose him as a friend. help me ... (65 words)

When I masturbate I feel dirty and wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and I just started to masterbate last week, but whenever I do it, I feel dirty and wrong. How can I not?... (24 words)

Ripped body = chick magnet... right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - can somebody please advise me on gettin a 6pac! I work out at the gym and everyday do 200 sit ups and leg raises. I feel it alot on my stomach and i can see a bit of the muscle defined but not a proper 6pac. How do i get this. I'm skinny so it should be easier. I'm 6foot tall ... (84 words)

My boyfriends objects to my parents' visits... I'm close to telling him to get lost

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of two years, we live together, is giving me a hard time, because my parents come to visit and stay for a day or two sometimes 3 with us at our house, we have a spare room, so space is not an issue. They come maybe once a month, then are not around all winter long. ... (182 words)

If he knocked me up, do I tell him now over the phone or wait until I see him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

21 July 2007 (F)

- im late for my period and extremly worried im pregnant gonna take a test in a few days as i dont have time until monday. if i am pregnant how do i tell my long distance bf (it would definatly be his as i have not been with anyone else) we both coming up to 19 and be together 6 ... (97 words)