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I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.

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Question - (18 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, but I don't know whether I still want to be with him... we're just so different, he stresses out and shouts at me quite a lot, then makes it out like he's hard done by, which makes me feel guilty.

He once told me to grow up, yet he still plays childish games on his computer, and is risking being beaten up because he doesn't want to return some stolen yugioh cards to some guys!!!

Today he told me he'd be at my house at 11am, it's now 5pm.. no sign of him. It's like he doesn't consider my feelings at all! I try so hard to make him happy... Arrrgh and it's annoying me that he's "quit" smoking about 11 times... when really he smokes the same amount as he did in the first place, I'm sick of being lied to but I'm in love with him and I feel like I'm in too deep now to break up.

I need help, how can I make our relationship better?

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntBabe believe me you are most definately not in too deep yet, you can say that when you have a child are married and have a mortgage.

He sounds very childish to me and no body deserves to be messed about like are.

So my advice to you would be get rid of him, you will get over him and find someone miles better.

Take care.xx.

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