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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend seems to have control issues; he said he needs time to think. How much time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age - Dear cupid, I am in love with a man 12 yrs my senior. We have been dating for close to 11 months now. We have great chemistry have had alot of good times together. On the other hand we have had some drama as he calls it. His pace is a little slower than what I'm used to. He s... (191 words)

We met up and became intimate, then a few months later, he called it off; what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man a little more than half a year ago. We live very far from each others, but he was very keen on getting to know me and would call me every day. After a month he traveled to see me again for about a week. During this week we became closer and sexually intimate, and ... (301 words)

What's the difference between a circumsised penis and one that's not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis ??... (10 words)

My period is so heavy I sometimes can't even walk

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi.. my period last for 10 days with severe bleeding, i can't even walking sometimes. is this normal? if not what's causing it?... (25 words)

My boyfriend dumped me and I still have to see him, as his friends are my friends; he's started flirting with another girl too and it's killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i was with this boy. And he was really sweet and everything but he was also a d**k at the same time and never called me, never made the effort with me, never came up and said hi to me when we were out with our friends. And just plainly treated me different around our ... (289 words)

I'm 16 and live in the UK; can I get a home by myself? I'm worried what I'll do to my parents

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is it possible to leave my house at the age of 16, because i am finding it difficult to live with my parents as i am always causing them problems and trouble. i am living in the UK by the way and just want to know if i can live by myself becaus... (90 words)

What's the general opinion of Dr. Phil's view on porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you guys/girls think about Dr. Phil's view on porn? He considers it unhealthy and intrusive to the relationship: http://drphil.com/articles/article/54/ ... (29 words)

Recently I found out off a good friend that our 16-year-old son has become addicted to dieting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age - Recently I found out off a good friend that our 16-year-old son has become addicted to dieting - or rather, a particular type of diet. He's become very interested in the "bikini beach diet" that a well-known tabloid did (look up "bikini beach diet" on Google, you'll see hundr... (231 words)

What should I do during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 16 and I have never had sex before because I don't know what to do, I'm scared that the guy I'm with may not like what I do... What should I do during sex? please help ... (43 words)

He has a fear of commitment as well and thinks right now just isn't a good time but possibly in the future.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So just recently I decided it was time to end a relationship after almost a year. Don't get me wrong we never fought and we got along so well. Basically I just didn't feel like a top priority in his life and he never said I love you. We talked about it and he said he doesn't ... (198 words)

My best friend said he fancies me; we decided not to date but in truth, I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a boy i really like and he is my best friend the other week he told me he fancyed me and wanted to go out with me so i suggested we both thought it through. we both came to a conclusion that it would be best not to but deep down i love him i really love him like ive ... (70 words)

I'm pretty and a cheerful person so why do people never like me the way I like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that whenever i like someone they never like me back in the same way? I mean, im 5ft 6, longish strawberry blonde hair with bright blue eyes, a laughable personality.. whats wrong with me? ... (41 words)

Size 34A bust; men, what are your opinions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - MEN ANSWER PLEASE!...i have size 34A breast's i was woundering what you really think of this!?... (16 words)

My boyfriend kissed another girl, he said he was drunk; does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i saw my bf kiss another girl!...nothing else happend how ever do you think he doesnt love me anymore, he says he was drunk etc....how can i trust him again!... (30 words)

How do I get my article in the apropriate category?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age - I wrote to dearcupid an article about my controlling parents but I accidentally put my column under a question and I should have answered the question. How can I get my article under the right catagory?... (36 words)

I'm dating my mum's cousin who is 20 years older than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship with my mothers cousin for nearly 2 years and she doesnt no and he is 20 years older then me we love each other more then anything but i dont no how to tell my parents as the would go spare.... (48 words)

He said 'Good Girl' as i was giving him oral.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have several problems that I am not sure how to deal with. Firstly, I am concerned that I am getting too intimate with my boyfriend too soon (I feel this was the problem in my previous relationship even though we had known each other for years and didn't have sex until 2 mo... (344 words)

I'm married and have been sleeping with a married man I work with; now he's backing off, I can't bear facing him every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having an affair with a married man who I work with. I am also married and whilst I love my husband, I'm not attracted to him and our sex life is pretty non-existent and dull. Recently, a very attractive man at work started taking an interest in me and asked me out for a ... (205 words)

I'm the 'other man'; should I pull away and see if she leaves him for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a love triangle where im the other man. I know none of her friends or family and she has been in a relationship for about few years that has run most its course. Been seeing her 6 months on/off. I know she is not happy as she made choices to begin a pyhsical ... (165 words)

My drive has been dead for the last year and my partner says it feels like we're just friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my partner and i are going through a really tough time, weve been together for 11 years and havnt had sex for nearly a year,ive completely lost interest in sex, hes taken it really badly and when we started to talk about it he said the last time i tried to have sex with him... (111 words)

Does the contraceptive injection stop your periods completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i want to go on the contraception injection, i was woundering does this mean my periods will stop for aslong as it is effective? ... (25 words)

He seems obsessed with building a collection of online friends; I think he's choose them over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is adding new single women (who look like me by the way) on his MySpace Account and he gets defensive with me whenever I try to ask him why. He says most of his friends male or female have actually asked him to be his friend and I believe him, but recently I found ... (281 words)

Is she too young for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i have recently become good friends with a girl whos 13. i think she wants to be more than just friends and i would too but everyone deems it wrong to go out with someone that much youger. is it right to go out with a girl a couple years younger than me at this ... (65 words)

I like a guy from the gym but can't work out if he likes me too

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I need some advice. Theres this guy I like but I don't know whether he likes me. Basically, he works at the gym i go to, he signed my mate up and initally joked with me about not being allowed in as i have a free membership, so i played along with it. he would ... (116 words)

How can I tell my protective parents that I'm dating someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all ok so heres the things i met this guy a month ago and weve been dating ever since , and really happy having fun chattting , and socialising , anyway hes told his parents about me and ive met them and the thing is i havnt told my parents yet . see the thing is two... (122 words)

Want to lose weight by not eating.

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx... (47 words)

Since they have moved in with their boyfriends, i hardly hear from them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I was good friends with 2 sisters and we spent every weekend together. However they are now living with their b/fs so I don't see them anymore. Over the last 7 months I have seen them 3 times. All I get now is a e-mail maybe once a week, I have stop e-mailing myself as I ... (152 words)

To the DearCupid agony aunt Blaz(pound sign)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - To the agony aunt Blaz£, please could you open a new account without the £ on the end of your name? You give excellent advice but because of that symbol on your name, your profile page cannot be viewed or linked to, so no-one can add you as a friend or message you. For all I ... (96 words)

Update on my husband who said sex is too strenuous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - An update on the question I previously posted: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-because.html I spoke to my husband about it, and asked him if anything was stressing him, but he said no. He still insists sex is strenuous, which is s... (83 words)

I'm 16 and my 23 year old crush knows I like him; he has a girlfriend but he says he doesn't like her anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 16 and i like this boy/man who is 23 is this wrong? he knows i like him but he has a girlfriend at the minute. He calls her names and says he doesnt like her anymore. I really like him alot though any ideas on how i could get over him? ... (54 words)

What does 'gash' mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what does gash mean ? ... (5 words)

Why do some men find commitment so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

- Why is it so hard for some men to commit to someone that they are dating?... (16 words)

How can someone stop loving you after one month of dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how can some one say i love you at the begginning of a relationship then stop a month into it ? ... (25 words)

I want to live with my boyfriend when he's financially settled but he's not sure what he wants to do regarding career; I'm getting frustrated waiting for him to decide

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

- I use to want to live with my boyfriend really bad. Since now he’s unsure what to do with his work and career, I want to wait until he gets settle. Is it really selfish of me to think like this? Moving in together means a lot to me. We might be buying a place together. Stable ... (140 words)

I worry what my boyfriend is doing when I'm not with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - is it silly to worry what my guy would be doing if he isn't checking his phone? il ring and he'll pick up..i just sit there waiting for him to text thinking he may be in trouble is he hurt or is he up to something..i perfectly trust him and when i do ask is ther some1 else he ... (93 words)

After 2 failed marriages I'm seeing a woman I love but we fight all the time; is this relationship worth the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) age - I have so many questions I need help with. I am 47 been married twice with children, now have a child and stepson although we are not married with another woman. I love this woman more than I think I have ever loved anyone else. I seem to be in a losing situation. We seem to ... (105 words)

He always treated me different from other girls but we've never really dated; he moved away for a job and we now don't speak as often. I love him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all the guy im in love with is birthday today...but i aint wished him happy birthday he has never told me when his bday is and i've never told him when mine is. i only know because he sent his cv to me to check over about 6months ago and i remembered from then. we ai... (967 words)

He's not Ok with me going out with a male friend but isn't it a bigger deal for me that he has an ex wife and a daughter? Am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

- I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He has a daughter with his ex-wife. For some reason, I get really jealous whenever he mentions things like: Oh, she use to not let me cook. It was just a general statement but I just get paranoid that I’m not as good as his ... (197 words)

He won't say 'I love you' or include me in his future plans because he doesn't want to feel 'trapped' but I'm just confused about what he really wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a lovely man for just under nine months now and after about 4 months I blurted out I love you which he didnt say back. he treats me very well and is so sweet to me and reliable and says things that he loves about me or loves being with me but never the I love ... (391 words)

He said he wanted a commitment with me, then he didn't want to know; he's since been very nasty to me and I've no idea why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was in a relationship with a guy for two years and we discussed commitment and seemed very happy. As soon as we discussed commitment he said he saw a future for us, kept saying he loved me and then out of the blue seemed to freak out and left me abruptly with no real exp... (822 words)

I blocked contact with her for 4 months; now I want to be friends again and she's not interested, what can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i blocked contact from a close friend about 4 months ago and just recently unblocked her a couple of weeks ago. she doesnt like me anymore and doesnt want to be friends. ive wrote her poems and such .but no luck. i realy like this person alot and will do anything for her ... (61 words)

He takes me for granted and won't put more into our relationship; I love him but I also want to leave

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have this very handsome boyfriend who is not sweet, lazy, dependent, doesn't give into the relationship. We are together for 4.5 years and I've been cooking and also washing dishes at least 3~4 nites a week. We are both working and I get very tired of being a 'maid' He t... (104 words)

How can I make my relationship what it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boy friend and i have been together for 8 months now but there was a time when he broke up with me because we couldnt see each other. after 2 days we got back 2 gether. but when we started seeing each other again it wasn't the same. i asked him over and over ''what happened ... (99 words)

I'm basically having to choose between my sister and my ex, whom I still want to be with; am I wrong to feel like this isn't fair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - iv been split up with my ex fiance for nearly 2 month now. but hes suddenly arrived back on the scene asking if he can see me and stuff, which i have agreed to as only friends, even thou deep down i want more. he has told me his life has went down hill without me about, and ju... (298 words)

My boyfriend had plans to live abroad but because of his child, he feels he can't follow this dream; what can I do for him? He seems so down about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend is in dilemma thinking if he should pursue something he wants to do or he should forfeit it because of the responsibility being a parent. My bf got married at a young age and has 7yr old daughter with his ex. Since he became a dad (un-expectedly), he feels he can ... (157 words)

Why can't i get over her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - It's been 7 months since my first ex and I broke up, why can't I get over her?... (18 words)

He seems to care about me but he never asks questions; not even about my job, my family or any of the usual things like that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently started dating a man who seems to be very nice, very quiet but very respectful and thoughtful. He seems to really care for me and want to spend time. My concern is that he never asks questions about me even though I ask him. I have asked about his marriage, ... (107 words)

We are in a lond distance relationship, but i think he talks to others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. But, I susspect that he talks to other girls on the phone when he is not talking to me. I also think that he is interchanging text, message too. Which I think is very disrespectful. I confronted him but he denies it... (73 words)

I don't love my wife anymore but I don't want to put my little girl through a divorce

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 years and have come to the realization that me and my wife have grown so much in different directions and that i don't love her anymore. i knew some of the things i didn't like at the beginning but had the faith that we could grow in the same ... (111 words)

My rapist told me it was 'normal and that porn stars do it', so I developed a hatred for porn; yet my boyfriend still looks at magazines

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i was raped when i was 9 and the person who did it said it was normal and all the famous porn stars did it. and now i despise porn iv told my boyfriend and he stoped watching it but lately iv found hes been looking at mags and he said he wasn't i dont think he respects my ... (128 words)

I'm 16 and think I'm in love; is this possible, or should I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - basically am 16 and am already in love is this possible..even though we see each other twice a week..we don't live together..and even though its bin a month and a bit, i fantasies about him, we havn't had sex i won't do it and he respects that i get butterflies being around h... (105 words)

Want to experience other people now, but i have a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months we lost our virginity together but now i feel like i want to experience other people but i don't want to end my relationship please help!!!... (36 words)

What does witty mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl i fancy so badly told me she would love to have a boyfriend with great sense of humour, witty comments who's loving and tender. I get some of it, but what is witty comments? And what does she mean by being tender?... (47 words)

He answers my questions strangely or not at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf of a year replied me with this phrase everytime i asked him where did he came from or how's his day, he answers me but if im trying to ask him again for confirmation he told me this "oh,you always ask me questions, why not think about it first before you proceed asking?" ... (121 words)

My husband has spent the past 7 years using prostitutes; how can I ever trust him again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 years and have 2 small children. I thought I had a good marriage and very loving relationship. Last week I found out My husband has been seeing prostitutes for the past 7 years. He first denied it but eventually confessed. He is very sorry. He says he ... (125 words)

I'm having strange symptoms, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21 and not on birth control, me and my partner have been togther for 6 years. anyway my last period was 30/05/07 and usually lasts 5 days, however i missed junes period and am now 3.5 weeks late. took a pregnancy test last week and was negative! i have had differen... (138 words)

How do I end my online relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ano this proberly sounds stupid but i have an online gf and i want to end it because i think we have got to serious, how do i tell her? plz help ... (32 words)

The condom split and I did get my period. But could I be pregnant still?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18, last sunday (15th july) i had sex with my boyfriend, but the condom split, i started my period yesterday (22nd july) is there any chance i could be pregnant? or does the period show a definate no? please help... (42 words)

Gender confusion and I need some help! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ever since I was younger I have wanted to be female. I'm 19 now and male. I have a girlfriend as I am attracted to females but also am fascinated by wondering what it would feel like to be with anyone with male organs(male/tv etc). Am I gay? Or female? Can anyone give any advi... (62 words)

My Dad treats me like a child and wastes money on junk I dont need

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my father is a wonderful, loving and kind man. he is one of the nicest people. however my relationship with him is awful. alot of times i find myself hating and resenting him. my father treats me like i am 3yrs old. he speaks to me in "baby talk" still and it is though, like a ... (576 words)

I want to give my ex boyfriend my virginity as a birthday present

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well heres the thing. i'm 14. iv'e split up with my boyfriend about a month ago now. but i still love him very much. lately he's started speaking to me again like how things used to be. i asked him what he wanted for his birthday and his answer was money at first. then wev'... (171 words)

Even though he pulled out, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, im 16 and I think im pregnant because 8-9 days ago I was at the peak tym of my cycle and me and my boyfriend had sex a few times but pulled out before he came then on that Sunday night my boyfriend did ejaculate in me so we went to get the morning after pill on ... (186 words)

Raped by my ex last night.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, need advice and help please. I was raped last night by my ex, i let him in as he said he wanted to talk, anyway we were chatting normally he then tried it on, told him i wasn't interested, he forced himself on me. I couldn't fight back, i froze..afterwards he sat and spok... (139 words)

She claims the anniversary of her Mother's death took a toll on her and she needs space from the relationship! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - i have been dating this older lady (8yrs older) in a long distance relationship for approx 6mos me in l.a. she in n.y., now her spouse past about 7-8yrs ago and her mother passing a year ago. now she had relationships but one only lasting about 1 1/2yrs. now on holidays, ... (348 words)

I don't like the sex organs i have.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am male and am attracted to females but I dislike having the male parts I have. I am also not sporty and don't really like cars nor do i fit into the catagories of a typical bloke. Could I be a lesbian in a man's body?... (48 words)

He doesn't want anyone to know about our relationship! If they do find out, he lies! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - 22/7/07 I'm 16, my boyfriend says he loves me, wants it to last forever, wnats to marry me, this is all in texts! When i talk to him or see him, he never says it unless we're physical he'll say i love you.. but not in the way i want to hear it. Doesn't want anyone to ... (196 words)

He's seeing my mate, but telling people he's single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your ex is being flirty towards you;giving you wedgies and teasing you? He suppossed to be going out with a close freind of mine but says he is single! What is going on in his head?? ... (43 words)

I don't want to suffer with depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I got out of a relationship with a person who was not nice or good to me, i'm happy to be out of it and i do not want to go back. I at times remember how bad they treat me and the fact they did such bad things yet felt no guilt or remorse. That hurts still alot!, how can i st... (266 words)

Need some clarification on female orgasms...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend always said her orgasms are much better than mine. i can orgasm by my clit while she can orgasm by squirting-which i guess is every woman (and man's) fantasy and i always believed was the ultimate or best orgasm a female can have. i have never orgasmed that way so ... (428 words)

He doesn't have time for me but he does for his work and friends. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Although my boyfriend seems to be interested in me he seems that he doesn't have a lot of time for me. He is spending many hours to work and he wants to go out with his own friends sometimes. I am tired of asking him to spend time together and sometimes i arrange to go out ... (140 words)

I'm not sure about marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with this guy for a year and i am not sure of spending the rest of my life with him because of our diffrences. We fight alot and argue most times. We have been able to tolerate each other for this years but i think marraige is diffrent from relationship. I dont wan... (65 words)

I fantasise about her having sex with strangers; is this normal?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with this woman, but we are living apart (in different continents) so we talk a lot on the fone about sex and fantasies. We tell each other storys and get off that way. My problem is that I get very excited when I imaging her getting f****d by another guy a ... (109 words)

I fear my ex will take our child out of the country and never bring him back! Any advice?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't trust my ex at all. And I really mean that. I don't believe a word he says as he has proven to be a liar and a cheat. We have a little boy and we used Family Mediation to work out regular access that suited us both. I do believe in my little boy maintaining cont... (325 words)

I am skinnny and my family's rude comments about that, really hurt. What can I do?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very tall and naturally quite skinny-I do not exercise or diet and eat what I want. I am so fed up on everyone putting down slim people and making statements about "real womanly bodies" - as if being a size 0 somehow makes you less of a woman. If I were to say to an ... (307 words)

What's the chance of getting pregnant while on the pill?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok what are the chances of getting pregnant on the pill and how can i tell when are my most fertile days?... (22 words)

He said that if we don't have sex, we're breaking up; then he said he didn't mean it but it hurt me a lot

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend made me upset today. Okay, he asked me if his "thang" is to small for me can we still do it and I said i will think about it and he said well if we can't we're breaking up. He said if we don't have sex then what is the point of kissing ect. Then he said he didn't m... (72 words)

I caught my partner having sex with my sister-in-law; can I ever put it behind me?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age - i caught my partner having sex with my brothers wife! he said it was a mistake and begged me to forgive him. A year has passed, we have moved from the UK to NZ to start again, we are happy but i still have this image of them both and just dont understand why it happend! will i ... (68 words)

My stepbrother is in love with my gf! What should I do?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll start by saying this involves my gf of 5 1/2 years Chelsea, and my step brother Mark, who i have known and been best friends with for 16 years. My brother has always been an odd guy. Not very social, and extremely moody, though he's extremely intelligent and successful ... (261 words)

My close guy friend distanced himself after I found a bf..why?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello- I a fairly sure that one of my best friends has abandoned our friendship because I am no longer single. I will describe the situation and perhaps you all can tell me what you think. I met this man several years ago while in college. We both worked on campus at a job ... (549 words)

He thinks if we have sex he will lose interest.

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am posting this because i am really looking for non involved opinions and what you all think about this situation. First and foremost I am gay I have just started dating this guy about 3 weeks ago in which we flirted on and off for at least 5 months. Well we finally went out... (493 words)

What's the problem?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a baby 3 months ago. I just found out I am pregnant again. I am happy because I wanted my daughter to have a sibling close in age to play with etc. I feel that it will make her happier, I also really love being a mom. I am not married to the father (same father to ... (598 words)

Will my lover ever leave his wife and his unhappy marriage?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - 13 years ago, I met the love of my life and I have never fallen out of love with him. I got married and had a child and just this year, my one true love, whom I have seen in passing throughout the years, reentered my life. We met for lunch and we talked about how we both have ... (340 words)

My boyfriend's friends seem to be on a hate campaign against me for no reason

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends friends say they hate me.... dunno what i did, they are saying im immature (while they used to say i was extrmely mature for my age as do most people... they are about 7/8 years older than i am) one girl said she hated me and wanted to kill me, accused me of at... (151 words)

I love him but he has problems.

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23 July 2007 (F)

age - We are both near 50yrs and have both had multiple relationships and want to settle down. We've been together 4yrs, lived together 3yrs. My grandchildren love him, I love him....but I can't stand to be around him for more than a couple of days at a time. We have great times wh... (285 words)

Would it be a sin or illegal to be with my first cousin?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, over the past few years me and my first cousin and i have gone really close and want to go further she lives kind of far and we talk time to time but i am afrain my family will not accept me. What should i do? and also is this a sin if we have sex? And is it legal in the ... (64 words)

I feel I'm going to give in and have sex with him soon!

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just turned 16 and for the past 3 months my younger boyfreind who is 15 and not 16 for 8 months has been asking me for sex. he looks alot older than he is,is a lot taller then me and stronger and is very dominant. i really dont no what to do because i feel as if im going ... (167 words)

She's suddenly scared to do the things we've been doing instead of sex and I'm displeased

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im 15 years old and me and my girl friend have been doing allot of things except for sex. and now all of a sudden she is scared to do everything else (stuff we even did before ex: anal) now im always feeling unpleased and depressed because she isn't treating me the way she ... (67 words)

With my physique, what's the easiest way to build a six-pack?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 years old, 5ft something or other weighting 10, stone what is the easiest way to get a 6 pack?... (21 words)

Never been on a date or had a boyfriend! How do I get this stuff started?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - well, this question has probably been asked quite a few times on here, but here it goes i am 20 yrs old... I'll be 21 in january actually. and I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I've had crushes on plenty of guys, and most of my friends are guys, but I'... (198 words)

I need some advice on blemish concealer

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i need help on concealer. i heard that green concealer hides pimples, scars, redness, and etc. could i just wear the green concealer just by itself? Will it blend with my skin? What kinds of brands are good concealers for me to buy that won't break my budget? Is concealer the ... (59 words)

I like this girl but she's shy whenever we're alone

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl. I want to ask her out to bowling or cinema. Any ideas? If she acts a bit quiet or awkward does that mean she does not like me or could she be shy? Because this girl is perfectly fine in school, and over the phone but i think embarrassed and shy when out of ... (71 words)

My girlfriend is losing interest, how can I make her interested again?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend seems to be getting bored or fed up of me n da relationship. I'm becoming boring to her. How do I become interesting again? P.S.* i can't meet her or go out wd her, i'l b seeing her after 2 more weeks.... (44 words)

I'm meeting my online female friend for the day; any tips on good behaviour?

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23 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been talking to a girl online for 3-4 months and we're now planning on meeting up and hanging out for the day. I'd have to say that this is mainly a Q for the girls. I was wondering is there anything special I should do other than be myself? Of course I shall d... (83 words)

I'm not allowed to be with him; should I go ahead and see him anyway?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - should i do what i want? i have been seeing this boy for about three months and am not aloud to be with him as he is no angel should i do what i want and get into trouble for seeing him or not see him at all???? ... (51 words)

My girlfriend and I are curious about different types of orgasms

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and i both orgasm very differently. i can only orgasm through clitorial stimulation so i can only orgasm through oral sex or masturbation. Whereas she can only orgasm through some sort of penetration then she ejaculates. i have never experienced an orgasm like ... (164 words)

Only one of my fingers fits inside me and it smells 'fishy' down there; is this normal?

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23 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - When I finger myself only one finger fits up, is that normal? Also i would like to let my boyfriend finger me but down below usually smells of fish, is this normal?... (32 words)