A
female
age
36-40,
*confused_one*
writes:I was in a relationship with A for 5 years and we have a 2 year old girl together. We've been broken up for about 2 months, but we still mess around. We argue a lot and he's very protective. He wants to be with me, but I don't know what I want. I'm dating this guy, D, and he's fun to be around. I know he likes me and I like him. He's really thug-like, which I usually hate. And he does stuff I don't like. Like his job isn't legal (if you know what I mean.) And he smokes weed and cigarettes. But for some reason, I continue to want to see him. We never really did anything, just kissed. Now I know I'd feel weird having an official relationship with D cuz of his 'extracurricular' activities. But I really like him.Now, they both wanna be with me, but I dunno who to choose. Should I go with my past, or should I try something new?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Think about why you split up with the father of your girl in the first place, is it something that could be changed?
I agree with sexi if want his does for a living is not cosha, then you really should not be exposing your daughter to this.
Take care.xx.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Hi
You must have really liked A because you have a child with him. A seems straight from what you said but i would say the complete opposite for D. Personally i think that D is not what you need in your life. Considering all his "activites", do you really want your daughter to be around someone like that. You can really make a home with someone that doea things like that. What you also need to realize is that when he smokes his weed, he would be in a different state of mind and could possibly do something to you or your daughter but would not even realize what he is doing. It may be dangerous to be around him. You should try to work things out with A(afterall your'll do have a daughter) that would probably best for her.Basically see what would be best for you & your daughter in the long run & wat would make you happier.
Good luck & i hope that everyting works out for you.
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