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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mum's best friends daughter, do you think it could be awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 13 and i fancy a 14 year old. she is my mums best friends daughter and we see each other regularly. if she says no or we break up it would be awkward, but i cant stop thinking about her. should i ask her out?... (47 words)

Should I make him choose between her and I, or just leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really dont know what to do! i'm seeing this very older guy.his 43 and i'm 22 when i met him he told me he wasn't married. then to come and find out he was living with this other woman and has 2 daughters.we still kept seeing each other and in the long run i became pregnant ... (325 words)

He doesn't even eat them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what should i do if all my boyfriend ever talks about is fruit and vegetables?... (15 words)

It was only pre cum.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex with my partner three weeks ago but he didn't come only precome, i've been feeling sick lately. Do i have a high chance of being pregnant?... (30 words)

My family seems cursed never to find love; will I be the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship of 6 months and i really love her. However both my parents and both my sisters havnt been that lucky in love. My mum has had many husbands and divorced my dad when i was young. Both my sisters have also gone through divorces. But on the other side of the ... (161 words)

I can't find any guys, who are interested in me and I like them! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am really stuck. I can't find any guys. Every guy that likes me im not interested in. I don't know many guys as i go to an all girls school which is awful. I am quite shy but i've been told i shouldnt be as i get a lot of male attention but i am very self critical. My ... (85 words)

My military guy is going on tour! I desperately want to be strong for him but i dont know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been living together for almost a year, i've never been so in love. I'm in a rough spot right now because he is in the military and these past 6 months he's been on course, away for most of the time. He's supposed to be done at the end of the month but ... (149 words)

How can i convince my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me outside and its kinda ... (115 words)

I like her, but am holding back because she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i'm new here and not to sure how to start this, but could do with some advice. i've been working with this girl at work since the beginning of the year. When i first met her i liked her but now after getting to know her more i have a massive crush on her, i love being aro... (137 words)

I hate my best friends bf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- hi there i was wondering what to do you see its a very long story but ive got this mate who ive known for a long time shes the same age as me 15 and shes just got her first proper boyfriend and hes absolutly horrible he takes the mikey out of her like you dont no what (cuz she... (212 words)

I love him to pieces but how do we get over our awkward shyness with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well the guy i like fancies me too, but we only get to see each other once a week. Also it has got a bit awkward between us ever since we told each other we liked them. But we're trying to sort things out as both of us really want it to work. The problem is: we are both bei... (97 words)

Can an STD like chlamydia make you sterile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a std called chlamidia (not sure if thats how its spelled) ok well im getting it taken care of right now. but isnt it true that that std can make you infertile. how long would you have to have it before it did?... (46 words)

I really feel the pressure of school and work, became too much for him and it was easiest for him to dump me. Should I tell him I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up in April after dating for just over a year. He broke up with me but wanted to maintain a friendship. We have done the post-breakup sex thing but have also managed to spend some time together just hanging out and being friends. We keep in touch a ... (232 words)

He says he doesn't find me attractive after we had such a great time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met this guy online and we just went on a second date and we had a great time and really get on, kissed loads and cuddled/held hands lots and have loads in common. He then sends me a text to say that he loves my personality and we have loads in common but he doesn't ... (110 words)

Help! I love my girlfriend, but can't seem to get over my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age - I had a horrible fight with my g/f of 2 yrs. and she was in the process of packing up her things up until I talked her into staying. When I was out of town, she was copying some of our picturs onto a CD when she ran across a CD I had stored some old letters I wrote to my ex ... (445 words)

I'm pregnant but still want to have sex... Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the best and comfortable positons when having sex during pregnancy?... (12 words)

Why would my fiance want to leave me for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and his ex-girlfriends shares a son together. things are awesome between us, maybe fought twice in 3 years. He was with his ex for 10 years and they fought almost everyday. we are 3 months from getting married. His ex confessed to him that she is still in love with ... (106 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about his porn. How can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having big trust issues with my boyfriend right now. We've been together for about a year and a half. The problems all started about a year ago. I found some "questionable" pornographic pictures saved on his computer, which I promptly confronted him about. We talked it ... (250 words)

Can I still have sex if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first child, can i have sex while i am pregnant... (17 words)

Want to dump this guy I've dated for a month-how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going out with this boy who is a year younger than me and i dont love him anymore after a month of dating. I cant stop thinking about this other boy and he's giving me advice on how to act towards the boy i like not knowing it's him. Basically i feel like crap and i dont ... (71 words)

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I find out that he had sex with ... (102 words)

Should I feel threatened by his ex gf calling him all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months ex-girlfriend is constantly calling him or texting him. The thing is they were together for 4 1/2 years lived together so yes there are some issues that they need to speak on the phone. They are also on the EMS squad and Fire department for the same ... (126 words)

Does he love me but he's just afraid to say so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- I've seen this guy around town for a number of years, and I've always had a crush on him but never really met him, formally. I learned not too long ago, that he and his g/f had split up and he wasn't seeing anyone for the past 2 yrs. Since he used to go to my church, I ... (596 words)

I masturbate to gay porn. Does this mean I am gay?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im a 17 year old virgin, im straight, but like to mastrbate to gay/bisexual porn, recently i hav been putting things up my ass 2 help me cum, it feels so great, but im worried i am becoming gay. I hav dremt about having gay sex. wot shud i do? how can i stop this feeling... (58 words)

He makes me feel guilty if I can't hang out with him. I want to stay with him but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months and everything was going well until he started talking about us getting married after college, we are getting ready to start our senior year in college, and it freaked me out. He also makes me feel guilty if i can't hang ... (85 words)

Was she lying to me about never having anal sex before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - She says shes never had anal sex before, but when we tried it there was no difficulty getting it in. Is she telling the truth or lying? will i b able 2 trust her if she is lying plz help me... (48 words)

My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tell him first or what? I ne... (70 words)

I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't get on with his mum and they ... (462 words)

Boyfriend won't get rid of his porn collection. Should I find someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Another porn question. My boyfriend of 16 months has thousand of porn pics/clips. He says that it was from the years he was single, however all the material he has makes me wonder how long everyday he would look at it and get off to it. When we first started having sex he was ... (181 words)

I really fancy this footballer but have never spoken to him. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way for someone i hardly know. can ... (114 words)

He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her and their child and he was glad ... (274 words)

He has lied to me before, so now he says he wants privacy and I dont trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for a year and some months. We have lived together for a year. He has lied to me a couple times before about dumb things, like giving his number out to girls and denying ever talking to them. In my past relationship i was cheated on left ... (172 words)

I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I couldn't have imagined ... (122 words)

Where is a good place to meet viable men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't have a lot of friends here ... (93 words)

How do the men feel about dating an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirties which I think is a bit ex... (110 words)

I am confortable being frumpy, but want to be attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel a bit Bridget Jones writing this but I am truly feeling like life is passing by. I'm 35 and have one failed marriage of 13 years behind me - no children. I am comfortable in my own company but I feel like I am stuck between wanting to find and settle down with a man ... (224 words)

I am angry all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a big problem with my fiance.the problem is that i am angry all the time with silly things.my childhood was bad i dont love my mother. i think something is missing in my life. i cant be happy. I am always unhappy. I am always angry on something. what shall i do ... (57 words)

My boyfriend needs to last a bit longer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please help me out. I have been on here before with somewhat of the same question. I have told my boyfriend that I aint satisfied with sex. He dont last long he last maybe less then a mintue sometiems a minute at most. I hate it I just dont know what to do. He is good ... (134 words)

Why did she flirt with me if she isnt gay or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a long story but basically a female friend flirted with me (I'm bi). Then after a couple of weeks of talking (mostly initiated by me) I said I really liked her and wanted a relationship. She said she's kinda too busy but seemed to still be interested. Then she suddenly ... (140 words)

I have been sleeping around, but wonder if this will turn off the guy I really like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 16 years old and I have slept with 5 people.. All being within the past 3 months. 3 of which were on holiday, so they don't matter to me. However, 2 were in England, one being one of my good friends (we've discussed it and have decided to forget it happened) and th... (185 words)

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month after I moved out, he went ... (294 words)

He keeps changing his mind about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the family thing.... (49 words)

The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVER cheat. He's been hurt in ... (576 words)

I emailed him a song to tell him I fancied him. Now he's put it up publicly! What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I sent this guy im intrested in a song online and made it very clear that I'm crushing on him. I was unaware the song would go public (on his page where all his friends can view it)......hes been online and has seen the song and i sent a message saying what i did and how i was ... (113 words)

He's going out with my best friend but I like him and he keeps calling me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me alot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that he likes me and I'm starting to ... (102 words)

I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since we have been together for ... (174 words)

She is lying, hiding phone calls and wont speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Im 38 years married with 3 kids my wife is 33 bye November 2007. we are married for 8 years now. we live happly before. till i decided that she should go back to classroom for further studies. Since , then she has developed bad behaviours , flirting with her mobile . going... (178 words)

Is anal sex safe during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is it safe to take it up your bum whike your pregnant... (12 words)

My ex is using me for sex, but I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- Hi I was with my ex for a few months. Then we split up but he said he still liked me afterwards and we did sexual things together. He messed me around basically. Soon after we would do something toegther he woudn't want to do anything and woudn't act close with me. Now he says ... (143 words)

My boyfriend mentioned the fantasy of a threesome and I cant get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said, that like any guy, a part of him wants to have a threesome, But he doesnt really want to do anything to the other girl, just me. Well Of course I made a really wierd face because I didnt know that he had thought of having a threesome with me and someone else. ... (319 words)