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41-50,
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writes:Hi, i have just recently moved in with my boyfriend of 6 months, we got along great and i needed direction. But now that we are living together everything is different, he is different, he is very jealous, i am not allowed to go anywhere alone, not even to the mall, he says i am excluding him in my life, but i have always been a independant person. He hates it when my mother calls to say hi, he says thats shes just snooping, he bad mouths all my friends, i have just started a new job and he treats all the male collegues badly, cause he says they flirt with me, and i know they don't.
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reader, penta  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 His actions are all bad signs. You can't stay here. Accepting this situation will give him implicit permission to continue. Run. Please. You deserve so much better, and this will only get worse.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (18 July 2007):
Agree totally with the others. He has a very unhealthy idea of what a relationship should be. He has big problems that he needs to sort out if he wants to maintain a relationship in the future. But it is not your job to help him – it is too risky for you. Get out, and leave him to it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 July 2007):
 This is a very unhealthy relationship, he is dangerous pure and simple. You need to get out immediately and don't look back. The guy is spiralling out of control. Run honey.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Maybe you should consider getting out of this relationship very soon, as he sounds very controlling and i don't think that is likely to change to be honest.
You can't be with someone that has issues over you talking to your mum, thats just ridiculous behaviour.
Take care.xx.
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