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My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex.

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex. Is this true anyone out there done that? I'm a virgin and they also told me that I could get sexually transmitted disease from my girlfreind even though she's a virgin 2. Can anyone help me plz and tell me if these ... (60 words

I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer.... (29 words

What am I supposed to do when I sometimes get depressed without any reason and like to sit alone without even talking to any one?

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12 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - What am I supposed to do when I sometimes get depressed without any reason and like to sit alone without even talking to any one? Well it's not like I can find someone who would actually listen to me but the thing is I've been so moody the previous weeks and I can't help it ... (60 words

Is she running from something? if so, is she running from something in herself to where she occasionally runs into me and is reminded that we are a rock together?

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - A THREE PART LOVE(?)STORY. I. I met her about four years ago, she was 19, I was 23. We began spending a lot of time together and within a few months we were living together happily. that lasted about 15 months. After about a year (give or take a month or so) she wrote m... (744 words

What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me?

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me and my girlfriend went through ... (257 words

I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I should just back off because ... (60 words

It's like a Romeo and Juliet situation, they want him well away from me.

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I had been going out with my ex-boyfriend for years. we're only 15 but we lost our virginity to each other and when we turned 15 we got engaged. It was going really well but then his parents found out. It's like a romeo and juliet situation, they want him well away from me. ... (141 words

I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?... (33 words

He's the "big brother" type, where he's so nice and everything, and he really looks out for me, but I don't know if that's because he likes me or because he's just that way.

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12 July 2007 (F - I've had this neighbor years now, and I used to like him even though we never really talked, but then he graduated high school and moved out to go to college two years ago and I didn't think of him much in those two years. Last year, he transfered to a local college and we ... (215 words

She has apologised and said she was stupid for what she done and all and said she will fight and do anything to get my trust back... but should I give her another chance??

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm 29 and have been with my girlfriend 28 for a year, and believed she was the one. We've been on holidays, hotels weekends, met each other's parents. I was genuinely in love with her. She left to work abroad this month (she's a nanny) for a month with the family. The same ... (298 words

He isn't happy with just kissing me and wants to try out other things.

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12 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ???... (54 words

How do you make love? How do you make it pleasurable?

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a really basic question. How do you make love? I'm a virgin, and I've learned from health classes and such in schools about sex. I understand biologically what is supposed to happen, but that's not quite what I want to know. How do you make it about love? What are some ... (69 words

What should I do? Does he really just want to be friends again?

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I were best friends. We started dating in high school. Recently we were together for about four years, but my ex broke up with me to marry one of his ex-girlfriends. They have a baby on the way. However, my ex calls me after five months of being married to tell me ... (137 words

He says he doesn't trust me and therefore doesn't believe that I love him and most importantly he doesn't love me.

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 19 and have been with my same age boyfriend for a year. We had a thing four years ago when relationships didn't really matter. I emotionally cheated on him and broke up with him for this other guy. He loved me and I pretty much broke his heart. Four years later we decided ... (220 words

Is it the 'mid-life crisis' or does he actually have feelings as it has gone on for so long?

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12 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi, One of my male colleagues has shown that he is interested for the last year and a half. He is married with children and in his early fifties. I find him attractive but never wanted to pursue it as he is married. Since I have not been pursuing it, he has started to regula... (103 words

How can I sort out my situation, it's a mess.

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. When we first start dating he would flirt, cyberchat with other girls, while still dating me. He dumped me once three months after being with me and we got back together a month later. During our time togethe... (250 words

When I start to have sex, I feel like I really have to pee, really badly.

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone. In the past few weeks, my girlfriend and I started having sex. She is my first, and I'm a little confused about something. When I start to have sex, I feel like I really have to pee, really badly. The sex is good, but I feel like I have to hurry because I have to ... (63 words

Why do I feel so down?

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12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I don't know what is the matter is with me, I'm a 19 year old lad with loads going for me in life and yesterday I was so happy and today life feels hopeless. Why do I feel like this?... (40 words

If we cant get back together with all of these things buttoned up permanently then there is no hope.

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Ive been with my fiancee for 10 years since we were 17 (engaged for the last 5). We bought a house at 20 and have owned it for 7 years. We did everything possible together and ditched our friends because we were more then enough for one another. Our sex life was good and we ... (1587 words

Will I bleed when I lose my virginity?

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I bled when I was fingered and it was a bit sore. Does that mean my hymen was broken? Does that mean I will not bleed when I have sex for the first time?... (34 words

What turns a guy on?

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Guys what turns you on? How can a girl make sex better for you?... (14 words

I havent heard from him in a week, did he lose interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been friends with a guy for a few years now, and he gave me his email and told me to keep in touch with him as I was leaving school for the summer. I emailed him a very quick message, just so he knows my email address, and he responded with warmth and enthusiasm. I ... (223 words

I want to join them for the concert, but I dont want to make it awkward

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12 July 2007 (? age 36-40 - So things are going really great with my girlfriend. We've been dating 3 1/2 months and love each other. During that time, a good friend of her's confessed that he has liked her for a long time, even before she met me. Later he kind of recanted, saying that he liked her but ... (209 words

I got my period but could I still be pregnant?

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - basicly i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the day before my period. he came earlier so i guess there was sperm in the pre cum but i was really drunk and i didnt think much about that. ... anyway we had unprotected sex, he didnt actually cum this time , and i had my period ... (107 words

I am bi and am attracted to my best friend!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok, i have incredibly strong feelings for my best friend-we are both females! nobody knows i feel this way and nobody knows im bisexual! do i tell her how i feel and risk losing the best friendship ive ever had or do i keep my mouth shut and hope the feelings go away? if i do ... (75 words

I want my guy to go down on me

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - What can you all use to have your guy go down on you? Guys what do you like?... (18 words

My breasts are differant sizes!

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 16, and I have one breast that is a fair bit larger than the other. I suppose that I am still quite young and I am most likely still growing, but will they even out in time? ... (39 words

I have been married 2 years, but I am still a virgin!

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am in need of urgent help. I am almost 28 years old and married since last two years now. it was a love marriage and we both love each other a lot. But i am still a virgin. I am just so scared of the pain even before we start kissing that i do not let him make love. I cannot ... (93 words

He always suspects me of cheating. How can I reasure him?

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now and our relationship used to not be very good (fighting all the time) but lately it has gotten much better (were very loving and sweet). I noticed in the begining that he was a little on the jealous side ... (331 words

I lashed out, then apologized. I think I ruined everything!

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've really screwed up with a great girl and now think I've ruined my chances with her. I've known her as a friend for a year and we've always had an amazing time socially, but things only started to happen between us recently after she split up with her long-term boyfri... (277 words

Its funny they always say guys are the ones that abuse feelings, but girls are just as bad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Right I thought I would give this a try since I am at my wits end. Okay so basicly I met this girl over the internet, I know, classic fling right? well I thought so too. I wasn't looking for anything special, mostly just someone to flirt with. I'm 19 and shes 18 and I used to ... (1643 words

Could the fact that I had early sex be the reason I dont orgasm now?

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i had my first sex intercourse when i was only 14, i learned to play my ---- when i was just a kid. until now that i'm already 16 and having my regular sex intercourse with my bf, i never experienced orgasm but sometimes, i feel its coming then it will stop. is my early sex ... (94 words

I want to swing, but my wife doesnt

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12 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I are still young, We are both 34 and we have been together for 17 years, highschool sweet hearts and I love her very much. But lately, I have been expressing to her how much I would like to be with another couple. She is a very beautiful women(HOT) and I'm the ... (140 words

I have a prominent rib cage and feel very self concious

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, well i have a promanant rib cage on my right side because i was a premature baby, so there is a huge bone across my right boob so it looks like i have a huge boob and the other one looks much smaller please help. i feel like a retard, will my boobs grow to cover it?? ... (58 words

The pressure to get married is getting to me!

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12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am 28, being going out with a girl now for 6 years and been living together for 2. she is a year older and lately we've being discussing marriage and children. We have gone through some rough times as a result because I felt I was not ready. I have agreed now but I am still ... (126 words

How can I get my guy to last a bit longer in bed?

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend dont last long at all in bed. When we do have sex it is good even though it is not long. How can we have him last longer in bed then just a few minutes?... (37 words

I am paranoid about getting an STD

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Whats the difference between HIV and an STD, I know there are no cures for hiv or aids but can an std be cured and how does someone know if they have it? I've kissed someone passionately and asked them if they were 100% clean of any health risks or stds, they told me that the... (263 words

A guy sent my girl a message saying he wants to f@ck her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Im a jealous guy (18) my Girlfriend is 22. We've been going out for 9 months now. I always check her sms and emails and she hates it. I do it because theres always something she hasn't told me about in them. She tells little white lies all the time to stop me getting mad about ... (148 words

I mentioned how my ex was hot and now my GF is feeling insecure

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12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi..me and my gf are together for 7mths now. one day when she was at my place, she saw my ex's pics..i said she used to be hot. i didnt know she was gonna feel insecure about it.. then after so long..she got insecure and started using what i said b4 agaisnt me...and everyth... (79 words

I have kept in contact with my ex, but lately he has been rude. Is it time to discontinue contact?

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12 July 2007 (F - My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. He moved to a different city quite a distance away and he can only keep in phone contact. I may call two to three times a year. Lately when I have called I have found him being a little rude and disrespectful. I am thinking that this ... (82 words

I am married but want to meet up with my ex and see if there is anything there

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ex messing up my life! I have been married for less then a year (together for almost seven years) and have always had strong feelings for my ex since it ended without proper closure etc. So I got married but would still think about him. So one day I looked him up on websi... (247 words

We got on brilliantly when we met up last week, but I need to get ove my ex!

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really miss my ex, i saw him last week again after a month of no contact, so i cud get the money he owes me. we got on brilliant, i sat in my car whilst he stood in the pouring rain talking to me for an hour, then he invited me in for an hour to talk. we talked about... (154 words

I reaally like this lad, and he seems to like me too. He says if we are ever both single he wants to go out.

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been friends with a lad that I work with for nearly 3 years. Summer last year I told him I fancied him, well I didn't tell him big mouthed colleagues did, but anyways he found out, and he decided he was flattered but didn't want to take it further because we work ... (503 words

My ex was using me for sex and I broke it off, but how do I get over him?

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12 July 2007 (F - hi, i have a problem. i broke up with my first boyfriend seven years ago. i started seeing someone else and was with him for six years then broke up with him. my first boyfriend came back though he was seeing someone else and we used to sleep together and he said he loved us ... (123 words

My boyfriend is 15 years older than me with 2 kids and my parents dont approve

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for nearly a year now and we really love each other. The problem is that we havent been honest with my parent in terms of his age and the fact that he has 2 kids. He is 37 and i am 22. ive become very close with his family and his ... (140 words

I have some still unresolved questions about why my girlfriend broke up with me. How can I get her to discuss it?

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12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - My Long distance girlfriend of two years broke up with me just over 2 weeks ago completely out of the blue. A few days later, she went on holiday to Spain with all her friends for fun, sun, booze, and perhapps (I still hope not) A holiday romance. Because so soon after break... (234 words

My girlfriend shrugged me off and humiliated me

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am 17yrs. I was with a group of people in a room. I asked one of my friends to take a picture of me n my girlfriend. I put mu hand around her and she shrugged away. It was very humiliating for me. SHe later felt sorry for what she did. but i still feel upset. What should I ... (61 words

Why does my husband like to watch me have sex with other men?

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband likes to watch me have sex with other men we have already done it with 3 differnt men.it has been a while since weve done and it is driving him crazy he cant wait to do it again,why does he want to share me if he is so in love with me and thinks i am hot.and he is a ... (70 words

How can I feel more confortable talking with my boyfriend about stuff

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12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and I still feel a little nervous to talk to him about some stuff, what can I do to feel more comfortable with him?... (35 words

I have lost my sex drive with this pregnancy

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been having this ongoing issue with my fiancee... we've been together a little over a year, just recently engaged and recently pregnant. The pregnancy was a surprise, but we're both happy about it. Now, what is happening is that our sex life is not what it use to be ... (201 words

He broke up with me because he doesnt think we have time for each other

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hey people. My boyfriend and I have been dating since the 24th of March and I've become really attached to him, however we had sex on the first date, and we have rarely met up to do anything other than lie in his bed other than maybe once or twice. Also, when we were dating we ... (262 words

I feel I owe it to my marriage to try again, but sometimes I want out

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i am trying a second time with my husband. Just a few months after we were married he moved out as he said he did not know what he wanted any more (said he lost his mind) I was gutted and left my job and moved back home to my home town to try to start a new life, i found ... (163 words

I'm so insecure, how can I deal with it? I don't want to lose her

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a slightly odd problem. I love my gf very much and i'm pretty sure that she loves me back. But i feel very insecure in our relationship and i need her to tell me that she loves me quite often. I also interpret a lot of things she does as signs of not loving me. For ... (122 words

I expect complete commitment from him, which means no masturbating to pictures of naked women; is this expecting too much?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Right, this is probably going to sound ridiculous, but it's an issue for me regardless. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I've just moved back home for the summer and we are now in seperate countries, as was the scenario last summer. Last summer he ... (240 words

Why did she break up with me out of the blue?

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 1yr 1/2 broke up with me after 1 big dance that we both had fun at not directly after but the dance was friday she broke up with me with a note that she didn't even had me herself on monday anyone got any suggestions how i could ask her y she didn't talk to me ... (105 words

He says he's not 'taking any of my crap' when he's the one that's acting ridiculous

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am pretty sure that my boyfriend and I had the fight that has totally ended our relationship last night. Now I sit here wondering where I went wrong. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and have been living with him for the past year. Our relationship has gotten ... (688 words

He had his penis indide me with no condom; is it possible to get pregnant?

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12 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - ok.......me and my boyfriend hav not had sex but he has put his penis in me. we didn't move but then his parents came and got him. we did not use a condom and i'm not sure if i can get pregnant or not.....can anyone help me??? ... (47 words

Can you feel sperm going inside you during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im a female teen i was just wondering if you can feel the cum go inside of you and if you cant what does it feel like? i would really like to know so answer as soon as possible ... (39 words

We're on a break but I think she's just keeping me handy until she finds a new guy

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12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok so she wants space, i wanna know what that means exactly. we've been together for a year now, recently we have had a few fights. the other week she broke it off with me and she says she wants space. i ask if its a break or a break up, she says a break. than i ask if were ... (212 words

Our relationship was not enjoyable, but I still miss him. Will these feelings go away soon?

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and now I miss him. I don't know if I'm (or ever was) in love with him. Sometimes I feel I love him and want to get back with him but then I think about the things that make me broke up with him and I feel bad and say to myself that I ... (358 words

My boyfriend says I have a strange discharge; do I need to see a doctor?

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend says that besides being overly wet, I sometimes have a "foamy discharge" during sex, which he has never seen before. Does this ever happen or do I need to see a doctor? Thanks.... (39 words

Does your body recognise your normal routine?

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - does your body know that you are exercising? also does your body recognizes and knows you have already exercised already when you go throughout your normal day routine? just wondering since i've been exercising recently and trying to get back in to shape.... (45 words

After the first pregnancy our lives became incredibly stressed. Now she's pregnant again! I'm terrified of more problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi guys Have been in a relationship for 7 years and to begin with everything was great. We were young couple (16 and 20) and almost immediatley were infatuated with each other. At the time I was having a tough time as my mother was terminally ill but my partner really h... (415 words

How much weight can I lose in 4-5 weeks?

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12 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - how much weight do you think i could lose in around 4-5 weeks? i am 5 foot 3 and am 45 pounds overweight. i do not look very fat, i'm just a big girl. could i be able to lose around 25 pounds if i try very hard such as vigorously exercising and eating healthy in 4-5 weeks+? ... (103 words

Does anyone have any advice about overcoming your lover's past?

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12 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for almost a year now and I know that she is the one... I feel it deep down inside and I am not ignorant to the desires of my heart or soul. However, there is a slight problem, and that is with her past actions with boyfriends. Althought she ne... (363 words

What turns females on?

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12 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - This is a question that would probobly be best answered by females but if u men have something to add please go right ahead. Now i know all you woman are all different but surely u must have things in common when it comes to having a boyfriend. What I would love to know is what ... (112 words

2 years and 2 kids later... I feel bored and think he is cheating!

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12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and our relationship has got boring. All we ever do is work and then see each other at night and we do the same thing over and over we dont do anything and we dont go out anywhere. We plan on getting married ... (232 words

My boyfriend says if I want to be with him I can't hang out with my friend anymore and I just really don't know what to do because I want to do both of them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

12 July 2007 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I love him with all my heart. I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. But I also have a very good friend that I like to talk to and hang out with and just have fun with him. My boyfriend says if I want to be with him ... (97 words

How can i get my ex boyfriend to tell me why he broke up with me?

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12 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - How can i get my ex boyfriend to tell me why he broke up with me?... (16 words

I'm very attracted to my boyfriend but he doesn't believe me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

12 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend of one year very much and i find him very sexually attractive, but even after all this time he doesn't really believe me when I compliment him in that area. he laughs and shrugs off my compliments. like if i say i find his broad chest sexy he says says its ... (157 words

Is a year too long to wait before I go visit my long-distance girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

12 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - I now have a girlfriend in Ghana and we have been corresponding for about nine months. We have become very close. She is not very wealthy, so I have helped her out a bit. We have tried for her to come over to the UK but was turned down. I think I am planning to go over there ... (76 words

She cheated on me and got pregnant; I don't want to raise another child that isn't my own

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

12 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Plz help, I've been in this relationship for 5 years, my girlfriend already has a son, that I'm practically raising. We don't live together. Anyway she cheated on me and got pregnant, she was gonna have a abortion, but the docs said it could be dangerous 2 her health, because ... (100 words

After our daughter was born he totally changed and we broke up; how do I make him take some responsibility for her?

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