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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 2 year relationship ended a week ago and he's already seeing someone new! How do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship of two years ended only about a week ago, and my ex is already dating someone else. As if the pain wasn't enough to bear already, he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and just pretend like he never loved me or that I even existed. We made plans for the future, ... (76 words)

Outside of the bedroom, we don't communicate well anymore; how can I break this monotonous routine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and I love him to bits. But we've slipped into a bit of a routine and don't really communicate alot about anything unless something big happens. I've tried starting random conversations with him, I've even told him I think we should ... (90 words)

He told me I wasn't giving him oral properly and I felt bad; even though he's far too rough with clitoris, I don't want him to feel bad like I did

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. Help me out a bit please. When my boyfriend plays with me, he sometimes does it too rough on my clit or too much on the reeeeally sensitive bit of my clit. I like it when he plays with me and don't want to just do sometig else so that he doesn't do that. last week... (110 words)

I have strong feelings for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if it's love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - 1st off im female using my boyfriends account. im having some problems knowing if i really love him or not. i KNOW he loves me and would do anything for me and i have very strong feeling for him but i dont know if its love or not. what are the definant signs that i love him. ... (72 words)

I think I have feelings for my best friend but I don't want to tell him incase he doesn't feel the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend (of 2 years) and I have been talking for a long while about his past relationships and I have decided that I dont think anyone would be good enough for him. Im not sure why, I would be happy for him if he got another partner as he would be happy with them. (I ... (136 words)

How can I subtly as my boyfriend what he enjoys during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I ask a guy what he really likes during sex without just asking "what do you like during sex". anyone got some subtle questions that might help?... (29 words)

I've been thinking about taking my ex's pictures and friendship off my Facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I've been broken up with my ex for a little over a month now, and while I have maintained NC with her, save when she has talked to me a couple of times, I find myself constantly checking her Facebook page. I want to see who is writing on her wall, what she i... (224 words)

Update on my 16 year old son who can't stop dieting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age - A followup on the question I asked a few days ago concerning my 16-year-old son and dieting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/recently-i-found-out-off-a-good-friend.html I spoke to him again about it, and he insisted the "bikini beach diet" was a good thing. I said to him th... (317 words)

I'm with my first ever boyfriend and can't help wondering what else is out there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok.... Im 25 and have been with my boyf nearly 5 yrs - before him I havent been out with anyone. Our relationship is good, he makes me laugh, I find him attractive. He does annoy me at times because he can be really headstrong and likes to wind people up. Thing is I dont k... (184 words)

My male friend flirts with me even though he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im in a sticky situation here this is my problem. there's a boy in my class he has a girlfriend i really get on with him like mates but i always see him looking at me and flirting with me, my friends tease me when he comes and sits near me.Yesterday was our sports day and me ... (104 words)

Is it selfish of me to want to be his first priority? I don't get the emotional support I crave

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked a question on the 17th of July about what I should do about the situation I have with my boyfriend of 2 years that is not tending to my emotional needs. I got some great advice, thank you! My situation unfortunately still stands. I am trying so hard to accomidate his ... (193 words)

My parents signed forms claiming custody of my kids so they could go to school in their district; now they won't let me have my kids back because they don't like my new partner's nationality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age - I have had very controlling parents all of my life. I now have two children ages 10 and 15. In 2005 my children were attending a school that was in my parents school district. The principal found out and would not let my children go back to school until he had proof by the ... (241 words)

My girlfriend is on the pill but 4 hours after we had sex today she said she was bleeding, without pain. Why is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. me and my girlfriend have been making love for about 7 months now. and shes on a certain pill cant remember the name., but today about 4 hours after we made love she told me she was bleeding but there was no pain, we had no idea what it was does anyone have any ideas? ... (57 words)

My boyfriend thinks my female friend is hot and wants us to kiss for him; is he hinting at a threesome? Why do men find 2 women such a turn-on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

- Why do guys always want to see two chicks get it on? That is so gross to me! But the other night my b/f and I were out partying with a female friend of mine, who is well-endowed and beautiful. He kept wanting us to kiss so he could take a picture. Well we were all drinking ... (218 words)

I'm in love with my married teacher and there's a lot of evidence to suggest he likes me too, what should I do when school starts again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've tried getting over my teacher so many times. I've tried getting to know this boy I had a crush on for a few months, but once we went out, there were no sparks. zip. nothing. I think my teacher likes me back, it seems like he has since the day we met. It was like he had a ... (886 words)

My boyfriend has started shouting and swearing at me a lot and basically doesn't want me to express my opinion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My live-in boyfriend of about 1.5 years has lately just started raging, calling me a f**king stupid bitch c**t, when i say something he doesnt want to hear. (like, "i thought you paid that bill".) he says its because i am giving him bitch tone or attitude. i know sometimes i ... (205 words)

I'm almost 29 and ready to settle but so far my relationships have failed; why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, after so many relationships obviosly not succecful I am alone again, the reason why i am concerned is cos i am 28 soon 29 and despared for settling with the right person and have kids, but for some reason seems I do push people away, is it cos I just accept everithing they ... (127 words)

She's becoming distant after a mistake I made, how can I draw her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - hi, um i like this girl and she likes me but things havent been the same recently. weve been on and off for about 2 months. shes acting kind of bored like she isnt interested. at one point i was very confused wit her and with some family problems with close people getting ill... (158 words)

I started sleeping with a girl I really like while her boyfriend was away; he's coming back and she doesn't want to see me as often. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago, i became friendly with a local girl who moved over here. She was stunningly good looking and way out of my league, and i found out she had a boyfriend who'd gone to australia for a year. But as we became friends i found out she liked me and we started seeing ... (364 words)

I'm needy in my relationship, how do I stop it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i stop being to needy in my relationship?... (10 words)

I'm single after 3 years; how can I make sure I don't fall for another cheater next time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

- Hi I am planning on going it alone after being in a relationship for over 3 years and I'd like advice please. How do I stop myself falling into the same trap? Last 2 boyfriends cheated as did ex husband. What do I do wrong? This time plan to have "time off". All said they loved ... (66 words)

What should my average weight be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i would like to know what the average height for a 15 - 16 year old male is and shoe size and weight, im 5'9", shoe size 11.5 and 155 pounds.... (31 words)

My married lover's guilt is getting to her; should I try to see her or give her space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, been seeing a married work colleague, whos marriage is seriously not fulfilling for her. Know we both shouldent but fancy each other like crazy. She is suffering with guilty concience and i am too believe it or not and its made us both ill/moody. Spoke to her the othe... (210 words)

I started dating my ex's friend; now my ex doesn't speak to us and is calling me a slut

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex broke up with me in Dec after a brief 4 month relationship. very shortly after our breakup, i was out and I met one of his friends that he talked about all the time, but Id never met this friend..me and my ex's friend hit it off right from the start and we've been going ... (135 words)

She thrives on attention from other people and doesn't understand why it bothers me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (?) age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend are in a distance relationship and recently got to go camping together with about 10 or so friends, mostly mine but some both of ours. She is a much more outgoing person then I am and easily gets the attention of other people, sometimes without meaning to. ... (476 words)

I like one of my best friends who has a girlfriend now; I won't make a move while she's around, so should I just wait and hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My problem is probably quite small and easily solved, but its at the forefront of my mind at the moment. I've recently discovered feelings for one of my best friends and he certainly gives off the impression that they are reciprocated, as its not just me that thinks it. ... (227 words)

Update on the guy at the gym; he's acting even friendlier now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all, yesterday i posted a question about this guy i like from my gym, well today i saw him again and was talking to one of the others about my crap day yesterday, he was standing thre the whole time, and smiled at me a couple of times, then went off. I saw him as I was... (128 words)

Do i do it when he's hard or soft?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm about to go out with this guy and he is more experienced than me and i wanna kno how to give a blow job. and when you do is he hard or soft when u start?... (41 words)

What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy starts talking about his co-workers teasing him about weddings, and the two of you talk about it (jokingly), what does that mean? They always say that behind every joke is a grain of truth (OK, aside from the elephant jokes). I'd appreciate a guy's Point of view on ... (66 words)

What shall i do with my husbands online cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is 'what should I do with my husband'? He was caught in December meeting women online then calling them and then actually meeting in person two of them. He did not have sexual relations, but just the same it hurt. He promised to quit chatting, but he did not ... (108 words)

How can you tell if they like you or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you find out if a boy likes you ,and when u do find out what do you do?... (20 words)

How can I motivate myself to make more of an effort in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age - I have a small problem that I need some help with. I've been married 23 years to a good man. We have a good marriage. He has always had a stronger sex drive than I do. He's not asking for sex every night but he says he finds our sex life to be "mundane or routine". He's ... (204 words)

I have a mad crush on a customer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I work and I see frequent customers. There is this one main guy who comes in about every week, and when i see him, i get sooo red. Expecially when i communicate with him. And I'm sure he notices too!! I've seen quite a few attractive guys, but this one really stands out. I do... (285 words)

His Mom doesnt like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been i a relationship for 1 year, but i have known my boyfriend for about 10 years. I've met almost everyone in his family and the one person who means the most to him, his mom, doesn't like me. I have never disrespected his mom or even said much of anything to her. His ... (160 words)

His horoscope said 'an ex is back'! How much validity do you think this has?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

- Things have been going beautifully between my b/f and I for the past few months, after much stress over an ex-girlfriend that took him 4 years to get over because he insisted on remaining friends with her, even though she's manipulative, intrusive and kept his heart on a ... (225 words)

Why are so many children having sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. This is a general question, rather than help really, and for all the young people to think about perhaps. Ok, here it is..... Why are so many very young people having sex under 16 years old? For a start the legal age for it is not until you are SIXTEEN, especia... (116 words)

My ex who took my virginity wants to get together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my virginity to him...and a week ... (174 words)

Just as we were about to start dating his ex came and stole him right back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ...I meet a guy at my fathers auto shop, he was doing co-op there during school..anyway we started talking and became close but when we started talking about going on a date his ex girlfriend who left him for some franch guy comes back out of the blue and wants to get back with ... (105 words)

I want to get divorced, but I am terrrified of the wrath of G-d!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6345 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to end my 25 year marriage because my husband and I have grown apart and there is absolutely no attraction in it for me. But I have tremendous religious guilt and worry incessively that God is going to punish me for doing this horrible thing. I was raised in a strict ... (261 words)

My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ... (30 words)

How far is considered long distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, Just curious to see what people class as a long distance relationship. In terms of travelling 1,2,3hrs.....away? ... (22 words)

My ex doesnt want me to come to the party

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex lives with my brother and cousin in gainesville. i was going up their this weekend as it was arranged .he tells me he wants me back but we need time he really dosent want me to go the party that theyre throwing because he dosent want people to know we're taking a break ... (96 words)

Is it wrong to give your virginity away as a birthday present?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong to give your virginity to some1 you love for his birdthday? after 3 months ? or should i wait :S ... (25 words)

I'm confused. Maybe I should be on my own and get rid of this guy as I dont want to take on his kids

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone hope you are all well. I turned 30 last week and need some advice. I met a guy over the internet about 4mths ago. we went to primary school together and i really fancied him then, but he never looked at me. i've known him since i was 10. the thing is we went on ... (233 words)

Is it wrong for me to go through my husbands cell phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is it wrong for me to pick my husbands mobile phone call and to go thru his phone?... (18 words)

How can I be more relaxed and confident around boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - Hi How to i become more comfortable and confident around boys? I get quite alot of male attention and when i walk down the road quite alot of boys stare at me but i can't smile at them instead i just give them an evil look- but not on purpose.I really wish i could smile at t... (127 words)

We like each other, I think, but all we ever do is look at each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 . I have liked a guy who I only shared 1 class with for 2 years. We are both extremely shy but I got the feeling that he like me e.g. His friends would let him know when I entered a room or he would show off in front of me and things like that. One day I made long eye ... (543 words)

What can I say to her before we depart on our separate holidays to prevent her from cheating, but not sound too desperate or suspicious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. Me and My girlfriend are going away on holiday in a couple of days but is its not the same holiday. we are both going with our families. this is her second holiday if the summer. anyways the problem is thing aint to smooth at the moment, if your read my other questio... (137 words)

Is it ok to stay in a relationship that has not commitment until I find something better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am involved in a relationship that has no commitment. I have been questioning whether I should continue or go find a guy that is willing to commit. I get my self all worked up to tell him that Im not going to keep having sex and this nonrelationship with him, but the second I ... (157 words)

Is not contacting her the best thing? Its making me miserable and ruining any chance we had left!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6222 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Tomorrow marks 1 month since my long distance, 2 year relationship was officially called off by my partner, who couldn't handle the distance anymore. I've been very up and down throughout the past month, feeling fairly possitive highs, to lying on my bedroom floor, crying and ... (427 words)

I want to kiss and do more with my male cousin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. i am male and 14 years old. my male cousin is 17 yaers old and i fancy the pants off of him. he slept round my house looking after me one night and we both decided to get naked even though we could'nt see each others privates we knew it was there. we later on showed each ... (184 words)

I hate cheaters, but now I have become one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. he lives over 200 miles away from me and i only see him about once a month. i get lonely a lot of the time which makes me interested in lads more. I've always been against cheating and took a massive huff with my ... (227 words)

If I register on this site will I get tons of spam?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm thinking of registering on this site but am a little cautious about giving my email details in case I subsequently get inundated with unwanted spam emails which have been the bane of my life in the past. Can anyone reassure me that if I DO register, my inbox will be un... (82 words)

Now that she knows marriage is imminent my girlfriend seems to be questioning everything in life

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - for the past eight months my girl friend has been begging to get married. now that she knows it is close she seams to be second guessing everything in life it seems. so, could some one just tell me that shes just scard and it is normal, or should i be worried?... (53 words)

My boyfriend goes out with his buddies and dances with other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im always uneasy about my boyfriend going out with his guy friends and brother. they are all single and he is the only one with a girlfriend. i dont see why i cant come along when his guy friends are interested in going out to dance with and meet other females when my boyfriend ... (83 words)

I need to be sure she is marrying me for the right reasons. She doesnt show me affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my partner for bout a year. I really love her and care for her greatly but I find myself fighting for her attention. She seems to care more for her family then she ever would me. I find myself doing silly things to get her attention an... (107 words)

He was with another girl while we were on a break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 years old my ex boyrfriend and I were together for 7.5 months. We did argue sometimes but never anything serious. There was always this girl that really bothered me that he used to hang out with, so while he went to go see his friends she text him and he invited her over ... (253 words)

Can shame make a person withdraw?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - when people are ashamed of something they have done can it make them withdraw? and also, what does shame feel like?... (21 words)

Our kids dont get along. Do we have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age - I had been going out with my boyfriend for over 5 years, we had planned to marry, we are both divorced and have children for our previous marriages, we moved in together last year, i have my 14 year old son living with me, four weeks after us moving in together my partners 17 ... (222 words)

Is it worth it to stay, or should I trust my gut and leave my guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I found out that he cheated on me and it continued over a long period of time. I confrunted him, and he said that he stopped. I then cought him out several times after that. It has been about six months since he swore that it has ended, but I cant forgive him. I cant ... (115 words)

I met a great guy during a break with my boyfriend, but mistakenly thought he wasnt interested and got back with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I got with my boyfriend last October and we had a lovely time together, but it came to a head in April when I realised he was just too childish for me. I then met someone else in that time who lives about 2 hours away but share a lot in common with. He then went back to his ... (193 words)

After living together for 6 years and having a daughter w/ me, he left me for another girl! Why can't I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I was living together for more that 6 years and we have a daughter together.We have known eachother since primary school.He left me for another girl and it's been 4 months now. Does he realise what he has done? What his he thinking? Doesn't he love me anymore? ... (72 words)

I'm muslim, she's buddhist - her parents don't accept our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a muslim and my girlfriend is a buddhist. we love each other truly. but her parents are not accepting our relationship and does not want it to continue. what should i do?... (34 words)

How can I stop hating my boyfriend when he's away? I love him to pieces when we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

- when ever my bf is at home (we long distance) i start to hate him every small thing he does i hate him for. if he forgets to put xxx in his texts i hate him. when he tells me he be online when he knows im at work i hate him. when he takes 6 weeks to reply to my letters i hate ... (99 words)

She's meeting me for lunch - does she actually like me or just think I'm a nice guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Does she like me? Some people may have seen previous posts about me and a relationship break-up that has been really tough. I'm hoping for a bright new future and being a little out of practice on the dating side wondered if I could have a few tips and/or views, feel like ... (299 words)

I'm a male, but I want to be a female - what steps are involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm male, 19 and I want to be female. How could I go about this? And would I have to be with other guys or would it be possible to be with women?... (34 words)

I've messed up big time and get sick thinking about what I've done. Now my husband despises me. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age - I am a woman aged 45. I have been married for 25 yrs and I have done a really really stupid thing. I was in my local watering hole recently (my husband had gone home)I was annoyed with him and I was also menstral,hated the world etc. I got so drunk and I ended up kissing a ... (237 words)

She teased me last night and now I have pains this morning!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Im new at this so bare with me. My girlfreind slept over at mine last night just the two of us (my parents have gone away for the week). As the night went on things got a little more steamy. We was both being turned on. But due to her being on her periods we could not hav... (153 words)

I think about having sex w/ him all the time, but don't want to do it when he's actually around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

- Dear Cupid, im a 19yr old female and i just need some general advise really on my thoughts and feelings - well ive been with my b/f now for a month (we dated for a year but then broke up, now were together again) well i think about having sex with him nearly all the time but ... (197 words)

Why was he ignoring me and now he wants to meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy, Ive liked him and been seeing him casually for the last yr and a half. Ive been away for the last 2 months and we were keeping in contact up untill the last week I was there, which was last week. I kept calling him, texting and messaging him on myspace and he ... (265 words)

I'm still pining for my ex 2 after 2 years apart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 and half years. i loved him alot, truly love. He broke up with me on novemeber 27, 2005. and its july 24, 2007....so its almost 2 years we have broke up...but can u believe that i still cry for him....i cry everyday...i cant ... (410 words)

My husband was having a phone relationship with his first girlfriend; he says it was purely financial but I don't trust him anymore

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband is having relationship with his first girl friend donah. though they were far from each other (Philippines and UK), they connect only through calls. i confronted both of them, and they admitted that they had relationship. my husband said thay he only want the girl ... (84 words)

I'm 18 and if I don't masturbate every day I feel irritable; I have constant erections. What can I do?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18yr old boy i had lot of feelings about sex i masturbate daily if i cant masturbate 1 day i feel angry in college and my penis will stand contineously i am wondering about what to do... (51 words)

My ex husband says he loves me but we haven't got back together

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex husband says he loves me, but we havent gone back together, what am i supposed to do?... (19 words)

I'm in love with this girl but she says she doesn't want to go out with me because we're best friends

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm completely in love with my best friend. She is everything I have ever wanted in a girl. She is smart, funny, is interested in the the same things I am (the list goes on). I've told her that I had feelings for her, but since we are best friends she doesn't want to go into a ... (120 words)

Sex with my boyfriend is a bit awkward; where could we go for some proper privacy?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm in love with my boyfriend and vice versa.. We've had sex... But it had been rather awkward. I do believe we would both like to continue, but, we both feel nervous about feelings, atmosphere, and I was just wondering.. If you want to be intimate with someone and have ... (75 words)

He tried to meet a girl for sex but couldn't get hold of her; I forgave him but I think he's still trying to cheat

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - I asked for some advice some time ago regarding the fact that after two years my boyfriend hadnt introduced me to his family or friends despite me bringing up the subject frequently. I also caught him out on his phone planning to meet an old girlfriend for a weekend of sex. We ... (240 words)

I'm dating a wonderful guy but I keep cheating on him

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody! okay, at 24 I have been in a steady relationship for nearly 10 months with an awesome guy.I do enjoy my first real gay relationship. He is sweet and attentive and loving and caring etc. Yet I have cheated on him three times... the first time was around the six ... (166 words)

My 'friend with benefits' has started seeing someone and I'm mad at him and feeling used

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I let go of my feelings towards my roommate (friend with benefits)? I currently live with my friend with benefits and he started to date and of course I am feeling used. After last night I am so mad that I can not look at him in the eyes. He asking why am I mad and I ... (66 words)

I confided to someone on MySpace that my boyfriend and I weren't doing so well and he dumped me for telling

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, my boyfriend broke up with me because i wrote to a friend on myspace that were not doing so well he got upset that i put our business out like that, i understand it was wrong but not such a big deal he still calls to say i miss u and the other day he said u dont know how ... (178 words)

My friend said I remind him of an actress I find ugly and it really hurt my feelings; am I overreacting?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - I have a relatively new friend who has always been sweet and kind towards me but said something recently that I find I am really insulted by. He commented that I reminded him of the actress Kirsty Alley. Now this may seem silly to most people, but I find her to be ugly and ... (97 words)

This girl I recently got to know told me she likes me; I don't feel the same way but I feel bad about rejecting her

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I'm sure there's been numerous topics like this but, there's this girl that's in my summer school class that I just got to know. She just told me that she liked me, but the problem is that I don't feel the same way. She confessed on the phone and I had no idea wha... (173 words)

How can I orgasm when he is on top for a change?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can only get orgams when i'm on top? How can i get and orgams when he is on top?... (21 words)

Could he be jealous of my ex? Does that mean he really likes me?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello my name is shaniqua well ur site seems interting and the reason y im using it is because i really need love advices, i like this guy n he knows it when i first told him he said i like u too and we had a thing going on but when we got back to school he hardly even talks to ... (150 words)

I've done very well but nothing seems good enough for my wife; she finds fault everywhere. I just want to be happy, what can I do?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age - I have been together with the same woman since we were teens (30 years). Wonderful kids, it was a long struggle - but life turned out very well for us and I do help out around the house and look after the kids every change I get. However, we are reaching the point on a couple o... (436 words)

Should I masturbate before seeing my girlfriend incase we get intimate, so she won't have too much of a mouthful?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. this is a really odd question but something that im never sure what to do about. i never sure what to do before i see my girlfriend, as all men have probaily noticed if thet dont masturbate for a period of time, the sperm tends to build up, so when we ejaculate it goes ... (149 words)

I love my boyfriend but we're completely different people, what should I do?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a very hot-tempered person. A lot of times he can be disrespectful and rude. He's very jealous and possessive and always thinks i'm lying to him. He loves me alot but at the same time he thinks very differently. We're always arguing and fighting and breaking up. ... (77 words)

My girlfriend of almost 2 years has told me she can't date anyone right now and that we can maybe date again when she's ready. What is it she's feeling?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for about a year and eight months. One day she tells me she doesn't want a boyfriend right now in this time in her life. She says that she still loves me she just cant be with me right now. She also said that i just have to let her be single and she ... (87 words)

I love her very much but she has taken a sudden dislike to physical contact and I feel a bit rejected

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, can somebody please help with some objective advice... I'm going out of my mind! To cut a long story short, I'm in my late 30s, and have a fairly long distance relationship (100 miles) with my girlfriend. When we started out, it was brilliant - she couldn't do enough f... (306 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me when she was drunk but I don't want to dump her; how should I handle it?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girlfriend admitted she Cheated on me!!! She was very drunk when she did it and i don't want to get ride of her. i want to make sure she doesn't do it again! , but how??? Do i not speak to her for a bit? Do i shout at her? Do i forgive her and pretend nothing happened? ... (86 words)

My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot of flings in addition to ... (191 words)

I produce a lot of pre-cum and it's embarassing! What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. im only 15 and im new to sex. the problem im having is that i seem to be pre-cumin all the Time!! when me and my girlfriend are just laying side by side and im feeling her up or something like that or something that may get me erect, i will start to pre-cum it really... (161 words)

I caught my husband cheating with his best friend; now he wants an open relationship with her and I. I can't accept it, what should I do? I'm desperate

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - I recently caught my husband and best friend in an affair that as it turns out has been going on for seven years. She has always been around the house several times a week for the entire time. I thought something was going on about 4 years ago and confronted him but he denied ... (286 words)

My boyfriend dumped me to take care of his ex who said she was suffering abuse (which was a lie) Can I win him back?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - my bfs ex came for a visit for a break from her husband. their marriage has been strained after her deabilitating stroke. she said she was being abused, i agreed to a "visit". this is the woman that my bf said he would never live with again, she is a user and an alcoholic. ... (213 words)

I'm too embarassed to buy condoms but I don't want to end up being a daddy; what should I do?

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello im 15 and im a WIMP i have a girlfriend and we have sex as often as possable. the thing is im to much of a wimp to get condoms. i just get too embrassed. i have recently been stealing them off my brother and about a week ago i was lucky and i got a mate to get me some ... (105 words)

My parents would freak out if they knew about my 'bad-apple' boyfriend and I, yet I don't want to keep it a secret

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really do love this boy even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them that i have been seeing him for 3 months because they will go of the head. but then i wouldnt be ... (150 words)

I'm confused about what my co-worker wants

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...So im a little confused... I've been seeing a guy who i work with and im very fond of him, we've been seeing eachother for just over 5 months now and things seemed to be going good, just recently i told him that i'd fallen for him and at some point would like to get toge... (172 words)

I'm 13 and my 17 year old boyfriend and I had sex; he said he'd pull out when he came but I don't think he did it fast enough. Could I be pregnant?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya im a 13 year old girl,and i lost my virginity to my 17 year old boyfriend on saturday but we didnt use a condom!and now im scared incase im pregnant!!befor we had sex he said that befor cuming in my vagina he will remove his penis but im not to sure if he removed qwickly ... (85 words)

I'm happy with my relationship as it is; I don't see the need to get married. Is this wrong of me?

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - Hi, My question is, is it wrong not to marry a man I have dated for 11 years? We have had our ups and downs and have always gotten back together because of how strong our love was for each other. I was controlled by my ex-husband. My ex cheated on me with another woman. ... (247 words)

I didn't see my girlfriend for a few days, when I did she was acting differently and says she has a big thing on her mind

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24 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 year old and i have a 16 year old girlfriend and we have had sex many times using protection. she recently went away on holiday for 10 day and then as soon as she got back went to a music festival during the holiday she was sending me text messages saying things like ... (199 words)

My boyfriend sometimes glances at pretty girls and it really bothers me

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfiend isnt the type of man to buy newspapers with women in, or magazines ect. and is not a womaniser. However ive noticed in the supermarket for example that he glances over at attractive girls, he doesnt ogle but i see him look,maybe once. sometimes twice. Does this mean ... (152 words)

While we were briefly apart, my boyfriend got a single-status MySpace account; there was a hot blonde on his list even though he says he didn't add her. I'm still hurting over it

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I would really appreciate your opinion. I have been with my guy for nearly 6 years. About 2 months ago we split after a huge row. (we started to talk not long after)I went on holiday for 2 weeks. We love eachother very much. We text everyday (mainly dirty messages ... (325 words)

My male friend I like has started seeing someone but he texts me when he's drunk claiming he loves me

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24 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend always texts me or rings when hes drunk sayin that he loves me? we have only bin mates for bout 3/4 months.. but im really confused.. because i really like him! and 1 of my mates finks he likes me too! and shes seen all the texts he sends me. but now hes started se... (87 words)

I want a fresh start for my kids and I, away from their abusive dad but I don't know how to begin

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24 July 2007 (F)

age - I don't know where to turn. I have been married for 24 years and the relationship has had more struggles than joyful times. The problems range from physical and emotional abuse, my eating disorder 10 years ago, my husband having an affair with another women, and his abusing ... (225 words)