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female
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51-59,
*nhappy 1 in ca.
writes:I have been married for 16 1/2 years and I have a 15 year old son. I want out of my relationship. The problem is: I have no place to go as my family lives in Georgia.The cost of living here is outrageous. Me being a woman I have to have 2 good paying jobs just to get a studio for myself and my son.I plan to move to Georgia but not until 2010 when my son finishes high school he will be 18.I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): Anonymous reader
Thank you for understanding.
That would be a blessing if I could do that.
But I literally live paycheck to paycheck.
I'm stuck.I guess I have to live it out.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): You are obviously very clear and a decision has been made that you want out. The cost of living in England is crazy too and many women here will be finding themselves in similar situations - it is cruel that people are stuck in unhappy places because of the economy. One of the trends here is to house share / buy a house jointly - with a friend, a family member or even someone you don't know that well if their lifestyle can fit with yours and they are in the similar situation.... It can work and allows a share of ownership in one property. Either way - just make sure all the legal documentation is done very well and is clear and that both parties are happy with this. Alternatively can you rent somewhere until 2010? Might seem like money down the drain but at least your life can move on. Investigate different ways of bringing money in and check what funds are available for your situation. Explore all your options fully as knowledge is power. Do not make your move until you are absolutely ready.
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