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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do men still mastubrate when they have a very healthy sex life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering (my bf cant answer this) why do men still wa*k when they have a very healthy sex life? my bf still mastuerbates up to 3 times a week and we have an incredible sex life. i dont know whether to be insulted or flattered! please help! Thank you!!! ... (54 words)

I get mad when she mentions that she is going out with her friends because I get the feeling that she shouldnt be having fun without me and i get jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem I have been living in another country for 9 months and that is also how long I have been away from my girlfriend. We are trying to make this work and we are almost there but the problem is that I get mad when she mentions that she is going out with her friends ... (107 words)

We've been together for years but he never buys me anything

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I been with him several years but he never buy me thing's it hurts my feeling that i want out what should I do????... (24 words)

My girlfriend of two and a half years says she wants to take a year out of college to get a job and an apartment in the city so she can go on an alcohol, drug and sex fuelled year without me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of two and a half years says she wants to take a year out of college to get a job and an apartment in the city so she can go on an alcohol, drug and sex fuelled year without me. ...And she expects me to be ok with it. It's truly breaking my heart but whenever I ... (142 words)

We have big differences in opinions in the war in the Middle East. Should we not talk about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Whenever my boyfriend and I talk about the middle east, we argue and get really annoyed with each other. Seeing as we hold quite different views (he thinks I'm prejudiced on the subject, I think that he holds his views because he confuses the issues and has failed t... (111 words)

I have been having doubts that we want the same thing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have been in a relationship for 4 and a 1/2 years, since i was 15. I have also been living with my boyfriend since i was 18, as we moved to London to go to the same university. Recently i have been having doubts that we want the same thing, i know that he w... (311 words)

I have strong feelings for one of my greatest friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name is Charlotte, and I am 17. Basically the story is, I have strong feelings for one of my greatest friends Jason* (I have known him since we both started school), and a couple of years ago, I became friends with Lucy*, Lucy and I got along well, and through me she met ... (489 words)

I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep. Day after day after day. What worries me is that I'm getting used to it. I still miss my family and friends (all of them thousand of miles away) but I don't have the energy to try and ... (114 words)

My ex and I act like a couple. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused! I broke up with my ex approx 18 months ago altho we have been seeing each other for the past 6 months altho wer not Bf and GF we may as well be and I'm so sure i'm back in love with him however when me and my ex had broke up i started seein a guy for a few mo... (289 words)

My boyfriend admited that he thinks his previous crush is cute and that he still likes her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are together for a month. But I am having a problem about him. It's because my boyfriend admited that he thinks his previous crush is cute and that he still likes her! And, I totally agree with him because his previous crush is slim, beautiful, pretty and ... (120 words)

Our family and ethnic backgrounds are different. He's going through a tough time. I'm indecisive. Should I give this a go or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Thank you for reading this. I've been dating a lovely uy for 6 months. Things were fine up until I told my family about him. They were not happy. He's been going through a hard time because of his own family, his parents are getting a divorce which will be nasty, a lot of ... (190 words)

Should I wait for him or just knock it on the head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a guy from work, we were both in relationships with other people. We both separated from our partners to be together and had a very happy 3 months. He has a 3 year old son who he loves to pieces. He decided he missed his son, and wanted to go back to be with ... (161 words)

My boyfriend and I fight a lot and he has punched me, but it feels right to be with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends told me I should break up with my boyfriend and I couldn't do so I started to act clingy and annoying so he would dump me but in my heart I didn't want to do it. Our relationship was bad as we would argue so much we didn't know anything about each other. Yet in my ... (166 words)

How soon after a breakup do you start another relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hello my name is charlemagne and my question is how soon after a breakup do you start another relationship because i recently broke up with someone who was cheating on me and now i am engaged to someone else who was way better person than my ex and now i feel that i am taking ... (83 words)

I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher. I'm 12 and he's in his 20s. It's been about a year since i started liking him. Everytime i see him he always says hi and asks how i am. I blush whenever he talks to me. My friends say that he's a perv but i don't believe them. He's ... (79 words)

I am a fulltime carer, how can I manitain my relationship of 6 years with my boyfriend? we are growing a part each day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age - I am a fulltime carer, how can I manitain my relationship of 6 years with my boyfriend? we are growing a part each day? ... (24 words)

How can I discover how he feels about me, subtly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i fallen in secret love with someone whom i like a lot. i dont know whether he likes me or not. i cant even ask him, neither i can kiss him nor i can give him a card or a flower because whenever we meet, we meet in school. please help me out to know his feelings about me but ... (61 words)

My sex life has gone down the toilet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid... My problem is that my sex life has gone down the toilet. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. I'm in my mid 20s and he's in his early 30s. So I dont think it's age. We're both healthy and active and neither of us has put on weight or grown any weir... (464 words)

How do you go about telling her for her own sake that her weight is really getting out of hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone i have a kinda tough question i guess. one of my best mates has a rather large partner. the other night they had a row about her size. she is a uk size 30. he said to her that he was concerned about the size she was gettin to and that it really was getting out ... (204 words)

Is it right for me to ask him where did he came from aside from what he told me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6011 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf phone called me just tonight at 9:00 p.m then we had a very good chat then after he told me that he had to do his personal cleaning stuff before going to bed and had to call me back, then after 10minutes he called again and he's asking my permission that he had to take a ... (156 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex and the sexual things she might be doing with other men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im 23 years old. My ex girlfriend dumped me 2-weeks ago and we had been going out for 5 years she says she is not in love with me anymore, but she want to be friends. but i dont think i can do that because if we do be friend i still have feelings for her and love her. i ... (142 words)

I don't want to be with my husband anymore but he doesn't understand why; he even threatened to take our son away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

7 July 2007 (F) - After one of many fights with my husband, I told him I wasn't sure I still wanted to continue with him. He said I could leave but I couldn't take our son. He would die for his son, he said. He threatened to kidnap our son abroad if he'd have to and then I panicked so bad, he ... (159 words)

We had a phone relationship but when we met he said I'm different; now we fight constantly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I met a the most wonderful person and we fell in love. We carried on a phone relationship for 3 and a half months before we met. I love him completely nad he doubts that now saying that i am different in person. We fight all the time and everything I now say is wrong. ... (145 words)

He's 50 and he's reknowned for cheating. Will it be different now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible for someone who has cheated on nearly every girlfriend he has had to change and not cheat anymore? He is in his 50's now... (27 words)

How big of an age gap do you think is too big? I'm seeing a guy who's 25 years older.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick question, How big of an age gap do you think is too big? I am seeing some one 25 years older than me.. is the difference too much?... (33 words)

I'm worried about the prejudice over the fact I'm having a baby so young

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6369 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well im gemma,recently i posted a request for some advise on this and the people have really helped me loads!!you know who you are so thanks a million!but i have another thing i have been thinking about today,because i think i am pregnant,my boyfriend is 25 and really wants a ... (189 words)

She's put me off the relationship with her plans for the future.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ive met a girl online and we have been together for a few months, she is making all these big plans for the future and shes pushed me to a point where i dont want to be with her anymore how do i tell her i dont want to be with her for no reason plz help ... (57 words)

I've been seeing a guy but I've been sleeping with his cousin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing a guy for the past three weeks and hes great and treats me like a princess, but ive been sleeping with his cousinfor the past 2 weeks, this guy is also my best mates boyfriend, i do feel guilty but i think the fear of gettin cought and the risks it carries make ... (89 words)

I said I was going to leave. Now he won't talk to me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I split up a year ago, we really like each other´s personalities and stayed friends. January, we ended up in bed, and I started to call him more often. He didn't like that and told me off. Then he wanted to be friends again. He started out a new job in another ... (144 words)

Do I have a chance with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

- Ok. I'll try and make this quick as I can. Recently I left school and I've been getting a lot closer with a guy I knew vaguely before who lives about 10 minutes away. He's just broken up with his girlfriend of 2 years because she cheated on him. A lot of girls find him attracti... (215 words)

The father is coming on to me but it's the son I want to get closer to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am working in a private firm since past 6 years. I have attained a very good reputation by proving my calibre and dedication towards my work here. I have three strict bosses (father and two sons). Suddenly my boss (father) has started showing his infatuation towards me ... (158 words)

I want to find someone else but I want to forget about her. What will help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I split with my first proper love 5 months ago. I haven't spoken to her for about 3 months. After being with her for 7 months I find myself thinking about her out of the blue and it really brings me down. I broke up with her on the terms that things weren't working becasue ... (101 words)

How can I reduce my sexual desire?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I do not have as many time sex as I desire with my spouse, and I do not like to be disloyal to her. Would you please advise me on how to reduce my sex desire? Thanks... (43 words)

Why is there so much pressure on me to compare myself with others......?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Why is there so much pressure on me to compare myself with others or evaluate myself by giving an analogy of being like someone, as if being like someone who is considered as superior increases my own self-worth as a human being. Without it, I really have no existence of my ... (103 words)

I'm unable to come at all when I'm with a woman - by myself I can do it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old now, had this problem since I first started having sex. I'm unable to come at all when I'm with a woman- by myself I can do it, but I've never come during sex or other wholesome activities. However, I can orgasm-a little trick I learned whilst I was younger ... (166 words)

I need space from him, he's smothering me wanting to be with me all the time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been dating for the past 2 1/2 months and he is deeply in love with me already. At first I thought I was in love but I'm not. I love him but not the way he loves me. For the past 1 1/2 months while we were dating I've been noticing that he's a little ... (263 words)

Should I totally move on or should I keep a little hope that the love of my life will come back to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years and everything has been great but this last month. I was her first serious relationship and we had a great time, traveled the world together. With in the last year she moved about 4 hours away for work so we havent seen as ... (287 words)

I am extremely depressed that my boyfriend has gone away! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some Help...My boyfriend just went away and I am feeling sad and depress. I am extremelly depress. I am crying at home, and even at work i got watery eyes.. Could it be major depression or is it that i miss my boyfriend. HELP PLEASe on what to do... (54 words)

After the death of her father she has grown dependent on me. Will these feelings go away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend just lost her father in a car accident very recently and it has changed the way she thinks and feels about me. She has grown very attached and dependent upon me. I just want to know some ways that will help us through this hard time and if these feelings will ... (58 words)

He visited prostitutes and wants me to forget about it! I love him but don't respect him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found out my h has been sleeping with prostitutes while I was pregnant. Bub now 8 weeks old. Says he wont do it again, doesn't want to destroy our family (also have 2 yo) but has never really apologized and is acting as if nothing has ever happened. He just wants ... (143 words)

We were always friends but I want more. Is now my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend of 7 years whom I have always had feelings for. She often had boyfriends and i hadn't ever had the confidence to ask her out- as she was a friend and didn't want to spoil that. I had been just about to tell her my feelings, having heard she had split up with ... (144 words)

I have really bad acne! What can I do to solve my problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys i'm turning 16 in a few months from now... and i have this acne problem... i have acne all over my torso... which is so embarassing... worst case is at my back, then at upper arm... i'm really annoyed and even embarrassed to swim... can anyone suggest anything that can ... (61 words)

He is my best friend but recently we are acting more. I'm not sure if we like each other??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a best guy friend for about two years now. Recently, we kissed and almost slept together. And at frist I freaked out.. we agreed we were just friends and it was a big mistake. Now this past week we have been acting as if we are together as a couple. Holding ... (88 words)

He asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were discussing oral sex and then I told him I wasn't really ready for oral but I would give him a hand job, so he asked where he would cum and asked if I could lick it off. Would it taste bitter like everyone says because it's going through my whole mouth ... (60 words)

We want to meet up so badly, but we're worried of how it'll go.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy via chatmachine, and we started talking. At first we were just friends, and it stayed that way for about a year. I heard about his girlfriends, and vice versa, but we were never really close. Sometime before christmas, about 8 months after my ex and I broke u... (409 words)

Husband's spending habits eroding marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Husband's spending habits eroding marriage I have been a working actor for most of my adult life. I’ve never gotten rich from my work, but I’ve always supported myself, lived within my means and taken pains to save money whenever possible, both in a 401K and in a savings acc... (711 words)

I don't want jealousy ruining the one thing I have wanted for 8 years! please someone help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 7 months pregnant, and I am in a lesbian relationship with a girl that I have been best friends with for 8 years. We met online, and have never met in person. She just got out of a 4 year relationship. I have very low self esteem and I am very insecure. Our relationship ... (266 words)

He still talks to his ex-girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

7 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. I know for a fact he hasn't told her that we are together and we've been seriously together for 2 and 1/2 years. I think he still has feelings for her and he still calls her all the time. They talk on the phone 3 to 4 times per day, ... (125 words)

Should I break into his bank account????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

7 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend five weeks ago. I'm just not speaking to him. After an argument I went to his place and left there the cell phone he was paying for me and other things and I have not spoken to him since. He always thinks he is right and I'm wrong and will do ... (299 words)

He said that she was the main girl that he would fantasise about. This is really killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My (now) ex and I met in 1st year uni, we were inseperable-platonic best friends. At the end of the year we slept together and moved in together and started a very loving relationship for 2 wonderful years. He was so amazing, always told me how much he loved me and gave me ... (373 words)

How can I stop having sex with my brother? I know it's wrong and I know it has to stop, I just don't know how!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

7 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My parents went away for the weekend and my brother and I threw a party. After a wild night of drinking and everyone had left we made an attempt at cleaning up. We started messing about throwing stuff and toy fighting until he held me down and kissed me. Being drunk I stupidly ... (109 words)

If I did "cum" then what are the chances of her being pregnant during this time in the menstrual cycle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

- Hey, my name's Jack, I have a massive problem. I had a one night stand and I was totally drunk, I wasn't in control and ended up having unprotected sex (I can sorta remember that part), I don't think I "came" but then again I can't remember much of the night. I was really w... (181 words)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we've started having sex. It's been great, but when I'm on top it doesn't work.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

7 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we've started having sex. It's been great, but when I'm on top it doesn't work. I don't know whether this is because I'm on top the second time we do it, but I really want to be able to achieve at least penetration while ... (58 words)

I struggle between my values of having a monogomous relationship and my desire of not giving all of myself to just one person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been hurt in the past by my biggest love/relationship of 7 years, that all ended 2 years ago but since then it's hard for me to give my heart, and it lead me to be promiscuous I met a new great guy now that has managed to touch my heart, but I do still have intimacy... (131 words)

Does she like me is there a chance of a possible romance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

7 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Does she like me is there a chance of a possible romance? Met this girl we get on like house on fire but has been through hell her partner died leaving her at twenty two "widowed" with two children.Even though this was about four or five years ago she says shes still raw a... (268 words)