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writes:Ok, well I have a serious question. I am in my late 30's, been married 20 years, have 2 step sons from my husband's side.Never been on birth control, never used condoms, so for twenty years I have never been pregnant. I had a brief fling 6 years ago. Pretty heavy sexual wise and nothing.So myself and my husband, over these years had always presumed I infertile on my part. I did have mild cases of endometriosis when I was younger, age 20. Never did anything about it. I always presumed as years went by my chances would even decrease more. Now being 38 the pain each month is fairly severe so are my presumptions of me getting worse over time would be correct.Here is the ticker, so I started another brief affair about a year ago, started slow but then, I dunno how to put it, kinda just really had somehting from both ends and over a year and half, we would have sex 3 times a week and no I never slept with my husband during that year and half we are seperated. So it is definitely the man I was having an affair with.Things kinda got way too heavy in the relationship so we decided to tune it down, to a level of friends no more intimate contact.... I missed my monthly friend this month so two weeks late now, I took a home pregnancy test, it is positive, I am flipping out a little here. How or why after 20 years of nothing ever even a glimpse? Is it possible or not? Is the test wrong maybe?If it is right I will deal with it, as it was my actions and choices in life that put me in this position.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Well obviously it is possible. You are pregnant.
Maybe it was your husband that was infertile...as 30% of the people out there are raised by the man who they think is their real father, maybe your step kids aren't his either.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (19 July 2007):
It seems to me that there was this Mary and Joseph who didn't even have sex, so they say. And a son was born unto them,and his name was Jesus. Now that was of God,wouldn't you say? Your ex-husband may have been infertile, no children. But when you moved into the new relationship, you still had eggs that can be fertilized. So congratulation Mother. There's no doubt that you'll be a wonderful mother. Good luck.
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