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My ex is constantly phoning me and trying it on. He wants to get back together or is he after sex?

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Question - (18 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My ex boyfriend has reappeared in my life, wanting to get back together. When we were together we got on great but he didn't treat me well ie. when I miscarried or take me out. Not spoken to him in four months now he constantly phoning me and we met up and he just tried it on. I told him I wasn't interested.

Does he want me back or is it just sex he is after?

He has called me 14 times but he runs around with boys 18 years his junior.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntThere's no harm in you bumping in to him as long as you don't give in to weakness. Just think that he might be using you and keep walking.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007):

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hi yummy mummy i think you may be right. just dreding when he comes back from holiday as he can be very persuasive and think he may just turn up. live in same area so likely to bump into him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007):

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thanks flowergirl, that is what i was trying to do when he appeared at my door. we do get on well and i do tend to agree with you but sometimes think of times when we goton well. he did say he will contact me when he comes back of holiday and i do intend to ignore his calls.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2007):

flower girl agony auntAfter he has behaved that way in the past why are you even bothered about if he wants you back or is just after sex?:

Just ignore his calls completely if you don't even speak to him he will get the message eventually.

Take care.xx.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntHmmmmm......

I don't know him so I can't say for definate but he sounds like he may just be in it for what he can get. I wouldn't go there and see how long he hangs about. If he is after only sex he'll get bored and try elsewhere. Can you get his number blocked?

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