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writes:I lost my virginity back in February to my boyfriend. I love him more than anything in the world. The thing is that he wants to "try out fantasies" and have me dress up as a nurse. I do like to try new things. I don't mind doing this at all it's just I get embarrassed easily as I am not confident.I gave him a lap dance last week but it took me ages as I was soooo nervous. I don't know what I would say to him.... all I can think of is "oh, you look very ill, should I nurse you back to health" which I think sounds silly... please help, I'm really unsure of what to say in the bedroom without feeling stupid. Also could you give me some tips on how to talk dirty...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): I think you shouldn't do things that are not in your nature, they'll make you feel awkward and it can be noticeable in time! Negatively I'm afraid, for all the tensions accumulated. So again, will you "talk dirty" because you want to or only to please him? Don't pretend to be something you're not and if the person is the right one for you there will be no reasons to pretend. You can however apply these phantasies IN THE extent and the manner they can be applied to you, not to feel nervous again! - adapt them to your style. You'll both win!
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reader, bytex64  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 What you said would be *perfect*. He's not looking for realism, he's looking for a fantasy. If you're dressed up as a nurse and about to have sex with your boyfriend, you could say "I'd better adjust your IV, it looks like it's about to pop out of that vein," and he wouldn't care.In fact, you probably don't have to say anything. Guys are very visually driven, and if you just act sexy, that'll probably do it for him.As for talking dirty, watch some porn and take notes. There's *plenty* of reference material out there on the internet. :)
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