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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My straight friend who has a girlfriend made out with me; I like him but I don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a comfortably gay 24 year old male. Recently I met a 23 year old straight male that I have hung out with a couple times and really have come to like (both as a friend but also am strongly attracted to him). We were out late last weekend and he invited me to sleep at his ... (87 words)

My lesbian crush is giving me mixed signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently discoverd im gay (im female and 19 years old)and have strong feelins for a friend but im not sure if she feels the same. Shes also gay only a few years older. we text everyday some days loads but then other days she goes wierd. she knows i like her but she keeps ... (171 words)

I've lost my sex drive; any ideas why or how to get it back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years but over the past 9 months or so I seem to have lost my sex drive as well as anything physical. Any ideas how to make this come back or why maybe?... (41 words)

I've got low self-esteem and am afraid of rejection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I really like but I've no idea whether he feels the same way. I'm really scared of rejection because I'm shy and have really low self esteem, so i really don't know what to do. ... (38 words)

How do I tell my parents I've been lying to them about my girlfriend's age for the last 7 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, I've known this girl around 2 years now and she's my best mate's sister, we get on really well and we've been going out for 7 months now. She's the first girl I've ever really gelled with but the only problem is shes 15 and I'm 19..... we haven't had sex or any other form ... (167 words)

I'm worried because my heart pumps really fast! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently even now, my heart has been pumping really fast. I don't know what is this caused by. It could be the food I am eating or my nervousness. I am worried about this.... (34 words)

Why does my friend always go after the boys I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend and she goes after any boy I like it's not fair, I was going out with a boy and all of a sudden she liked him and now I like a different boy and he likes me but she likes him too and I think he likes her more because they're always flirting and she never ... (88 words)

I need reassurance that I won't lose this baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6370 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my 1st and 2nd profile name wuz batman and batman2 but something happend and I had to make a new profile!!! I'm almost 3 months pregnant and I'm really happy but I know a girl, she's like 16 or 17 and she said that she was like 2 or 3 months pregnant and her baby did... (116 words)

How can I forget her, be happy and just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex have been dating for about 3 years and she decided that she wanted to be single. Now she has been hanging around one of my friends a little and it's driving me crazy!!!! I just need some advice on how to be happy and move on??... (50 words)

What's the best way to go about asking her for her MS address?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6125 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I really like this girl and from what I gather she likes me, an older friend has agreed and I'm planning on asking her for her MS address tommorow, she hangs round with very pleasent friends, it shall be hard to get her alone. What's the best way to ask her... (73 words)

Does my music teacher have a crush on ME?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I think i have fallen in love with my music teacher i absoulutly rubbish at music but he always seems to chooses me i really like him he always trys to stay close to me and all ways flirts with me and i feel safe when i am around him he is really cute and funny i am apperantly ... (109 words)

I'm not ready for full blown sex yet so how can I give him a great "hand job?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been in this relationship with this guy for about four months. However, I'm not ready for sex or oral so the only thing we do is like kiss and touch each other. Well the problem for me is that when I go try and give him a "hand job" I don't think I'm satisfying him. ... (127 words)

Is first time sex painful for men??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - dunno why im gonna ask this question so here goes when ur havin sex for da first time it might be painful women but is it painful for a man... (30 words)

How can I tell him no, I've changed my mind about a 3-some?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is also Bi, so he loves the idea of a threesome. Me on the other hand I'm not a fan. I find it wrong, because when you make love it's a bond between the two of you and a third party just ruins it for me, but lately I thought about it and I told him that I was only ... (124 words)

I'm new to sex... How can I please my man while I'm "on top"? What sort of moves should I be pulling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This is embarrasing but I need advice, I am new to the sex life, I have only slept with one man and I still only sleep with him, now when it comes to our love making, he is incredible in bed, he is always on top which i love because he knows how to make all the right moves on ... (133 words)

Should I forgive him and give him another chance or forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, This boy who I have known since I can remember has just started talking to me again, but I'm not sure whether I should get too involved with him again or not. The reason I'm not sure is because he was horrible to me when we were a bit younger and he's the reason I got bull... (103 words)

Can someone have 2 true loves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone have 2 true loves? i mean i like this guy and im going out with him and i think i may love him but idk and then there is another guy who likes me and i like to and right off the bat we had an amazing conection and idk if i love him or not and someone say something ... (92 words)

My mum told me of how they live on £4.50 a week when she was younger and I think jeez I almost get twice that an hour lol.. does anyone else feel the same ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I work over 50hr weeks and my jobs very physical so I'm tired all the time and I find myself day dreaming most of the time when I have the time during work whilst waiting for the next task.. jeez my day dreams seem better than anything else in life because so many things seem ... (114 words)

Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister! I have no proof, what should I do? They both smoke pot, and talk about porn and things....He has even told me that he thinks his sister looks like Angelina Jolie (v.unlikely) and this was just before we were abo... (180 words)

I acted very jealous one night when we were out and now she's being a bit cold towards me, how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - On a night out with girlfriend and friends I got very drunk and acted very jealously. I appologised the next day to my girlfriend but have found her being a little cold to me since. I find myself now over accommodating for the shakiness in our relationship that I seem to have ... (62 words)

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me.

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This probably sounds quite pathetic but I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me. It seems like I'm the only one making an effort to see him or make him happy. I put myself out there with him 100%, I don't see the point in holding anything back. He was the first one to ... (139 words)

Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex. We are both nervous and don't know how to approach it. We tell each other everything and are completely comfortable with each other. Please help and give advice!!... (49 words)

Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anybody give me some advice to as why my ex abusive partner does not approach me when we split up and apologize even when he knows that he was in the wrong? We have had a stormy realationship for many years and he has been emotionally and physically violent, I am at the ... (115 words)

We don't choose to be attracted to people. It just happens. When it does, should we just dismiss these feelings under the aegis of "respect"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently posted regarding my problem, that is, I have very strong feelings for a married female co-worker. I got the expected responses (i.e. stay away from her!!!) but my feelings persist. I simply cannot stop thinking about her. I won't bore everyone with the usual details ... (529 words)

I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house. I know this is wrong, but I do it to test her reaction. So far, she hasn't said anything to me. My wife told me to stop walking around the house in my boxers, but I still do when the sister is ar... (80 words)

How can I let my boyfriend see I still love him and want him to come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and have a lovely 3 year old son, see my problem is for the past week my boyfriend has been going out all day and not even tried once to spend time with me, we had this really silly but big arugement and it ended up he stopped at our ... (195 words)

How can my boyfriend beef up and put on some weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is very skinny. It was natural because it was INBORN. When he was born, he is very vulnerable because he is so skinny. But when he grew up, he had some fats. But not much. Now he wants to Have more body to please me. I feel sorry for him, I don't know what to do. I ... (77 words)

Maybe the reason why I find my boyfriend's best friend attractive is because I am unhappy with our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problem. Maybe the reason why I find my boyfriend's best friend attractive is because I am unhappy with our relationship, because of my boyfriend's attitude: Sometimes, he so immature. He can't understand the reason why I am always lecturing him off his mistakes. ... (107 words)

Is this only temporary or is our relationship on the way out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend 4 months, he is by far the kindest, nicest and caring guy I have been with. He has been feeling constantly unwell for the past 2 months of the relationship with stomach pains (that no specilist has found an answer for). I'm trying my best to be su... (142 words)

Why does she keep playing with my feelings like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 18 and 'gay' female and recently made friends with a 23 year old 'gay' female from myspace. I have been texting her for ages now and have feelings for her and she knows this. I have met her once before but it wasn't arranged, I was sat in the pub when I noticed her and my ... (277 words)

How do I know if he truly loves me? What are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the signs that the guy you're with loves you? ... (14 words)

He doesn't want me to tell my parents about us. Is that a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with a guy for 2 years it's an on and off relationship, he was my first and I am madly in love with him. My parents on the other hand don't know we are together, because we had a bad confrontation 2 years ago but I love him, he treats me great, you can tell he ... (101 words)

I really think he should leave her! What do I do, just sit and see him in agony every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a problem can you assist me? I am a 20 year old in a relationship with a 30 year old guy. The problem is that he is 'married'. Now I don't want you to judge me but I am crazy about him and his wife knows about us. However it's driving me crazy the way he is right... (147 words)

What is the meaning of my dream???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am asking for help because last night I had a dream that really scared me. Now this is kind of embarrassing because it is so odd, but it is now making me wonder if I am gay. Previously I have asked for help on this site because I have had issues over my sexuality, but t... (161 words)

Why does he not treat me like a princess any more? Why is this eating me up inside? I tell myself over and over I'm being silly. HELP.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for seven years now and over the past few months my emotions seem to be getting out of control. My husband started the marriage being very attentive and caring. I was in no doubt that he loved me. He would do anyhing for me but as the years have gone by, the ... (186 words)

I have to choose one of two friends, but I love both of them!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im love with two guys and both are friends they know each other very well.the problem is i dont know which one to choose... (24 words)

I want to break up with him, but he always seems to convince me not to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year but want to split up with him because we have been having arguments for aout 7 months. I have tried splitting up with him several times but he always changes my mind andi give him one more chance what should i do???... (53 words)

Are people who are jealous of me just bad people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have been conditioned to feel very afraid of people who are jealous of me in some way. I use too much of imagination to develop some picture about the personality of that person who is jealous / judgemental to me in some manner. They are bad people and need to be rejected ... (57 words)

I would rather date his best mate, but dont want to seem a slut

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F) - Hi there, I met a guy a couple of months ago in a club (call him Mr A) and we have met up most wkds since, we have kissed loads but have not yet slept together altho we did sleep in the same bed once - but nothing more than kissing and cuddling happened. I am 25. Bout... (355 words)

Do you bleed on your first few times having sex, or just on your first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do You bleed on your first few times of having sex or just your first ??... (16 words)

I want to break up with a really nice guy to find someone more exciting and fun

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi Im going out with this guy who is lovely, very honest and one of the nicest people i have ever met.However i am suffering from depression atm and the seriousness of our relationship is not helping me to overcome my depression. Im quite shy and so is he, so our relationship... (172 words)

How come my answers dont get posted?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! I've been on this site for a while and I was wondering why arent most of my answers being posted?!... (21 words)

Will my boyfriend be able to tell that I am a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend Thinks I Have had Sex But Im A Virgin Will He Know?... (14 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend for another guy who dumped me and now I want my ex back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i split up with my ex a few weeks ago after a year because i fancied a guy at work. me and this guy started sleeping with each other. now he has gone away for a month and said that when he returns we will just be mates. i relised i shouldnt have done this to my ex. he has no ... (92 words)

I havent seen him for years but now my feelings for him are stronger than ever. Should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for more than 5 years but but I have felt our relationship has stalled and we are more like brother and sister. I love him alot but can't picture myself with him even though he constantly talks about having a family together. Another guy ha... (121 words)

I am feeling shut out from my daughter because of the boy she is dating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age - I am a married woman with a 20 year old daughter. In the past few months she has been seeing a boy who we have not met and they have become very close. He is also 20 and is her first boyfriend and I have just found out that their relationship has become heavily sexual. She ... (186 words)

I dont trust my boyfriend because he talks to other girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together after a break up that happened about a week ago, we've been dating almost 2 years. Over that past week he told me he needed to find himself, so I gave him the time and space to do so, and we got back together yesterday. Problem is, ... (230 words)

I have some sex questions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6370 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

- er this is kinda an embaressing question. but everytime i have sex i make a noise down below like a fart noise its really embaressing. also i been sleeping with my boyfriend for 5 months and i still havent come. and i also have a really strong smell coming from down th... (108 words)

I have the worst morning sickness ever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 11 weeks pregnant and from the end of may i have had the worst cause of morning sickness ever. i have ended up in hospital cause i kept nothing down for more then 24 hours and was very dehydrated. the vomitting has come down alot but i still have this very nauseus fee... (99 words)

Can a guy lose a lot of weight and his man boobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is it possible for someone who is fat to lose all his weight and look slim along with losing the man boob and having a slim chest aswell. if so can anyone tell me how long it will take and one mre thing, it seems to be like that my chest ar... (89 words)

My ex boyfriend still checks me out online

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid.. It has been almost a Year since my bf and I split up. He decided to have time alone as he was still graduating and remained without employment. Even though i supported him emotioanlly he decided to leave as he had no real time for a realtionship. communication be... (187 words)

My cousin hates my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Now My boyfriend is four years older than me im 19 and hes 24. thats not where it ends. we started off as friends then the feelings got mutual. we spent some time apart and now we are together.its been 7 months now and the only thing standing in between us is my cousin. she ... (79 words)

I am confused about when to try to have a baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies I really need help from you. My husband and I are really wanting to have a baby but there is one thing that comes between us, its my period I am very inrregular sometimes I go a year with out it. the doctor put me on loestrin24 fe a birth control, TO help me get my ... (129 words)

I feel he shouldn't be spending time with her with he should be with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age - my boyfriend of 8 yrs plays darts and his friends wife calls him when her husbands out of town to take her to the bar; she too is his friend they all play darts together when her husbands home i cant stand the idea of him spending time with her when he should be with me i dont ... (61 words)

I cant handle how low my self esteem is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't handle how low my self esteem is. I always have my ups and downs. If my friends don't invite me somewhere or don't call me as soon as I call them, I freak out. I want to be content with myself, but I feel like I need to be part of a group to feel ok. I have a really ... (163 words)

Is it normal to look at other girls even though I love my amazing girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is amazing. She's smart, funny and I have a great time with her. She treats me like a king, gives me space and I can totally be myself with her. We've been dating for almost 2 years and living together for a year. The problem is that I find myself very ofte... (204 words)

I thought things might rekindle with my ex, but he hasnt called

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What Did This Mean? I have this ex bf that i always had a connection with. from the first time i met him i knew he was someone special. you see we dated 5 years ago and broke up after 8 months. then we were on and off up until 2 years ago. he has seen me through the ... (219 words)

How do you tell if a lesbian/bisexual woman is hitting on you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what are the signs that a bisexual female or lesbian is flirting and trying to get close with you? just very curious........ (25 words)

I belittel my long distance relationship to other people and want to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm involved in a relationship with a wonderful man whom I love very, very much. The problem is, it's long distance. A huge distance actually - international. However we're lucky I suppose because we see one another every 2-3 months. Anyway this is a real... (256 words)

I can't stop thinking about an older married woman, I think I'm in love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I think i'm in love. This is weird - i met this woman about 9 years older then me i'm in my 20's and she's in her 30's. She used to drive me after work we used to work together. Then I started to fall in love with her. She is married and with a coupl... (201 words)

He gets angry when I try to talk about our lack of intimacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I need advice on how to talk to my partner about his severely diminished interest in sex and physical intimacy. I've raised the issue with him before but I tend to get angry as it upsets me so much. I know this won't help. How can I talk to him about this without getting angry? ... (56 words)

Could I be pregnant after contact through clothes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm on my period and I dry-humped a guy. I was wearing pajama pants, and a thong. Is there any chance I could be pregnant?... (27 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm bisexual and I think he could be right; what if I'm not and he's disappointed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

5 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there ... just wanting some advice. I am deeply in love with the man I am currently with and I hope to be with him long-term.Recently my man suggested that perhaps I might be bi-sexual I dont know if I am or not. I love being with my man but I do get turned on by woman as ... (280 words)

Everytime I masturbate, I dont ejaculate ! Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Every time i masturbate i dont ejaculate i dont think i have ever ejaculated. Why is this? what can i do?... (21 words)

Married to my wife for 20 years, but I have this thing about other men's penises! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

5 July 2007 (M)

age - I am a married man and have been with my wife for 20 years. I love her more than anything or anyone else. I have no complaints and our life together is fantastic. I have never cheated on her. My problem is that in the last few years I have enjoyed looking at pictures of mens... (170 words)