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Is the pharmacist interested in me?

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi i am having a little struggle not sure what to think i have been seeing a pharmacist at a drug store and he is showing me he always comes to me right away and always talks and stares in my eyes as we talk about meds that i need just recently he winked a weird wink as saying ... (115 words

Do you think hes truly afraid of telling me he loves me?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - He's stopped saying "I love you". I don't know what to think. We're closer than ever. He's never been one to say "I love you" very much- he said it was overused (I knew the bullshit in that statement, but thats another story). I said it first, about 2 or 3 months ago. And... (241 words

Is it over or will she come back?

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16 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - me and my fiance have been together for 3 and 1/2 years she asked for space called me 2 days later crying saying she felt better couple days later back to the same i never stopped calling, her best friend, and parents say im the best thing to happen to her now she says shes ... (87 words

How do I get rid of the acne?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - How could I get rid of my acne, scars, red marks on my face, and blackheads. Plus Keep it off. Are there any products in stores that could take all of these away? That won't break my budget. I've been to the dermatologist already, he gave me these pills and creams. I think it ... (71 words

Why couldn't he just tell me he wasn't interested in me anymore?

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've always had relationship problems, because I was diagnosed with bipolar about 5 years ago. When I met my last boyfriend, I was just coming off of some medication that makes me very snappy until it clears my system. I explained to my ex boyfriend some of the things he ... (424 words

Is it normal that one thigh is bigger than the other?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My right thigh is bigger than my left thigh. Is this normal?... (12 words

My friend and I both like the same guy and he likes me, not her! Should I go out with him?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My best friend likes this guy, but he likes me, not her. I like him too. So should I go out with him, or not? My best friend says I can, but I'm not sure...... (37 words

When is the right time to have kids?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have been dating my boyfriend for 2yrs and we are madly in love, we also know we are going to get married soon. we plan on having kids. but my problem is when is the right time to have kids?? while im in college or after?... (47 words

My wife wants to leave. How do I save our marriage?

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16 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - i have been with my wife for nearly 20 years, she tells me her feelings aren't the same for me anymore. she has lost alot of weight in the past six months,she seems so confused, i have told her to see a doctor but she wont, now she wants to leave me, i am trying desperatley to ... (64 words

How do I get my bf to have sex with me more frequently?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend not want to fuck after two times and why does he hurt sometimes? He gets mad and he dont want it when I want it how do I change that he just gets mad if I try to get him to want it.... (47 words

He said bad things about me behind my back. I like him, but is it worthwhile to clear the air?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - hope i can get help...ok so this guy who is a friend of a friend,told me he likes me and he didnt know but i have had a crush on him for awhile now.so we began talking on the phone and he invited me and my friends to a barbeque at his house.the night of the barbeque he kissed ... (189 words

Why is he reluctant to take me on dates even though he still appears to be very keen on me?

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16 July 2007 (F age - I see a man at a bar every Tuesday and Saturday. His friends tell me he is mad on me and say he tells them to butt out if they try to chat me up. He always takes me on the dance floor to dance to the smoochy dances.He took me out for lunch 2 weeks ago but has not asked me out ... (148 words

Did my friend dump me for her neighbour? Why?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - SO im 15 and i have this friend who ill call Ash. She moved here in November, and since i was fairly new [moved here in june of last year] i took the time to get to know her and we became close friends. I let her see all of me [i mean, my real me, how i act] and she seemed t... (389 words

Is there a way to deep throat without gagging?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we love each other more than anything. He has these fantasies that he tells me which I end up doing for him and I have no problem with it, I mean I love to make him happy and feel good. But there is one tha... (198 words

Is six to eight bottles of alcohol a weekend-every weekend too much?

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Does my husband have a problem with drinking? i have been with my husband for 13 years.when we were 20 we drank at christmas,nights out or special occasions.this is the way its been for the past 12 and a half years.alchol never really interested us.6months ago my husband s... (251 words

What does she want? Is she really wanting to be with me or not?

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16 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - I have a question for you guys. I've met a girl and we've had wonderful times together. Recently she went to a different city for work. We still e-mail each other. In one of her e-mails, she says she is so happy she finally has a friend who will write to her more than "how ... (156 words

I'm worried she might think I'm an idiot, is that stupid?

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16 July 2007 (M - m and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 months. she's nice, attractive and smart, very smart, in fact she goes to durham and studies maths. i'm doing engineering at manchester, but i know she is smarter than me (it's not a problem i actually prefer that). however at ... (140 words

Does his appreciation of other girls mean I'm not good enough?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and things aren't exactly going well. everytime we go out he always looks at other girls .. i dnt really mind but he also comments on the way they look like he thinks their better than me in someway. i just feel i'm not good ... (63 words

Will he eventually see that he wants a relationship with me? Or should I move on

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for 9 months. We are both 17, and it was are first serious relationship. Things were great! But then he started to hang round with some new older mates, because people his age were too ''immature''. Suddenly he would ditch me, so he could see ... (281 words

I love him but the sex has waned on my part! What can I do?

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16 July 2007 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and we live together. Everything is fantastic with our relationship, apart from the sex part. When I first started seeing him, I wanted sex with him all the time, it was all I could think about, and whenever we went out, I couldn’t ... (352 words

How do I stop my brother from being so abusive towards me?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - my brother is abusive to me and has been for many years. He is 2 years younger than me and basically picks on me, for example he flicks water at me, hits me,pokes me, does anything which he knows will annoy me! He calls me names, says i have no friends, calls me fat, calls me... (157 words

He admitted he wasn't happy and he left me! I am devastated! Please help?

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i hope someone can help me. My boyfriend of about 9 months has just spit up with me. I know we argued a bit, and had been doing so quite alot recently but I really thought we were perfect for each other. We had so much in common and just had a really great time together, ... (211 words

I have a bf but is it okay to be friends with this other guy I have a crush on?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so my boyfriend is away for the summer and yes we are remaining together. The problem is, i went away for a few weeks - gals holiday, and we met these guys that were great fun to hang out with! i found one of them very attractive and although nothing happened - i think i ... (170 words

Does he really like me or is this just a friendship?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I know a guy at work. Although I'm not sure if he likes me. He is white and I am Indian. We get along quite well, although he always teases me, about me liking some weird looking guys. How will I know if he likes me? Is it just a friendship?... (55 words

I love her but I worry about her and her guy friend! How do I cope with this?

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16 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello. I have been going out with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. We moved in together this past January and things are going well. The thing is I am insecure about the fact that she gets along better with guys and therefore has many guy friends. I think some of th... (314 words

I cant stand to see them together and I'm so miserable! What can I do?

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16 July 2007 (F - This guy i liked (who i dumped my boyfriend for) fancied me, but now hes got a new girlfriend and says he doesn't anymore. Shes so beautiful and is everything Im not, I cant stand to see them together and im so miserable at the moment (im on antidepressants for other reasons ... (63 words

I love here and have been with her for 10 years but I still don't know if she's "the one" and I'm ready for marriage!

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16 July 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. We love each other and many things are great. She's made it pretty clear that she's more than ready to make the commitment of marriage, and I'm not denying that that's where we might head, but it worries me that I'm ... (210 words

Can you build muscle in your boobs?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Heya!! does anybody no if you build muscles in your boobs will they look bigger? or just harder? THANKYOU XXX... (20 words

Dated 2 men but now I'm wondering--did I choose the wrong guy?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - i was casually seeing two guys,but iv just started dating the guy who is the same age as me,21, and he's a lovely guy and we have lots in common but there not much of a spark, the other guy is 33,we have fun and he makes me laugh and i get him out of my head, but i was to ... (93 words

Contraception concerns...need some advice!

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hello I have a question in regards to FEMULEN (progestogen only contraceptive pill). I have been put on this pill due to having DVT (thrombosis) 2 years ago. I was on a combined pill about 2 months ago, but i ran out and was on holiday. So hadnt taken the pill for some... (234 words

Since the abortion in January I think my character has changed: I feel insecure about EVERYTHING

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Help! I had an abortion in January, after getting pregnant by my first ever boyfriend who I was - and still am - madly in love with. We both got through it, mainly by keeping it top secret from everyone apart from my parents, who paid for the abortion (even my boyfriend's ... (158 words

I do really love my boyfriend but if I loved him that much I wouldn't have feelings for other guys right? I'm so confused?

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16 July 2007 (F - Hey, I cheated on my boyfriend with another lad. I feel so bad, it's just my boyfriend spends too much time with other girls and for this one night this lad paid me attention and made me feel like it was only me and him in the world, sounds stupid I know, we didn't do much ... (163 words

My 11 year old son disrespects me - now my partner said he will not sleep over when my son spends the night because of it!

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Im wondering what to do, ive been in a relationship for 16 months with a man i love very much, ive got a son who's 11 from a previous relationship, my partner has his own house but stays at mine most of the time, he's recently told me that he was leaving because he's had enough ... (99 words

His medical problem makes sex extremely painful! I adore him, but I'm sexually frustrated!

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and care deeply about him and feel like i know him inside out, as he does with me. as a boyfriend, he is faultless - never cheats, he takes me out, buys me things, phones me daily and constantly tells me he loves me. however, he ... (175 words

How can I find out if my online guy loves me? I love him despite the distance and difference of religion!

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - i never had a special boyfriend although i have been approached by a few guys. But, recently i met a guy on line, we first got to know each other from a epal club, after one month than we started chatting. Little did i expect that our relationship will grow into love. He likes ... (187 words

He doesn't show me his love the way I need him to show me! What should I do?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 about 2 1/2 years. Im very in love with him but he doesnt take me or the relationship seriously.He doesnt pay enough attention to my needs and I have emotional needs.I know he loves me but he doesnt show me the way I need him to show me. ... (65 words

What's the youngest age to fall in love?

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16 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - What's the youngest age to fall in love? I'm 9 years old and i think that i've fallen in love with my friend's cousin who's 10. I've heard people say things like it's not possible to fall in love until you are an adult so now i'm confused whether i'm in love or not. My friend ... (94 words

When we aren't together he acts like he isn't interested in our relationship!

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 year has recently started to neglect our relationship. When we are together he is like his usual self though and everything is so good. But I hate it when we arent together because it's like he isnt interested. What will I do?... (46 words

My husband of six months cheated on me w/ his ex! What should I do??

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I just found out that my husband of only 6 months basically cheated on me the other night. He took his ex out to dinner then they went to our new apartment to talk and they ended up kissing! i just got a new job not even a month ago but ever since I started working the evenings ... (272 words

My ex keeps giving me mixed signals - I've not done anything to deserve this, and it's just torture!

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16 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - Since mine and my Girlfriends long distance realtionship of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago today, I can't help but hate how little contact I can make with her. For the first 2 weeks or so, I couldn't contact her due to her being on holiday. But since she got back 5 days ago, ... (356 words

I told him we could only be friends. Now he's saying he can't do it anymore and that I've hurt him! Why is he being this way? What can I do?

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16 July 2007 (F - Hoping someone can help me here. I dated a guy earlier in the year who...I thought wanted more than I could give. He wanted more and let me know it but I let him know that all I could offer was friendship. I thought he was ok with it but he phoned me recently and told me he ... (102 words

I think my girlfriend thinks of me as more of a friend rather than a boyfriend! What can I do?

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16 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for more than one year.I really love her very much but something is happening to our relationship that i cannot explain.We have stayed together for the past six months.She gave me some very bad news that she finds me boring and she ... (172 words

He says he loves me and doesn't love his girlfriend (who he has three kids with) anymore - but he hasn't left her yet!

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - im 25 with 3 children and have been seein a man for 4 years he has kids and a girlfriend,he has been telling me since just before xmas that he loves me and doesnt love her anymore wants to be with me but finds it hard to leave cause of his kids, i recently came back from a ... (102 words

When out w/ my bf, how do I deal with seeing a stunning woman act sexy in a movie? I get jealous and uncomfortable.

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Im22,i dont get the opportunity to wear sexy clothes like all these girls do on posters and magazines, and itslike,myboyfriend never sees me in the sexy way he see's them. I just dont know how im supposed to feel good next to them?? how? and if i go cinema for example,how ... (464 words

She said it's not me, it's her. How can someone's feelings just suddenly stop??

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16 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I've been in love with this girl for nearly a year and we've been through a lot of ups and downs. She said that she was in love with me, then suddenly she's saying she dosent even fancy me anymore. She says it's not me but she's changed. I just don't get how someones fee... (89 words

I'm 10, he's 19. He found out I've got a crush on him and now he's avoiding me!

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - i like a guy 9 years older and i thought he liked me ( me 10, and him 19). it was good when no one knew i liked him, but then some one found out. she told him and now he wont talk to me. what do i do???... (49 words

How can you tell a good friend to go home without sounding like a jerk?

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16 July 2007 (F - Whenever my husband and I ask one of our close friends over for dinner, he always just assumes that he's going to also spend the night - and then he spends half of the day with us the next day! He only lives 45 minutes away and we've tried hinting that we want him to leave ... (184 words

I kissed my boyfriends coworker

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I kissed my boyfriends work friend. The girl he was out with was upset he offered to walk me to the car although i dont know if she actually saw the kiss. me and my partner go out with these people regularly and i cant guarantee he wont be told by one of the girls. How... (87 words

My in laws are selfish, unsupportive and mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I moved to my husbands home town after we married. My in-laws were very friendly, sometimes even a little too much with my family. My sister-in-laws started before we married going for day trips or holidaying close to my home town and visiting my relatives, sometimes arriving... (612 words

How do I improve my sexual tecnique when I didnt know I was bad in the first place?

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16 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello, My girlfriend of 5 and half years has just recently broken up with me (about 2 weeks ago). She said that she no longer loves me, she found a new guy, she doesn't see a future with me, and etc. Anyways, I met her the other day and we were talking about our relati... (146 words

Is it possible she is jealous I got a housemate?

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16 July 2007 (? - Female vs Female relationship. I am in love with my best friend. We are seperated by about 1300 miles. She knows how I feel as I have told her. She is unhappily married (no lectures please) anyway I am convinced she feels the same way about me even though back in Jan. she ... (153 words

My ex wants to get back together, but I am leary

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I was with me ex for a year and half, we were really close from day 1...then he turned into someone i didnt recognise and thought the grass was greener on the other side and dumped me in march. I knew he was stupid and couldnt understand why he done it. Anyway he text me 3x ... (167 words

My boyfriend is 19 years older than me and I am worried about our future

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I have currently been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are very happy together. However, i have major concerns about the age gap. I am 22 and he is 19 years older than me. He is divorced with no children. I am worried that this will cause problems in the near futu... (72 words

My boyfriend got a rash after going down on me

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, myself and my boyfriend recently had oral sex which he performed on me. It turns out that he got a rash for one day and the next day it had cleared up and gone away. What is this? I am totally freaked out since I had been to the doctor the week before and he had said ... (75 words

I broke up with my ex and expected him to try to win me back. He didnt, but I miss him now.

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with my Ex a few months ago when i ended it. He ended it first but then changed his mind after a few weeks of absence and no phone calls. He said at the time that he was ready to give the relationship another try but the thing is it took him a long time to come to ... (193 words

I just wanted reassurance and now he wont talk to me

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing my guy for about 8 months now... im 20 and hes 35 - we get along perfectly and we never see a problem with the age difference... Today we had a great big fight because i told him im starting to think hes treating me like an "object" ... hes not even rea... (182 words

I am 15 and dating a 27 year old

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am turning 15 and i am dating a 27 yr old i dont know how to tell my parents i really love him... (25 words

Since we had our daughter I feel he has changed and doesnt care about us

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and i are going on our 4th year together and we have a beautiful baby girl together, first child for both of us... i know this is all new for both of us but does it have to make a person change this much? he used to show me that he cared all the time and now he ... (327 words

He regrets not having as many sex partners and that makes me feel insecure

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16 July 2007 (F - My boyfriend loves me there is no doubt. We found each other again after years of unhappiness. I had a healthy number sexual partners in my youth and am now happy to settle. He has only had a few partners and makes references this, seeming very regretful about it, to the ... (192 words

My unrequited love for him is taking over my life

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16 July 2007 (F age - i feel so alone and all i have is this pc screen to talk to. i've been separated from my long term partner for 18 months,i wasnt to interested in meeting anyone,but christmas 2006 i met this guy while out one evening with my friend,he kept on at me could he come round to see me ... (562 words

My circumsision hasn't helped with my frenulum problem, what do I do now?

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16 July 2007 (M age - Hi I was circumcised because of frenulum breve. It's still tearing. What now? ... (22 words

I am unable to feel 100% emotion, it is like I'm numb, and I am sabotageing potential happiness

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16 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am in such despair as I feel I have such emotional baggage from 14 years in a difficult marriage that now I have the opportunity to be with a good, kind and loving man I'm unable to 'feel' 100% emotion - its like I'm numb. I knew the man I married from my teens and so he was ... (266 words

I am not sure we love each other any more

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16 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - This is kinda lengthy, as its a rather complicated situation. Ok, so my gf and I have been together for 2 years now, and lately things have just been falling apart. She is anorexic and is extremely abusive (mostly verbally, but she also hits me, too). I try to always be ... (437 words

My boyfriend is suspicious of me for no good reason

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. we always have disagreements because if he's stressed or had a bad day he gets really supicious. I don't know if this is because of his depression or his personality. he knows i'm not the type of girl who would cheat on him and i've... (311 words

He broke up with me saying he wants to experiment sexually but he had said he wanted to be with only me

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - In a month me and my boyfriend would have been coming up on our two year anniversary. I found out he was lying to me about basic things, so I got friends involved and they did a little intervention. He admitted to them that he has thought about other people sexually when he ... (239 words

How can I break up with her without hurting her?

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16 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi, there is this girl that i am currently goin out with and i want to break up with her without hurting her and i really dont kno how. please help! ... (32 words

We dated on and off; now he has a girlfriend but still acts like he wants me

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear whoever will answer this, So I need some major advice. I've dated this guy on and off for a year, and now he has a girlfriend but he still acts like he wants to be with me. He's one of my best friends and I hate the thought of losing him but at the same time its hard to ... (82 words

Housemate from Hell!

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16 July 2007 (F - HOUSEMATE FROM HELL!! I have recently taken over lease and my housemate has moved out two days ago. She's lived there for a year and a half longer than me. I refused to sign the lease until she finishes a few things off such as returning the keys, removing all the rubbish in ... (262 words

He wanted to marry me but his parents have another girl for him he has to wed

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My friend got close to me saying he wants to marry me. We got emotionally attached to each other very much and now due to his family problems he says he can not marry me. I tried to tell him how much it is hurting etc but he says he is sorry and asks me to forgive. Now he got ... (85 words

I met him on a forum and really like him; how can I take it further?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok this is kind of complicated so please read through the whole thing. I'm 16 and have never been in a relationship before - I've never even been asked out so I'm really confused as to what I should do. Well there's a forum on the internet that I go to for people from local h... (299 words

I have low self esteem and I'm afraid to ask girls out

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16 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I am rather shy, and I have very poor confidence in myself. I'm the tall,skinny,quiet kid who is good in school, I'm sure you know the type. I'm afraid of asking girls out, and what they would think of me if I did, although I have no problem talking to them normally.I'm not ... (72 words

My husband won't talk about having children with me

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16 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've been married for two years, we dated for three. My husband has two kids from a previous relationship. I have no children of my own, and his kids live with us full time. My husband was alone for seven years with his kids before he married me. Before we were married I was ... (114 words

I don't know whether to keep the baby and if I should tell him

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am pregnant by my new ex. We had only been dating 6 months, but the unhealthy relationship he has with the mother of his child has finally broke us. I already had an abortion a few months ago (also his) and I really don't know what to do. I really don't want to go through ... (105 words

Should I be worried about another girl?

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16 July 2007 (F - i was with my b/f watching tv and i had a movie on for a few seconds and changed it and then he said i thought you liked so and so(he said the name of the movie) and i said umm no..i never saw the movie. And he said oh i thought you said that...i never did and it made me wonder ... (101 words

We want to wait until we're engaged or married before we lose our virginity; what can we do in the meantime?

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16 July 2007 (? age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. It's just short increments ... (168 words

My friend feels like he's been replaced since his best friend got a girlfriend

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16 July 2007 (M - A friend of my girlfriend has a problem. We will call him Bob. He has been best friends with a guy for over 10 years. We will call him Joe. They did everything together. Anyway, recently Joe had started dating someone and all of a sudden he doesnt have much time for Bob. This ... (131 words

I love him but he's always yelling at me; what are my options?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i was 16 and he was 23 when we got together Ive been living with him almost a year and a half now and I want out. I love him but he always yells and cusses at me. He has no patience and i know it isnt his fault. His father ... (132 words

I feel that my vagina is a bit loose, can I tighten it up somehow?

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16 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - I'm "big" down there and it makes it difficult for my partner to feel me when we're having sex. He's a normal size. I've never had children, it's just the way I'm built. Are there any things I can do to make my vagina tighter? I know about Kiegels and vagina cones but I'm ... (82 words

I got pregnant cheating with my ex - it means something right?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I dated this one guy for about 7 months and we broke up because i developed feelings for another guy. A few months into that relationship i cheated once and had a one night stand with that ex of 7 months. I became Pregnant that night with his child. He believes that it was a ... (100 words

I'm sure she's attracted to me even though she is engaged

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16 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I typically have a hard time talking to females but recently a female at my workplace and I started to talk. This Female and I get along really well, we laugh, talk about stuff and we have alot in common which is why I feel we get along well. I like her but I recently found... (265 words

He stays in touch with ex-girlfriends and I can't handle it!

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16 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last three years. We are happy enough but we do fight sometimes, usually about stupid things. What really bothers me is that he stays in touch with all his old girlfriends and he has every girls number he ever knew still stored in ... (113 words

This guy won't leave us alone! Should I hurt him?

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16 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - I need some advice please me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half and theres always been this guy that wont leave and get out of our relationship he was my gfs bestfriend over a year ago and since then has never left us alone he will try and get things into my head ... (94 words

How can i finger myself and get pleasure out of it?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok, i have a very weird question but here goes: ok i have been masturbating ever since i was like 8 years old.. (i'm a girl by the way) and i always rubbed myself.. never fingered.. and now that i have had sex and had other guys finger me, i tried to do it myself.. but i cant ... (79 words

Would he lie about his true feelings for me?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Would a guy ever lie about his true feelings for a girl? I'm in all likelihood being foolishly hopeful, but it has been bugging me and I'd appreciate some input. For the first time, I told a guy that I liked him, a huge feat for someone as shy and reserved as me. Of course I ... (290 words

Is he lying about his true feelings for me?

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16 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Would a guy ever lie about his true feelings for a girl? I'm in all likelihood being foolishly hopeful, but it has been bugging me and I'd appreciate some input. For the first time, I told a guy that I liked him, a huge feat for someone as shy and reserved as me. Of course I ... (290 words

If someone cheats on you, can they still really love you?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - if someone cheats on you...can they still really love you!!?... (10 words

We're not exactly dating but I'm not sure if he really cares for me, he kissed another girl

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - i have been kinda seeing this lad for 3 years, we are not going out because of the distance! and when we are together we dont go on the pull and that...how ever the other night we went out, everything was fine, i came back fro the bar, and he was kissing some girl (that he ... (91 words

I have sticky eyelashes, why?

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16 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why do I have sticky eyelashes? Is it bad to have it?... (12 words

I don't come when she gives me head. Am I a bad performer?

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16 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - hello, i'm 16 have been going out with my girlfriend for a few months, and recently we've been exploring things sexually, and she's performed oral on me now, but i don't orgasm when she does this! i feel really bad about this can anyone help please? when i'm alone i can ... (53 words

I kind of feel like my ex-husband just used me for sex

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16 July 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help! I slept with my ex-husband. My ex-husband and I divorced two years ago when he left me for a girl 10 yrs younger who worked for him. After what sounds like a very volitile relationship for the last two years, they broke up and he forced her to move out. We have two ... (376 words

I've been burned before... should I try again?

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16 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - im not sure if im being daft but i just want to know peoples opinion. i was with a girl from the age of 16 to 20(still my age). she was 15 when we met and broke up with me when she was 19. i was absolutley gutted, my head really was in a mess. i have gotten over it even tho... (199 words

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