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writes:I'm thinking about having anal intercourse only my problem is that it has happened to me before a while back and it wasn't such a good experience at least not one that I was expecting or consenting to.... I watch porn and it turns me on to see the women having anal sex.... how can I do this without recollection of my past and what is to be expected.... How do I relax myself in order to be able to enjoy this experience.... I know that there are toys and lubes for this type of thing but I guess I'm asking how can I be mentally prepared in spite of my bad experience because I know that this is something that I want to do.....
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reader, sexonthebeach  +, writes (19 July 2007):
use lots and lots and lots of lubricant. apply generously onto his cock and your arse opening. tell him to insert a finger or two while applying the lubricant to loosen you before he inserts his cock. upon inserting his cock into your arsehole, play with your clit, the pleasure will distract you from the pain or you can get him to reach up from behind and finger your clit. once the cock has been fully inserted, make sure your partner goes extremely slowly...and gradually increasing his pace.
good luck =)
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reader, mary-lee  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 you mentioned that you like watching porn, why dont you watch porn while you try to have anal sex? this might relax you and remind you of pleasant experiences? give it a ago! it always works for me!
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 The suggestion of taking it very slowly is a good one and one I would advise aswell.
If you want to stop at any point then just tell your partner to stop what he's doing.
I think once you get in to it and start enjoying it you wont think about the bad experience you had but will enjoy making a new, good one.
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reader, susquehannaromantic714 +, writes (19 July 2007):
I can only suggest that you take it VERY slow, and at a pace YOU are comfortable with. Use lubrication and perhaps have your lover just put a little of his manhood at a time.
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