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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife, 60, has been suffering from anxiety and agoraphobia... all she does all day is watch mindless TV and doesn't seem to want to help herself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age - hi - my wife. 60, of many years has been suffering from anxiety and agoraphobia. all she does all day iswatch mindless television and doent seem to want to help herself! She began to avoid being in bed and awake at the same time, eventually moving into her own room. We have not ... (307 words)

What should I do? I think the KABIT is up to something.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this stupid problem. About year 2004 my boyfriend had a "third party", Kabit is the word here in Philippines. They broke up when I made my boyfriend decide who he really likes, and he chose me because he loves me and can't live without me. (It's true though, I already ... (127 words)

My boyfriend is falling for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Now I have a problem, I tried to follow you guys about ignoring the best friend of my boyfriend. And it worked! I'm not attracted anymore... I now treat him just like any other guy friends we have. Thank Goodness. But now, I think the "BESTFRIEND" of my boyfriend is fal... (178 words)

I think my teacher fancies me but I'm not sure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused! I think my teacher fancies me but I'm not sure. When I first started in his class, he was really nice and I figured that it must be because I knew about the subject before I started college (I was 21 at the time, I'm 23 now). The year after, I was really ... (356 words)

Is it me or is it him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi To all those who think I have a questions whether love hurts yes ...although I thought it does not recently rediscovered that it might actually HURT...as it is doing now..... Well coming to my episode...... I am a 26 yr old F born and bought up in a traditional family.... (1471 words)

Caught my husband of 10 years having an affair with my best friend! Can we work this as an open marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age - I recently caught my husband of ten years in an affair with my best friend. I had suspected something several years ago and confronted him but he denied it and life went on. I now find out it has been going on for 7 years. He says he loves me and doesn't want a divorce but ... (115 words)

So why is everyone having such a problem with the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right. I'm 17 and my boyfriend's 24. We have a small age difference of 6.5 years, which is nearly always commented on. My beau and I have no problem with it; we are of a similar maturity and we're very close. So why is everyone having such a problem with the age gap? I kn... (86 words)

Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my sister and i got into a fight. She spat at me, and her saliva went on my arms, face, lips, and inside my mouth. Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?... (34 words)

I always feel really tired and down or upset and have constant headaches whats up with me ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I always feel really tired and down or upset and have constant headaches whats up with me ?... (18 words)

He had a spot that is black and a little red.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there i need help. Well yesterday i spent some time with my boyfriend and we had a really good time. And when he went home he took a shower. And we agreed that he wouldn't call me anymore until today. But it was different, he did call me and sounded really serious. And he ... (250 words)

I really like the guy im with but he wont talk to me or answer my calls because of a rumour that i cheated on him has gone around school.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like the guy im with but he wont talk to me or answer my calls because of a rumour that i cheated on him has gone around school. I dont no what to do i want him to believe me that I did nothing please help?... (48 words)

He said he loves his wife... should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with a guy for three years he got married before we got serious we have a child together; we used to live together at the moment we're not. he said he love his wife for what she done for him but his heart is with me. should I wait for him until he sort his life out ... (67 words)

Never had an orgasm! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - please help me im 35 with 2 kids and have never had an orgasam been married 13 years why is this is there something wrong with me... (27 words)

I feel lonely and left out at school - my mum wants to help but shes going to make it worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

- Im not very happy at school, i havent been for a while. I hang around with about 6-7 people but i always manage to feel left out. i never get invited to sleepovers or shopping trips. i rarely get included in teh conversations. i usually ignore it and just get on with school but ... (172 words)

I was getting on really well with her until... I found out she was pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been getting on really well with a young lady for a while now when I see her at her workplace everyday behind a counter and I was contemplating asking her out today when I realised that she was pregnant when she was filling some shelves. This is heartbreaking as... (69 words)

I've let myself go for at least 3 years!! Now I'm exercising - how do I take my mind off food?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - how do you keep your mind off of food, if wanting to lose weight and get fit? i seriously need help!!!!! so i have been out of shape for at least 3 years and am ashamed of it. i cannot believe i let myself go this long! well, i just want to eat just 3 small healthy meal... (80 words)

He isn't performing in bed... will things get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age - I've been seeing this guy (about once a week)since Christmas just as friends, my ex husband and i have known him and his ex for 20+ years. When we go out together we have a lovely time but when it comes to sex he just cant maintain an erection, on the few occasions we have ... (169 words)

We have a lack of passion ... now I've met a great girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help! I am in a relationship of a few years and lately we haven't been as passionate and "in love" as in the past. A lot of the relationship has been long distance and it is right now. The lack of passion thing has been a problem for some time and i've been wantin... (131 words)

Am I a lesbian or am I just curious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I know that quite a few people am probably going to say I'm too young to really know what I'm feeling but whilst I understand that and know my feelings may change as I get older right now this is impossible. I'd begun to suspect I might be gay/ a lesbian when everyone else ... (222 words)

Is viagra safe for an 18 year old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to have longer sex with my gf. I don't need viagra but i think that using it will prolong the time that we do it for giving the girl a better time. Is this safe to use as I am only 18?... (45 words)

I'm 19 and never had a relationship - I want real love! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i never have a relation ship whith someone.i want to have it but i m sker. because i want a real love and a good personne .im 19 years old and i never have a relation ship whith somone.ihave many boys friend but they are just friends . is this normal????????... (51 words)

My breasts were very veiny I mean I could see the blue viens going through my areolas and the rest of my breasts.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, this is probably going to sound really wierd and gross but I need some help from all you girls out there. Last night when I was getting ready to get in the shower I looked at myself in the mirror while I was topless, I realized that my breasts were very veiny I mean I ... (121 words)

He went away on business and promised to call to say he got there safely... but didn't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

- Recently my b/f went away on business. The night he left, he promised to call when he arrived at his first destination. He knows that I am always unable to sleep until I know he's there in one piece. He never called. I laid awake until 1:30 AM but I knew he had to get up at ... (506 words)

We're young and we want to have sex badly.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to have sex badley but I not sure if I should do it my boy friend is 16 and im 12 he calls every night tells me come over i am ready. (Moderator Note: purposefully left without corrections)... (41 words)

It's bothering me that my boyfriend told me that about a year ago, he wanted write another girl's name on his crotch.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend (of over a year) told me early in our relationship that a year or 2 ago he thought this one girl was "hot" and attempted to write her name on him er -down there. At the time I didn't really think about it but I recently remembered it and it's really bothering me ... (66 words)

Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?... (15 words)

Is there any hope of me and my girlfriend getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age - Is there any hope of me and my girlfriend getting back together? I have been living with my girlfriend for 4 years now and we have a beautiful wee girl aged 2 . About 6 weeks ago she came in and announced - Ive something to tell you - Im moving out. Straight out of the blue... (267 words)

Did he do the right thing or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and Thisby are going out but he cheated on me and i find it hard to deal with and today we made up and my mates dared us to snog. The furthest i ever got was a quick peck so it was a big deal so i said ok but he opened his mouth. Did he do the right thing or what? ... (94 words)

My question is, am I wrong for wanting him to break off his friendship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m a gay man. My boyfriend went out with his best friend in April. His best friend brought along her EX boyfriend. They went to a straight strip club and then to the bar after words. When they got into the car to go home, his best friend and her ex were getting freaky in ... (263 words)

I don't want to get my hopes up but its too late, I already have now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so this lad I've been asking questions about [http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-lied-to-him-about-an-abortion-he.html] I went to a party with him the other day and we kissed again for ages, thing is I was really drunk, but he wasn't. I just felt so safe with him, we ... (172 words)

Been in touch with a guy on the internet and after week hes' told me he loves me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi evry body i have just know a boy from internet and after a week he told me that he love me shod i bleave him or not ?... (31 words)

What should I do? I mean he say he will visit often but i'm affraid of losing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex bf and I want to be together but it's hard me for me to trust him because everytime we get close, he breaks up with me, but he said this time its going to be different because he wants to be with me forever. It's hard for me to trust him since he is going off to school i... (82 words)

Is there any operation or medicine to get virginity back in pakistan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is there any operation or medicine to get virginity back in pakistan ... (12 words)

I want to know what steps we, or I, can take to start getting things back on track.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for eight months but I have known her for six years. We moved in with each other about three months ago. I had to quit my job and give up my car to move here because of the different laws in this state. I am still looking for a new job. Well ... (137 words)

It's our anniversary next Saturday, what can I do to get her in the mood and have the best night of her life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my wife are both happily married and been together since we were 16 and always had a good sex life. It's just we really want to try new things like new places to do it that are more exciting and more passionate and romantic. I want this to bring us alot closer any ... (97 words)

My ex and I both have significant others but we still love each other and want to be together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I both have significant others but we still love each other and want to be together. You know the saying "Let him go and if he comes back then its meant to be but if he doesn't then he was never your's to begin with" Well that's true we broke up and for a long period ... (133 words)

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?... (48 words)

Told my friends I'm a virgin and it seems all they want to talk about now is sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I feeling a bit let down by friends right now. A few days ago i told my friends i was a virgin (I'm 19). It's something i dont have a problem with and im quite proud of myself for not sleeping around and having one night stands. I feel like there totally judging me ... (98 words)

I am a married man of 18 months but recently i have been having wild dreams and fantasies about a collegue at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hiya please can you help and give me advice as to what to do. I am a married man of 18 months but recently i have been having wild dreams and fantasies about a collegue at work, she is nearly 50 and married but is really gorgeous and kind, i so want to tell her i fancy her but ... (151 words)

How can we make things more interesting in the bedroom without having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend dont have sex but do pretty much everything else. Is there anything that we could do to give the bedroom more flavour without actually having sexual intercourse. we have already had anal and fingering and oral and all that is there anything else we can do? ... (54 words)

We broke up and she says she needs space and that I shouldn't contact her... It all happened so quickly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I know this is a typical question but her goes. I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago, it was the day before she was to fly home for the summer holidays - we have just graduated from uni. The night before she was due to fly she told me she needed space and promised she t... (307 words)

I came across some naked pictures of him that he had sent to his soon to be ex-wife

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. I am recently divorced and he is in the middle of a divorce. I was looking through his cell phone the other day (I know bad me..) and I came across some naked pictures of him that he had sent to his soon to be ex-wife. These ... (201 words)

I'm so mad at my gf's ex for what he did to her!! How can I control my anger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there .. ive been with my gf for about 4 months now .. and i just realized that a former bf of hers who i know quite well and have never really liked him.. used her and im REALLY mad because she seemed really upset .. and im jus really mad at him and i want to 'kill' him .. ... (66 words)

Questions about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a very silly question. In fact will be asking more than one, even perhaps lack of sexual knowledge. 1.If someone has an Std, or HIV, can someone get infected by kissing passionately? 2.Is the only way to get a STD thru unprotected sex? What if two guys who are nake... (201 words)

Is there a possibility that he likes me for more than a sex buddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a little background to bring understanding to my situation. Five years a go I met this guy, I will call "Tony" we messed around for a summer and then I went off to school. We never spoke after that until a month ago when we saw each other at a local bar. We started ... (388 words)

My ex and I want to get back together but doesn't want me to continue a relationship with my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 38 and gay, and have been with my partner (who is 21) for nearly 3 years. We recently had broken up for about a month or so, and in that month I met someone else who I consider a friend. We did hook up once during that month but now my partner and I have decided to get back ... (261 words)

I have a strange anxiety about staying clean and committed to the girl i am going to get engaged to soon.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I have a strange anxiety about staying clean and committed to the girl i am going to get engaged soon. I am restricting myself to much to the extent that i feel i have nothing to look forward in my life. The feelings of guilt overwhelm me when even looking at someone other than ... (100 words)

The problems with my ex and having access to our child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6372 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I have an agreement regarding his access to our little boy who is almost 3. He asks for more and more but when I try to reach a compromise with him I get it thrown back at me and when we do reach an agreement he doesn't seem to bother with it. Just wondering what ... (460 words)

I've got really bad period cramps? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! its me again! i need advice, wats the best cure for stomach cramps? i'm on my period and my stomach really kills, i know this is silly but i'm too embarressed to ask my friends thnx H:)... (43 words)

I've given the father of my baby so many chances I'm beginning to feel it's time to just give up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've given the father of my baby so many chances I'm beginning to feel it's time to just give up. I have never prevented him from seeing our son. Even when he has asked for more contact I have tried to be accommodating but then been accused of not wanting to spend time with ... (380 words)

We've been together for 2 years and I've never met his mother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with this guy for 2 years, We have fallen in love with each other. I see him almost everyday and pretty much his coworkers and some friends know about us, my friends do too. but I noticed in the past when we were just friends how he would bring every girl home to ... (126 words)

My cousin and I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'll use other names for this - but I met bonnie 27 (I'll be clyde) a first cousin Ive known all my life and not seen much, but in the past year we have grown so very close as her boy friend is always away and never wants to do anything or go anywhere but everythi... (654 words)

I told my bf that I started thinking he was being unfaithful and it led to an argument! Now he's been avoiding me a bit. How do I get our relationship back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend about 2 years ago online. Our relationship has been going well but soon I started to think he was cheating on me. Then just yesterday told him about it and the next thing you know we were in a bit of an argument. Now he has been avoiding me a bit and he ... (105 words)

We split so he could get back together w/ his ex for the sake of their children. He doesn't even love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

- Hi Here is an update on my probs My bf of a year split up with me three weeks ago Im finding this very hard as i loved him so much and he is the greatest man iv ever met Thing is he is in the army and based on the opposit end of the country from his ex and kids He only get... (438 words)

My gf is two months late so she took a pregnancy test. It came up negative! Are blood tests not that accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6368 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi to all... im an 18 yr old male who's gf is 2 months late already. We took a blood test to see if she's pregnant, but it came out negative. Is there something wrong or could it be that blood tests are not that accurate? Thanks... (47 words)

My ex treated me like crap, so I broke up with him. Now he's decided to not speak with me, so how can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, i've been with my bf for 7 months now and i love him so much. however at the beginning he treated me bad, talking to his ex, wouldn't introduce me to his parents. we had a massive argument at the weekend because his friends think he treats me like crap. He never calls ... (131 words)

My twin brother's female friend is staying with us for a week and I think my gf is jealous! Her attitude and constant questioning is hurting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M) - Im a little confused with my girlfriends behaviour. At the moment my twin brother has a french friend (Girl) over to stay for just over a week and I can quite clearly see my girlfriend is not at all happy or a bit jelous. She has been acting more insecure and smothering me more ... (280 words)

He wrote a love letter to his ex, told a friend he wished he could see her "hot friend," and more! I'm jealous and insecure - am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help . . . I have been in my relationship for a year and my boyfriend continued to write to his ex girlfriend in Germany. I found one letter (it was not hidden) and it was basically confessing his undying love for her (he has not done that to me). I finished our rel... (279 words)

He wants to take us to the next level by having me meet his parents! I'm scared! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi thanks for your advice and it helped a lot, my boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level, he wants me to meet the parents, i'm scared what do i do? i've been putting him off for so long is this guy serious about us?... (48 words)

He's been phoning prostitutes but says he wouldn't meet them, it just gives him a thrill... is this acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently discovered that my partner has been phoning prostitutes and asking them what they offer. I inadvertently found that he had been looking at websites for local massage parlours on his PC and so checked his phone, and he had a number for a prostitute saved to his phone, ... (134 words)

My husband refuses to kiss me on the lips! When I try, he turns his head. Is he losing interest in our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've been married for nearly two years and have given birth to a beautiful baby boy 6 mths ago. Recently, my husband has been refusing to kiss me on my lips. Our sex life hasn't decreased but he will not touch my lips. Everytime I try, he turns his head and kisses ... (104 words)

How do I get over past mistakes made by my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I get over past mistakes made by my wife? Here's the story. When we first got together, it was over the internet while playing an online game. We were both married to others at the time, and both couples spent time together on this game. Fastfoward a few years. I ... (470 words)

My gf checks out her ex's web profile pics and ebay account! She says she's just "letting go" - should I believe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have dated a woman, age 28 for the past 10 months. We moved in together in March. Before this, she had another boyfriend in another city whom she kept in touch with until we 'fell in-love" I was told that there was no communication after we moved in, however, I discover... (102 words)

I want to get back together with my ex - should I wait until after summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

- hey i posted a question a while ago.. saying i wanted to get back with my ex, and now it's summer and its hard to get close as friends with him, and also he is leaving for italy with his parents for part of the summer. I dont think he wants a girlfriend right now because alot ... (133 words)

I think I like my best friend more than a friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am a fourteen years old boy I have a best friend who is a 13 year old girl but we go to diferent schools and she has a boyfriend there or so she tells me but i think i like her more then a friend what do i do... (51 words)

Why is it so hard for me ( a girl) to keep female friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it so hard for me (a girl) to keep female friends? I seem to be able to have close bonds with men, but not with women. I do have girl friends but they never seem to last for very long. Is this common? I just don't know what I'm doing wrong.... (57 words)

I fell in love with my bf because of his personality. Even though I feel guilty afterwards, is it okay to notice and flirt w/ others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to notice other guys when I'm out with my boyfriend or just by myself? I think he's beautiful in his own way but not attractive in the "standard" sense of what you see in the media so I feel guilty when I notice guys that don't look like him. I fell in love with ... (124 words)

When we have sex, I think he's thinking about someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

9 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im scared that when my bf and i have sex that he is thinkin of some one else because i just caught him looking at porn yesterday and now it bothers me to be around him andi feel as if he is going to cheat on me what should i do?... (51 words)

I need closure from my last relationship, but my ex still refuses to speak w/ me even after 15 years! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

9 July 2007 (M)

age - I'm in a happy long term relationship of over 15 years. My problem is that I had one previous serious relationship of 5 years when I was at college. It ended very badly and caused me much pain. I don't think I have ever fully got over it, partly because my partner left me very ... (400 words)

He's drinking heavily due to his sons leaving. Should I leave him?

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9 July 2007 (F)

- Ok, got together with a guy,but he's got problems! His young sons been taken to live in europe this week and he's a drinker..... i know he likes me alot and me him. I dont know if i can cope with him drinking and showing up at my place hammered. Ide like to support him as I ... (129 words)

Female in love with female. Need some advice on why after I told my best friend that I loved her she denied it, but she would continue to flirt.

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9 July 2007 (?)

- Female in love with female. Need some advice on why after I told my best friend that I loved her she denied it, would she continue to flirt. She refers to me as "Kimmers" just so you know. She is unhappily married and I don't need a lecture on that please. I told her how I felt ... (238 words)

I've just broken up with a player, I'm not devastated and I didn't love the bloke, but I soooooo want to teach him a lesson!

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9 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok ok, for starters I don't want do gooders here! I don't want comments or advice from people who think I'm sad and bitter and I should move on and forget and forgive ok? I've just broken up with a player, I'm not devastated and I didn't love the bloke, but I soooooo want to ... (169 words)

How can I make my mum and dad approve of my boyfriend and allow us to marry?

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9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes I am 16 years old and my fiance is 20 years old we are now 9 weeks pregnant and we have been together for a while, I was 15 when we got together and I'm about to be 17 in September. I want to marry him but my parents hate him and don't want me even talking to him ... (261 words)

Do you think this is a sign that I could possibly be pregnant?

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9 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for about a year and a month now, were getting married in two months. I've known him for over two years now and all is well but we want a child even thow we're young, were not as young as some couples with children we know. He's busy with ... (236 words)