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writes:I need major help!!! My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him..... days before my friend told him not to listen to her and he did! Now he won't answer my phone calls or emails, I am speechless and I never thought he would do this!!! I even acted like an unknown person we named Hailey and called him and all he said was "I don't know..." and "ok" and later we called him and his sister answered and she yelled "Retard!!!" and you could hear him in the backround say, "I'm not here!" and now I don't know what to do! I need advice badly!!Sincerally, Empty Girl.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (19 July 2007):
I agree with the others. She wants you for herself. She is also no friend to you. Friends don't tell lies to ruin relationships. The letter idea is a good one - there is no reason why your boyfriend and his sister should be left to believe lies about you. But I also agree that you should then leave him alone. He should have asked you whether the story was true, not just beleived it straight off. You are better off without him.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 My guess is that your lesbian friends wants you for herself, and probably told him worse stuff than you hate him. Maybe he assumes you are lesbian too.
Calling his house as "Hailey" did not make you look good (I assume this is what you meant, your email is not that clear).
My suggestion is to walk away from this. If he is going to beleive someone else, and not check in with you, then he is a loser who will abandon you easily. Send him a letter just to set the record straight, do not get into your relationship issues. Cut ties with your lesbian "friend" before she sabotages you again.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, saphira  +, writes (19 July 2007):
I know this may sound wierd but did you ever think there may be a reason that your friend who turns out to be a lesbian may have done this?There is one main reason that springs to mind and that is she wants you all to her self. Though you may not be interested it won't stop her trying to split you and any boyfriend you get up. Sorry if this doesn't say all you wanted to hear, but i hope you realise that anything is possible, either that or one of her friends cooked the plan up to get with you boyfriend. EITHER WAY WATCH YOUR BACK
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