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30-35,
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writes:ok, I just broke up with my girlfriend and I found I'm more interested in my best friend than girls, but I still like both so im probably bi... anyway I think my friend may also like me, but I'm not sure... he sometimes will sort of hit on me a little then play it out like nothing happened and one time we were both at another friend's house and I was sitting on the other friend's bed and my best friend tackled me and we rolled around in the bed but he treated it like a joke... so does he like me? How can I tell him I like him? He's coming over to my house this weekend to hangout and spend the night, what should I do?
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (18 July 2007):
 You're experimenting to find yourself, and he probably is too. Dont rush into things as you'll never know if he really likes you that way. You dont wanna ruin the great friendship you already have just because of something you wish he is. A sure way to go about things would be to let him make the first moves and then take it from there. What you can do is to be a flirt, and see how he reacts. If you get a positive reaction, up your flirting a notch and then see how he reacts to it. Just repeat this till he gets the hint and if he's interested in you the way you him, trust me, you'll know by then! But make sure you start off with mild flirtations, and over time, up them when theres a chance to. But do bear this in mind, he might just like you as a platonic friend and he probably isnt gay/bi to begin with so whatever you do, be cautious.
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