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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What symptoms of pregnancy are there besides weight gain and missing periods?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, just a quick question what are the symptoms of pregnancy? Not like missed period or gaining weight i mean other symptoms before you know.... (26 words)

Fallen for boy on msn but what about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This might seem silly, but at the start me and my boyfriend split up, but promised to get back together when we was sorted. But during the break i started talkin to a guy on msn and we hit it off. We got on amazingly and i fell for him. But i never mentioned annthing about the ... (125 words)

I'm worried that I'll become bored with my marriage; can anyone give me hope about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Are there any married couples out there that don't find their relationships boring? And if so, how many years have you been together? I've been married once, and boredom set in rather quickly. I'm heading down the isle with #2 pretty soon, and I have so many fears that once ... (109 words)

Thoughts on Love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - 22/07/07 Dear Friends, Today I woke up with an empty sensation that cut through my soul and drained the life out of me. I felt exhausted and drained had to stop and think. What have I done lately for happiness, what have I done just because I wanted or by instinct... (564 words)

My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. My problem is that when we ... (146 words)

I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?... (48 words)

My fiance isn't a virgin but wants to wait til we're married to have sex; I can't wait that long!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my fiance, who i have been with for a year, wants to wait until we are married to make love to me. the problem is that she is not a virgin and i feel like she is being unfair and that she doesnt love me as much as her ex who she did make love to. what should i do? its killi... (113 words)

She says she's not "in love" with her boyfriend, and yet she won't leave him for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! Im in a lil dilemma at the mo. I have gotten into a messy relationship wiv a girl who is in a relationship already. Prob is she was just going about her life and maybe thought that was it for her and she would settle for her less than perfect relationship as shes just ... (716 words)

He broke my heart once, should I take him back now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This Boy who i realy like broke up with me a year ago and now to go out with me again. He broke my heart so bad but shall i get back together with him or not. I asked him if he would again but he answed no i've changed. ... (50 words)

I still like my ex-girlfriend, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I recently went on a trip with about 30 friends. My last 4 girlfriends were there but i havent spoken to two of them in years, the other one was my best mate but things just didnt work out and we had a messy breakup but the other one I always have gotten on with she was my ... (238 words)

He has a lot on his plate and says he can't date at the moment but I really like him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi How can I tell if a guy is still interested in me ? I went on a couple of dates with a really nice guy, on the 1st date he bought me a present, which was lovely. The next day he said he could'nt see me anymore and left it at that. The next day he sent me an apologetic text... (230 words)

How can I convince him I'm not going to cheat on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

27 July 2007 (?) age 36-40 - Trust issues with my BF: Ok, so we've been together for 11 months. I'm 18, he's 22. He's my first BF, and I'm the first girl he has lasted so long with in a relationship. One of his exes cheated on him with one of his friends. His father abandoned him when he was a baby. So... (359 words)

Why do I always fear that I'm going to lose those I care about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - why do i always feel like i'm going to loose all the people around me ? i did loose previously alot of close frineds but the thing is i'm tired of this fear that eventually i'd be loosing everything in my life... so any ideas how to fix this ? for instance i feel as if me and m... (77 words)

I cheated on my fiance and his sister wants to beat me up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just recently told my fiance that i cheated on him..he told his sister and now she wants to beat me up..shes 10 years older than me and im scared.what do i do?... (34 words)

How should I approach getting more physical with my girlfriend without risking causing distance between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What I'm wondering is how I should approach getting more physical with my girlfriend. She seems only to follow my lead in nearly everything. Which can be bad, because I'm hesitant to try certain things with her for fear of being turned down. At least, that's the only reason I ... (142 words)

I''m dating a guy as a result of a drunken fumble but I still like my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im confused! ive been with my current boyfriend for nearly 3months now. the reason i eneded up going out with him was through a drunken fumble one night and cheated on my old boyfriend. but i think i still like my old boyfriend, i cant stop what i feel for him and i know he ... (83 words)

When I e-mailed the guy I like and didn't get a reply, he said a while later that he forgotten. Does that mean he's not interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - An update on my situation...I have been friends with this guy for three years now, and when I left school he gave me his email address and told me that he would like us to remain friends. I emailed him about a month ago and he replied a few days later with enthusiasm and ... (285 words)

My ex left me and I lost my virginity to another girl; my ex is now back on the scene. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old, and I am going nuts now. My first ex left me for Bible college (pastor's daughter) and we never spoke for about a year, then I started dating this other girl, for almost 2 years and we lost our virginity to each other about a year in (myself at 19), and then... (112 words)

My religious boyfriend knew I wasn't a virgin when he asked me out but now, he has a problem with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. He's very religious and is against premarital sex, but knew I was NOT a virgin when he asked me out. So far we've had a great relationship, but all of a sudden now he's upset over the fact that I've had sex with two ... (102 words)

How do I tell if my crush likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - how can i tell if my crush might be interested in me?shes twelve if that might help on finding out i have some clues like befor summer break she just out of no were hugged me but when i gave her my email she never emailed me how do i know if she likes me?... (55 words)

I ended it without good reason and I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy for a month before but it ended because of something my 'friend' told me that i thought was true. I still like him though but i don't know what to do because he likes someone else now and it feels odd. I feel stupid, as it ended a few months ago. ... (70 words)

He's been uploading pictures of his genitals to the internet and won't stop

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband hasn't been wanting sex much recently, and I feel disappointed. But today when he was at work I found out the reason.. he'd been uploading images of his penis and pictures of him in the nude to Wikipedia and adding them to articles on the site! (he'd left the hist... (142 words)

In a relationship, what do guys like and not like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone tell me, what do guys want out of a relationship? do they like to be kissed alot? do they sometimes just want to be left alone? how do they like their girl to act? and what do guys not like? ... (42 words)

Was I in the wrong, or is he being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some boyfriend advise. Well Today is my boyfriend's Nieces B-day, a few days ago we talked about carpooling to her party together. Well Last night he said that he was leaving to go to her house right from work. Well I didnt understand how we could carpool ... (313 words)

My girlfriend doesn't flirt in person but does online and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly 6months and i love her but she seems to flirt with other guys online but not in person... i do trust her but she does it excessively and she constantly jokes about cheating on me with them, this makes me feel really ... (88 words)

He gets freaked when I discuss emotional issues with him! Why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he asked me a question that led to me talking about some pretty emotional things, like abandonment issues, my worries and fears. The next night he told me he had been thinking about it all night and day, then ... (136 words)

I'm 14, 8 months pregnant, the father of this baby has left me! So many problems..I need advice badly!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so im 14 8 months pregnant and for the first time im doubting if i want this baby, my ex who i was with for a year and 6months well he left me, spread lies about me denied he was the dad then refuses to speak to me, hes making it so hard, half of my friends arnt my frien... (192 words)

Three kids and marriage and I feel the romance is dead! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 26 yrs old i have been with my husband going on 8 yrs and married barely 1 yr. i don't know what is going on, i know i love him but i am not happy at all. I wish i could say i was but i can't we have 3 young children (3, 4 , 5 yrs old). we spend no time together, and when ... (165 words)

Why won't my boobs grow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - It is almost August 2007 and I have had my period since Febuary, i was lucky i just got it in grade 10. But it has been almost 7 months after i got my 1st period and my boobs are still the same size??? when will I grow!!!What can i do to help them without gaining weight???:( i ... (62 words)

I want to be the one who teaches my 13 year old cousin about sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin is 13 and when i was young, i kind of explored in her vagina. i didn't know what i was doing. is it ok to teach her things about sex and what to do in a situation where she wants to have sex? i want to be the one to teach her what to do in this situation. ... (63 words)

When my boyfriend touches me I feel like I am going to explode

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey.. soemthings wrong otherwise I wouldnt be here right! Well when my boyfriend touches me down below..i feel all tense and like im going to explode that i had to stop him which obviously he aint happy with, but its like my legs are going all over the place and i feel ... (76 words)

I am attracted to a colleague!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a relationship with someone I love very much, but in the course of the last year I have become tremendously attracted to a colleague at work. It is like a kind of recurrent malaria of the heart, in that it flares up for periods then dies down, but never really goes ... (98 words)

He wants to stop using protection. Does that mean he wants a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The other night me and my guy for about 2 yrs had unprotected sex and he always use to want to use protection because he said he didnt want to have another kid right now. Now he is saying if it happens it happens we will deal with it. What should I think. Should I think that he ... (92 words)

How can I start a conversation without letting him know I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need help there is this guy who works somewhere in my local town his name is liam. even though i know his name i don't know him, and i'm really starting to fancy him. how can i start a conversation with him without letting on that i like him ?... (52 words)

My husband and I divorced 7 years ago, and I dont want him back. Why am I sad he is dating then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known my husband for 20 years and we have 2 kids. We split up 7 years ago but have remained very close - even sleeping together from time to time. Since we split up neither of us has been out with anyone else - until last week when he told me that he had started seeing ... (96 words)

His family forced him to divorce me and now he regrets it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got divorced after being with my husband for 12 years and we have 2 daughters. The oldest is mine as it is not his child, we only had 1 child married. My problem and question is this.We were having problems in our marriage and just fell apart, we relocated to GA to ... (240 words)

Some questions about the contraceptive pill

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if I am on the pill is it safe to have sex unprotected and I mean with the same person all the time? Would there be any chance of getting pregnant? How long after I am off the pill would it take to get pregnant? Just wondering with all of this.... (54 words)

This guy I like, kisses his girlfriend and then looks at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have two questions. first of all. this guy im starting to like. he keeps lookhng at we. we never talked to me. he has a gf. but she iritates him coz shes loud ,always yelling. he kisses her and then look at me. whats the chances of him liking me? and second question. is it ... (66 words)

Urgh! I think I messed up! I asked to see her and she said no. Now I have lost any control I had!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. (I posted this on my latest question, but have decided to *bump it up* so to speak by putting it in the form of a new question) Just wanted to update you all to say, I think I've let you all, and myself down. Last night, my ex came online via MSN which took m... (426 words)

Our life has gotton so routine and boring!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together 7 months and im getting a bit bothered by the fact that it has gotten so routine. We do the same thing week in week out and it gets a bit boring because he never does anything spontaneous. Were both 21. I never see him on a Monday or Thursday (he ... (408 words)

My ex wont even talk to me and I just want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex of 5 years almost 6 months ago.. I still love him but it was a bitter ending and he won't speak to me anymore. He always told me no matter what happened he would always be there for me if i needed to talk and that no one would ever stop him talking to ... (136 words)

I saw a suspicious message on my wife's phone but she swears there's nothing in it; how can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, i've never doubted her ... (178 words)

Any tips on how I can be better at sex on top!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy am with and I enjoy sex and we try a lot of different things and it is really good, but he wants me to be on top. I have no problem with this and I have tried, but I am doing something wrong. I feel like I don't have good rhythm, and he keeps slipping out. I ... (159 words)

Whats supposed to happen and how will it feel when I orgasm ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Helloo.. well this is a bit of an embarrassing question. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now and we have recently started sleeping together. I can make him "come" but I dont seem to myself..this is the embarrassing bit i dont know what im supposed to feel ... (95 words)

How long does it take for the womens egg to travel down the fallopian tube

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Pregnancy Question: How long does it take for the womens egg to travel down the fallopian tube?... (20 words)

She believed I was having an affair and we split.. I am devastated! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - We were together and in love for 5 years and had decided to get married. We arranged everything including the airline tickets for her family to fly in from Brazil. However in the last year of our relationship she gradually became more suspicious of me and actually believed that ... (205 words)

Hes cheating with me, but wants to wait for his relationship to end naturally, How can I feel more at ease about this ??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - About three months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up, and a man that I had known and loved for five years (but never pursued it or said anything to anyone as he is attached and 18 years older) kissed me. Since then we have been seeing each other on and off, always very awar... (290 words)

Im falling for my best friend, but feel I'm too young for these feeling, what should I do ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm Falling For My Bestfriend and i know she has fellings for me....Last friday we had a pillow fight (like normal) she was dead hyper and so was i she kept pushing me on top of her...I felt strange and she keeps telling me she loves me...I think im too young to have these ... (62 words)

My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but my wife never asks how they ... (70 words)

Its 7 years on and Im still thinking about her, do I tell her and risk the friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 24 years old and have been friends with this girl since high school. We both kind of mentioned to each other back in high school how we liked each other, but she had a boyfriend at the time so nothing ever came of it. Flash forward 7 years and I still cannot stop thinking ... (161 words)

How can I find out if my sisters friend likes me, without letting on I like him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi their i have a small problem that im not sure on how to tackle..my sister has this guy friend who is 5 years older than me and i like him hes cute funny and lovely personality and very shy..weve spoken a few times played paintball and stuff see him now and again.. i never ... (108 words)

What if I was ready to have sex with him and didnt know it ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Recently I met this guy who I liked immediately and who seemed to like me too. So when I went to his place, we started making out and he wanted to go further but I said no. Mainly because I thought that I wasn't ready yet and I didn't want my first time to be ba... (89 words)

Are there any products that are edible for a woman to enhance oral sex with a guy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - does anyone know of an oil or lotion thats edible to use to enhance giving a guy oral sex, want to supprise him and do something diferent but all that type of thing seem made for women, cant seem to find anything for a man... (45 words)

We've been together a year and I'm too shy to talk about sex, any tips ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, our relationship is great but when we talk about our sex life i get shy. this is a bit of a problem because i would like us to try sumthing different altho i dont know what. can anyone help me? how do i tell him this ?... (60 words)

I want to get over someone that I was'nt really with, but care for, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

- i in the middle of trying to get over some one who i was not with but some one i really liked, but now hes got a new girlfriend. i have such low self esteem at the moment which doesnt really help but i was wondering if anyone has any tips to share to help me get over him? xx... (60 words)

He said hes not over his ex so we broke up, what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone - I was in a relationship with a guy for a month he had been chasing me for 4 months but i wasnt sure as didnt think a guy could like me that much....!! We started seeing each other and would make sure to meet me 2 or 3 times a week and was really nice to me but he ... (227 words)

We want a secret marriage, hes 21 I'm 18 is this okay ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i want to have a secret marriage..without the knowledge of anyone..im only 18 years old ang my boyfriend is 21 year old.. do you think its ok???... (30 words)

I dont want to break up with my girl to date the other, but know it wont last in my current relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I Have an amazing girlfriend and i love her. But before I started dating her i met another girl. I cant get her out of my mind and she is truly everything in a girl i could ever want. I never asked her out because she had a Boyfriend. But they broke up a little while ago and we ... (106 words)

Shes been calling her cousin, I told her to leave she did, is she just infatuated!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - me and my girlfrien were together for two years and living together. Since she went to family together she met her cousins when she was little. My girlfriend told me that she nobody else but him. I didn;t think any of it. A month past and she started to call'me less on my c... (573 words)

Stuck in a relationship I dont want as I was afraid to say no!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Heylo. I really need advice about a relationship that I was forced into...sort of. Theirs this girl who I like. She's nice and everything, however I don't see her as being my girlfriend, and I'm not very attracted to her at all. Her friend encouraged her into asking me out, and ... (112 words)

The night we announced our engagement he went and saw a hooker!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my partner and i have been together for 3 years we recently got engaged and today i found out that he went to a hooker the same night we told our friends and family the news.whats even worse is that the same day he got the hooker was the day we got the ring. i cant wear ... (93 words)

I love him but part of me wants to break up with him as his parents dont like me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I found out that my boyfriend's parents... have discontempt for me. His mother told him "she's not good enough for you" and his father, on no real basis, thinks I'm a "druggie". Which I am not, just to state. I don't understand what I did wrong... I've been nothing ... (94 words)

Still in turmoil over my ex, I want to date her, but dont think shes ready, but I cant let go!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6355 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble dealing with my ex-gf -- we had dated for a short while, wasn't too much into each other, then broke up when it was time to graduate from school and we had moved to different places. We have a somewhat odd relationship with each other...we are similar to ... (527 words)

Is there any way that I could still get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I went on the pill three days after my period started and was told that this would make it work straight away. I was also told to use condoms for at least 7 days, just in case. I waited 8 days after going on the pill and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex.... (101 words)

Do I ditch the guy thats cheating on me with my best friend, even though I've been dying to date him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - o.k well see,i found out my boyfriend iz cheating on me with my bestfriend!!!!!how do i kno?becuz not only did my friend tell that she saw them kissing and hugging n the movies,but hiz friend told me the same thang 2!!!! i kno it's tru cuz they were n da same movie wit them,and ... (128 words)

Do I ignore what the world thinks and do what my heart says?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently ran into my ex. We hit it off, and we started hangin out again. I strongly believe that she is an amazing person, but my family and friends think otherwise because we had a rough going of separate ways. The world truly is against us working out, but I feel as ... (82 words)

I keep hearing the same promises from my husband, but they never follow through!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've been with my husband for 10 years; we've always had our problems like every other couple. But the last two years have been hell. Both for myself and my children. Well i've told my husband that I'm through with this relationship and am ready to leave; he's said he ... (208 words)

What is the best and safest way to start dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a dating dilemma i 26 years old and i have decided to start dating . should i try on line dating or go to a matchmaking service in my city ? which is safer and are they good ?... (41 words)

I lost my virginity to him. I don't know how to get over him :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im 14 years old and me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. i lost my virginity to him. and now hes dating one of my best friends which is really hard all i ever do is cry over him. what is the best way for me to get over him?... (54 words)

Why is my ex-boyfriend always on the phone?!

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He still comes over to my house and we still mess around sexually. but everytime i call him he is on the phone. he always says he is talkin to one of his guy friends. when he gets off the phone to "go to sleep" I can ... (83 words)

Is 2.5 weeks enough time for the pill to take effect?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been on the pill for 2 1/2 weeks now. today my boyfriend and i had sex without a condom. im using the YAZ pill. is there a significant chance i could get pregnant or am i considered safe within the 99% effectiveness rating? is 2 1/2 weeks sufficient for the pill to take ... (110 words)

Why am I so moody, and how do I stop it? I'm scared of losing my boyfriend!

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27 July 2007 (F)

- I seem to get upset about every little thing, especially when it comes to my boyfriend of 6 months. I'm super sensitive to everything! I don't know what to do, because my bf is getting quite sick of me being upset/moody all the time. I never used to be like this, but for the ... (189 words)

Is this normal? Am I still a virgin?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i have a question... today, my boyfriend and I were just watching tv. then, things led to another, and he started fingering me. im a virgin, so it hurt, and felt good at the same time. then, when everything was done i realized i was bleeding. it that normal? how long will ... (84 words)

My boss and I slept together, and now I don't know what he's thinking!

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh God.. I dont know where to start... I been working with this guy for about for years. He is my boss. He is pretty hot and he knows it. He is married too. Well... I never really considered the posibility that he may be attracted to me. Well... I dont know how... but a few ... (252 words)

How do I break up with someone I care about?

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there any advise out there on how to breakup with someone? I know that i should break up with a person i've been dating for quite sometime, but i still really care for her and the idea of hurting her pains me. Of course i'm sure we'll both be hurt by the experience, ... (78 words)

I love her, but I'm not in love. Should I stay, or should I end it with her?

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with a very sweet woman for almost 2 years now. It's the same old cliche: I love her but I'm not "in love" with her. I care for her very much, but i've never felt "in love" with her or felt any deep passion for this relationship. Of course i th... (249 words)

She slept with someone else before we started dating, but I can't get it off my mind!

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my story. Back in September when I started college I met this girl- a roommate of my close friend. At the beginning I didnt think she liked me and I have been going through life without paying attention to crushes, nor was I in a hurry to start dating and all that jazz. ... (322 words)

I feel always inadequate around my well-dressed friend! How should I deal?

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27 July 2007 (F)

- Hi! I'd really appreciate it if someone could help me out with this little problem I have. There's this girl..she's my bf's close friend's gf and I have got to know her kinda well because she helped me get through a tough time last week and I'm really making an effort to get ... (532 words)

I still love my ex-boyfriend. What should I do?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - About 4 months ago now I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months because I couldn't deal with the stress going on in his/our lives. He had gotten a girl pregnant before he met me and although I knew about it the whole time, it didn't become real to me until it was about due. ... (112 words)

I have a great boyfriend, but I really like my friend!

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have a bit of a problem. I am in a relationship, and to tell the truth, I am loving it. My boyfriend seems to be the perfect guy for me, and all my friends think we're going to be engaged by the end of high school. He's sweet, honest with me, surprises me wit... (395 words)

I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and giving oral sex to each other. I ... (155 words)

Anyway if I start online dating which are the best ones and is it ok to tell them that I am a virgin?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old virgin female not sure about online dating. Is it ok? Though I am trying to finish college I decided not to start dating until I am 25 or 26, however not only did my mother tell me not to date during junior high and high school and college, no boys or men ... (86 words)

I want to ask her out, only problem is I fear her rejection...

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27 July 2007 (M) - I'm 17 and there is a girl who I like, 2 years younger. My famly don't like her, and I personally used to hate her, and she like wise, yet the other day when I saw her, I just longed for her. We only talked for a minute but we had matured. I want to ask her out, only problem is ... (82 words)

I think he prefers this new "friend" to me...

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - First off I'm gay and I have a boyfriend that I love very much, he just met this guy that he works with and he told me that he liked him and he liked him back, and he said that it will stay a friendship and he recently started to hang out with him. I'm so hurt right now and I ... (86 words)

My girlfriend has a fetish of another guy eating out her bush while I watch.

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has a fetish of another guy eating out her bush while I watch. She wants me to go down on her friend while she watches. I don't mind watching another guy going down on my girl but the question I have is should I let one of my friends do it or just have her pick ... (70 words)

How do I lower my expectations and be more realistic about life?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My expectations of life have always been quite high, ie I have always assumed things would be perfect and everything would turn out well in the end etc etc. ( like a film) However this has meant that life has let me down a lot. Nothing has ever gone how I thought or wanted it ... (107 words)

What can I do to get him back after breaking the trust more than once?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend just recently found out that I was still communicating with an ex I dated years ago. There is nothing between us but I promised not to keep contact with him more than once and this was the final straw. My boyfriend says he can't trust me so the relationship is ... (95 words)

I walked out of his home two weeks ago after he said he didn't want a dead relationship and he hasn't made any contact... do I ring him???

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27 July 2007 (F)

age - I believe my relationship of 8 years is over. The past 2 years haven't been too good for either of us due to my belief that he was seeing someone else. I'm sure he had a fling but he made a lot of effort to keep us together. Alas my trust was not as it was and it's ruined ... (95 words)

When I was drunk she kissed me on the cheek about 3 times and asked me if I liked it? Do you think she likes me or am I just being paranoid ?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well I'm a girl and I love a girl, I've never felt attracted to the same sex before. She talks to me about liking these lads but when we walk down the road she will hold my hand, seems like nothing but she stops half way down the street and we just stand there hugging. When ... (92 words)

I know I should have gone to the police but I couldn't. I felt so ashamed, and feel it's my fault for being drunk.

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I would just like some advice if possible. I went on holiday for 2 weeks with my sister. The first night wewere out there we went out and had a few too many,(it was actually the only night we got drunk, other nights just merry). We have been going to this place for over ... (342 words)

If a member of your own family (male) steals your clothes and shoes and cuts them up so he can wear them, is he gay?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - If a member of your own family (male) steals your clothes and shoes and cuts them up so he can wear them, is he gay? or whats wrong? please help... (30 words)

I really just want things back how they were before, and really miss her, if I'm honest.

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27 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a problem, I'd really like your help with. Basically, I've just turned 18, but am quite immature (I suppose) for my age. Anyway, I work with this 15 year old girl, and we got on really well ever since I met her. She liked me (in that way), but I virtually r... (384 words)

Should I tell him that I like him? Is there any way to find out if he likes me?

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27 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy that I like and we are both 12. I'm not sure if he likes me or not and we are both in the same class. I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him because I might switch schools next year and I've liked him since the 3rd grade. Should I tell him that I ... (76 words)