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female
age
36-40,
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writes:I have been seeing my boss for the last two years. I'm 22 and he is 32. The whole time he has been telling me he loves me but would never let me meet any of friends. In january I found out he had been seeing someone for the last 9 months. I was crushed. He told me it was a mistake and wanted me back. I agreed to try again but now want him to tell people about us. He refuses to do this and he says he'll lose his job if he does. I don't know what to do as I'm crazy about him. I've tried finishing things but I see him everyday and can't stop myself from loving him. I dont know what to do. I hate the thought pf him not being part of my life but he'll only carry on using me and hurting me. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): I strongly recommend you change jobs. I have been in the same situation and it wrecked my career - nobody found out but my self confidence and self esteem were shattered and I went into depression. I should have thought more of myself than to let an older guy basically use me for sex. Set yourself free - the minute you start doing this you will see this guy for what he is. Selfish. He doesn't care about you I'm sorry to be blunt but I'm trying to save you from making the mistakes I did. Be strong - you are better than being used and abused.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Find another job. If he is sincere, he will tell everyone about you. Otherwise he is just playing with you.
Bare in mind that YOU are the one that might get fired as you are now a potential threat to the company as a woman scorned.
Be careful, you might be getting set up.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): The simplest solution would be to put your energies into looking for another job. That way you won't be seeing him every day.He's not worth all this grief and agonizing over!
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