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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My mum's best friends daughter, do you think it could be awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 13 and i fancy a 14 year old. she is my mums best friends daughter and we see each other regularly. if she says no or we break up it would be awkward, but i cant stop thinking about her. should i ask her out?... (47 words)

Should I make him choose between her and I, or just leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really dont know what to do! i'm seeing this very older guy.his 43 and i'm 22 when i met him he told me he wasn't married. then to come and find out he was living with this other woman and has 2 daughters.we still kept seeing each other and in the long run i became pregnant ... (325 words)

He doesn't even eat them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what should i do if all my boyfriend ever talks about is fruit and vegetables?... (15 words)

It was only pre cum.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex with my partner three weeks ago but he didn't come only precome, i've been feeling sick lately. Do i have a high chance of being pregnant?... (30 words)

My family seems cursed never to find love; will I be the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship of 6 months and i really love her. However both my parents and both my sisters havnt been that lucky in love. My mum has had many husbands and divorced my dad when i was young. Both my sisters have also gone through divorces. But on the other side of the ... (161 words)

I can't find any guys, who are interested in me and I like them! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am really stuck. I can't find any guys. Every guy that likes me im not interested in. I don't know many guys as i go to an all girls school which is awful. I am quite shy but i've been told i shouldnt be as i get a lot of male attention but i am very self critical. My ... (85 words)

My military guy is going on tour! I desperately want to be strong for him but i dont know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been living together for almost a year, i've never been so in love. I'm in a rough spot right now because he is in the military and these past 6 months he's been on course, away for most of the time. He's supposed to be done at the end of the month but ... (149 words)

How can i convince my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i convice my girlfriend to sneak out so we can be together at night? we cant hang out to often on account of her parents not liking me to much for my past. i constantly sneak out to see her for a few hours but its always her inside and me outside and its kinda ... (115 words)

I like her, but am holding back because she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i'm new here and not to sure how to start this, but could do with some advice. i've been working with this girl at work since the beginning of the year. When i first met her i liked her but now after getting to know her more i have a massive crush on her, i love being aro... (137 words)

I hate my best friends bf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- hi there i was wondering what to do you see its a very long story but ive got this mate who ive known for a long time shes the same age as me 15 and shes just got her first proper boyfriend and hes absolutly horrible he takes the mikey out of her like you dont no what (cuz she... (212 words)

I love him to pieces but how do we get over our awkward shyness with each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well the guy i like fancies me too, but we only get to see each other once a week. Also it has got a bit awkward between us ever since we told each other we liked them. But we're trying to sort things out as both of us really want it to work. The problem is: we are both bei... (97 words)

Can an STD like chlamydia make you sterile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a std called chlamidia (not sure if thats how its spelled) ok well im getting it taken care of right now. but isnt it true that that std can make you infertile. how long would you have to have it before it did?... (46 words)

I really feel the pressure of school and work, became too much for him and it was easiest for him to dump me. Should I tell him I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up in April after dating for just over a year. He broke up with me but wanted to maintain a friendship. We have done the post-breakup sex thing but have also managed to spend some time together just hanging out and being friends. We keep in touch a ... (232 words)

He says he doesn't find me attractive after we had such a great time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met this guy online and we just went on a second date and we had a great time and really get on, kissed loads and cuddled/held hands lots and have loads in common. He then sends me a text to say that he loves my personality and we have loads in common but he doesn't ... (110 words)

Help! I love my girlfriend, but can't seem to get over my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age - I had a horrible fight with my g/f of 2 yrs. and she was in the process of packing up her things up until I talked her into staying. When I was out of town, she was copying some of our picturs onto a CD when she ran across a CD I had stored some old letters I wrote to my ex ... (445 words)

I'm pregnant but still want to have sex... Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the best and comfortable positons when having sex during pregnancy?... (12 words)

Why would my fiance want to leave me for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and his ex-girlfriends shares a son together. things are awesome between us, maybe fought twice in 3 years. He was with his ex for 10 years and they fought almost everyday. we are 3 months from getting married. His ex confessed to him that she is still in love with ... (106 words)

My boyfriend lied to me about his porn. How can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having big trust issues with my boyfriend right now. We've been together for about a year and a half. The problems all started about a year ago. I found some "questionable" pornographic pictures saved on his computer, which I promptly confronted him about. We talked it ... (250 words)

Can I still have sex if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first child, can i have sex while i am pregnant... (17 words)

Want to dump this guy I've dated for a month-how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going out with this boy who is a year younger than me and i dont love him anymore after a month of dating. I cant stop thinking about this other boy and he's giving me advice on how to act towards the boy i like not knowing it's him. Basically i feel like crap and i dont ... (71 words)

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I find out that he had sex with ... (102 words)

Should I feel threatened by his ex gf calling him all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6347 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 months ex-girlfriend is constantly calling him or texting him. The thing is they were together for 4 1/2 years lived together so yes there are some issues that they need to speak on the phone. They are also on the EMS squad and Fire department for the same ... (126 words)

Does he love me but he's just afraid to say so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- I've seen this guy around town for a number of years, and I've always had a crush on him but never really met him, formally. I learned not too long ago, that he and his g/f had split up and he wasn't seeing anyone for the past 2 yrs. Since he used to go to my church, I ... (596 words)

I masturbate to gay porn. Does this mean I am gay?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - im a 17 year old virgin, im straight, but like to mastrbate to gay/bisexual porn, recently i hav been putting things up my ass 2 help me cum, it feels so great, but im worried i am becoming gay. I hav dremt about having gay sex. wot shud i do? how can i stop this feeling... (58 words)

He makes me feel guilty if I can't hang out with him. I want to stay with him but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 7 months and everything was going well until he started talking about us getting married after college, we are getting ready to start our senior year in college, and it freaked me out. He also makes me feel guilty if i can't hang ... (85 words)

Was she lying to me about never having anal sex before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - She says shes never had anal sex before, but when we tried it there was no difficulty getting it in. Is she telling the truth or lying? will i b able 2 trust her if she is lying plz help me... (48 words)

My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tell him first or what? I ne... (70 words)

I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't get on with his mum and they ... (462 words)

Boyfriend won't get rid of his porn collection. Should I find someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Another porn question. My boyfriend of 16 months has thousand of porn pics/clips. He says that it was from the years he was single, however all the material he has makes me wonder how long everyday he would look at it and get off to it. When we first started having sex he was ... (181 words)

I really fancy this footballer but have never spoken to him. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way for someone i hardly know. can ... (114 words)

He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her and their child and he was glad ... (274 words)

He has lied to me before, so now he says he wants privacy and I dont trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for a year and some months. We have lived together for a year. He has lied to me a couple times before about dumb things, like giving his number out to girls and denying ever talking to them. In my past relationship i was cheated on left ... (172 words)

I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I couldn't have imagined ... (122 words)

Where is a good place to meet viable men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do you meet people to date? I don't know where to meet worthwhile guys. I go out to the bar but all that those guys seem to be interested is sex, I don't go to school anymore and I work in a small office where there are no guys my age. I don't have a lot of friends here ... (93 words)

How do the men feel about dating an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirties which I think is a bit ex... (110 words)

I am confortable being frumpy, but want to be attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel a bit Bridget Jones writing this but I am truly feeling like life is passing by. I'm 35 and have one failed marriage of 13 years behind me - no children. I am comfortable in my own company but I feel like I am stuck between wanting to find and settle down with a man ... (224 words)

I am angry all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a big problem with my fiance.the problem is that i am angry all the time with silly things.my childhood was bad i dont love my mother. i think something is missing in my life. i cant be happy. I am always unhappy. I am always angry on something. what shall i do ... (57 words)

My boyfriend needs to last a bit longer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone please help me out. I have been on here before with somewhat of the same question. I have told my boyfriend that I aint satisfied with sex. He dont last long he last maybe less then a mintue sometiems a minute at most. I hate it I just dont know what to do. He is good ... (134 words)

Why did she flirt with me if she isnt gay or bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a long story but basically a female friend flirted with me (I'm bi). Then after a couple of weeks of talking (mostly initiated by me) I said I really liked her and wanted a relationship. She said she's kinda too busy but seemed to still be interested. Then she suddenly ... (140 words)

I have been sleeping around, but wonder if this will turn off the guy I really like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 16 years old and I have slept with 5 people.. All being within the past 3 months. 3 of which were on holiday, so they don't matter to me. However, 2 were in England, one being one of my good friends (we've discussed it and have decided to forget it happened) and th... (185 words)

Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month after I moved out, he went ... (294 words)

He keeps changing his mind about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the family thing.... (49 words)

The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVER cheat. He's been hurt in ... (576 words)

I emailed him a song to tell him I fancied him. Now he's put it up publicly! What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I sent this guy im intrested in a song online and made it very clear that I'm crushing on him. I was unaware the song would go public (on his page where all his friends can view it)......hes been online and has seen the song and i sent a message saying what i did and how i was ... (113 words)

He's going out with my best friend but I like him and he keeps calling me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me alot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that he likes me and I'm starting to ... (102 words)

I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since we have been together for ... (174 words)

She is lying, hiding phone calls and wont speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Im 38 years married with 3 kids my wife is 33 bye November 2007. we are married for 8 years now. we live happly before. till i decided that she should go back to classroom for further studies. Since , then she has developed bad behaviours , flirting with her mobile . going... (178 words)

Is anal sex safe during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is it safe to take it up your bum whike your pregnant... (12 words)

My ex is using me for sex, but I still like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- Hi I was with my ex for a few months. Then we split up but he said he still liked me afterwards and we did sexual things together. He messed me around basically. Soon after we would do something toegther he woudn't want to do anything and woudn't act close with me. Now he says ... (143 words)

My boyfriend mentioned the fantasy of a threesome and I cant get over it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend said, that like any guy, a part of him wants to have a threesome, But he doesnt really want to do anything to the other girl, just me. Well Of course I made a really wierd face because I didnt know that he had thought of having a threesome with me and someone else. ... (319 words)

My girlfriend allows her ex and her kids to talk to her like she is a dog

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend has been divorced since 1998 and has two boys. She still pays his bills for him (ex husbands), cleans his pool, and allows him to talk to her like she is a dog. If he calls her and she don't answer, he will call until she does. He lies to her, degrades her and she ... (156 words)

She cheated on me - but it was 20 years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married almost 19 years, I have two boys (15 and 17), and my marriage is decent (not bad, but not heaven). I just found out that while we were dating, my wife cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. I know this was over 20 years ago, but I'm devastated. ... (111 words)

I would like to change the kind of guys I attract

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I keep circulating around the same type of guys in my love life. If the guy does not belong to someone else, he probably has a baby. I'm single and would like to change the type of guys i attract. How do i do that?... (45 words)

My husband took another woman out on our boat while I was away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age - My husband took a female friend/coworker out on our boat while I was away at a sporting event last weekend. He picked her up in her town (by water), met her at the dock of a hotel at the waters edge, took her for a ride approx 30 km north up the lake. During this time they set ... (245 words)

My wife gets very depressed right before she gets her period. How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi hope some of you can help because this isn't something i understand much about being a man. I'd like both male and female opinions on this please if thats ok, especially if any males have been in this situation with their wife or gf. Well recently my wife has been getting ... (446 words)

My boyfriend doesnt just glance at other women, he GAWKS

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have a question about men who gawk for long periods of time at other women. I understand that it is human nature for a man to glance. Is it a problem when it gets to the point to where my BF is spending the whole night at the pub gawking at another woman? What if ... (153 words)

Is it normal for to get 'wet' during masterbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this is kinda an embarrassin question but when you nasturbate and you come well like about 30 seconds i seem to get wetter and can feel it all down there even if i wasn't really wet to start with. What is this stuff is it just fluid or discharge or is it a sort of ... (89 words)

What is a safe and confortable position to have sex when you are pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - whats a safe and comfortable position to have sex, when your pregnant... (12 words)

Lately the condoms have been coming off inside me when we have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are very sexually active. We do use condoms but recently they have been coming off inside me. Is this a common problem?... (28 words)

I want to get this girl I used to date something really special for her birthday

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - there is a girl at my school. we used to date but she then said she wasnt attracted to me. we was great freinds before, and we still are but i still want to date her. her birthday is coming up and i wanna get her something really special, but i dont want her to reject it if she ... (76 words)

The condom came off, so we used the morning after pill, but I am late!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The condom me and my boyfriend were using came off during sex and we did not realise. He came inside me. I took the morning after pill as soon as i could the next day. I am now 4 days late for my period. I have all the symptns for my period to start. Bloating, cramps, ... (77 words)

Should I pursue this guy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello . i have a question i just started a new job and i found the guy that i like and he likes me as well. what should i do in terms of persuing him or shouldnt i? i mean i know he likes me and i dont know what to do. he gave me his number on the first day that i started ... (104 words)

He ignored my calls and I said we should just be friends, but I dont know if I did the right thing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and he sais he loves. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He alwayed text me every day and phoned me most and told me to not stop texting him but last weekend i heard nothing from him and he ignored my two calls and my two texts - ... (223 words)

I am getting mixed messages about me and him and his ex and her kid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met this bloke, have known him for about a month now. When i first met him i thought he was really nice but i had just came out of a relationship and didnt really want to jump back into another one. Anyway he made every effort to get with me, and i finally did. He ... (193 words)

I slept with him on the first date, and think I may have ruined the long term value of our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like a fool! After meeting up with a guy I met on a dating site I did something completely out of character.....I slept with him on our first date! He was a real charmer and kept flattering me telling me I was beautiful etc......he bought me wine and I'm normally ... (430 words)

We've been dating 7 years, but I still have trouble completely trusting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Ive been with my guy for nearly 7 years now, and i read on here a few days back (a response to someone elses problem) that if were still dating, dump him, as he doesnt want comitment. Me and my guy are still dating, we would get married but i think we feel the r.ship i... (242 words)

My boyfriend will be gone for a year and wants to be free to date while he is gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does he want to see other people while he is away and should i agree to it? Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years, and are really close and hardly ever argue. However he has gone to study for a year in Australia and I live in England, but is coming back a... (229 words)

I snogged my best mate - and we liked it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya, im a little worrried as i snogged my best mate, also a male, and we liked it, we both have girlfriends and are scared this may ruin out friendship! please help!... (32 words)

I don't know how this is all gonna end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having an interesting relationship with a man who's married...well it's a whole lot a mess with this dude but it never really effected me and still his before life is no issue except for all the kids he already has... I believe I was told of 9... 8 different baby ... (1078 words)

Is this normal that my boyfriend should be as close to his ex???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

age - I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. He has a few friends that are females. One is an ex girlfriend. When they get together it's to help her around her house. Mowing lawn, cleaning patio etc. she then makes him dinner as a thank you and then they watch tv ... (146 words)

We see each other on average about 5 times a week, however unless it's a lucky week where I see him 7 times, then I don't feel satisfied.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F)

- I am 18 years old and this year I started my first real serious relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months now and I have gotten to the point where I find it hard to cope with him not around!!! I get really down, upset and even insecure when he's not ... (237 words)

What's a comfortable position to have sex in?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What's a comfortable position to have sex in?... (8 words)

people are saying we're incest and inbreads but we're neither.

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and when I was 13 my step brother and I started going out. I had fancied him for ages and when he asked me out I was so pleased. I didn't really think anything would come of it, I thought it would probably last a couple of weeks or something, but it didn't. We have ... (113 words)

I'm in love with my very close cousin.

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupid! I'm in love with my very close cousin. The difficult thing is we live together and something has happened between us (no sex involved tho). He always gives me the excuse that we cousins and shouldn' do what we do but we end up doing it again. I know that he loves me... (65 words)

Does wearing two condoms lower the risk of getting pregnent then by wearing one...??

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does wearing two condoms lower the risk of getting pregnent then by wearing one...??... (14 words)

Please can you help me get some direction in my life

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family back together but have not ... (92 words)

She seems very stern about breaking up, should I continut to work on our relationship or just let her go her own way?

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I started out as freinds for over 2 years. We have been dating for 8 months. She is a recovering alcoholic and most of these 8 months has been hell. After a day of drinking she would lose her temper over nothing and cause huge fights. I have never laid a ... (320 words)

I am tired of my relationship...

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am tired of my relationship.. I am tired of being the one holding out our relationship together.. I feel so much pressure.. I feel that if I stop trying, we'll eventually split up... It is so much work.. I was expecting a more normal relationshing.. I was expecting a more ... (57 words)

Is it safe to let my boyfriend ejaculate in my mouth and then swallow, while I am pregnant?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it safe to let my boyfriend ejaculate in my mouth and then swallow, while I am pregnant?... (18 words)

He is my best friend and I love him more than anything...

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do.... So I have been seeing this guy for two years now... We dont have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship... We have everything you would have in a boyfriend girlfriend relationship except the title.... We had that kind of relationship last year but he ... (198 words)

Why won't he tell me what went on in Amsterdam???

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone explain this to me because im totally confused!! Recently, my boyfriend of 4 years has gone to Amsterdam with his work for a global meeting. I asked about what has happened there, and he sounded hesitant at first to tell me. I asked about the red light district w... (237 words)

How do I know if he is in love with me? Is it worth giving up everything to be with him.

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my boyfriend does not love me enough. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and I am willing to change my whole life to move in with him, but he does not seem to be doing anything for me. I know love is all about giving, but when is it going to be time ... (177 words)

I tried to give him some space but I don't want to feel that I have to tread on eggshells with my boyfriend or feel that he doesn't even want to be with me.

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been going out with his guy for a while now about a week. And the other night at a party he told me he really liked me and asked if he could kiss me, and we did. But for the past two days or so he has spoke to me very little, and hasn't seen me. I've asked him to ... (154 words)

I wanna get over him, but I don't know how to...

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first boyfriend and I dumped him because his ex still liked him and people seemed to care too much about other people's trouble. It just got way too complicated so I ended it. Like a week after I dumped him I was told he wanted to get back with his ex (who is a friend... (120 words)

Problem choosing the right guy. Do I really like them?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive got problems on choosing the "right guy"... cause im kind of talking with guys and im starting to grow feelings for them but the problem is that im not sure if i actualy like them or i only think i like them because im realy happy that were getting along pretty well?? H... (68 words)

I need more than a phone to hold at night, I need for HIM to be here!

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really scared for no reason, I guess my fiance went through depression and we have an off and on long distance relationship and we were supposed to get married this month but he wanted to save up some more money but I know that's the level headed thing to do since me being ... (345 words)

How long should I wait for him to call?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend always break up and makeup but this time he seems like hes serious. i want to wait it out to see if hell call and well get back to together but how long should i wait. hes the one that left me because he doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore and i ... (88 words)

Do you have to take the pill at the same time every day?

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31 July 2007 (F)

- I just started going on the pill and was wondering how important is it to take it the same time each day? Im pretty sure my doctor said that you dont have to take it at the same time everyday, its just easier cuz it helps u to remmeber it. But then when I went to collect my ... (165 words)

My gf is not putting out and doesn't know if she still loves me. Should I see where the interesting girl at work might lead?

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so its me again, but this time with a whole new problem. Ok so ever since the last time i asked for help, me and my girlfriend have been doing fine. we've been dating for 16 months as of tomorrow. the other day she told me that she didnt know if she still liked me or not. ... (285 words)

Is my fiance a liar?

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31 July 2007 (F) - Is my fiance a liar? He went away for four days last week to look at a trailer in a different state that he was about to buy for his work. I asked why he had to go so long and he said it was because he wasn't sure what day he would see the trailer. I walked into his office this ... (127 words)

Will being friends with her make it impossible to get over her?

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Will being friends with her make it impossible to get over her? i was with my gf for a year i loved that girl more then anything. but then i got real drunk and received and have oral to another girl. i told my gf but she didnt say much but asked me to leave cause she need... (267 words)

How do I ask him to be my secret boyfriend?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 12 and I really like a guy. His family and my family are really good friends. I even told him I like him and he said he sorta like me too. I want to go out with him but my parents do not allow me to date. I want to ask him does he wanna be my boyfriend without anyone ... (90 words)

I don't want to be with him but he wants to be with me so bad. What do i do?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, i was involved in a realationship for two years and moved on from that into another one with a really nice guy. yes we had our fights but always got through them for the short time we were together. i dont want to be in a relationship right now. i want to be alone and i ... (123 words)

Should I put up with him going on 2 month long vacations without me?

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31 July 2007 (F) - Am I overreacting? I live with my fiance and he said that he thinks we spend too much time together like any other couple that lives together and that we are starting to take each other for granted. So, therefore, he thinks the vacations that he has always taken that are about ... (186 words)

We always make "a fresh start" but he ends up cheating. Should I dump him for good?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I won't go into details, but I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have children together. Recently he started to mix with a bad crowd. He has cheated on me various times throughout our time together, but we always said it would be a fresh start. I love him so much... (103 words)

I'm not sure if I actually have a chance with this guy!

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy an he likes me he left for mississippi an we were in love with each other but we never went out but when he came home he got another girl friend but they broke up and his mom asked him why we werent together an he said "mom i dont wanna hurt her she is wonderful ... (120 words)

I think the size of my japs eye is too big!!

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not that old, Im getting to that age where im wanting to start doing sexual stuff. The problem is my japseye, sometimes, especially when my penis erect, its really big! instead of looking like a slit, its more like a circlular hole, and it can get to like... 5mm each... (99 words)

Should I keep shaving myself like this?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid hi im 15 and I have a big problem because it effects my looks alot i love the felling of the razor on my skin ans have bein shaving my vagina since pubity i always shave my legs armpits and that but one day when having a bath i felt that bald legs and vagina was... (143 words)

Do you think that he would end things with me because I don't have kids?

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31 July 2007 (F)

- Okay, I may need a man's opinion on this one. I've been seeing this man for about 2 years. He has three older kids, two in college, one who's married with 3 kids of her own but she lives 1000 miles away. I've never had any kids of my own, though I've always wanted them. We ... (286 words)

What kind of things can I talk about to keep him interested?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i met this guy at a mates party three weeks ago we hit it off straight away and on the night of the party we had a really good time. he was my first kiss and it was ok. but since the party it has been dull and boring i still get buterflies when ever i talk to him on the phon... (294 words)

How can I make kissing more fun?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i'm looking for any advice/tips on how to make kissing/making out wit my boyfriend more fun does anyone have any tips on how to spice things up?!? please answer! xx... (32 words)

I get jealous when the girl I like flirts with other guys

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I get jealous of someone I'm not even going out with. There is this girl that I like, who I've flirted with regularly for a few months, and there was a chance of a relationship one time. Now it's kind've filtered off, but I still like her, and ejoy her company. Wheneve... (79 words)

why is my ex still lying to me?

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31 July 2007 (F)

age - hi i have written quite afew times about my now ex partner and how he has treated me.i.e first he had a "fling" wanted me out of our home; then decided we should make a go of it .. then a few months later, he decided he wanted me out again - so continuously bullied and... (394 words)

We want to get married but I also want children; he doesn't

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31 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My name is Chrissy and my boyfriends name is David we want to get married and i want children but he doesn't he said they cost too much money and all they do is scream and cry i want children very bad what do i do??... (46 words)

I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?

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31 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another virgin who is also waiting for... (105 words)

My partner changed jobs, and now I don't think I see him often enough...

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31 July 2007 (F)

age - I have been seeing my partner for 14 months. He is a chef and when we met he was living and working in the same town. I have my children on alternate weeks and when they were not with me, I spent the week with my partner. He would come out to me about 3 times a week when I ... (246 words)